Tell me all about gemini men

The new guy in my life is a gemini. But the only thing is that I have never dated one before. So ladies and gent please tell me all i need to know about gemini men. There likes and dislikes ect...

Posted by porcelainrising
I mean, you know the guy better than we can ever know him.

I guess i'm just trying to get some precausions because of the last situation I was in with this virgo guy. I wish i would have inquired about virgo men before dealing with him. The only gemini guy I knew was kind of mentally abusive to his girlfriend but I don't want to judge all gemini men based on that.

Posted by porcelainrising
I mean, you know the guy better than we can ever know him.

Forgive me if i'm wrong but I though that this was a site where people ask questions about sign, relationship, astrology ect...

Posted by BrightLights
They like intelligence and good looking people. I think gemini man needs some challenge.

His dad was the pastor of a church, so this should be interesting.

Posted by porcelainrising
They don't like judgmental bitches, I can say that for sure.

If i am judgmental for thinking that someone is triflin for having five abortions than so be it. Having one abortion is understandable but five... Come on now

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Posted by canerleo101

Posted by porcelainrising
They don't like judgmental bitches, I can say that for sure.

If i am judgmental for thinking that someone is triflin for having five abortions than so be it. Having one abortion is understandable but five... Come on now

Everyone is awful if you see the worst thing they have ever done. However you feel about abortion, it's really none of your business.

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No everyone's not awful if you see the worst thing that they have ever done. Some people do way worse things than others. And i just made it my business.

*your business

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Posted by canerleo101

Posted by porcelainrising
They don't like judgmental bitches, I can say that for sure.

If i am judgmental for thinking that someone is triflin for having five abortions than so be it. Having one abortion is understandable but five... Come on now

Everyone is awful if you see the worst thing they have ever done. However you feel about abortion, it's really none of your business.

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Most of the shit that people post on this site about their lives, relationship, ect is nobodies business, so you sound redundant.

Posted by porcelainrising
You need Jesus.

Please I know Him very well.

Posted by GG
Why are you attacking her? Are you a Gemini?

Her first post that she put seemed extremely negative. It's like she had something against me from jump.

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Posted by canerleo101

Posted by GG
Why are you attacking her? Are you a Gemini?

Her first post that she put seemed extremely negative. It's like she had something against me from jump.

Nope. She didn't.
You came at me for no reason, and she stepped in.
Next time, control your mouth.

And stop taking your gemini female anger on rest of the gemini females. We don't know you and don't give a shit

And no, we won't go to your trashy dxp/highschool reunion!!

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Like i said you act just like this chick. I bet in real life you cant even defend yourself (just like her weak ass)that's why your quick to tell me watch my mouth. I'm sure in real life you would say that to anyone's face. So stop trying to be something that your not. And work on being a stronger more independent person in the real world. And I"m sure your scary ass wouldn't want to go to a dxp/gathering but yet you spend all your time on this site. But yet you were the main one saying that you wanted to go. Oh yeah, I guess that's just a part of your fake as personality.

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Posted by GG
Why are you attacking her? Are you a Gemini?

Her first post that she put seemed extremely negative. It's like she had something against me from jump.

Nope. She didn't.
You came at me for no reason, and she stepped in.
Next time, control your mouth.

And stop taking your gemini female anger on rest of the gemini females. We don't know you and don't give a shit

And no, we won't go to your trashy dxp/highschool reunion!!

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And also she posted something negative before I ever said anything about you. But really didn't ever say anything negative about you. And I'm not taking anything out on gemini female. But I am going to continue to compare you to this chick because you and her act just alike.

Posted by BrightLights
Maybe I am that chick....yes, it's me. I am your "best friend" and I followed you to dxp just so I can see who you're sleeping with now and steal your boyfriend!

Projecting much?

Lol, you are seriously wacky. Insecure and pathetic.

I feel sorry for you.
And you are bellow me in every sense of the word.

Not gonna even engage you. I don't like stupid people who are bitchy.

*blocked*

Compare me to Jesus if you want!!🙂

And kiss my gemini ass. Bye, bitch🙂

Dam have you had a whole butch of abortions and feel guilty or something. At first I was trying to explain that it would be unfair to compare you to her because of the fact she had five abortions. But maybe I'm wrong. As far as insecure that's how your acting. I wasn't even trying to down you at first.

