confession

This topic was created in the Leo forum by starrynight on Tuesday, January 31, 2017 and has 10 replies.
Just curious, how will Leo Guys reacts when a girl confess to you?

And what's the difference in treatment if the girl who confess to you just nice to be the girl you like AND don't like?
I'm not a guy but I'm a Leo and I'd be flattered if someone was crushing on me but I admit if i didnt like a guy who obviously liked me Id do everything just to avoid him, and at the same time be super aware of his every move from that point on and if I do like that person I'd try to initiate something to get a relationship going.
Are you in a situation with a Leo?

If a Leo likes you, you'll probably already know. Some Leos can be harder to read (like us earth sign Moon Leos), but generally speaking if a Leo is circling around you (talking to you consistently, physically putting himself around you, inviting you out), he likes you. If he's touching you, trying to make you laugh, and giving you gifts, he definitely likes you. Leos aren't big on mystery. We can be flirtatious and coy, but eventually we'll pounce.

If you confess you like a Leo and he likes you back, he'll be more than warm about it. Leos are fine with chasing a girl for a bit, but there HAS to be a goal. We like to know there is a reason/reward to our pursuit. He'll basically make all of the moves at that point, but will want your attention in the process (not necessarily in the needy way, but in an appreciative way). He'll try to be proud, funny, and manly around you.

If you confess you like a Leo and he doesn't like you back, he'll probably say something along the lines of, "Oh wow, thanks...I'm flattered but I (insert excuse to let you down easy)." Leos aren't malicious by design, though Leos with over-inflated egos can be pompous, boastful, and vain. He may simply take the ego boost or he may boast to his friends how so many girls want him. He may avoid you briefly until it's clear that nothing will develop, but he'll probably just downplay it instead and never bring it up again.
Posted by Chuckcem
Are you in a situation with a Leo?

Yeah, in a situation with a LEO. Just like you've mentioned, he was very initiative at the start but at that time I was dating with another guy.

Recently, I ended with the other guy cause I wanted to chase this LEO guy back as I like him at the later part, however it seems that during the period after he knew that I was dating another guy, he went ahead and chase other girl.

So after I end with my guy, I did confess to LEO that actually I like him. He didn't replied me at all. Cause I guess he might be quite occupied with chasing that new girl.

Cause to me, I just feel like at least I've confessed to him and have no regrets even if he does or does not reciprocate on my confession. smile
Posted by 90210
I'm not a guy but I'm a Leo and I'd be flattered if someone was crushing on me but I admit if i didnt like a guy who obviously liked me Id do everything just to avoid him, and at the same time be super aware of his every move from that point on and if I do like that person I'd try to initiate something to get a relationship going.


If you don't like him and if he is persistent, will it change anything?

OR

if the guy just give you space and don't care/ignore you after he confessed to you, will you feel weird or strange about his absence? smile
Posted by starrynight
Posted by Chuckcem
Are you in a situation with a Leo?

Yeah, in a situation with a LEO. Just like you've mentioned, he was very initiative at the start but at that time I was dating with another guy.

Recently, I ended with the other guy cause I wanted to chase this LEO guy back as I like him at the later part, however it seems that during the period after he knew that I was dating another guy, he went ahead and chase other girl.

So after I end with my guy, I did confess to LEO that actually I like him. He didn't replied me at all. Cause I guess he might be quite occupied with chasing that new girl.

Cause to me, I just feel like at least I've confessed to him and have no regrets even if he does or does not reciprocate on my confession. smile
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Something to remember is that Leos don't chase indefinitely. Our pride simply won't let us unless we are young/inexperienced. We only chase for as long as we can see progress and an eventual reward. My guess is he may currently be with the other girl or at least very close to being with her. Contrary to popular belief, Leos aren't the players we are perceived to be. I myself can only focus on one girl at a time. It's very possible this girl has his full attention. In which case the only thing you can do is move on and let him come to you if he chooses to do so.

Posted by Chuckcem
Posted by starrynight
Posted by Chuckcem
Are you in a situation with a Leo?

Yeah, in a situation with a LEO. Just like you've mentioned, he was very initiative at the start but at that time I was dating with another guy.

Recently, I ended with the other guy cause I wanted to chase this LEO guy back as I like him at the later part, however it seems that during the period after he knew that I was dating another guy, he went ahead and chase other girl.

