Why would a gemini male come.back?
This topic was created in the Gemini forum by TaurusAngel on Sunday, September 22, 2013 and has 8 replies.
Exactly that.
We broke up last year mainly through circumstances. He lost job, was ill ex and he ended it after one.silly fihjt.
Fast forward 9 months and he has started emailing me and texting me. Telling me.stuff about his.life and asking about mine.
I always wait several days to reply and he replies very quickly.
I am giving nothing away and he keeps asking.how.I.am.while telling me things about his life.
I always thought geminis never looked back.
Any insight from gemini guys.
We broke up last year mainly through circumstances. He lost job, was ill ex and he ended it after one.silly fihjt.
Fast forward 9 months and he has started emailing me and texting me. Telling me.stuff about his.life and asking about mine.
I always wait several days to reply and he replies very quickly.
I am giving nothing away and he keeps asking.how.I.am.while telling me things about his life.
I always thought geminis never looked back.
Any insight from gemini guys.
I'm a gemini, but not a dude. But i can tell you why he wants you back. He misses you building up his male ego. It's really that simple. All guys do this, no sign has a monopoly on it.
When things we're bad, he couldn't handle having you in his life. When you were removed from the picture and he had to build up his life again, he needed your company and emotional connection. It's the male push pull thing.
It's also demonstrates his own insecurity. But who knows, maybe he's grown up and ready to move forward. I don't know how much you care for him, but if you really think he's a great guy, then I'd try to reconnect with him a little at a time. People often repeat their behavior when put in the same given circumstances. So you'll know in due time if his affection for you is legit or simply a need to feed his ego again.
When things we're bad, he couldn't handle having you in his life. When you were removed from the picture and he had to build up his life again, he needed your company and emotional connection. It's the male push pull thing.
It's also demonstrates his own insecurity. But who knows, maybe he's grown up and ready to move forward. I don't know how much you care for him, but if you really think he's a great guy, then I'd try to reconnect with him a little at a time. People often repeat their behavior when put in the same given circumstances. So you'll know in due time if his affection for you is legit or simply a need to feed his ego again.
I am wary of having anything to do with him as he broke my heart.
I have never loved anyone the way I loved him. but I don't know if I can put myself in that position again. The texts are just small talk for now. he is going to have to come out and tell me what he wants or I'm just going to start ignoring him.
Should I ask him what he wants or just keep up the small talk?
I have never loved anyone the way I loved him. but I don't know if I can put myself in that position again. The texts are just small talk for now. he is going to have to come out and tell me what he wants or I'm just going to start ignoring him.
Should I ask him what he wants or just keep up the small talk?
Posted by TaurusAngel
I am wary of having anything to do with him as he broke my heart.
I have never loved anyone the way I loved him. but I don't know if I can put myself in that position again. The texts are just small talk for now. he is going to have to come out and tell me what he wants or I'm just going to start ignoring him.
Should I ask him what he wants or just keep up the small talk?
If he broke you heart the first time around, then he's probably going to do it again. like i said, it's about his ego. i've been there, done that. if he's really into you and felt a true connection, he would have felt it the first time and not have to wait 9 months later.
i'm not going to tell you what to do because it's your life and only you know him. with that said, if it were me, i'd ignore him and move on. he sounds insecure. but you never know if someone has grown up. if you are willing to give him a little rope, then do the small talk and see where it goes. but if
you go this route, try to see if there are real steps to build a relationship. don't invest your heart right away as if you can start over from where you left off. you will only get hurt again. make him invest something and own his actions first. you are not a toy to easily discard. stand up for yourself and be firm once you have chosen your path. good luck.
Hi i'm a gemini girl who had a taurus bf for not along time ago. I broke up with him because of circumstances. But sometimes... I miss him so much. For him, i might be the heartbreaker, and the evil one. But he doesnt know that i love him from the deepest of my heart, sometimes i cry at night listening to music n think of him. I try to move on, but i dont think i'll ever get over him. Because he loved me the most.
Maybe he misses u sometimes, or maybe he wants u back. If he was the one who broke ur heart, maybe he's just like me, feeling guilty but tries to get over. Maybe he's lonely? I dont know, i think i'm too emotional right now.
What does ur instinct say? If u hate/hurt n dont want to have contact with him, u should probably ask what he wants, n tell him to stop contacting u.
Maybe he just wants to know how're doing. That means he cares. It's your choice, i'm just looking it from my site though.
Maybe he misses u sometimes, or maybe he wants u back. If he was the one who broke ur heart, maybe he's just like me, feeling guilty but tries to get over. Maybe he's lonely? I dont know, i think i'm too emotional right now.
What does ur instinct say? If u hate/hurt n dont want to have contact with him, u should probably ask what he wants, n tell him to stop contacting u.
Maybe he just wants to know how're doing. That means he cares. It's your choice, i'm just looking it from my site though.
Maubelle why don't you go back to your taurus then? If you still love hum?
So much time has passed, I don't know how I feel anymore. I even dated someone else for 2.5 months so I was over him . but now he's back I am thinking of him again and I dint know how I feel.
I think he has to.come out with it and ask. it is only small talk at the moment. I debt know that to say.
So much time has passed, I don't know how I feel anymore. I even dated someone else for 2.5 months so I was over him . but now he's back I am thinking of him again and I dint know how I feel.
I think he has to.come out with it and ask. it is only small talk at the moment. I debt know that to say.
Yeah i think he gotta tell what he's up to.
Me n me ex was in a long distance relationship. Not just town, not country but continent different. The worst is, impossible future. I've met him twice but never again in a whole year. Long distance relationship is not easy, especially when u fight. I could just give a hug at a fight, but online, we would go mad at eachother for days. Since i broke up with him, i told myself to never look back, but he has ever piece of my heart. I dont know what will happen,,,,
But
U sound unsure, doesnt look like you're really over him. Looks like u still care. My old ex contacted me (another ex.) asking me how i'm doing blabla, but i was over him. I asked him why he contact me, n told him that i have nothing to do with him ever again. Thats what i call OVER!
If u dont hate him, i think u should ask him what he's up to,n so on...
Think twice, make a choice, n never regret.
I wish the best for you.
Me n me ex was in a long distance relationship. Not just town, not country but continent different. The worst is, impossible future. I've met him twice but never again in a whole year. Long distance relationship is not easy, especially when u fight. I could just give a hug at a fight, but online, we would go mad at eachother for days. Since i broke up with him, i told myself to never look back, but he has ever piece of my heart. I dont know what will happen,,,,
But
U sound unsure, doesnt look like you're really over him. Looks like u still care. My old ex contacted me (another ex.) asking me how i'm doing blabla, but i was over him. I asked him why he contact me, n told him that i have nothing to do with him ever again. Thats what i call OVER!
If u dont hate him, i think u should ask him what he's up to,n so on...
Think twice, make a choice, n never regret.
I wish the best for you.
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