Too mushy or emotional for a Gemini ? Help !

nah, i don't think it's too mushy, but i'm a woman. so, that might not count. of all the gem men i know.... sentiment is not a turn off. but, as for the silence you have been getting for the last 7 months, if i were to tell a gem man to leave me alone, they would do just that...

i understand too well, how we say things we don't actually mean. between me and all the gems i know, we tend to take what others say literally, not figuratively. it's a curse...lol!

I dont think hes laughing at you, however he will ignore it and then when u have let go, you will pop up in his mind..so its a good letter to let him know ur ready to move on!

Hmmm... I don't know what you intend to achieve with this letter but if you want to keep the doors open for further communication or even him coming back, I'd suggest you leave out the i'm letting you go part.

I mean, if you want and feel the need to let go for your own sanity, go ahead and let go but no need to announce it to him. The letter reads to me like an ultimatum. IOW, it comes across as -- if you don't respond to this now, i'm going to let go.

I've gotten these types of letters before and even though I was really very close to getting back to getting it on again with them (yeah, bad timing on the letter sender's part. Their impatience didn't serve them well.) I changed my mind as soon as I got the letter even though it had the I still want you undertones because I felt like I was being railroaded into making a decision.

IDK if it will be the same for your Gem but let me tell you this -- we're big believers in self-autonomy and if you have decided for yourself that you will be letting go, then that's that. We will respect your decision.

OTOH, just being friendly in your letters or even not writing at all = OPEN DOOR. If by the time that he's ready and he knocks on your door, you're not available, he'll take it like a man and suck it up as part of the risk he took in keeping silent. But if you send that type of letter now, I'm not sure you will know if he'd want to come back at all or get the response you want even.

Just my two cents on this.

We dated for a year also ..

while we are on the subject of mushy......... I told my gem "I care" in an email. Just came straight out and said it.
It was the end of a great day and everything was going well and I just thought in the spirit of HONESTY and NO GAMES that the Gems all talk about on here, I am just going to put it out there. So I did. And he ran away.

Am now considering changing my name to BigScaryHorribleNastyAriesPerson

How dare I say such a thing? No guy wants to be cared about. How silly of me.

larfin!!

Thanks Wise Old Owl... you aren't him are you?