Update on me and gemini.
This topic was created in the Gemini forum by Octoberbaby91 on Thursday, January 1, 2015 and has 9 replies.
I ended things with the gemini guy who was after me today. We were getting along really well hanging out every weekend. He just got back from Atlanta yesterday and the whole time he was out there we talked on the phone everyday!
Well last night when he came over to my family New Years eve party he showed up drunk. I mean embarassing drunk not happy go lucky drunk! He was touching me inapproately in front of my family and saying crazy racist comments which is crazy because both of us are black! He even touched one of my brothers girlfriends inapproately!!
I was humlated the whole night. I never saw that side of him. I found out he is an alcholic and it was a major turn off.
When I bought him home this morning he kept apologizing telling me he blacked out and he understands if I don't want to talk to him anymore and that I probably hate him. I told him I don't hate you Im disappointed that you ruined New Years! I told him a week ago that my exes ruined my New Years eve so when he did it I seen red flags.
He peomised that he was going to stop drinking and that he needs to get his bitter together then said I'll just drink beer I was like wtf you need to stop all together.
So tonight we went out and I told him we just need to be friends I can't date someone like that. I told him he needs to get his stuff together but we can still be friends and talk. He didn't take it well he started being an asshole saying how he don't dwell on the past and started texting other people on my face while we were having dinner. I was quite for the rest of the night til he dropped me off and told him goodbye.
I just can't believe that happened. It totally blind sided me. I guess I made the right decision because if I would've let that slide he would've done it again. I had to protect my heart and my guard has been up the whole 2 months we've been dating. I'm glad we didn't sleep together either I started a 3 month and over rule because people reveal themselves around that time.
Anyway it is what it is.
Well last night when he came over to my family New Years eve party he showed up drunk. I mean embarassing drunk not happy go lucky drunk! He was touching me inapproately in front of my family and saying crazy racist comments which is crazy because both of us are black! He even touched one of my brothers girlfriends inapproately!!
I was humlated the whole night. I never saw that side of him. I found out he is an alcholic and it was a major turn off.
When I bought him home this morning he kept apologizing telling me he blacked out and he understands if I don't want to talk to him anymore and that I probably hate him. I told him I don't hate you Im disappointed that you ruined New Years! I told him a week ago that my exes ruined my New Years eve so when he did it I seen red flags.
He peomised that he was going to stop drinking and that he needs to get his bitter together then said I'll just drink beer I was like wtf you need to stop all together.
So tonight we went out and I told him we just need to be friends I can't date someone like that. I told him he needs to get his stuff together but we can still be friends and talk. He didn't take it well he started being an asshole saying how he don't dwell on the past and started texting other people on my face while we were having dinner. I was quite for the rest of the night til he dropped me off and told him goodbye.
I just can't believe that happened. It totally blind sided me. I guess I made the right decision because if I would've let that slide he would've done it again. I had to protect my heart and my guard has been up the whole 2 months we've been dating. I'm glad we didn't sleep together either I started a 3 month and over rule because people reveal themselves around that time.
Anyway it is what it is.
....seems like he wasn't your toy after all.....js
What do you mean?
Your previous thread:
http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/gemini/date-with-a-gemini-5226198.asp
You wanted to play puppet master, to have him bow down to you. He was an ego boost to you in the absence of another.
You got what you put out there, in spades at the theatre... just a few cents...
http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/gemini/date-with-a-gemini-5226198.asp
You wanted to play puppet master, to have him bow down to you. He was an ego boost to you in the absence of another.
You got what you put out there, in spades at the theatre... just a few cents...
That's your assumption.
I actually started liking him after pursing me. His consistency won me over and soon as my heart open he pulled that unexpected crap. We were about to go out of town next week but his behavior is what made me walk away.
I didn't plan on playing "puppet master" I said I'll see where it goes even though I missed my virgo friend back home. I was being open minded and decided to give him a chance.
But whatever it's your opinion.
I actually started liking him after pursing me. His consistency won me over and soon as my heart open he pulled that unexpected crap. We were about to go out of town next week but his behavior is what made me walk away.
I didn't plan on playing "puppet master" I said I'll see where it goes even though I missed my virgo friend back home. I was being open minded and decided to give him a chance.
But whatever it's your opinion.
Honestly, you made a great move. A man who doesn't respect the occasion of being with family does not deserve to be in yours!
Posted by febaqua
Honestly, you made a great move. A man who doesn't respect the occasion of being with family does not deserve to be in yours!
I agree. I had to put myself first in by him being an asshole after confirmed that's what I should've done. I will walk away from people who have no self control. He is older than me and should no better. He has a drinking problem and needs to get his life together. I'm glad I didn't agree to be his girlfriend I have no room for toxic relationships.
...hmm....yeah....right...ok. One would have to be seriously damaged to even consider entertaining that person again given that this wasn't just a faux pas.
Your intentions were not honest to begin with and it backfired, and yes it is just my opinion based on your previous thread.
Your intentions were not honest to begin with and it backfired, and yes it is just my opinion based on your previous thread.
Lol you don't know me and the whole story on my love life so yeah bye Felicia
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