rhiannon what did this guy do to you? seriously.. normally aries males are very attentive to all the needs a leo girl has. I am sorry it didn't work out!! BUt maybe he was an exception to the rule—
Rhiannon...here's my opinion on the relationship. I don't know you at all, so don't take anything I say personally.
Arie men are never ALWAYS attentive to the needs a leo girl has. There are two things to remember about the characters: They are Aries and they are Men. What I mean is that, for example, they can be extremely tactless and insensitive(Aries Trait) and at the same time, they won't stop to think why what was said upset you (Male Trait). I think that's what astrolgers mean when they say that Aries Men are the Alpha Male...they truly are DOUBLY male.
My Aries and I were EXTREMELY shaky in the beginning...and we still are. However, in being w/ him i've learned that I can be: Selfish, Dominating and Egotistical. You'll notice that those are some of our more negative traits. As much as I hate to admit it, yes, I can be that way sometimes. It took us 1 1/2 to get to where we are right now. We still fight to the death, but we are also a bit more DIPLOMATIC to one another...and that is hard, considering our strong personalities.
My point is, don't rule them out, too much. They certainly have their negative sides, too. But I think that if you were to change your approach when dealing w/ them (i.e., remain a bit detached, don't take things too personally, and learn to pick your battles), you might see them in a different light. Also, it relieves a HELLUVA lot of stress on your end.
I realized one thing after reading your other post. Too much thinking and planning is contradiction to where Love comes from. aries Love spontaneity. too much talk and thinking messes us up as far as getting a girls attention. The struggle is always there but we must just go with the flow and be ourselves, our incredible selves...hehehe. If I may ask, how old are you Truthseeker? How old is your aries man? A relationship is the ultimate form to learn more about yourself and fix what needs to be fixed, if you are ready. I've personally been on a "fix it" mentality for the past few years and only hope to find someone that can keep up with me, mentally, spirtually and physically. Leos are such beautiful people that I can't believe I have never been with one. I'm 36 and she is 21. What do you think? That's the last question, I promise.....hehehe Aloha & Mahalo, Mauicountry
Hey MC...don't worry about your questions...Leo's like being asked for their advice and opinion :-)
I agree w/ you regarding what you said about how too much thinking messes things up, especially regarding love. If it feels right, all you can do is go with it, and the rest will fall into place.
I will be 25 next month, and my aries is 28. As far as the age difference between the two of you...age is only a number. What matters is how she feels about you and her maturity. I think we all have different experiences and beliefs and struggles at that age (no matter what sign you are). Thus, all you can do, Mauicountry, is be yourself...that's what you have to offer (and I'm sure it's worth a lot). If she accepts your offer...great...if not...her loss (right?). But as long as you are genuine, that's all that counts. One last thing, if you are ever interested, you should find out her birth information, and do a birth chart for the both of you. Relating goes well beyond a Sun Sign.
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