Would a gemini lie about being in love ?

So I let go a gemini man .. He acted so careless ! & uninterested ! He was talking & seeing everybody BUT me so I let him go ! & friend zoned his ass ! Now he's telling me he misses me .& love me. & I don't believe him at all ! He's June 20 1985 & I believes his moon sign is in cancer if that helps ! But I immediately told him it must be lust or something even though we just kissed only but this man never talks to me & never reaches out to stay hello or anything ! I call bullshit! Feel like he just saying whatever he thinks I want to hear ! & I'm most def not in love with him... Noo emotional connection with him at all .. We do have 4 years of history on & off as associates & he did chase me but the min I showed interest he pulled away ! & I pulled away too now he's back !! Ugh . I did tell him I felt like he sent that text to the wrong person ! But he texted me again today & said I do love you .. & I'm thinking in my head yeAh right ! Lol

his words are meaningless when his actions say nothing *makes note to self* lol

Yes omg makes me angry he would play with me ! I'm a taurus ! & I don't play with the "L" word i take it very serious !

Do you think that him being busy with school for his job may have something to do with why he hadn't been reaching out or what ?

Posted by BeautyandTheBull
Do you think that him being busy with school for his job may have something to do with why he hadn't been reaching out or what ?

hell no. you weren't on his mind. its a biter pill to swallow. trust me we've all been there, every girl. fuck him. let him cry into his cell phone now that hes lost u lol

Oops........my Gem told me today for the first time "I love you".

And now.......this thread.....😄.

Posted by starlover
Yes you are right


*in lust*




did you have good sex together?

We only had sex once in 2012 !
I saw him 4th if July all we did was kiss that's it ! How can you fall in love over a damn kiss !! Wth? Idk what his intentions were but he didn't turned me off even more ! Makes me so angry he think I would believe this he's insulting my intelligence ! All this happen after he brought up having sex & I'm like ugh no ! & he's like why ! & I said we are on 2 diff pages ! & he goes & pull a stunt like this ! That asshole ! Haha

Posted by Undine
Oops........my Gem told me today for the first time "I love you".

And now.......this thread.....😄.

I hope your gem guy was serious ! It's possible they all aren't liars !

Happy 🙂

Its not a gem thing its a guy thing 😛

Posted by porcelainrising
For a Gemini... words are love.

Care to explain ?

He ran away because he's scared that he's falling for you. Apart from the pushing and pulling he was direct in the "love you", which was texted not once but twice. Love is so sacred. Love is one in a million. I mean seriously a Gemini said I love you, you must mean a lot to him. Out of all the women in the world. You.

I don't know, when a Gemini says they "love you" chances are they "Love you", it may not be a love that lasts forever, but I'm a Gem and I haven't met any Gems that would just say that to simply get you into bed, it's easy enough for us to get you into bed, we don't tend to give up our hearts that easily unless we mean it (at least until you give us reason not to). Words are like spells to us.

Him not contacted you or acting interested is only because he wanted you to come to him, he tests, we love mind games, we can't help it, we want to watch you, to see if you could cope with us. If you have come across as a strong caring intelligent woman, then chances are he is telling the truth, even if it's only how he feels right now.

Posted by porcelainrising
Gemini takes words at a face value. If I say I love you, I mean it.

Of course, there are always guys that will pull that shit to get in your pants, but words do hold meaning for a Gemini and it's not like other signs that show their feelings through actions. Gemini in love probably won't be doing the typical "action", but will let you know verbally.

I totally agree here. It's also very difficult for me to say it or even accept it..

Posted by butterflygirl
He ran away because he's scared that he's falling for you. Apart from the pushing and pulling he was direct in the "love you", which was texted not once but twice. Love is so sacred. Love is one in a million. I mean seriously a Gemini said I love you, you must mean a lot to him. Out of all the women in the world. You.

