I am in love with a Gemini man and he loves me too. It??s been a few months since he said he loves me but he said he knew he was falling in love with me a week after we met which was 7 months before he actually said it to me. He said he wanted to marry me and he knows his feelings for me won't change years from now. He said that after I said I could see myself marrying him but he is was too young( I am 27 he is 22)and I thought he would have to sow his oats. I find him difficult because his behavior changes toward me on a whim. He can be all over me then I won't hear from him for days and when I text or call he won't respond. He can seem cold when I need him for emotional support he seems confused. I just wish he was more consistent but I know that isn't going to happen. In his attempts to be consistent he lasts for a week at most then he is back to being hard to reach. As a Virgo I need constant reassurance and can be very sensitive. I get really annoyed when he won't respond then we argue or I get annoyed when he won't spend time with me. I only ask for once a week at least to see him but that seems like too much to I??m at times. Please help, I really love him and want to make it work.
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his behavior changes toward me on a whim.
He can be all over me then I won't hear from him for days
and when I text or call he won't respond.
He can seem cold when I need him for emotional support he seems confused.
wish he was more consistent
In his attempts to be consistent he lasts for a week at most then he is back to being hard to reach.
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Really Nice I see you have had the Gemini man experience as well. Any advice on how to deal or should I let go because it has been nine months of this and I have a feeling that this is it and things can get good again but then I'll be sent back to the heartbreak rehab to heal.
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I think you have answered your own query here, hence the quotes from your post.
No, I am definitely not the one to come to for anything resembling advice!! As I have often said, I have perhaps just had the bad luck to meet the handful of rogue Geminis (every sign has its rotters, bounders, scoundrels and affection vampires I am sure.)
I feel that if a guy loves you he won't arse around with your feelings, no matter what month he was born in.
But I could be completely wrong of course so ignore me and listen to what the Gems have to say.
I do know a Virgo chick who has been married to a Gem for over 20 years now, which in some parts of the world may be considered a successful marriage.