Posted by BrightLights
Maybe I am that chick....yes, it's me. I am your "best friend" and I followed you to dxp just so I can see who you're sleeping with now and steal your boyfriend!

Projecting much?

Lol, you are seriously wacky. Insecure and pathetic.

I feel sorry for you.
And you are bellow me in every sense of the word.

Not gonna even engage you. I don't like stupid people who are bitchy.

*blocked*

Compare me to Jesus if you want!!🙂

And kiss my gemini ass. Bye, bitch🙂

But if you thought that I was initially trying to down you, I will let you know that initially that was not my intentions. Really I think you need to stop acting so wacky insure and pathetic. Also I have never private messaged you and don't intend to so I don't see why your saying that you blocked me. But if it makes you feel good then whatever.

Posted by BrightLights
Maybe I am that chick....yes, it's me. I am your "best friend" and I followed you to dxp just so I can see who you're sleeping with now and steal your boyfriend!

Projecting much?

Lol, you are seriously wacky. Insecure and pathetic.

I feel sorry for you.
And you are bellow me in every sense of the word.

Not gonna even engage you. I don't like stupid people who are bitchy.

*blocked*

Compare me to Jesus if you want!!🙂

And kiss my gemini ass. Bye, bitch🙂

Also the fact that you are defending some girl that fucked her best friends man and had five abortions says something about your character.

Posted by GG
I'm sure a simple search online will satisfy your curiosity. These types of threads aren't really fair for any sign, only because people will give you advice that's based on THEIR experience.

There's a Taurus astrologer I used to follow.... Her views her super balanced, she pegged my sign really well. The other websites are usually by people with strong biases.

I haven't met every Gemini person in the world but I can say some things about myself.

I am super friendly, I usually have a sunny disposition and it doesn't take a whole lot to make me smile. In fact, I usually don't need a reason to smile lol. Mentally, I am very flexible and resilient. I don't like emotionally manipulative people.

Show me that you understand me and you'll have a friend for life.

Well put GG 🙂

Posted by AirMan
gemini men makes great sex partners. when we love, we love hard. and there's no turning back. however dispite being flighty we are loyal to the end. just be truthful, faithful and trustworthy and you'll have the love of your dreams for eternity.

Yep.

It's like you guys can't resolve conflict in your real lives, so you get on this site looking for a punching bag to lash out at. I swear some of you get off on unnecessary verbal assassination

The person who insults you is petty. Yes. But so is the person who forgets to take a stranger's words with a grain of salt. Weak-minded is the person who falls for it.

Anywho, back to the subject. GEMINI MEN.

They're very intellectual. It's not hard to click with them there. They have multi-dimensional personalities, so don't be surprised if he's introverted one minute & completely extroverted the next. He literally is both, so don't try to put him in 1 box; he'll break out of it faster than you can 'stop!'

Yes, they can be very finicky, moody & wishy-washy. Yes, they have moments where they are suddenly & totally unreliable. They're scatter-brained & honestly mean no harm. I'm not saying you should put up with it. But if it makes you feel any better, they're like this with everybody, so don't think their fickleness is all b/c of you or always about you. He can be totally in love with you and yet still be unreliable sometimes. It's not personal. Just comes with the territory

This is a sign that gives you what you demand. They respect and admire a challenge, so don't think putting them in their place, telling them 'no' or speaking up will offend them or turn them off. Not the case.

They have a need for variety & constant stimulation (physical and intellectual), hence the reason they have a reputation for being cheaters. They bore easily, and anyone who needs constant anything is bound to stray during the typical (and NORMAL) boring patch that every friendship/relationship is bound to experience. This is where they lack maturity. It's almost like they never considered that their partners deserve patience as much as the Gem feels they deserve variety.

They have friends from all walks of life. Don't be surprised if he's cool with the popular jocks 1 minute & then at the house kickin it with the underdogs, the next minute. The whole 'birds of a feather flock together' philosophy doesn't really apply to Gems b/c they have so many different breeds of friends that they may not even act anything alike.

They're overall good folks. You'll either hate them or love them. With Gems, you've gotta constantly catch up or you'll get left. Be different. Be a challenge. Show them the qualities that you have in common with them up front, b/c those similar qualities will be what hooks them and holds them over during the times when you're showcasing those 'other' qualities that they may not like so much.