He's def running from something ... Those two days he said he love me he took a day just to write me back ! & being a Taurus actions do speak louder then words ! But I also know it's more easier for ppl to say what they feel then show it ...especially him not knowing If I felt the same ... He wasn't always distant But ... I like to hear different perspectives ... Reason it confuses me because I dated a Scorpio guy once for 7 months ! Who was soo cold ! We never really talked ... He never initiated conversation & never even took me out not once ! few months later he expressed to me how he always liked me ! & at the time he wasn't good with showing emotion & he wished things had worked out better ! I was lost the whole 7 months
I thought he never cared & come to find out he always cared ! Maybe I'm Indenial thinking no one could ever love me idk ... But I would feel like a fool to believe something that he has never showed me ...

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Posted by porcelainrising
Gemini takes words at a face value. If I say I love you, I mean it.

Of course, there are always guys that will pull that shit to get in your pants, but words do hold meaning for a Gemini and it's not like other signs that show their feelings through actions. Gemini in love probably won't be doing the typical "action", but will let you know verbally.

I totally agree here. It's also very difficult for me to say it or even accept it..

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Ditto....I would rather say nothing and it's not like we are speaking about material possessions or dessert. I like, then start to unlike.....the other way around takes a really long time and may never happen because I usually do not want to be around someone that I don't like at first. Don't want to know anything about them at all if I don't get a decent vibe from them to begin with. 😢

Posted by porcelainrising
Gemini takes words at a face value. If I say I love you, I mean it.

Of course, there are always guys that will pull that shit to get in your pants, but words do hold meaning for a Gemini and it's not like other signs that show their feelings through actions. Gemini in love probably won't be doing the typical "action", but will let you know verbally.

^^^^^^^^

THIS Is so true. I can express my love for someone and it's always sincere when I do. Some people are always telling someone, "Love ya", "I love you" etc. That's not legit. that's just a phrase that's so overused, it's sad. Because it's taken the true meaning out of it. I only use "Love ya" etc. when it's meaningful and for someone I truly love.

Some signs can only express their affection through actions. I have experienced that from several men. They had such a hard time saying, "I love you", they would try to show me through actions. While I picked up on their actions and understood, I always wanted to hear the words. I simply wrote, "Love ya" at the end of a letter. He replied with, "Love (his name)." Which was a first. I knew it was a big deal for him. He was revealing his true feelings without having to back it up with an action.

That was the last time I heard from him. He pulled away. I'm guessing he was developing serious feelings and either wasn't ready for that or had other issues conflicting him.

It was heartbreaking because I felt we were getting so close. Then "poof" and he was gone.

Gems live to express ourselves and thanks to mercury, our platform are words. Some get us. Others think we need to communicate too much. I guess the key is finding someone who can relate to how you express yourself and who you really are. Lucky for me, I did. But it took some peaks and valleys to find that guy.

Posted by butterflygirl
He ran away because he's scared that he's falling for you. Apart from the pushing and pulling he was direct in the "love you", which was texted not once but twice. Love is so sacred. Love is one in a million. I mean seriously a Gemini said I love you, you must mean a lot to him. Out of all the women in the world. You.

Bingo. He's afraid of falling. That means commitment and loss of his freedom. I've had this push and pull from a male virgo. Honestly, I think all men do this at times. It's how they're wired.

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Posted by butterflygirl
He ran away because he's scared that he's falling for you. Apart from the pushing and pulling he was direct in the "love you", which was texted not once but twice. Love is so sacred. Love is one in a million. I mean seriously a Gemini said I love you, you must mean a lot to him. Out of all the women in the world. You.

Bingo. He's afraid of falling. That means commitment and loss of his freedom. I've had this push and pull from a male virgo. Honestly, I think all men do this at times. It's how they're wired.

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Well how would you feel if the woman you said "I love you " to told you she didn't believe you ? Would you leave her alone ? Would that cause you to become distAnt even more ?

Beauty and the Bull

He finally realized he has someone special. He ran away because you made his heart beat, he didn't know what to do. He was afraid of you knowing his feelings. Where you would have control. He the puppet, you the master. Now he's telling you this, he knows your worth it and knows you can handle him. He's now ok with you pulling his strings.

P.S. a handwritten b day card means more than any stupid gift card or money.

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Posted by Undine
Oops........my Gem told me today for the first time "I love you".

