Confusing Leo Man

This topic was created in the Leo forum by watchherfly on Wednesday, July 22, 2015 and has 13 replies.
I started dating a Leo man 3 months ago and it's just been confusing. He tells me one thing but he's actions are totally different. We're basically around each other every other day and on the phone all day long. He always talk about a future with me, told me that once he gets back on his feet he'll have my back. I meant his daughter after he told me he wouldn't introduce her to anyone he's not serious with. Always tell me he appreciates everything that I do for him & always being there when he needs me. So I told Sunday that I really liked him and I'm not trying to rush anything but I don't want him to lead me on. Told me he wouldn't do that and he likes me but doesn't want to commit right now. So I ignored him completely yesterday, didn't see a reason to. He calls a friend of ours saying he doesn't want to lose me. That I deserve the world and because he's not able to give it to me right now he doesn't want to commit.
So I call him today and we have a hated conversation. He basically told me that I'm a good girl, but he doesn't want to commit until he gets himself together. I understand that completely. He continues with if I feel like I'm wasting my time then I am welcome to leave. He doesn't have any feelings towards anyone right because he's only worried about him & his kids. Said thats why he doesn't like to talk about feelings because everything changes. And now he's bringing over my stuff. It's just confusing as hell!!! I never said I wanted a commitment NOW just was asking a general question. What change? First you a appreciate everything I do & don't want to lose me now you're ready to throw me to the side so quick???
His


Sun Leo
Moon Pisces
Mercury Virgo
Venus Virgo
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Capricorn
Saturn Scorpio
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
Lilith Pisces
Asc node Gemini

Mines

Sun Aries
Ascendant Leo
Moon Leo
Mercury Taurus
Venus Aries
Mars Gemini
Jupiter Gemini
Saturn Capricorn
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Libra
Asc node Pisces

I'm guessing that a bad thing? I'm not too familiar with other signs and only the sun sign. Lol

What should I do? He hasn't come yet to bring my stuff.
Posted by Ssupes
Just give the guy some time. When he's ready, he will commit. He has kids to think of also. We figure stuff out and it usually don't take long. Just don't talk about the future or feelz right now. Just grow on him, everything will fall into place naturally

This ^^^
Once he's figured out this part of his life (kids, etc.) he'll have more room to think about things like commitment. And he WILL let you know when he's ready for that. Until then, just chill with him.
so sorry to say this but i must tell you .... please beware of the leo man that promises to do things for you once he gets on his feet!! dont get me wrong leos tend to be generous when they suddenly come across a big stack of cash, but generally most leo men dont like to work or keep a stable income. They tend to get involved into some type of money scheme, come across some cash and relax for double the time and expect their loved ones to help them out because of their charm. Also leos love to tell fairy tells. They usually like to make people feel special by lying or exagerating. A leo man will be the sweetest while getting what he needs from you but when u stop giving it to him he becomes resentful and finds someone else to do it for him because he believes he is such a god to deserve it. just make sure you are not getting used!!
Posted by sweetnsoursauce
so sorry to say this but i must tell you .... please beware of the leo man that promises to do things for you once he gets on his feet!! dont get me wrong leos tend to be generous when they suddenly come across a big stack of cash, but generally most leo men dont like to work or keep a stable income. They tend to get involved into some type of money scheme, come across some cash and relax for double the time and expect their loved ones to help them out because of their charm. Also leos love to tell fairy tells. They usually like to make people feel special by lying or exagerating. A leo man will be the sweetest while getting what he needs from you but when u stop giving it to him he becomes resentful and finds someone else to do it for him because he believes he is such a god to deserve it. just make sure you are not getting used!!

One really hurt you? Try not to let it make you bitter. I've not been on dxpnet very long, but read a lot of threads. It seems shitty *individuals* exists under *every* sign. In the end, individuals, not signs, hurt other individuals.
Thank you so much for your response. I really appreciate all your advise. Not that I am waiting for him to repay in anyway, but I hope that's not the case sweetnsoursauce.
One thing is for certain...


" And now he's bringing over my stuff. "


He's serious.

Believe him, or don't.

Your choice. smile

Posted by KittyKnitter
i would think he loves you but he is working on his priorities right now. and he needs time to catch up. you are at different pace and maybe different place mentally and emotionally than he is,. not that he isn't into you but if he commits, it will happen when things are in balance. you have to be patient for that but so does he. he feels pressure and he also doesn't want you to be in limbo while he deals with his stuff. he doesn't want to fail.and he doesn't want you to compromise yourself either. that is a love thing. not a leo thing. but leos do push back when pushed.

so he is bringing your stuff to show you that you can make the choice. if you don't want to change things, then tell him so.

i went through this with taurus and we split but reunited. and we worked things out by negotiating the details. the main thing is that you are together. not what you call it or what others think. that's real life. so if you love him and he loves you, you can work together and both get what you want. say you will help him sort things out and take things at a pace that works for both of you. or choose to go elsewhere.


+1

its ironic that my leo bf too has virgo mercury and virgo venus n i do have taurus mercury n aries venus ..
I did talk with him about taking a further step way after he asked to be exclusive.. so i thought he might be ready but we talked about it openly and i am now patient a out it.. to be honest im not that ready either.. so im just seeing how things go and i thinm its better u do that as well.. no pressure .. no rush.. as long as it is within the time frame u gave for both of u ...
Hello I'm a libra and I love my leo man we had the most perfect relationship and engaged to be married till I found out he was cheating.... he said it was due to his fear of me leaving him and that I wasn't giving him attention. .... he says he loves me and wants to make things work out and wants to marry me and that he needs tike to work on his self he asked for 2 weeks apart I feel like my world is crashing down I have already called him crying 3 times and it's only my 2nd day away.... not sure if I should stop calling and let him contact me I don't want to make things worse..... I just want things to be fixed and to go back to being happy again... I am so scared of loosing him I feel like my world is crashing down
Hello I'm a libra and I love my leo man we had the most perfect relationship and engaged to be married till I found out he was cheating.... he said it was due to his fear of me leaving him and that I wasn't giving him attention. .... he says he loves me and wants to make things work out and wants to marry me and that he needs tike to work on his self he asked for 2 weeks apart I feel like my world is crashing down I have already called him crying 3 times and it's only my 2nd day away.... not sure if I should stop calling and let him contact me I don't want to make things worse..... I just want things to be fixed and to go back to being happy again... I am so scared of loosing him I feel like my world is crashing down
I really appreciate your input, but it's better to let this one go. Apparently he's been lying to me the whole time. He's been spending time with his ex girl, so I don't have a choice but to get all of my belongs and move on. I want to tell him how I really feel, but I know he wouldn't care.