
TheAviator
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Posted by TheAviatorIf thats the case wheres your ring??
And he said he's waiting till marriage but now, he changed his mind because he knows I'm the one he wants to marry so it doesn't make a difference whether he loses his virginity to me or not.
Please help me out! My virginity is a big deal to me and I don't want to lose it to a liar!


Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by TheAviatorIf thats the case wheres your ring??
And he said he's waiting till marriage but now, he changed his mind because he knows I'm the one he wants to marry so it doesn't make a difference whether he loses his virginity to me or not.
Please help me out! My virginity is a big deal to me and I don't want to lose it to a liar!
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Posted by GetMistedLMAOPosted by TheAviatorNever met?
We have only been together for 3 months. And we're in a LDR waiting to meet, so that's why we can't get married at the moment.
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Posted by ChrisxKodakHe's still willing to wait. And I did. I had a trap question where I made up a white lie for him. I told him I love him too much and I don't care whether he is virgin or not. I told him it's okay for him to lie to give us a chance (that I never regretted) and to put the pressure off sex. Then he said:Posted by TheAviatorYou can either
My boyfriend says he is a virgin. And he:
- Acts really shy and nervous around me.
- Doesn't know what to do about sexual things and is clueless.
- I almost always had to initiate something sexual.
- Gets embarrassed when he says "pussy".
- Respects my decision to hold off sex (I am also a virgin. I initiated the topic and everything).
- Says that he lies to his friends about his virginity so they would not pressure him to lose it by bringing him to a strip club.
But I have my doubts. Because he told me his ex girlfriend never kissed him on the neck and I found out he lied to me. He told me he lied because he didn't want to make me jealous and didn't want to talk or think about her. He just wants to think about me doing it. And when we sext, he's pretty good but that is because he watched a lot of porn. And he said he's waiting till marriage but now, he changed his mind because he knows I'm the one he wants to marry so it doesn't make a difference whether he loses his virginity to me or not.
Please help me out! My virginity is a big deal to me and I don't want to lose it to a liar!
1) Get it out of him with lead in questions (trap him)
or
2) Just wait till marriage and see if he can play keepaway till then. If he forces the issue, then he's probably doesn't hold the same values then you have to make a decision.
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Posted by Arielle83This.
Oh god you're manipulating him because you have trust issues.
So many red flags

Posted by ChuckcemYup.Posted by Arielle83This.
Oh god you're manipulating him because you have trust issues.
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Posted by TheAviatorYou've "been together" for 3 months but haven't met? I'm not even sure he's telling the truth that he's a Leo.
We have only been together for 3 months. And we're in a LDR waiting to meet, so that's why we can't get married at the moment.
Posted by TheAviatorHe told you he's a virgin and your still prying for a new story. The fact that he even had to admit lying about being kissed on the neck by his ex is enough for me to know you are reaching hard in your conversations with him. Stop looking for lies and work on your trust issues with yourself before you try being with someone.
I'm manipulating him? How?
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- Acts really shy and nervous around me.
- Doesn't know what to do about sexual things and is clueless.
- I almost always had to initiate something sexual.
- Gets embarrassed when he says "pussy".
- Respects my decision to hold off sex (I am also a virgin. I initiated the topic and everything).
- Says that he lies to his friends about his virginity so they would not pressure him to lose it by bringing him to a strip club.
But I have my doubts. Because he told me his ex girlfriend never kissed him on the neck and I found out he lied to me. He told me he lied because he didn't want to make me jealous and didn't want to talk or think about her. He just wants to think about me doing it. And when we sext, he's pretty good but that is because he watched a lot of porn. And he said he's waiting till marriage but now, he changed his mind because he knows I'm the one he wants to marry so it doesn't make a difference whether he loses his virginity to me or not.
Please help me out! My virginity is a big deal to me and I don't want to lose it to a liar!