Am confused.

Finally after one month trying to balancing myself in the libran way, i lost control and took my lioness out for dinner last night. I stayed away from her for almost a month since we first met bcoz I have to leave this country soon. My job contract is over and my new job is 8000 miles away. I am leaving here next saturday and last night I took her out. Was coldfeet and didnt even tried to kiss her or hold her hands since I was indecisive whether to start something which may not end. 😢 But then today I gave it a go and told her openly while chatting online that I like her and wish I had more time to spend with her.

I dunno if I did right thing by being finally open about my feelings. Anyway am planning to take her out tomm evening again and see how far it can go on the last days. I will be more than happy to take her with me to the new country if she is willing to.

Will Leo girls think about moving to a new country with her newly made lover— She happened to mention that she want to find a new job in some other country. I dunno if that can work that way.

Thanks for ur advise and experience.

People always seem to meet someone right before they leave. It is a theme I have noticed in life. I think it is because it is safe since you know it won't work out.

...I dunno if I did right thing by being finally open about my feelings....

How did she respond?


...She happened to mention that she want to find a new job in some other country....

This sounds promising. Unless she is the type to travel a lot. Maybe provide a little more info on how she responded to your confession? This could help.

Finally i did it again. She said there is no time to build up anything and asked me to back off. Well in a way thats good i guess. I didnt wanted to go without letting her know that I had some good feelings for her. But i guess she does like me. 😢 well thats still confusing. Anyway now I dont have to kill myself for being silent and then losing but still wondering if it would hav worked if I was different. Now all I need to do is to wait. 😢 If I lose, i guess i can still make myself feel better calculating the savings from affording the maintanence cost of a lioness. 😉

...Anyway now I dont have to kill myself for being silent and then losing but still wondering if it would hav worked if I was different....

Yes, you did what you could and she was honest with you. Wondering is always the worst. At least you understand this.



...If I lose, i guess i can still make myself feel better calculating the savings from affording the maintanence cost of a lioness...

Hairbrushes and hair products can get expensive. That $ 1.00 hair gel stuff will just never work. And then there is shoes. Don't get me started.

I was thinking about this last night theLibran ... had you used this past month to get to know her and develop a relationship with her things may have worked out differently although doubtful.

As I said, a lot of people tend to meet someone right before they move away. I think it is because they are looking for an extra bit of security. Examine yourself and question how much of a security need she would have been filling.

You caught me sparrow. 😢 Extra bit of security seems to be the perfect word. Someone to fall back on. I am certain that I am still not in love with her. Infactuation or lust or whatever but there is a flame btween us even now. definitely not love. I was planning to meet my aries frnd this xmas to kickstart things btween us and then suddenly i started feeling what if that dont work in future and why not think about pushing the current situation further since the interest btween the lioness was somewhat mutual. Insecure me. stupid me. 😢 Well anyway last 2 nights she didnt came out and gave me excuses and sort of. I have no idea if this is going to turn out positive or negative since there is a divine timing factor which will connect all these issues and align it to my advantage in future. 😉

One month was busy for both of us. I gave up after 2 weeks talks and 3 times asking her out. She almost had stopped responding to my messages. Later she started messaging again explaining her change in working location and busy life which ended in the dinner 2 nights back. During that one month, I was equally busy sorting out my new job but still messaged her once in a while. I dont blame myself since I did what i must have done and she was hesitatnt or may be busy or whatever.

Anyway. 7 days left and am waiting for the climax of real life romantic thriller. lol... I dont want to leave this country broken heart and spoil my new job. So I am staying detached from the romeo part of mine.

Will Leo girls think about moving to a new country with her newly made lover—

-I have to say that I wouldn't consider it. If I was deeply involved with someone, then yes, I would travel to be with them. But not if they were "newly made".