tell me i'm not the only one.....
This topic was created in the Gemini forum by preciousGEM on Tuesday, January 27, 2009 and has 12 replies.
ok so i'm single but i find it hard 2 find someone that i really have feelings for.
it's so hard for them 2 keep my attention. I'm so picky in general but especially when it comes to teeth.If any of u gem having the same problem what advice would you give.
it's so hard for them 2 keep my attention. I'm so picky in general but especially when it comes to teeth.If any of u gem having the same problem what advice would you give.
hahahaha ...lol .. yeap.. EXACTLY the same case !!! including the teeth part .. that's like the first thing i notice on anyone ..lol ..
You're not the only one. 
What is your mars sign that will show u what kind of guy u wood like
Gem sister,
You seem to be the most clued in Gem on here!
Somehow, living in America, I accidentally bought a British psych mag. Being the curious Gem I am, I read it anyway, completelty intrigued by the foreign ads. For so long I have been wondering where I come from and by the looks of my pale skin, I'm convinced I'm from England and I won't let anyone tell me otherwise.
It is quite hilarious. I tell people that I'm English. I have a larger than normal nose that sometimes mistakenly pins me as a Jew.
Regardless, I realized a long time ago that I am indeed supposed to have very fair skin; therefore, never taking much time to try and change that.
GO ASIANS!!! hahahha
You seem to be the most clued in Gem on here!
Somehow, living in America, I accidentally bought a British psych mag. Being the curious Gem I am, I read it anyway, completelty intrigued by the foreign ads. For so long I have been wondering where I come from and by the looks of my pale skin, I'm convinced I'm from England and I won't let anyone tell me otherwise.
It is quite hilarious. I tell people that I'm English. I have a larger than normal nose that sometimes mistakenly pins me as a Jew.
Regardless, I realized a long time ago that I am indeed supposed to have very fair skin; therefore, never taking much time to try and change that.
GO ASIANS!!! hahahha
That was the funniest thing I've read BigTeddyBear lollol. I understand what you are trying to say but we are not that bad. I'm sorry that you have miss understood us but our selectivity stems form us not wanting to settle for less than what we would consider to be our standards. Speaking for myself I know that i am picky but only about certain things that i feel strongly about in a potential mate. I do let somethings slide because i know that no one is perfect. I'm not idealistic in any sense of the word.On the contrary I'm very realistic when it comes to such topics. I would like to think that I have a lot to offer someone and I expect that same in return.
wow!!BigTeddyBear I just think you had a bad encounter with a gem. I Am a gem and I am not a nagger! An for the most part I'm content with the person I'm with. If I'm not i choose to do something about it. Why be unhappy and not do something about it.As for the relationship being all about me that is soo not true. I would like to think of myself as someone who like to please. If my partner is happy it's a good thing. Everything has it's limits. It all depends on the factors involved. I wouldn't look at keeping me satisfied as a burden. In a relationship that's what you aim to do. I give and i expect the same amount in return. That's the reason why we can't fake it cause it's all or nothing with us gem.
I am like that also. I don't care if a man is hot like Brad Pitt. Give me mental stimulation first.
"For women social value is 80% looks.. and then the rest..." I COMPLETELY DISAGREE!!!! Let me start by saying that I think people who feel this way have real self esteem issues. I've met some of the most attractive men and they do nothing for me. It's a complete package! Not just looks. Granted I'll give you this, that a female who is attractive may attract a guys attention when she walks into a room, but at the same time even as a female myself she's is likely to attract my attention. However, that initial "look" does not last for more than maybe a sec. You would be surprise how far a bit of confidence goes. It radiates through. IDK how else to put it but look around it's pretty rare that you see two gorgeous people together. One can be while the other is ok. Bottom line looks really mean nothing when it comes to look for a potential mate. What is important is, does this person fit your life style ? Do they have the same values you do ? etc A bit of advice if you keep thinking the way you do you will never get that guy you really want. Every women is beautiful in her own right. Let that work for you. At the end of the day beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
ok your response was wayyyyy too long. But honestly reading some of what you wrote I feel like you are lacking in self confidence. Ive seem Pamela Anderson and I don't see the hype. Some of her praised assets are store brought.Yes she can get that rock star but that's what she is surrounded by. They walk in the same circle, I bet if I were surrounded by them I could get one too. I look at her and I wouldn't compare my beauty to hers because mines in natural beauty SIMPLE AS THAT. As for you getting offered "modeling" offers does not make you a confidant person. The fact that you have to refer to that to validate your beauty says a lot. I'll tell you this much that I have many guy friends that would disagree with you point blank. I think your posts are really about you and your personal issues. Not every women feels like this. I am not the most confidant women alive but if i want a guy I can get him, and it doesn't matter if Beyonce was my competition.
"Sure... but you with the confidence only... you have to do an effort to be confident.
Her, she has to do nothing. Just to exist. AND.. if she does your effort you are out of competition..."
WTF are you hearing yourself. I have some of the most beautiful friends and they have a hard time getting a guy. They are beautiful women and thsi is coming for a straight female. Just because you "beautiful" does not make you automatically confident. She has to work just as hard as the next chick. Lets use you for an example you have obviously been told that you are beautiful and you clearly are having confidence issues! Please refrain for replying in a super long response. I just can't read all of that lollol by da way go look @ these pic http://www.anvari.org/cols/Stars_without_Make_Up.html Make-up does wonders
"Sure... but you with the confidence only... you have to do an effort to be confident.
Her, she has to do nothing. Just to exist. AND.. if she does your effort you are out of competition..."
WTF are you hearing yourself. I have some of the most beautiful friends and they have a hard time getting a guy. They are beautiful women and thsi is coming for a straight female. Just because you "beautiful" does not make you automatically confident. She has to work just as hard as the next chick. Lets use you for an example you have obviously been told that you are beautiful and you clearly are having confidence issues! Please refrain for replying in a super long response. I just can't read all of that lollol by da way go look @ these pic http://www.anvari.org/cols/Stars_without_Make_Up.html Make-up does wonders
You are definitely entitled to your opinion. But I've seen your pictures so that comment coming from you is a complement. You know what, that comment was not necessary on your part. But karma is a B@# $ cause you have to look at yourself every morning 
Good luck with that......
Good luck with that......GET A LIFE!!! Stop venting you frustrations on here. Just face it your not that cute lollol. A word of advice I've def seen ur pics............ on this note I'm through with this conversation
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