Were we
This topic was created in the Gemini forum by RealTalk on Monday, December 3, 2012 and has 9 replies.
Meant to run into each other? Is what I'm asking myself. Yes. I ran into my ex gem. It was kind of a serendipitous meeting I feel. I was actually running late for an appt., got in my car & realized I forgot something so I run back in my house to get it & proceed to my destination.
On my way he popped up in my mind & I'm thinking, when if I bump into him...hahaha, but I immediately relinquished the thought. What do you know 5 minutes later BAM!!! I see him. I mean as soon as I'm driving down the road, he was about to cross the street. There was a red light so of course, I had to stop. My intention was to ignore him. He looked at me & started dancing to the music I was playing & it made me laugh. So much for ignoring him.
He's like hey, how are you doing? I'm like fine, how are you? Very little small talk & he jumps right in & says, when am I moving in with you? WTF??? Are you living with anyone now? I completely froze as if in a trance & I totally answered him. I'm like no, not at the moment. We make more small talk because all of a sudden I'm getting honked at when there were no cars behind me before, lol. I'm like just call me, he's like "fb" me.
Few days later I did. I know, I couldn't resist. Just something simple. "Hey, call me, Happy Thanksgiving"! Within seconds he answers, returning my wishes. Mind you he has not been on fb in over a month, as soon as I said I'll fb you, he magically appears to see if I'd messaged him or not. Yes I do go on his page. Why? I have no fucking idea.
No, he didn't call & I wasn't holding my breath either. I'm like oh well, if he really wants to talk, he'll contact. So that's all folks. It's just now, I'm thinking about him more but I'll be damned if I'm going to contact him. Not happening. I haven't had any contact with him since he tried to reach me through a mutual friend. That's another thread but before seeing him again, I felt his presence very strong for a week. I do think about him but this is different. I kept getting signs all over the place, like he was reaching out to me. It's like I felt that he was sad. IDK, I'm venting right now. *sigh*
Any thoughts?
On my way he popped up in my mind & I'm thinking, when if I bump into him...hahaha, but I immediately relinquished the thought. What do you know 5 minutes later BAM!!! I see him. I mean as soon as I'm driving down the road, he was about to cross the street. There was a red light so of course, I had to stop. My intention was to ignore him. He looked at me & started dancing to the music I was playing & it made me laugh. So much for ignoring him.
He's like hey, how are you doing? I'm like fine, how are you? Very little small talk & he jumps right in & says, when am I moving in with you? WTF??? Are you living with anyone now? I completely froze as if in a trance & I totally answered him. I'm like no, not at the moment. We make more small talk because all of a sudden I'm getting honked at when there were no cars behind me before, lol. I'm like just call me, he's like "fb" me.
Few days later I did. I know, I couldn't resist. Just something simple. "Hey, call me, Happy Thanksgiving"! Within seconds he answers, returning my wishes. Mind you he has not been on fb in over a month, as soon as I said I'll fb you, he magically appears to see if I'd messaged him or not. Yes I do go on his page. Why? I have no fucking idea.
No, he didn't call & I wasn't holding my breath either. I'm like oh well, if he really wants to talk, he'll contact. So that's all folks. It's just now, I'm thinking about him more but I'll be damned if I'm going to contact him. Not happening. I haven't had any contact with him since he tried to reach me through a mutual friend. That's another thread but before seeing him again, I felt his presence very strong for a week. I do think about him but this is different. I kept getting signs all over the place, like he was reaching out to me. It's like I felt that he was sad. IDK, I'm venting right now. *sigh*
Any thoughts?
I meant to say he magically appears to see if I'd messaged him AND updates his status as well. & kept updating, haha.
Posted by RealTalk
I meant to say he magically appears to see if I'd messaged him AND updates his status as well. & kept updating, haha.
LOL... He still thinks about you.. oh expect plenty more status updates haha
@Dee, IDK but whatever it is, I'm just going to let nature take its course & leave it alone. *for now anyway* 
@Gucci, oh yeah I'm sure of it. I think he's secretly hoping I'm watching. *shrugs*
@Theultra, I wish I knew. We've been through alot together. I was informed that he was my soul mate/twin flame, whatever the hell that means. I don't believe in it, but I'm interested in it. People just have so many interpretations as to what it really is, so it's hard for me to believe, but I have an open mind about it.
I've done my research & some things I've read relates to what I'm going through. But anywho, he's not an easy person to forget.
@Gucci, oh yeah I'm sure of it. I think he's secretly hoping I'm watching. *shrugs*
@Theultra, I wish I knew. We've been through alot together. I was informed that he was my soul mate/twin flame, whatever the hell that means. I don't believe in it, but I'm interested in it. People just have so many interpretations as to what it really is, so it's hard for me to believe, but I have an open mind about it.
