Fellow Leos??

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Do you ever get told you are too sexually aggressive? I believe i have an addiction to sex and an extremely high sex drive, coupled with a gemini venus and yea, you already know the problems that come with that. sometimes i visualize myself with 8 girls at once..... they say scorpios are suppose to be the most sexed but damn, as a leo man i tell you,,, i cant get enough.

i was told by an old pisces friend of mine that she couldnt date me because i would cheat on her in a heartbeat.

anyways... leos... do you guys suffer from high sex drive syndrome as well, or is it only me——?

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Posted by AL4813
Do you ever get told you are too sexually aggressive? I believe i have an addiction to sex and an extremely high sex drive, coupled with a gemini venus and yea, you already know the problems that come with that. sometimes i visualize myself with 8 girls at once..... they say scorpios are suppose to be the most sexed but damn, as a leo man i tell you,,, i cant get enough.

i was told by an old pisces friend of mine that she couldnt date me because i would cheat on her in a heartbeat.

anyways... leos... do you guys suffer from high sex drive syndrome as well, or is it only me——?



your words would make the best of kitty's dry up save for maybe an old crackhead. you sound cheap n easy. yuck....
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Leo rules the 5th house, which rules fun and games, romance and recreational sex. So if any have a strong 5th house, it's easy to understand they like sex. 😆

Could try looking for places that do group sex or orgies. Or drink coffee to lower your sex drive.
Either way, Leo gives Scorpio a run for it's money in the sex department.

Also could try work outs/exercises to help burn/channel all that sexual energy.
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Posted by AL4813
Do you ever get told you are too sexually aggressive? I believe i have an addiction to sex and an extremely high sex drive, coupled with a gemini venus and yea, you already know the problems that come with that. sometimes i visualize myself with 8 girls at once..... they say scorpios are suppose to be the most sexed but damn, as a leo man i tell you,,, i cant get enough.

i was told by an old pisces friend of mine that she couldnt date me because i would cheat on her in a heartbeat.

anyways... leos... do you guys suffer from high sex drive syndrome as well, or is it only me——?



My old Leo guy was sexually aggressive. I didn't mind it with me but he was someone who I realised had to have a lot of sex - whoever it was with, and he's gone from one girl to another...

You say you visualise 8 girls, but the question is, are you "acting" on it?

Your friend says you WOULD cheat, but the question is HAVE you cheated on someone coz they couldn't fulfil your sexual needs?

Do you feel you need to act it out for your sexual aggression to be fulfilled?
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Posted by AL4813
Do you ever get told you are too sexually aggressive? I believe i have an addiction to sex and an extremely high sex drive, coupled with a gemini venus and yea, you already know the problems that come with that. sometimes i visualize myself with 8 girls at once..... they say scorpios are suppose to be the most sexed but damn, as a leo man i tell you,,, i cant get enough.

i was told by an old pisces friend of mine that she couldnt date me because i would cheat on her in a heartbeat.

anyways... leos... do you guys suffer from high sex drive syndrome as well, or is it only me——?



My old Leo guy was sexually aggressive. I didn't mind it with me but he was someone who I realised had to have a lot of sex - whoever it was with, and he's gone from one girl to another...

You say you visualise 8 girls, but the question is, are you "acting" on it?

Your friend says you WOULD cheat, but the question is HAVE you cheated on someone coz they couldn't fulfil your sexual needs?

Do you feel you need to act it out for your sexual aggression to be fulfilled?
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the visualizing i guess could be more of a fantasy, of course i wouldnt act on it......... without permission.

i havent cheated... never will... a thing about leo men.. if we're in a committed relationship, we do NOT cheat.... yes my girl would need to be ready for some mega intense lovin.... nor would i leave her if she couldnt satisfy my intense cravings.... but man i would be suffering lol.
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Posted by AL4813


anyways... leos... do you guys suffer from high sex drive syndrome as well, or is it only me——?



