What signs do you attract?
This topic was created in the Gemini forum by xxixxi on Sunday, May 12, 2013 and has 14 replies.
For me, most guys who showed their interests in me or asked me out were Aquarius and Aries, like 8 out of 10 lol
And I clicked well with aquarius
we loved talking about same stuff and conversations just flew, so smooth, no awkward moments (did I say I hate that with a passion? lol) They are direct and honest - I ask them questions and they give me direct and honest answers. So loved it. No mind games, no reading between lines, no headaches!
We say what's on our minds, without inhibition, but in a very calm, cool, collected and rational manner. We agree on most issues, but even when we disagree it's still so good and so cool - disagreements never turn into arguments, they just become good and meaningful discussion, i.e., exchanging one's own opinions and thoughts, expanding each others horizons.
But then it's quite true that aquarius is not a passionate creature. They talk in a reserved manner and from my experiences, it's the same way they love others. I wish there would be more passion
With aries, they're quite aggressive (in general), and that's what I loved about them No need to fear of being a bit more adventurous. They are often feisty, so we get into some fights lol but it never lingers too long. We make up soon and be ready to have some fun together again. They're also direct - about what they think and what they want. And I appreciated that. No guessing around. I like analysing things... facts, but not emotions. Just not my area, I think.
Them being direct, I can be so, too, without worrying to much about what's really going on beneath. They're more expressive with their feelings compare to aquarius. I love(d) my aquarius, but they need more passion from time to time. Hehehe. Aries are very passionate. The problem is we both are too impatient and just wind ourselves up for no good lol
And I clicked well with aquarius
we loved talking about same stuff and conversations just flew, so smooth, no awkward moments (did I say I hate that with a passion? lol) They are direct and honest - I ask them questions and they give me direct and honest answers. So loved it. No mind games, no reading between lines, no headaches!We say what's on our minds, without inhibition, but in a very calm, cool, collected and rational manner. We agree on most issues, but even when we disagree it's still so good and so cool - disagreements never turn into arguments, they just become good and meaningful discussion, i.e., exchanging one's own opinions and thoughts, expanding each others horizons.
But then it's quite true that aquarius is not a passionate creature. They talk in a reserved manner and from my experiences, it's the same way they love others. I wish there would be more passion
With aries, they're quite aggressive (in general), and that's what I loved about them
No need to fear of being a bit more adventurous. They are often feisty, so we get into some fights lol but it never lingers too long. We make up soon and be ready to have some fun together again. They're also direct - about what they think and what they want. And I appreciated that. No guessing around. I like analysing things... facts, but not emotions. Just not my area, I think.Them being direct, I can be so, too, without worrying to much about what's really going on beneath. They're more expressive with their feelings compare to aquarius. I love(d) my aquarius, but they need more passion from time to time. Hehehe. Aries are very passionate. The problem is we both are too impatient and just wind ourselves up for no good lol
Other signs are Capricorn and Taurus.
Don't know why, but they just seem to love me, I guess it's because they are usually reserved kind when it comes laughs and jokes and I always fool around them and throw jokes here and there and they find that amusing?
But they are way too serious for my taste. They like to talk about practical things... material possession, ambitions, social stutus... which are good themselves, but not really my cup of thing.
I've also noticed that my talkative nature is what they were drawn to my firstly, but then after some time, they seemed to think that I talk too much lol and want me to slow down... but geminis cannot do that. Hardly ever.
So there are initial attractions (because geminis are quite unstable and they want someone who can provide them with some stability?), but they fade away quickly. And there is nothing in common left, usually.
Sometimes Libra and Sagittarius.
Libras are good, but maybe too romantic to my taste. Also I wanted them to be more direct with me. They value grace(fulness), it's not really my priority, though.
Sagittarius are fine as friends, but as romantic partners, I'm not sure lol
Virgo.
We can be good friends, but I have my doubt when it comes to love relationships.
Never attracted water signs... and I had never been attracted one... no pisces, no scorpions, no cancers... up till recently I fell for a cancer guy lol
I've some pisces and cancer friends, but never scorpios. Don't know why, but they are scary lol They are too intense for me?
There isn't even one scorpio celeb crush... there are actors and actresses others are all over but I do not find myself attracted to them at all or don't get the hype... and later it always turned out those actors and actresses were scorpios.
Nothing against scorpios I think they are fabulous people, but probably we live in two different worlds? maybe?
Don't know why, but they just seem to love me, I guess it's because they are usually reserved kind when it comes laughs and jokes and I always fool around them and throw jokes here and there and they find that amusing?
But they are way too serious for my taste. They like to talk about practical things... material possession, ambitions, social stutus... which are good themselves, but not really my cup of thing.
