Chart Savvy Leos..could you help?

Rising Sign is in 09 Degrees Gemini
Sun is in 18 Degrees Leo.
Moon is in 16 Degrees Aries.
Mercury is in 03 Degrees Leo.
Venus is in 15 Degrees Leo.
Mars is in 02 Degrees Cancer.
Jupiter is in 19 Degrees Leo.
Saturn is in 13 Degrees Virgo.
Uranus is in 17 Degrees Scorpio.
Neptune is in 17 Degrees Sagittarius.
Pluto is in 17 Degrees Libra.
N. Node is in 08 Degrees Virgo

This is my natal chart. I have always looked at the sun sign but have been learning through here there is more then just your sun sign. Now I am trying to decipher how my chart plays into my personality. I have learned I least have a good Trine with Leo other than my sun sign.

Not only do you have a ton of fire as Mufasa stated but you have 5 Fixed placements. I imagine you must get your way the majority of the time. Compromise might be difficult for you.

You should be a little soft with Mars in Cancer. That's not a masculine sign however, all that heat will boil any water. You probably emasculate most men. It's not your fault you would have to work very hard not to.

You should research stelliums because you have one in Leo. People with stelliums usually lead very lonely lives and rarely have happy endings. You have no balance.

Maybe I am wrong astrology is full of inaccuracies but in the event I am not, I find knowledge is power. Getting to know you will help you beyond belief.

Good Luck

Seraph, Pretty on point with what you listed. I am very strong personality and take things head on, and if you are in my way then you will be a victim of sorts. But, I also have cooled some of my fire down by being self observant with my personal emotions. I am very analytic to an excruciating degree. I would disagree with the big picture part. I tend to take things down to the smallest detail and build it back up to the big picture. I have a strong organizational business acumen. Strategic Planning is one of my strong areas. I do have strong grounding in my morals and values and hold tight on them. In my other life, the one before being a wife and mother, I wanted to be a Forensic Psychologist and work in DV and SA in prevention, education, and advocacy. So I am very, what would you say cause oriented. If I grew up during the 70s I would prolly be leading the protesting. There is not much that will get me down. Hell, I won't have it. If it knocks me down you better be damn sure I am coming out fighting and learning on the way not to make the choices again.

Yes, I am sensitive and I am known to go into my depressive states when things are not in order as they should be. And sometimes I need someone or something to give me a good swift kick in the ass for me to get back on my game.

I will say, when I was younger, no, not a good negotiator. I have become much better and less a stronger force. But the key hear is you have to present logical reasons why there should be compromise or change. If you do not or present it based on emotions, I will not hold credence to it. I can play the devils advocate and I am open to it as well. But as Nala said, she thinks I must get my way most of the time. Uh, yeah on point. But I am able to bend if it makes logical sense to me.

Nala,

Yes, I tend to get my way. But I have learned how to compromise. However, as mentioned above you have to be able to present valid and logical arguments for me to consider the thought. On the men part, yes I can see that. I will not be lesser in any position. I will have to be an equal. That is one thing I learned, I would need someone strong who can meet me toe to toe and who is willing to challenge me. My ex could not and was very dependent on me. To an extent he even admitted he was afraid to speak to me. But I told him over and over again over the years, yes I come out in a discussion hot and heave, especially if it is something I have firm beliefs in, but if you are able to match me and give me those valid and logical arguments I will cool off. He is and has been a very introvert.

Interesting what you said regarding balance. May have to look into that. I am always working on balance in my life. When my life is perceived out of balance I lose it a little, if it is completely out of balance I launch into depression and withdraw. It is very hard to get into insecurities. Only two people in my life have done that. My ex best friend who is a Scorpio and during a fall out she used them against me with sting. I wrote her off after that. And my Virgo friend. I don't know why he has been able to do that. No, wait, I am choosing to open up because I am learning closing off and protecting my vulnerabilities is not working. I can not fix myself all the time and I have to allow those who are willing to be there for me do just that. I can't be the savior all the time, I need to be saved too. If that makes sense?

Hmm, curious. I just realized, even though I looked at the chart several time, my moon is in Aries. My oldest child it an Aries born on the first day of Zodiac Calender, March 21. She choose that day. 10 days early but 40 hours labor. She could easily been a Pisces. I totally understand her. I get her personality. I understand her just cause nature. I understand her competitiveness and even her own self competitiveness. I am the only one that can really talk to her especially when she gets very self critical. Could my moon placement play a part in our interesting and very close bond?

Jynja, hope this is what you are looking for.

