Anyone have experiences with a Taurus?

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They are shallow but you can do anything to them if you check all the boxes
What exactly do you mean by that?

Found out the Asian guy from the gym is a Taurus.
Lol

Leo Taurus doesn't work

1 major argument and it is over for good
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I tried dating 1 Taurus before but I was young. Didn't work but he was psycho lol
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Posted by MrEmptyBackpack
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They are shallow but you can do anything to them if you check all the boxes
What exactly do you mean by that?

Found out the Asian guy from the gym is a Taurus.
Lol

Leo Taurus doesn't work

1 major argument and it is over for good
I tried dating 1 Taurus before but I was young. Didn't work but he was psycho lol


Most bulls are

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Haha Great. Guess I'll find out eh?
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My personal experiences...have been odd. I generally don't shoot for Taurus women outside of just friendships.
In what ways have they been odd?

I have always gotten along with Taurus individuals as friends. But an acquaintance has asked me to go out this weekend and I am kind of on the fence about it, so I was curious.
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Right as friends it's been fine, beyond that though something is always seems off. One of my best friends is a Taurus and he's both brilliant and hilarious. The Taurus women that I know are all sweet hearts, but overall I find that Taurus women can be obstinate to the point of recklessness. I also find it odd when a Taurus woman reacts before thinking first. As a result, I've personally never been drawn to them.

My former business partner of 5 years is a Taurus woman and I had to separate from her because she just could not think dynamically. She was also incredibly stubborn and wanted things her way. As both an intuitive and creative person it was extremely frustrating to see her make the same mistakes over and over again.

Two of my friends (a Leo guy and a Cap guy) are dating a Taurus women. Both women can be strong willed about odd things. They're both sweet people, but there are times when it seems like their actions don't have a lot of thought behind them. Both friends also seem to be a bit more submissive in their respective relationships, while both women appear to be more dominant,.
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I actually love Taurus men. They are meek and so they're lovely to me. 🙂

I am (scorpio) the one who always caused ruckus to them lol

But they withstood. until of course... ya.

I had 2 experiences. Had it not been by external adversity, I believe we can withstand shit.

What is your sun sign, indi?
How did you cause them ruckus? Lol

I am a Leo

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Translation:

Causing ruckus = complain

lol
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Dated a Taurus woman for 4 years and I am a Leo.

She was very possessive, very stubborn and didn't listen. It didn't help her that I actually had a life and she didn't. She almost had this fearless stubbornness in her in the sense that to work things out we would need to argue and then when things calmed down everything went back to normal but the issue was never resolved.

So the next time the issue came about, it was like the argument just wenet up another level.

My ex had no concept of moving with the times or adjusting/compromising. It was almost like the situation/scenario would need to bend to her way of thinking and then a conclusion could be reached. Problem with this was sometimes it got very tiring.

The one thing I would say is that my Taurus ex was very loyal and the last year of the relationship we both knew it was ending but she just wouldn't leave. In the end I broke it off.

As a friend she was the sweetest woman ever.
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My personal experiences...have been odd. I generally don't shoot for Taurus women outside of just friendships.
In what ways have they been odd?

I have always gotten along with Taurus individuals as friends. But an acquaintance has asked me to go out this weekend and I am kind of on the fence about it, so I was curious.
Right as friends it's been fine, beyond that though something is always seems off. One of my best friends is a Taurus and he's both brilliant and hilarious. The Taurus women that I know are all sweet hearts, but overall I find that Taurus women can be obstinate to the point of recklessness. I also find it odd when a Taurus woman reacts before thinking first. As a result, I've personally never been drawn to them.

My former business partner of 5 years is a Taurus woman and I had to separate from her because she just could not think dynamically. She was also incredibly stubborn and wanted things her way. As both an intuitive and creative person it was extremely frustrating to see her make the same mistakes over and over again.

Two of my friends (a Leo guy and a Cap guy) are dating a Taurus women. Both women can be strong willed about odd things. They're both sweet people, but there are times when it seems like their actions don't have a lot of thought behind them. Both friends also seem to be a bit more submissive in their respective relationships, while both women appear to be more dominant,.
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So I am thinking there might be a "power" struggle eventually. I can be submissive to the right one in CERTAIN ways aka I can be a spoiler, but I am very dominant for a woman as well. Also, stubborn drives me crazy because I am a very open minded and see from multiple perspectives so that might drive me up a wall.