Maybe it's only those of us who have Mars in Aries. Mine has aspects with Venus (square) and Pluto (quincunx), and I won't lie about it: I can be way too overwhelming for my partner at times, so I'm trying my best to be very careful.

My sex drive is tremendously huge.
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Come on, guys. Don't get so biased towards the Caps. You are aware that there are very great examples of them among us, and I'm sure that Kitten is just trolling. There's no need to take his/her words so personally. lol






I have no problem with Caps.

I happen to think they're a fairly noble lot, generally speaking.


Soo I'll forgo the lecture, but thanks anyway. 🙂




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Yes, IME the two most sexually aggressive men have been Leos.

Where I use to work there was a Leo guy (Leeb mooner) that was known to be a real skank at the place hooking up with women left and right. I won't deny that there was real chemistry between us, but he was too dirty for my taste. I kind of like them sweet and innocent 😉. He was always putting the moves on me and I was always turning him down.

It's always fun flirting with a Leo 😛
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ahhhhh my wonderful generous hot tempered yet caring leos.. I wanted to ask this question that has been rather having me scratch my head...

Now we leos are known for being very generous... we shower those we love with attention and gifts and we make sure everyone around us is having a great time and smiling, hell even strangers get a taste of our generosity. We leo men are known for spoiling our woman and getting her all the gifts in the world and treating her like she's the only woman that matters..

So how is it that people call us selfish?

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Well leos are attention who-res that can be considered selfish. Also gifting a women is selfless but perhaps you expect something in return which isn't considered selfless. Leos also need lots of praise which also can be considered "selfish" Idk leo is suppose to be my ideal partner i don't mind. Buy me gifts and ill give you the ass hahaha



lmao!!... you're hilarious curiousram..we dont expect anything in return.. its just naturally who we are...
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Posted by Curiousram
Well leos are attention who-res that can be considered selfish. Also gifting a women is selfless but perhaps you expect something in return which isn't considered selfless. Leos also need lots of praise which also can be considered "selfish" Idk leo is suppose to be my ideal partner i don't mind. Buy me gifts and ill give you the ass hahaha



lmao!!... you're hilarious curiousram..we dont expect anything in return.. its just naturally who we are...
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We do expect something: your devotion, in return--

The very same, no?



Cherish me. 😄

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Posted by Curiousram
Well leos are attention who-res that can be considered selfish. Also gifting a women is selfless but perhaps you expect something in return which isn't considered selfless. Leos also need lots of praise which also can be considered "selfish" Idk leo is suppose to be my ideal partner i don't mind. Buy me gifts and ill give you the ass hahaha



LOL!!!

But seriously though...

Leos are generous with their time as well as with gifts. A Leo LOVES to make others SMILE 😄, because YES it REALLY DOES make us FEEL GOOD. So if it's selfish to love making others happy, then bring on the "selfishness"!
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Posted by Curiousram
Well leos are attention who-res that can be considered selfish. Also gifting a women is selfless but perhaps you expect something in return which isn't considered selfless. Leos also need lots of praise which also can be considered "selfish" Idk leo is suppose to be my ideal partner i don't mind. Buy me gifts and ill give you the ass hahaha



But there are no truly selfless acts. Behind everything you and I do there are findamentally selfish motives. And what you in this case define as "selfish" in relation to Leos is pretty light-weight when all things are considered. Yes, we love to woo our prey and make them feel special and appreciated and we expect appreciation and adoration in return. It's no rocket-scence. We're no damn charity organisation. Most of the time I only expect happiness in return from those I love, and not being taken for granted. I can't stand unhappy faces. And my most selfish acts include needing time and space for myself no questions asked, no compromises... and expecting you to welcome me back with open arms when I'm done.

And "needing lots of praise" certainly does not fall under the definition "selfish" in any dictionary I can think of. Egocentric however, yes. But then tell me Cancers or Aquas or Caps are not egocentric, pfft. I think the different signs display their needs differently and Leos are simply more direct and combative in their approach.