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Leo 18.57 Ascendant Gemini 9.59
Moon Aries 16.10 II Cancer 4.28
Mercury Leo 3.14 III Cancer 27.56
Venus Leo 15.18 IV Leo 23.59
Mars Cancer 2.27 V Virgo 25.39
Jupiter Leo 19.48 VI Scorpio 2.52
Saturn Virgo 13.39 VII Sagittarius 9.59
Uranus Scorpio 17.02 VIII Capricorn 4.28
Neptune Sagittarius 17.49 R IX Capricorn 27.56
Pluto Libra 17.02 Midheaven Aquarius 23.59
Lilith Virgo 3.42 XI Pisces 25.39
Asc node Virgo 8.28 XII Taurus 2.52

Planet Aspect Planet Orb/Value
Sun Trine Moon 2.47 186
Sun Conjunction Venus 3.39 648
Sun Conjunction Jupiter 0.51 824
Sun Square Uranus 1.55 -133
Sun Trine Neptune 1.08 155
Sun Sextile Pluto 1.55 172
Sun Opposition Midheaven 5.03 -132
Moon Trine Venus 0.51 143
Moon Trine Jupiter 3.38 76
Moon Trine Neptune 1.39 87
Moon Opposition Pluto 0.52 -181
Venus Conjunction Jupiter 4.29 264
Venus Square Uranus 1.44 -71
Venus Trine Neptune 2.31 62
Venus Sextile Pluto 1.44 91
Venus Opposition Midheaven 8.41 -5
Jupiter Square Uranus 2.45 -43
Jupiter Trine Neptune 1.59 53
Jupiter Sextile Pluto 2.46 37
Jupiter Opposition Midheaven 4.12 -53
Saturn Sextile Uranus 3.23 21
Saturn Square Neptune 4.10 -18
Saturn Square Ascendant 3.40 -16
Neptune Sextile Pluto 0.47 48
Neptune Opposition Ascendant 7.50 -5
Pluto Trine Ascendant 7.03 1
Pluto Trine Midheaven 6.58 1
2869 -657 2212

Chiron Taurus 13.59
Ceres Aries 19.34
Pallas Aquarius 24.08 R
Juno Gemini 22.43
Vesta Taurus 16.49
Fortune Aries 0.00
South node Aries 0.00

This did not post the way I had it set sorry.

Posted by seraph


When you have trouble opening a jar, do you scream at it (which usually works)? 😛

Yes, I either yell at, break it, or just give it to my strong Aries daughter who has more patience and strength then me to open. The latter works the best I have found through trial and error.

Posted by seraph
Can you post your Houses as well?

Nala made a good point. Let's zero in on your Houses and see about other potential stelliums.

Seraph- Thank you, I will try to break it out tomorrow. Hopefully I get it right.

@Jynja

"If you pursue things of little importance forcefully without conscious thought to conserving the little energy you have, you'll end up losing good opportunities.
I'd say, learn to leave some energy to pursue things that are fun to you."

Wow!! If this is not one of the things I am actually trying to learn and figure out in myself. I realize I put so much energy into everything and spread myself so thin. I have done this for many many years. Physical, emotional and mental energies. I get so bad sometimes I literally wear myself out where my body goes into force shut down mode to make me rest. This is an area in my life I am really trying to find that balance in my life. And yes, trying to find fun. I need to in this point of my life with the transition I am making from married to single. In the point you made with the bowing out. I have been working on this for awhile now. I have gotten better at it when it comes to discussions or arguments and have been learning to know my limit.

I do have steady work and actually in my industry and profession I tend to have longevity. In seven years I have been with two companies, not counting the one I got laid off from after the aquisition. Whereas, most people stay with one company anywhere from 1yr-2yrs. But yes, I do feel I can do it all and get those feelings of doing something different, but in line with my goals. My kids keep me grounded with that. And yes, I need my autonomy.

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@Jynja

Love the children part and it is on par. They are amazing kids and I always get the best compliments how wonderful and great they are. They have made it through these rough changes in their lives with amazing grace, some falls, but overall they have amazed me.

One question, what in my chart affects my health? This intrigues me as my health is something that aggravates me. At 28, I was diagnosed with diabetes. That I have under control and not even on meds anymore. But I tend to be hit with the most unusual and dangerous afflictions. I was diagnosed with a heart condition related to pregnancy that can be life threatening after my youngest was born. I was 23. A year later I had menegitis. Almost four years ago I had internal bleeding. I am being treated for my second episode of blood clots. First was when I was 14 after a severe car accident. A month later and it broke from leg to my lungs. The most recent after my lumbar surgery back in Feb, over Easter weekend I was in the hospital with pulmonary embolisms. They now want to do genetic testing on me. I do get why these freaky things happen and quite frankly it makes me mad. But then again, nothing keeps me down or will defeat me, neither will death.

Almost forgot. Seraph-Nala-Jynja. Thank you so much for your input you have given. I am in the self discovery and finding me. Making those changes in myself that also need to be made that are not working for me in my life. I went into this not really know what I wanted to know, but curious to see what it may reveal about me and maybe help me understand why I may do somethings so I may address anything that may need to be fixed. I am gracious to the time you put into this. Thank you!!!