Do Leos appreciate others going above and beyond?

In this case, Leo and I had a miscommunication over text message.He's not talking to me right now. We liked each other a lot and what's worse is that he's out of town. I tried calling him and left him a voicemail. Next day nothing. I got upset and blocked him on facebook. I was annoyed and after cooling off and I realized that I acted impulsively. I unblocked him. Tried one more time through IM and he read my message and ignored it. He should be in town soon, so is it bad for me to go his place and try talking to him in person? If you're curious, I can't think of anything that would make him distant. It's been 2 weeks.

From what I have read, Leos are generally forgiving and don't dwell on fights for long....unless their pride is hurt, in which case they prefer to go away and hide, lick their wounds etc. What did you actually write in the message? Maybe he's scared you are just going to blame him, that's why he's retreating/ignoring? They are also insecure so maybe he blames himself and again, hiding away through fear of being judged? It all hinges on how you approach him I feel. Apologise, let him know you don't blame him and be gentle....good luck 🙂

When I look at my message, I failed to apologize. I just said that "whatever is going through your mind please tell me. I care about you, I really do. Please call me back." My next mistake is that I said, "if you don't want to, then this would be the last time we talk." I really didn't mean it. I was frustrated because he doesn't really express his feelings. Leos, please help an idiotic Aries female 😢

Posted by wednesdayschild
From what I have read, Leos are generally forgiving and don't dwell on fights for long....unless their pride is hurt, in which case they prefer to go away and hide, lick their wounds etc. What did you actually write in the message? Maybe he's scared you are just going to blame him, that's why he's retreating/ignoring? They are also insecure so maybe he blames himself and again, hiding away through fear of being judged? It all hinges on how you approach him I feel. Apologise, let him know you don't blame him and be gentle....good luck 🙂

I just wrote in the forum. I hope it's not bad :/

Don't really know what you mean, Dragonborn, but it's fine, use my thoughts how you wish 🙂

In his mind you are slightly crazy. Right now he is deciding whether or not he has the time and the energy to entertain crazy. You will know his decision by the end of the week one way or another.

The only thing you can do at this point to seem less crazy is nothing. I repeat do nothing.

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Don't really know what you mean, Dragonborn, but it's fine, use my thoughts how you wish 🙂

I meant I added an extra post in my forum.I meant to tag you and it didn't lol

Posted by Nala13
In his mind you are slightly crazy. Right now he is deciding whether or not he has the time and the energy to entertain crazy. You will know his decision by the end of the week one way or another.

The only thing you can do at this point to seem less crazy is nothing. I repeat do nothing.

Okay, how am I crazy? He was my friend before. I do this with everyone. Friends, family, etc because technology doesn't solve problems. Having a talk does. Anyways, if gave me a chance to talk, I would've understand whatever decision it stands.

You're not idiotic at all you just reacted with emotion as anyone would. He is reacting out of emotion as well, I think it's important to try and see both sides of things like this, from both person's perspective or how else can we resolve issues?
Maybe leave it for a while and see if he responds.

It's hard to say. Like literally a 50/50. Depends on how much he really likes you.

I know when me and my sag were on bad terms if he hadn't texted/called a million times and then came to my house we wouldn't have made up so quickly. We mightve talked again because I'm forgiving but who knows when I would have gotten bored enough to contact him.

Now on the other hand when my Leo ex hit me up a million times and threatened to kill himself. I didn't budge. I was through...

so it depends on the person I guess whether we will appreciate you going above and beyond or if we'll be annoyed and roll our eyes.

Either way can work for a Leo, if you stop giving him attention he will notice... if you go above and beyond he will also notice. Hard with a Leo. And I'm not so sure about the men

Posted by wednesdayschild
You're not idiotic at all you just reacted with emotion as anyone would. He is reacting out of emotion as well, I think it's important to try and see both sides of things like this, from both person's perspective or how else can we resolve issues?
Maybe leave it for a while and see if he responds.

I'll give it a couple months. Trust me, I can leave this alone, but the fact that this was a miscommunication, bugs me. Thank you for understanding.

Posted by Dragonborn14
I tried calling him and left him a voicemail. Next day nothing. I got upset and blocked him on facebook. I was annoyed and after cooling off and I realized that I acted impulsively. I unblocked him.