And now.......this thread.....😄.

Well, good luck with that!

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No why, thanks! I'm on cloud nine!

It sounds like a classic case of one-sided attraction. And it never works out to be friends in this situation. Bottom line: you have no emotional connection for him and owe it to him to let him go. You being in contact with him is just going to lead him on. Who cares if he is or isn't in love with you. You're not in love with him and that is end game. You wouldn't want a man to lead you on. Don't lead them on. You should think more on the fact he's a human being with feelings and let this poor fool go and find a woman who can make him happy.

Posted by Este8
It sounds like a classic case of one-sided attraction. And it never works out to be friends in this situation. Bottom line: you have no emotional connection for him and owe it to him to let him go. You being in contact with him is just going to lead him on. Who cares if he is or isn't in love with you. You're not in love with him and that is end game. You wouldn't want a man to lead you on. Don't lead them on. You should think more on the fact he's a human being with feelings and let this poor fool go and find a woman who can make him happy.

What are you talking about —
the attraction isn't one sided ... I like the man ... But just because I'm not in love now with him now doesn't mean I won't ever be ... ! So NO I'm not leading him ... Your advice sucks !

It's obvious I make him happy if he's in love with me ... & I have no intentions on making him unhappy ....usually 1 person always falls in love before the other ...

In defense of beautyandbull, she's unsure of how to handle his love and how to go at his pace. For who knows, all the information on Gemini tends to say they are flighty and if so, she fears love one second, none the next. Yall see what I'm saying, I'm just saying. Kind of in the same predicament though I feel for my guy too.

First of all, you need to become a couple. Are you actually dating? Why not? Is he scared to ask?

Then, after spending plenty of time together over several months, talk about love.

Any declaration before that is at its best a sign of infatuation; at its worst, of loneliness.

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Posted by Este8
It sounds like a classic case of one-sided attraction. And it never works out to be friends in this situation. Bottom line: you have no emotional connection for him and owe it to him to let him go. You being in contact with him is just going to lead him on. Who cares if he is or isn't in love with you. You're not in love with him and that is end game. You wouldn't want a man to lead you on. Don't lead them on. You should think more on the fact he's a human being with feelings and let this poor fool go and find a woman who can make him happy.

What are you talking about —
the attraction isn't one sided ... I like the man ... But just because I'm not in love now with him now doesn't mean I won't ever be ... ! So NO I'm not leading him ... Your advice sucks !

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So you're lying about having "no emotional connection" to him and are playing games. Your dishonest game playing is the problem here. No man wants to play the "maybe I am, maybe I'm not interested in you game."

" I'm most def not in love with him... Noo emotional connection with him at all .. "

You say one thing and then mean another.

Posted by Este8
" I'm most def not in love with him... Noo emotional connection with him at all .. "

You say one thing and then mean another.

Lol.

She's young and doesn't know what she wants or even feels. Then blames the Gem for confusing her.

At 22, it is mainly about finding your way in life (including in love) by testing and trying. So many options, so little time....

@butterflyGirl u are the most delusional poster ive read on here. 'true love' like the soul mate kind should nevr be connected 2 this sign.its not sacred to them mor like convenient

Oh so true love only exist for you, right....

I'm sorry I'm disagreeing with some of the comments made here. I don't care what a mans sign is, at some point you have to be a grown smart woman and face facts when a man is interested you??ll know. And if he's saying he loves you, you should be able to think back on how he's treated you up until that point and confirm his actions has matched his words. He may not have been consistent due to the fact that the two of you were not officially committed, but you should never wonder if he's interested or if he cares because he should be showing you that no matter what.
The sign comes slightly into play because A gem likes a challenge, but then think about it, what man doesn't? Especially in the beginning, they ALL love to believe that their woman is not an easy woman, and that all men had to fight hard, some harder than others to get next to her, and he's the winner. That's every mans dream. In his case, it was not about that. Judging by what you wrote he liked you, got bored, wanted to do him, you said forget that and you dipped, he decides oh I like her again, and now he's back. He sounds immature, and in serious need of a wake up call.