I've done my research & some things I've read relates to what I'm going through. But anywho, he's not an easy person to forget.
Posted by RealTalk
@Dee, IDK but whatever it is, I'm just going to let nature take its course & leave it alone. *for now anyway*
@Gucci, oh yeah I'm sure of it. I think he's secretly hoping I'm watching. *shrugs*
@Theultra, I wish I knew. We've been through alot together. I was informed that he was my soul mate/twin flame, whatever the hell that means. I don't believe in it, but I'm interested in it. People just have so many interpretations as to what it really is, so it's hard for me to believe, but I have an open mind about it.
I've done my research & some things I've read relates to what I'm going through. But anywho, he's not an easy person to forget.
I was thinking that.. do you feel the story isnt over? i do believe it but i dont believe soul mates are always about being there to last a life time so much, i believe its for a lesson to be learned from the experience with them, see when i get that same feeling im usually right about it, so i get what you mean.. are the planets still in retrograde? because if so this is the time old friends ect turn up, its for a tidy up, put things to rest, closure, to learn what the lesson was.
Yes I do. When I was told about the soulmate thing, I was also informed that we were meant to be together, blah, blah all of that sappy shit, lol. I didn't even know there were any planets in retrograde so I have no clue.
If that were true about soulmates then everyone that I have encountered with has been one then. I've soooo moved on from them & I never felt for them as I feel for the gem. Well, there was a Scorpio guy that I'd loved for an extended period until I met the gem, but it's a different level of love I feel for him. I can't explain it. When I met him, I was immediately drawn to him. It's not only because he's handsome, with a great smile, & tall hehehe.
But it just felt different. When we hung out for the first time, I'd developed feelings for him, that fast. No sex. I just felt something for him & it scared me because I've never felt that way, ever. I was actually dating someone else at the time, but I could not stop thinking about him.
The clairvoyants I've spoken to also said that we have a past life relationship/connection. Who the hell knows, I'm still learning about this stuff.
If that were true about soulmates then everyone that I have encountered with has been one then. I've soooo moved on from them & I never felt for them as I feel for the gem. Well, there was a Scorpio guy that I'd loved for an extended period until I met the gem, but it's a different level of love I feel for him. I can't explain it. When I met him, I was immediately drawn to him. It's not only because he's handsome, with a great smile, & tall hehehe.
But it just felt different. When we hung out for the first time, I'd developed feelings for him, that fast. No sex. I just felt something for him & it scared me because I've never felt that way, ever. I was actually dating someone else at the time, but I could not stop thinking about him.
The clairvoyants I've spoken to also said that we have a past life relationship/connection. Who the hell knows, I'm still learning about this stuff.
Oh & yes I did learn some things from this relationship with him, yet I don't feel like it's over.
Hahaha Bubbly, probably...so what happened with the enemy? And yes I'm interested too! I'll keep you posted. 
@Theultra, not a damn thing, lol. I don't plan on contacting him again. I wouldn't have never contacted him if I didn't see him. I just figured I would just because I did happen to see him. To see where his head was at & if he was going to contact me again.
My thing is I invited him to talk/catch up or whatever, it's on him. I'm leaving it at that. If he does, great. If he doesn't, whatever. I chase no one. It's just not in my DNA.
@Theultra, not a damn thing, lol. I don't plan on contacting him again. I wouldn't have never contacted him if I didn't see him. I just figured I would just because I did happen to see him. To see where his head was at & if he was going to contact me again.
My thing is I invited him to talk/catch up or whatever, it's on him. I'm leaving it at that. If he does, great. If he doesn't, whatever. I chase no one. It's just not in my DNA.
Posted by bubblyaquariusPosted by RealTalk
Hahaha Bubbly, probably...so what happened with the enemy? And yes I'm interested too! I'll keep you posted.
@Theultra, not a damn thing, lol. I don't plan on contacting him again. I wouldn't have never contacted him if I didn't see him. I just figured I would just because I did happen to see him. To see where his head was at & if he was going to contact me again.
My thing is I invited him to talk/catch up or whatever, it's on him. I'm leaving it at that. If he does, great. If he doesn't, whatever. I chase no one. It's just not in my DNA.
Good attitude to have, and exactly, it's his turn to mak ea move now. You don't want to look desperate or needy. I getcha.
Nothing actully. She saw me before I even saw her and disappeared. lol She just can't stand me I guess, or I'm scarier than I realize. lol She's a drama queen and probobly the one person I know who I can truly say has anger issues and is truly AGRESSIVE. Back when she and I were "friends" she was always pissed off t someone, trying to control someone, be the boss, and was always saying how she could hurt someone or was sooo maad at them. She was weird.click to expand
Hahaha...she's probably jealous of you because you're beautiful!
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