Lmfao, why do tards these days insist of blocking those they WANT to talk to? Like that's your first instinct?

"Omg so awkward, he didn't reply. I better block him as a preventive measure of some sort!"

"Ohh that bitch, I'm gonna show him by blocking him... and eventually unblocking him!"

Maybe I should mention that me and my sag we r together for s long period of time and had both already seen each others crazy side. My Leo ex we were together a few months and he just looked desperate and crazy to me.. he still texts me to this day and it's been like 6 years...


So with that being said, since yall relationship is fairly new (I think?) Then back off quit giving him so much sttention, play it cool

I guess there's not much to lose right now as he's not contacting you at all....wait a while and if he doesn't respond, try the softly approach I suggested.

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I tried calling him and left him a voicemail. Next day nothing. I got upset and blocked him on facebook. I was annoyed and after cooling off and I realized that I acted impulsively. I unblocked him.

Lmfao, why do tards these days insist of blocking those they WANT to talk to? Like that's your first instinct?

"Omg so awkward, he didn't reply. I better block him as a preventive measure of some sort!"

"Ohh that bitch, I'm gonna show him by blocking him... and eventually unblocking him!"

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It's called annoyance.

Posted by ragingfirelove
Maybe I should mention that me and my sag we r together for s long period of time and had both already seen each others crazy side. My Leo ex we were together a few months and he just looked desperate and crazy to me.. he still texts me to this day and it's been like 6 years...


So with that being said, since yall relationship is fairly new (I think?) Then back off quit giving him so much sttention, play it cool

We've been friends since May last year and started to like each other a month later til now. I can live my life, but the misunderstanding bugs me.

Enfant-terrible...a bit harsh, the word 'tard'? She is just being honest about what she did, she knows it wasn't right to block him...

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Posted by ragingfirelove
Maybe I should mention that me and my sag we r together for s long period of time and had both already seen each others crazy side. My Leo ex we were together a few months and he just looked desperate and crazy to me.. he still texts me to this day and it's been like 6 years...


So with that being said, since yall relationship is fairly new (I think?) Then back off quit giving him so much sttention, play it cool

We've been friends since May last year and started to like each other a month later til now. I can live my life, but the misunderstanding bugs me.

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Okay, yeah.. I'd just live my life. Unresolved misunderstandings bug me too. I'd probably send him one last message just saying That you really liked the time yall have spent together and your intentions are good (I assume they are). And that the misunderstanding bugs you. And then like you said just live you life and see if he comes around

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Maybe I should mention that me and my sag we r together for s long period of time and had both already seen each others crazy side. My Leo ex we were together a few months and he just looked desperate and crazy to me.. he still texts me to this day and it's been like 6 years...


So with that being said, since yall relationship is fairly new (I think?) Then back off quit giving him so much sttention, play it cool

We've been friends since May last year and started to like each other a month later til now. I can live my life, but the misunderstanding bugs me.

Okay, yeah.. I'd just live my life. Unresolved misunderstandings bug me too. I'd probably send him one last message just saying That you really liked the time yall have spent together and your intentions are good (I assume they are). And that the misunderstanding bugs you. And then like you said just live you life and see if he comes around

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My intentions good? Of course they are! I want to be with the guy LOL because going in person is a bit much, huh? I can send one last message in a few weeks. Hopes he responds *crosses fingers*

Completely unrelated, are you a skyrim fan?

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Completely unrelated, are you a skyrim fan?

Yes I am 🙂

I felt creative and thought about making an acrylic galaxy painting with a tardis perler attached since I know he loves doctor who and possibly some pokemon perler as an addition. The question I had myself is making another message to send or call him soon. I'm not good with words, but action shows that I want him in my life. What do you guys think?

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I felt creative and thought about making an acrylic galaxy painting with a tardis perler attached since I know he loves doctor who and possibly some pokemon perler as an addition. The question I had myself is making another message to send or call him soon. I'm not good with words, but action shows that I want him in my life. What do you guys think?

What are you... Sun and moon I mean.

