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i can't be friends with cancer men. grrr! it pisses me off.

no matter how much i try to keep it platonic, they are irresistible. and i don't know why.

mothering instincts? let's see...

sun, leo...moon, aquarius...venus, gemini...mars, aries
yeah, not seeing it 😛

HEY! What happened to the Leo Wheels?

erm, about that, i'm actually still with him.

which is why i am really getting frustrated.

it might be pleasurable if i had no morals. since i do, it actually kinda makes me feel really shitty.

the stupidest part of it all is that i know this cancer doesn't feel any kind of emotional attachment to me, and that he is manipulating me in order to get something he wants, but i'm still extremely attracted to him.

where's the "shut off emotions" switch when you need it? 😛

well he's "madly in love" with his current girlfriend but she doesn't satisfy him (if you know what i mean). so he's looking elsewhere for that.

"why don't you 'play' back witr the cancer —"

i hate playing games. plus, he's a smart one and he knows i'm starting to like him, and his efforts are intensifying. i actually don't know if he even knows i have a boyfriend.

lol....i always look down on people so much for letting a strong temporary attraction get in the way of what could be years of happiness. so i really hope i don't give in to the stupidity.

well he's "madly in love" with his current girlfriend but she doesn't satisfy him (if you know what i mean). so he's looking elsewhere for that.

So he is a selfish jackass. just look at his character wheels. character says everything.

hmm, i see what you're saying. it's not like he has ever said "my girlfriend won't put out so i'm trying to get it from someone else." that's just the conclusion i've come to because he always talks about how much his girlfriend holds out on him, but two seconds later he also includes how much he loves her regardless.

i think he really wants to be loyal to her. but she doesn't go to college with him, she lives 2 hours away and they only see each other on weekends. and she isn't even intimate with him then most of the time. i'm not saying i think he should cheat on her...just that i can understand what he is going through. he doesn't want to end it because he has feelings for her, but at the same time he doesn't know what to do to get more action 😛.

he's a nice person, unfortunately.

Those crabs... dammit! They are irresistible!

My libra friend is right there with you lol She *had* a boyfriend and this crab came along and I just knew how she felt when she started talking about him. Sure enough, her pisces bf started acting very jealous because, I'm pretty sure, he felt something wasn't right. So they ended up breaking up and she's still seeing this crab.

At first he wasn't serious about her and I'm pretty sure he was seeing someone else. She knew it too but didn't care because she had a boyfriend. Although she would feel jealous sometimes because she had this strong attraction for him. After over a year, he starts calling her more often, feeling possessive over her, dropping little hints... yup, it's the cancer mating call.

AND her story resembles mine too lol Whenever he'd come on by I was very hesistant to cut him off even though I had a bf myself. By the time my other relationship was dying out... he'd be right there. He had an unstable relationship of his own at the time. Eventually they get as attached to you as you to them. Guess they like stability after all.

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yeah, i don't think i want to get involved in any of that. i wonder what it is about them that makes them so attractive.

Leo and an infidel ?...Strange are the ways of Zodiac.

"Leo and an infidel ?...Strange are the ways of Zodiac."

lol.

"acting like weaklings....brings out the automatic urge to protect something that is weaker and less capable than yourself.............."

i dunno if this was just supposed to be sarcasm, but i think there might be something to it. especially with the men, because they show their vulnerability, and that's rare.

"and its a cheap parlour trick,IMO,rather than genuine vunerability.....
mind you,they might have 2 for 1 deals on Pampers round your way....."

hehe...i'm sure some of it is real. hard to tell though. and i don't think i'll be needing the pampers. 😛

well they are lucky because that ace is guaranteed to win almost every time.

*tear*

So a Cancer male relies on invoking motherly feelings ?

Life has different compartments ...For the fun part ...fire signz are the best bet and a very bad gamble if U r in for a long haul. On the contrary ...water sign would be ideal if U r looking to settle down. They have been there ...and they will be there.

"all cancers do,Guarav....
it's also a simple trick that monkey use aswell,FWIW"

I have to concur. NOM ...but they do not seem to have any spine.

"Wheelies,does he try to put on a fakish innocent,babyish voice —?"

ummmmmm....when?

"Depending on the person what if its an aquarias ?"

what if nothing. i've seen it work on aquarians too. 😉 but yes, it definitely depends on the individual person, and what they are capable of grasping in the cancers' manipulation.

"For the fun part ...fire signz are the best bet and a very bad gamble if U r in for a long haul."

hmmm...do you agree with that statement pertaining to yourself or are you just basing it on textbook astrology? because i, personally, disagree.

"hmmm...do you agree with that statement pertaining to yourself or are you just basing it on textbook astrology? because i, personally, disagree. "

Personally, yeah I wud not want to belong. But that may be an Aries thing so U cant draw a statistically robust inference from that.

Even otherwise ..from my experience ...fire sign nativez deliver the best when there are no frills attached...altrusitic kinda. Under the burden of relationships , they tend to stagnate and exhibit complex behavior. Unlike water sign subjectz , we arent designed to fathom the "real" depth. Our attitudes are more suited toward inventing/discovering luxuries and undertaking adventures. We dont gravitate toward stabiltity and in fact we thrive on chaos. Normal is boring.

"So,are you saying the fire signs are thwe attention whores of the Zodiac —"

What to do AB ...what comes naturally to U is what is hard earned for us. 😛

"Under the burden of relationships , they tend to stagnate and exhibit complex behavior. Unlike water sign subjectz , we arent designed to fathom the "real" depth. Our attitudes are more suited toward inventing/discovering luxuries and undertaking adventures. We dont gravitate toward stabiltity and in fact we thrive on chaos. Normal is boring."

hmmm...this is very insightful. the first part is 100% true about me. but it all depends on your point of view. of course you or i would tend to say that the stagnation and complex behavior is bad because it goes against our adventurous and fun-loving nature, but some people are naturally complex and don't necessarily view it as a bad thing to become more serious or boring as you put it.

i really don't think fire signs aren't designed for fathoming real depth, though. i think there are things we subconsciously and intuitively understand about keeping ourselves happy that prevent us from being pulled too deeply into them. because fire signs value happiness above almost anything, while the other elements tend to value different things.

i don't thrive on chaos. i hate it. and i have thought about it a lot recently. i need harmony. even the slightest bit of petty drama makes me extremely uncomfortable. i can easily see why someone may think that i thrive on drama, though, because i have no problems facing it or confronting people. the difference is that while some people attempt to perpetuate drama through confrontation, i do it as an attempt to end it.

"really don't think fire signs aren't designed for fathoming real depth, though. i think there are things we subconsciously and intuitively understand about keeping ourselves happy that prevent us from being pulled too deeply into them. because fire signs value happiness above almost anything, while the other elements tend to value different things."

Agreed. Maybe we redefine "depth". Having faced/seen lotsa flak , I was trying to subscribe to the view as presented by others....a large majority indeed. Stiil, some may see it as being selfish and we are often accused of that. I cant even imagine how deeep those emotions run, water signs are so renowned for. Or maybe itz just another legend.

"don't thrive on chaos. i hate it. and i have thought about it a lot recently. i need harmony. even the slightest bit of petty drama makes me extremely uncomfortable."

Yeah I am getting the whiff here. I gather that leo folks yearn for harmony as chaos is akin to poverty and itz disgusting to them..perhaps. Guess for Aries chaos is what they inevitably create and for sags...chaos is what they see as a challenge.

Ur remarks on the "drama" part were insightful. I indeed used to think that leo females revel in drama and itz in their nature to be harsh to those who attempt to get close.