But thank you for your insight.

The women who i have been very close friends with who are taurus are always very easy to talk to and funny.. we always have a good conversation and laugh.

The male that I did date a few years back (I was young and it did not last long) he turned out to be...crazy I guess you could say. Threatened to kill himself, was all over the place, emotionally unstable and just out there.
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Posted by MrEmptyBackpack
They are shallow but you can do anything to them if you check all the boxes
What exactly do you mean by that?

Found out the Asian guy from the gym is a Taurus.
Lol

Leo Taurus doesn't work

1 major argument and it is over for good
I tried dating 1 Taurus before but I was young. Didn't work but he was psycho lol


Most bulls are

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Nah uh. 😛
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i am leo sun female with taurus sun male

i am proof that this combo can work but it's very challenging.
Curious to hear this too! My one relationship with a Leo in the past started off really strongly, and one gesture that I made really threw everything off.
What was the gesture if you do not mind me asking?

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It was very innocent, but she told me she had a rough week because of work, and so I sent her flowers to her job with a cheeky note in it but the flower shop I went to didn't put my name in it so she freaked out. I told her they were from me and she kinda freaked out about it. We had been dating for about a month or two and she saw it as we were moving way too fast and sorta got weirded out by it. It never was the same after that so she ended it. Who would've ever thought sending flowers would end things?
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i am leo sun female with taurus sun male

i am proof that this combo can work but it's very challenging.
Curious to hear this too! My one relationship with a Leo in the past started off really strongly, and one gesture that I made really threw everything off.
What was the gesture if you do not mind me asking?


It was very innocent, but she told me she had a rough week because of work, and so I sent her flowers to her job with a cheeky note in it but the flower shop I went to didn't put my name in it so she freaked out. I told her they were from me and she kinda freaked out about it. We had been dating for about a month or two and she saw it as we were moving way too fast and sorta got weirded out by it. It never was the same after that so she ended it. Who would've ever thought sending flowers would end things?
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Oh wow...seems as though she had not been ready if she got weirded out by it. I can see the feeling of moving so fast but... she just was not over something in the past.

I'm sorry to hear sounds like you are a sweetheart

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by challenging, i mean it's easy to rub each other the wrong way. by tone of voice, choice of words, actions. easy to make assumptions on what the other person feels and thinks and jump the gun to cause a conflict based on something that really wasn't there. insecurity will spark conflict. easy to think you are being criticized when someone has a different opinion. misunderstandings are common. just because someone does something differently than you would, doesn't mean their way is wrong or they are trying to get to you, true taurus is good at stirring me up but there have been times he has regretted starting something because he was warned to stop pushing and didn't. so while taurus is bull, he has met his match in lion. so when it works, it works very well, nothing like it but when it doesn't work, it's a real pain everywhere you can imagine.


So there's for of an understanding barrier?

How long have you been together?
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Posted by indiwoman
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Posted by KittyKnitter
i am leo sun female with taurus sun male

i am proof that this combo can work but it's very challenging.
Curious to hear this too! My one relationship with a Leo in the past started off really strongly, and one gesture that I made really threw everything off.
What was the gesture if you do not mind me asking?


It was very innocent, but she told me she had a rough week because of work, and so I sent her flowers to her job with a cheeky note in it but the flower shop I went to didn't put my name in it so she freaked out. I told her they were from me and she kinda freaked out about it. We had been dating for about a month or two and she saw it as we were moving way too fast and sorta got weirded out by it. It never was the same after that so she ended it. Who would've ever thought sending flowers would end things?
Oh wow...seems as though she had not been ready if she got weirded out by it. I can see the feeling of moving so fast but... she just was not over something in the past.

I'm sorry to hear sounds like you are a sweetheart

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Eh it happens, timing is everything. We're still friends til this day and she told me that she was freaked out initially because no one has ever done that for her and she didn't know how to handle it.