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I'm going to have to say that Leos are selfish in other ways... To me, at least. My sister is a Leo, I love her to death but recently, she really got under my skin. I'm dating an Aquarius, she doesn't like him, which is fine, because we all have different likes and dislikes. At first, she would say hi to him and be polite, then she started ignoring him. Lately, however, she went to the extremes of taking his cell number out of my cell phone and calling him (without my knowledge or consent) and asking him to leave me alone. I was horrified, humiliated and mortified that she would do something like that. According to her, he's too bossy, opinionated, etc to make me happy. That's an incredible assumption to work under, ESPECIALLY when I had already asked her to mind her own business several times. Every time, she tells me the same thing, if SHE thinks it's in my best interest, she's going to do what she wants, even if that means overriding my wishes. This man is very special to me and i love him, so it pains me greatly that my own sister might be the reason I lose him. That is very selfish to me... Any insights Leos? lol
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I'm going to have to say that Leos are selfish in other ways... To me, at least. My sister is a Leo, I love her to death but recently, she really got under my skin. I'm dating an Aquarius, she doesn't like him, which is fine, because we all have different likes and dislikes. At first, she would say hi to him and be polite, then she started ignoring him. Lately, however, she went to the extremes of taking his cell number out of my cell phone and calling him (without my knowledge or consent) and asking him to leave me alone. I was horrified, humiliated and mortified that she would do something like that. According to her, he's too bossy, opinionated, etc to make me happy. That's an incredible assumption to work under, ESPECIALLY when I had already asked her to mind her own business several times. Every time, she tells me the same thing, if SHE thinks it's in my best interest, she's going to do what she wants, even if that means overriding my wishes. This man is very special to me and i love him, so it pains me greatly that my own sister might be the reason I lose him. That is very selfish to me... Any insights Leos? lol



I feel like we're missing part of the story.

What did he DO?
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I'm going to have to say that Leos are selfish in other ways... To me, at least. My sister is a Leo, I love her to death but recently, she really got under my skin. I'm dating an Aquarius, she doesn't like him, which is fine, because we all have different likes and dislikes. At first, she would say hi to him and be polite, then she started ignoring him. Lately, however, she went to the extremes of taking his cell number out of my cell phone and calling him (without my knowledge or consent) and asking him to leave me alone. I was horrified, humiliated and mortified that she would do something like that. According to her, he's too bossy, opinionated, etc to make me happy. That's an incredible assumption to work under, ESPECIALLY when I had already asked her to mind her own business several times. Every time, she tells me the same thing, if SHE thinks it's in my best interest, she's going to do what she wants, even if that means overriding my wishes. This man is very special to me and i love him, so it pains me greatly that my own sister might be the reason I lose him. That is very selfish to me... Any insights Leos? lol



I feel like we're missing part of the story.

What did he DO?
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He didn't do anything... well, not really lol see, I broke up with him bc I misunderstood a very important conversation we had. Well, I already had feelings for him so I was crying my eyes out over what he said. My sister, of course, comforted me and threatened all sorts of unsavory punishments on his ass lol. Then he called me and asked if I could please explain why I broke up with him, which I did and after we talked it over, I realized I overreacted and we started dating again. FYI: this is the second time this happens, so my sister has seen me crying my heart out for him twice (which I've never done for any man before) so it shocked her and now she doesn't like him. I've tried explaining that they were misunderstandings but once she decided she didn't like him, I can't seem to move her from that stance...
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Posted by RosyLibra
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I feel like we're missing part of the story.

What did he DO?