I've also noticed that my talkative nature is what they were drawn to my firstly, but then after some time, they seemed to think that I talk too much lol and want me to slow down... but geminis cannot do that. Hardly ever.
So there are initial attractions (because geminis are quite unstable and they want someone who can provide them with some stability?), but they fade away quickly. And there is nothing in common left, usually.
Sometimes Libra and Sagittarius.
Libras are good, but maybe too romantic to my taste. Also I wanted them to be more direct with me. They value grace(fulness), it's not really my priority, though.
Sagittarius are fine as friends, but as romantic partners, I'm not sure lol
Virgo.
We can be good friends, but I have my doubt when it comes to love relationships.
Never attracted water signs... and I had never been attracted one... no pisces, no scorpions, no cancers... up till recently I fell for a cancer guy lol
I've some pisces and cancer friends, but never scorpios. Don't know why, but they are scary lol They are too intense for me?
There isn't even one scorpio celeb crush... there are actors and actresses others are all over but I do not find myself attracted to them at all or don't get the hype... and later it always turned out those actors and actresses were scorpios.
Nothing against scorpios
I think they are fabulous people, but probably we live in two different worlds? maybe?Hmmm:
Sagittarius, Taurus, Scorp, Virgo, Gemini, Libra. Just one aqua.
Sagittarius, Taurus, Scorp, Virgo, Gemini, Libra. Just one aqua.
And from time to time I attract my own sign - geminis, but then we usually ended up being friends, rather than romantic partners lol don't know why. And lots of times when I feel something for them and say it, they're not on the same page, but after some time, they come to me and profess their feelings for me, but then alas lol by that time I am no longer interested in them any more :/ Bad timings? lol
Posted by xxoommmxxoo
Virgos cancers scorpios
Speaking of, how are things going with your Virgo boy??
Me personally regarding OP, I don't attract many people in general LOL
but Cancer or Capricorn are usually the real deal for me... Or other Virgos...
I find other signs happy to flirt but often it is passing, superficial. More fun though ;P
For friendships: all the signs.
for more than that: aqua and libra.
for more than that: aqua and libra.
All of them, unfortunately astrology didn't help me in that regard
Well I always seem to attract the ones that I don't prefer or the ones that are volatile for me.
IE: Scorpios, Cancers, Pisces
Followed by: Sagittarius
But lots and LOTS of Scorpions.
It's like why even try? LOL! I find myself running off from them because all it's going to do is sink like the titanic anyhow. WTF do they want from me!
IE: Scorpios, Cancers, Pisces
Followed by: Sagittarius
But lots and LOTS of Scorpions.
It's like why even try? LOL! I find myself running off from them because all it's going to do is sink like the titanic anyhow. WTF do they want from me!
Sag sun Men I think, but think it's more a pisces influence? I've noticed alot of pisces moons and this one pisces atm who keeps popping up. It's funny because I think pisces girls and sag girls have this thing where they don't like me? the ones I've know so far anyway.
Wish I had whatever it is that attracts aries and caps for the long haul. That'd be fucking lovely
Wish I had whatever it is that attracts aries and caps for the long haul. That'd be fucking lovely
Venus in Scorpio. Aren't I lucky? 
I seem to attract the Taurus and the Cancers. Don't know why. Cancers' always crying and the Taurus is always trying to control me. Never dated an Aqua, oddly enough. Would like to, though.
Interesting!! Haha
I've never kept super track, but I'll look into it. For me signs never ever mattered. Just personality.
What I did for a while, after being bored with the same approach, I started guessing girls signs by characteristics or if I wanted to be a total winner that night. I would find out their signs, run through my memory of what their sign "likes". I'd "be" that for the time needed, then be more me after.
It's not to bad.. is it? Pfft, I'm much more desensitized than most. (: Don't do that unless I'm out of town or bored. Lol. So, much less, I'd say.
I've never kept super track, but I'll look into it. For me signs never ever mattered. Just personality.
What I did for a while, after being bored with the same approach, I started guessing girls signs by characteristics or if I wanted to be a total winner that night. I would find out their signs, run through my memory of what their sign "likes". I'd "be" that for the time needed, then be more me after.
It's not to bad.. is it? Pfft, I'm much more desensitized than most. (: Don't do that unless I'm out of town or bored. Lol. So, much less, I'd say.
All the earth signs; especially Virgo. I'm a watered down Gem with lots of earth as well... I used to attract Libra and Aquas but not too much. Maybe an Aries here and there. Of the Water signs Cancer and Scorps...
Surprise it is but I was attracted to Pisces. Good listener, listens to all my bullocks, good kissers, cuddles and roll over like a snake and non stop great sex.
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