You've gotta give them something that they can't usually find everywhere. Those who have hooked Gems, somehow figured out what that 'something' was. This is why a Gem can be totally fixated on 1 specific person or thing, and completely ignoring of other things.

They're not really stubborn or selfish, nor are they clingy or smothering. 1 minute they want to be all over you & the next, they feel like 'staying home.' Again, it's not personal. Just how they are. They go by the philosophy, 'live and let live.' They'll let you do your thing. All they ask is that you let them do theirs.

These are folks that you will easily push away by being too clingy, emotional, closed-minded or predictable. They're not good at entertaining folks who's emotions are always all over the place. Show them that your logic works too, not just your emotions lol Feelings aren't something they're in a lot, so it shouldn't be surprising that they're emotionally retarded when it comes to taming, analyzing or addressing other's extreme bouts of emotion

When they wanna debate or talk about a variety of different things, engage and keep up. When they wanna hang out with their friends, they need you to trust them & not guilt them for the 2 seconds they're away from you (this happens to them a lot b/c those who fall for Gems usually fall hard).

As with any sign, there are goods and bads. Depends on perspective and perception.

krysrenee7: I LOVED YOUR RESPONSE! Thanks Girl, I have two.. well really 3 gems interested in me right now. One has fallen off a little and I think it's because he became comfortable, me being an air sign myself I'm leaving him alone and focusing on other things, I still like him but I'm sure he's used to be chased, and that's just not my cup of tea. Ugh I hate it when girls chase boys.
There's one that's been around for at least 2 yrs. We live in different states but with the way we click and talk you wouldn't be able to tell.lol. He's my homie, and someone I like at the same time. However I'm faced with reality that we live in two states, probably not gonna work in the long run.lol.
Then there's this other one, oh gosh. I swear I don't believe a word that flys out of his mouth. He's very flirty and he says the cutest and sweetest things but I don't believe it because he just seems like it's all a game for him until he finally wears the girl down and then she's a goner. I don't wanna be a goner! Lol. So I let it be known I like him a little, but I never want him to forget that he can't flirt or talk his way into my heart, he??ll have to show me and I??ll do the same. BUT.. just between us and dxp??_I do like him though. Tee hee. Lol.

As an Aqua I attract gemini males like ants to a picnic. My last boyfriend was a gem, my best friend is a gem, both my parents are gemini and majority of friends and dates are gemini. They're AWESOME fun people to be around but my biggest negative is THEIR EGO. They LOVE attention, they WANT compliments, and they have a mouth FULL of words to make you think they're the best at anything and everything. So much bragging and flirting! Trust me tho, they will EAT UP any positive flirty attention given to them-- including that from co-workers, friends, and strangers. If you're a jealous type-- don't date one!

If you're looking to bag any gem men, just talk a lot, be funny and imaginative! Be strong and be creative when you talk. Gem men also complain a LOT but are not always looking for "advice", they just wanna vent and have someone listen. They'll want you to do the same. Just don't be a negative nancy or be on their ass hardcore. They're a flighty air sign like Aqua is. They also have MOODS and will wanna run off to their "cave" when they have something on their mind. If that happens, just give him space and do your own thing. Be positive and supportive.

And for whatever reason, they LOVE cheesy pick up lines. I mean the CHEESIEST. It'll get them to laugh while also feeding into that ego. Even if they say "omg that's sooo gay/lame/stupid" they'll have the biggest smile on their face!

A fun seductive technique: Tell him you're gonna whisper sweet nothing's in his ear. Seductively crawl up close to his ear, hand on his chest, and in a smooth sexy tone say "Sweet nothing's, sweet nothings, sweet nothings."

^Guaranteed

OMG! I'm soooo gonna try that. That definitely seems like something my gem would die laughing at. Okay, please know that I??ll be inboxing the both of you when I'm at a lost for my gems. I have one in particular I need some insight on tho, I'm gonna write you. lol. That's funny even I giggled at work at that one.

Posted by canerleo101

Like i said you act just like this chick. I bet in real life you cant even defend yourself (just like her weak ass)that's why your quick to tell me watch my mouth. I'm sure in real life you would say that to anyone's face. So stop trying to be something that your not.

Taking it back to Cali Cancerleo?

🙂