Having surgery this morning, please say a prayer

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I experienced mild cramping Monday nigh and by noon yesterday was in the worse stomach pain I've ever experienced in life. It's appendicitis and I have to have surgery this morning. I'm in good hands and my oldest son spent the night with me. My friends and family have been AMAZING. I just need to have the surgery, go through the short 4-5 day recovery, and make sure not to lift anything over 10lbs in the next 6 weeks. I really would like to know what caused this, even though it won't happen again. Anywho, your prayers and good thoughts are appreciated.
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Posted by MiZLeo
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Wish you well Ms Teeq
Thanks. How are things with your Pisces guy?
Haven't heard from him since last Fri so I'm at the wtf ever stage at this point. Might be time to move on. Thanks for asking But don't worry about me. Take care of yourself! 🙂
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Wow...since last Friday. Hmmm...maybe diversify your interests...date other people. Seems like there will be plenty of time for you to get answers from him later. You seem to be doing well. Really, that's what matters.
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Posted by BlackMamba
Everyone likes you! It's the hair. Gem and the rockets?
Lol...I'm not sure if it's the hair, but my co worker said that it reminded him of Jem and the Holograms. Two very wise men told me things regarding character when I was a teen that I still believe and try to practice until this day.

1. In order to have friends, you must first show yourself friendly.
2. Treat people according to who you are and not how they act.
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Posted by RumiLove
It's been a looong time, msTeeq!

Hope everything went well :s
OMG...guys I'm so sorry. Things are going very well these days actually. I had a lot of things going on at once and I spent much time putting prayers and lots of action into getting this straightened out. I managed to pretty much recover fully, maintain my household, making a transition away from my job, and yes...the Scorp and I are still together. Wow! There's been so much in the past month and I just needed to FOCUS. My friends and family once again have been AMAZING!!!! Those people...I tell you.

So as a result of all that has gone on...my position was eliminated at work and my last day of pay will be Dec. 31st. No worries, because I'm starting not one or two, but four businesses between now and the year 2020. I've spent much time putting a transition plan together for the organization so that tomorrow is actually my LAST full day of work and I'm STOKED!!!!! The ED has gone off of the rails and many people are jumping ship at this point. The independently wealthy Director of Research and Development resigned. He was going to stay on through Jan, but left the office looking disgusted last Tuesday. His software dev team are jumping ship with him. I have absolutely no more investment in that organization and whether it thrives or not is NONE of my business. I feel so much better. My youngest son has gone back to school and is LOVING it to the point where I don't even have to wake him up in the morning. While in recovery, I went to register him in this alternative school. My God...My recovery has been SLOW! smh....I still have about two weeks left and am just now feeling like my old self. Like, my color was even off and you could tell that I'd been sick. OMG...I lost almost 20lbs....friggin STOKED. I'll change my profile pic in a few minutes. I actually am going to church regularly...after about a 7 year hiatus from having that spiritual support in my routine. Losing my spiritual mother has been a difficult grieving process, but...you know...I'm ok with that. I don't feel the need to be ultra strong anymore.

Me and the Scorp...it's interesting how our relationship has changed. lol Firstly, I'm so good on him it's not even funny. Like, I love him dearly, but had to let go and do me. I'm still in that place and he's respectful as well as responsive of that. He understands and is making more of an effort to come my way since I'm no longer leaning towards him. He's definitely still in the relationship and has even rented a house (as of Thanksgiving Day) in our city so that he can come home soon whether or not the job assignment ends. He's walking away from it again to establish something different. I even went as far as to let him know that I'm honestly open to leaving this city this time next year. With him if we're still toget
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forgot about the dastardly dxp cut offs. LMBO!!!! Anyways, he knows that I'm setting myself up to move out of the city without him just in case things don't work out between us. lol ha ha ha ha I'm doing all of this for myself and it feels GREAT! I'm finally at the point in my life where everyone else has to look after themselves or whatever it is that they want and I'm focusing on me.
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forgot about the dastardly dxp cut offs. LMBO!!!! Anyways, he knows that I'm setting myself up to move out of the city without him just in case things don't work out between us. lol ha ha ha ha I'm doing all of this for myself and it feels GREAT! I'm finally at the point in my life where everyone else has to look after themselves or whatever it is that they want and I'm focusing on me.
Yes! Just focus on your health and YOURSELF...your life.

Because, even if you bother about someone else, it will not affect how anybody is.

I'm so glad you are feeling so good 🙂
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