I’m not sure what forum to put this post into so I’m putting it here because my bf is a leo. I’ve been going through this period of no communication with him. A few hi, hello texts and a few in person hangouts BUT with friends around. I haven’t told anyone yet about this since I’m scared it might lead to me hearing the stuff I don’t want to. From people I know.
I’ve told my boyfriend he’s not been giving me time as he used and I was pretty calm doing it. However, the second time I mentioned he started pointing out that all we do is argue whenever we’re together. My question is when do we even spend time together to begin with? He says I’m not lovey dovey and this and that. But mind you, I’m really good at being lovey dovey, I’m always cheerful, kissing him, hugging him, making jokes, complimenting him and what not. However, he thinks I throw I throw a tantrum whenever I’m with him or that I always come off as moody to him, which is so not true. I like to stay quiet when my pov is being refused to be taken into consideration instead of continuing the argument, Idk why he thinks that’s a childish “baby” move. As for being moody, i have a resting bitch face. I just can’t help it. Sometimes, i become so cheerful, it drains my energy and I do quiet down a bit to regain it.
All things aside, he has stopped texting me. He stopped calling. He stopped meeting me alone. All I want from him is love and attention. Quality time. While i love diamonds, I don’t need them to be happy or be in love with me. I just need some time together and he refuses to understand it or pretends to not understand it.
We had a few big fights, with one of them leading upto a breakup that didn’t last that long. I have not forced him to be in a relationship, he chooses to be in it. I don’t know how to get this to work.
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Oct 21, 2015Comments: 11066 · Posts: 36034 · Topics: 110
How long have you been together? Also your ages pls
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Oct 21, 2015Comments: 11066 · Posts: 36034 · Topics: 110
How long has it been since you talked last? Days? Weeks? Months? 😬😬
Just drop him tbh. As a Leo I'm pretty sure he's cheating on you in some form. Sounds harsh I know but, you deserve better.
Now let me make you understand something that we leos sometimes can be assholes,we do things the way we want Because we believe we are kings and queens of the world ,even if you ignore us we don't mind because millions out there we believe want us but you can attack us by our emotions.
We want praises and pampering and once we love we're in it for good,thats why we can't allow people in our hearts and behave like assholes.
When we our on our own ,I mean independent it's kind of hard to let us dance to other tunes ,tgis is the point we don't give a fuck and do things as we can. I dont know your zodiac ,but I'll tell you something,allow your boyfriend feel he's a king ,and dressing matters to us a lot,we like our ladies pretty and fashion wise but not too much.
Make him jealous after you pamper him and shower him with a lot of love.
Please pamper him for a long period of time be confident he loves you then turn to a bitch a little ,don't reply his text for a while,we are afraid of ignorance and we have insecurities,tgats why we cant let our guard down.
Find a way ro get into his heart,play him a little,he'll run back to you then yoive got him.
Plus when you get him dont take him for granted so he doesn't play you back and hurt you.he might make you jealous dont mind him.xoxo