He didn't do anything... well, not really lol see, I broke up with him bc I misunderstood a very important conversation we had. Well, I already had feelings for him so I was crying my eyes out over what he said. My sister, of course, comforted me and threatened all sorts of unsavory punishments on his ass lol. Then he called me and asked if I could please explain why I broke up with him, which I did and after we talked it over, I realized I overreacted and we started dating again. FYI: this is the second time this happens, so my sister has seen me crying my heart out for him twice (which I've never done for any man before) so it shocked her and now she doesn't like him. I've tried explaining that they were misunderstandings but once she decided she didn't like him, I can't seem to move her from that stance...
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There it is.

You already know.

I'll tell you what I've told more than a few people in

my life whom I love dearly: don't tell me the horrible

things people have done to you, or come crying to me and

expect me to forgive and forget.

Even if you do, I won't.


I'm sure this part is important, too--

"... after we talked it over, I realized I overreacted"

The second time it happened? Or the first?

Your first instinct/reaction is usually the correct one.

She may not trust your judgement, here, either (just saying).

Is it possible she's right?

Still, she has your best interest at heart and loves you...

Obviously.




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I think it may depend on the other person what they view as selfish. As a person who has several Leo loved ones I have to say from my experience they aren't very selfish. In fact when my family was dealing with some tragic events it was pretty much just the Leo friends that were asking me constantly if I was ok and reassuring me that they are there for me.

I think the Leo sign really does get a bad reputation. For instance when people say Leos are arrogant and egotistical I tend to disagree and think many are actually confident and proud. Maybe some people feel a certain way because this sign is so strong and carries a lot of appeal that maybe it triggers some type of insecurity inside them.

Leos regardless of age or gender have not ever come across as selfish to me. But, as I said what exactly is selfish? I think everyone regardless of sign can be viewed as selfish in some aspect be it with their time or affection etc. Although I have to admit this sign is very good at making you feel the love without making you feel smothered.

I'm just basing this all from my experiences with Leos.
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Posted by metalaquamonkey
I think it may depend on the other person what they view as selfish. As a person who has several Leo loved ones I have to say from my experience they aren't very selfish. In fact when my family was dealing with some tragic events it was pretty much just the Leo friends that were asking me constantly if I was ok and reassuring me that they are there for me.

I think the Leo sign really does get a bad reputation. For instance when people say Leos are arrogant and egotistical I tend to disagree and think many are actually confident and proud. Maybe some people feel a certain way because this sign is so strong and carries a lot of appeal that maybe it triggers some type of insecurity inside them.

Leos regardless of age or gender have not ever come across as selfish to me. But, as I said what exactly is selfish? I think everyone regardless of sign can be viewed as selfish in some aspect be it with their time or affection etc. Although I have to admit this sign is very good at making you feel the love without making you feel smothered.

I'm just basing this all from my experiences with Leos.




Glad you have good friends who look out for you.


And I'd be lying if I said I didn't appreciate your thoughtful contribution.

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Posted by AL4813
ahhhhh my wonderful generous hot tempered yet caring leos.. I wanted to ask this question that has been rather having me scratch my head...

Now we leos are known for being very generous... we shower those we love with attention and gifts and we make sure everyone around us is having a great time and smiling, hell even strangers get a taste of our generosity. We leo men are known for spoiling our woman and getting her all the gifts in the world and treating her like she's the only woman that matters..

So how is it that people call us selfish?



I'll put it out straight. We are extremely nice and giving, but at the very end when push comes to shove and all cards are on the table some of us will always chose ourselves over anyone.
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Posted by AL4813
ahhhhh my wonderful generous hot tempered yet caring leos.. I wanted to ask this question that has been rather having me scratch my head...

Now we leos are known for being very generous... we shower those we love with attention and gifts and we make sure everyone around us is having a great time and smiling, hell even strangers get a taste of our generosity. We leo men are known for spoiling our woman and getting her all the gifts in the world and treating her like she's the only woman that matters..

So how is it that people call us selfish?



I'll put it out straight. We are extremely nice and giving, but at the very end when push comes to shove and all cards are on the table some of us will always chose ourselves over anyone.
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Of course. There will be people like that in every sign.