Can anyone figure out how this guy really feels about me?
This topic was created in the Leo forum by candy10 on Tuesday, May 24, 2016 and has 2 replies.
This is a little bit complicated.
Me and this guy we started off as really good friends for like a couple of years. At the time he was talking to this other girl who he had a brief relationship with for about five months I'd say n then she left the country. and I was in to someone else too. He only spoke to the girl over the phone and messaged her, but they never saw each other.
We started meeting up more often and then he ended up telling me he likes me a lot and that he has . feelings for me. I was surprised because from his end all he ever seemed to do was look at other girls everytime we met up like and then he would look through my phone and talk to all my.friends. He said at the time he was compensating.
To be fair at the time I was in love.with some one else. BUT that other guy had left my life but I was finding it hard to move on. N here was this new guy telling me had feelings but I couldn't let myself be fully engaged or.give.him what he wanted, which was like a proper relationship. I even asked him at the time what about this other girl that hes talking to and he simply said he would drop her for me and slowly stop contact with her. He seemed quite adament at the time he was serious about me and he talked about marriage and kids even, not necessarily in a serious way but hinting he saw me as potentially being his wife.
Forward like a year, now I'm way more in to him than I was before but I have no idea how he feels. As at tht time he would talk about his feelings. But we still meet up as before and he actually treats me like we are dating in the sense that he's physical. As in hugging and kissing.
But when I say to him he doesn't tell me how he feels.and how hes emotionless he says I have a lot of making up to do because of the fact that a year ago I didn't give.him what he wanted.
Also I know for a fact he stil talks to the girl he used to go out with, And that he says the usual things a guy would say to a girl he likes as Iv read his messages.to her before. When I mention that he goes quiet and doesn't say a word.
Long story short it's like he's physically affectionate wit me but he doesn't show it with his words, n when I say anything he says I expect evrythng from him but give.him nothing and at the same time he's still in contact with the girl he used to date and I suspect is being quite expressive with her. But I don't actually know who he likes or who he really.wants.
In terms of meeting up he's fine with that..but it has cut down a lot. Before we used to meet up twice a week, now its every few weeks or he always has a reason why he can't. I dont really make a fuss over it but he tells me dont I see or realise he doesnt put much effort in to seeing me. And then hes like apparently its because of what I was like with him nearly a year ago now. I think isnt it high time he got over that.
When I'm not around and I get fed up he will suddenly be all like where we're you where did you go and imply that he misse
Me and this guy we started off as really good friends for like a couple of years. At the time he was talking to this other girl who he had a brief relationship with for about five months I'd say n then she left the country. and I was in to someone else too. He only spoke to the girl over the phone and messaged her, but they never saw each other.
We started meeting up more often and then he ended up telling me he likes me a lot and that he has . feelings for me. I was surprised because from his end all he ever seemed to do was look at other girls everytime we met up like and then he would look through my phone and talk to all my.friends. He said at the time he was compensating.
To be fair at the time I was in love.with some one else. BUT that other guy had left my life but I was finding it hard to move on. N here was this new guy telling me had feelings but I couldn't let myself be fully engaged or.give.him what he wanted, which was like a proper relationship. I even asked him at the time what about this other girl that hes talking to and he simply said he would drop her for me and slowly stop contact with her. He seemed quite adament at the time he was serious about me and he talked about marriage and kids even, not necessarily in a serious way but hinting he saw me as potentially being his wife.
Forward like a year, now I'm way more in to him than I was before but I have no idea how he feels. As at tht time he would talk about his feelings. But we still meet up as before and he actually treats me like we are dating in the sense that he's physical. As in hugging and kissing.
But when I say to him he doesn't tell me how he feels.and how hes emotionless he says I have a lot of making up to do because of the fact that a year ago I didn't give.him what he wanted.
Also I know for a fact he stil talks to the girl he used to go out with, And that he says the usual things a guy would say to a girl he likes as Iv read his messages.to her before. When I mention that he goes quiet and doesn't say a word.
Long story short it's like he's physically affectionate wit me but he doesn't show it with his words, n when I say anything he says I expect evrythng from him but give.him nothing and at the same time he's still in contact with the girl he used to date and I suspect is being quite expressive with her. But I don't actually know who he likes or who he really.wants.
In terms of meeting up he's fine with that..but it has cut down a lot. Before we used to meet up twice a week, now its every few weeks or he always has a reason why he can't. I dont really make a fuss over it but he tells me dont I see or realise he doesnt put much effort in to seeing me. And then hes like apparently its because of what I was like with him nearly a year ago now. I think isnt it high time he got over that.
When I'm not around and I get fed up he will suddenly be all like where we're you where did you go and imply that he misse
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When I'm not around and I get fed up he will suddenly be all like where we're you where did you go and imply that he missed me, yet not try to contact me himself first. An we always end up arguing hw a couple would.
I just think do you want me to do everything first.
p.s he's a leo
When I'm not around and I get fed up he will suddenly be all like where we're you where did you go and imply that he missed me, yet not try to contact me himself first. An we always end up arguing hw a couple would.
I just think do you want me to do everything first.
p.s he's a leo
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