Just between us.
I know two Gemini men who cheat on their girlfriends frequently (some times with less attractive women). Is that just a guy thing or are the women like that too?
@Superseven: I don't think it's a human thing.
@BikerCh1ck: Congratulations, you should feel proud about yourself. However, I think you should dump that cheating Cancer guy, unless you're fine with just getting some every other month --which begs the question:
Are Gemini fine with being cheated on?
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Jan 12, 2012Comments: 34 · Posts: 1132 · Topics: 27
Not all Gems cheat...I never cheat and never would. My Gem friends don't either; we're not scum.
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Jul 29, 2013Comments: 102 · Posts: 1323 · Topics: 48
Totally depends on the person, regardless of sign!!
I cheated ONCE. When I was with my longterm Leo ex. 3 years I didn't even think of another guy and then the last year when I was being denied sex and he didn't really want to go to anything, communicate (despite me telling him I wasn't being satisfied and said I was thinking of other guys) multiple times in that last year, nothing changed.
I drank too much one night, was taken advantage of but it was still my choice to go. It was with another Gemini. I didn't tell my ex but broke up with him right after (my issue was I had already decided I would break up with him when he got back in town and wanted to see him face to face) but right after it happened I broke up with him and never saw other guy again.
I felt AWFUL. I was emotionally and physically sick for weeks. I cried myself to sleep at night, was throwing up, there mere thought of his hurt expression if I told him tore me up.
I would NEVER do it again. If I get those feelings on a regular basis, I cut it off. I have a cancer venus and mars and when I'm in a relationship I demand 100% loyalty. I had a one time mistake, and now that I know how much it hurt me and feeling that other persons pain (even though I didn't tell him) is not something I can ever do again. I would still shoot myself in the foot to take it back. Lesson learned the hard way.
I can only imagine a cheater would not flutter an eye lid if their partner cheated on them. What a senseless foolish game that no one wins. If one needs to cheat and hurt another, just don't get involved in the first place.
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Oct 15, 2012Comments: 13 · Posts: 775 · Topics: 0
Never cheated. Even after the relationship has ended, being with another soon after can be distressing. It depends on the emotions about the past relationship.
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Mar 10, 2013Comments: 17 · Posts: 813 · Topics: 19
I'd prefer to talk to my partner about my feelings than to cheat on her and felt guilty on it later. I'd be more happy to be single than to cheat while on a relationship.