So after I end with my guy, I did confess to LEO that actually I like him. He didn't replied me at all. Cause I guess he might be quite occupied with chasing that new girl.

Cause to me, I just feel like at least I've confessed to him and have no regrets even if he does or does not reciprocate on my confession. smile


Something to remember is that Leos don't chase indefinitely. Our pride simply won't let us unless we are young/inexperienced. We only chase for as long as we can see progress and an eventual reward. My guess is he may currently be with the other girl or at least very close to being with her. Contrary to popular belief, Leos aren't the players we are perceived to be. I myself can only focus on one girl at a time. It's very possible this girl has his full attention. In which case the only thing you can do is move on and let him come to you if he chooses to do so.

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Really appreciate your replies. I've decided to move on after my confession.

But on the other hand, just curious, will LEOs go back to chase a girl whom they have chase before?

Posted by starrynight

Really appreciate your replies. I've decided to move on after my confession.

But on the other hand, just curious, will LEOs go back to chase a girl whom they have chase before?

It's possible.

I had a very similar situation. Before I started dating a Libra, I got a number from a Sag. She was cool and I found out she had a boyfriend. I stopped my pursuit, but remained friends with her. One night she let me know that she was going to hang out with her "ex", but didn't give me much more information to go on beyond that. (From what I know her ex was her bf she'd just broken up with). Having been around the ol' metaphorical dating block before, I knew I didn't want to get involved with a girl who had just gotten out of a relationship.

I started talking more with the Libra and would see the Sag woman from time to time because she worked at a bar I frequented. As I grew closer to the Libra, I backed away from the Sag more until I stopped talking to her altogether. Eventually I became completely focused on the Libra woman. A few months past and out of the blue the Sag woman called me wanting to hang out randomly. I declined, but dropped by her bar sometime after that with a buddy of mine. At the bar she asked me about my life and I let her know that I was seeing someone. Her face went from smiling to frowning and she walked away. After she collected herself she came back and was fine. Well things didn't work out with the Libra, so once things ended I contacted the Sag to hang out.

So if you didn't reject him outright, there's a chance he'll swing back around if the other girl leaves the picture. My advice though is not to wait on him. He may come back, he may not.
Posted by aquarius_beauty

What if he had confessed he had feelings. We got into an argument. I came back and told him how I felt but he didn't reply back?
(Feel free to PM me details of your story btw)

Again it's possible. We fixed sign people don't like to let go. Also Leos can handle quite a bit of drama, so arguments are necessarily enough to drive us away. What are his placements and what are yours? The miscommunication may have turned him off. Then again if you told him your feelings (unless you rejected him), he should be ok to come back around. I guess the details would help.

Posted by Chuckcem
Posted by starrynight

Really appreciate your replies. I've decided to move on after my confession.

But on the other hand, just curious, will LEOs go back to chase a girl whom they have chase before?

It's possible.

I had a very similar situation. Before I started dating a Libra, I got a number from a Sag. She was cool and I found out she had a boyfriend. I stopped my pursuit, but remained friends with her. One night she let me know that she was going to hang out with her "ex", but didn't give me much more information to go on beyond that. (From what I know her ex was her bf she'd just broken up with). Having been around the ol' metaphorical dating block before, I knew I didn't want to get involved with a girl who had just gotten out of a relationship.

I started talking more with the Libra and would see the Sag woman from time to time because she worked at a bar I frequented. As I grew closer to the Libra, I backed away from the Sag more until I stopped talking to her altogether. Eventually I became completely focused on the Libra woman. A few months past and out of the blue the Sag woman called me wanting to hang out randomly. I declined, but dropped by her bar sometime after that with a buddy of mine. At the bar she asked me about my life and I let her know that I was seeing someone. Her face went from smiling to frowning and she walked away. After she collected herself she came back and was fine. Well things didn't work out with the Libra, so once things ended I contacted the Sag to hang out.

So if you didn't reject him outright, there's a chance he'll swing back around if the other girl leaves the picture. My advice though is not to wait on him. He may come back, he may not.
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I didn't reject him outright, cause I told him I like him.

And it feels more like he reject me and keep me out of his life cause he went from warm, to cold to distant and there is a bit of drama because I did approach him and ask what did I do wrong or do that make him distant himself from me and yet he just treats it as nothing. It feels more like he rejects me and get me out of his life and spend his energy on someone else who gives him better attention when I realised it was all too late.

Thanks Chuckem!