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I felt creative and thought about making an acrylic galaxy painting with a tardis perler attached since I know he loves doctor who and possibly some pokemon perler as an addition. The question I had myself is making another message to send or call him soon. I'm not good with words, but action shows that I want him in my life. What do you guys think?

What are you... Sun and moon I mean.

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I'm a Pisces and I think Scorpio moon? Does that say anything to my personality? Would you consider gift offerings too much? Granted I haven't started and was just contemplating because I like him a lot.

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I felt creative and thought about making an acrylic galaxy painting with a tardis perler attached since I know he loves doctor who and possibly some pokemon perler as an addition. The question I had myself is making another message to send or call him soon. I'm not good with words, but action shows that I want him in my life. What do you guys think?

What are you... Sun and moon I mean.

I'm a Pisces and I think Scorpio moon? Does that say anything to my personality? Would you consider gift offerings too much? Granted I haven't started and was just contemplating because I like him a lot.

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Sorry, meant Aries in Sun since I'm on the cusp between Pisces and Aries.

Leos like to chase. Don't go after him. Ignore him, or pretend so. Keep silence for a while until he calms down. When he realizes he is losing you, he will come back. If he doesn't come back, he is already over you.

Posted by Leonessa
Leos like to chase. Don't go after him. Ignore him, or pretend so. Keep silence for a while until he calms down. When he realizes he is losing you, he will come back. If he doesn't come back, he is already over you.

Too true. I've thought about and I think I expose myself too much. I think I recalled that I told him that I prefer to chase because men chasing me bores me and the thrill of the hunt gets me going, but even so, he should've at least said something back :/

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Posted by Leonessa
Leos like to chase. Don't go after him. Ignore him, or pretend so. Keep silence for a while until he calms down. When he realizes he is losing you, he will come back. If he doesn't come back, he is already over you.

Too true. I've thought about and I think I expose myself too much. I think I recalled that I told him that I prefer to chase because men chasing me bores me and the thrill of the hunt gets me going, but even so, he should've at least said something back :/

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I think this is right! After I called my Leo 'friend' out about the fact that it was always me chasing him, he admitted to liking it, but I stopped. Lately it's been him chasing me to go out! Let's see if he finally gives in and admits to wanting more than friends 🙂

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Leos like to chase. Don't go after him. Ignore him, or pretend so. Keep silence for a while until he calms down. When he realizes he is losing you, he will come back. If he doesn't come back, he is already over you.

Too true. I've thought about and I think I expose myself too much. I think I recalled that I told him that I prefer to chase because men chasing me bores me and the thrill of the hunt gets me going, but even so, he should've at least said something back :/

I think this is right! After I called my Leo 'friend' out about the fact that it was always me chasing him, he admitted to liking it, but I stopped. Lately it's been him chasing me to go out! Let's see if he finally gives in and admits to wanting more than friends 🙂

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I hope it works in your favor, Wednesday 🙂 just be yourself.

Thank you so much 🙂

Posted by leow31

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Posted by Leonessa
Leos like to chase. Don't go after him. Ignore him, or pretend so. Keep silence for a while until he calms down. When he realizes he is losing you, he will come back. If he doesn't come back, he is already over you.

Too true. I've thought about and I think I expose myself too much. I think I recalled that I told him that I prefer to chase because men chasing me bores me and the thrill of the hunt gets me going, but even so, he should've at least said something back :/

Ignore him. Trust. Leos love confident people, you've done enough now it's up to him.

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Thank you leow31

Posted by wednesdayschild
From what I have read, Leos are generally forgiving and don't dwell on fights for long....unless their pride is hurt, in which case they prefer to go away and hide, lick their wounds etc. What did you actually write in the message? Maybe he's scared you are just going to blame him, that's why he's retreating/ignoring? They are also insecure so maybe he blames himself and again, hiding away through fear of being judged? It all hinges on how you approach him I feel. Apologise, let him know you don't blame him and be gentle....good luck 🙂

yeah i feel hurt with blame QQ so I take some time alone ...until i open messages for some people blaming me for taking my time. Smh..
hm..
although I say if pride is hurt then the dwelling isn't that long but if
the heart is hurt, then yeah..I'd say it'd be long.

I ..must applaud you for your excellent observations.