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Lolly99
@Lolly99
14 Years

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hey hope u can guys can help me.. i hav been on an off with a leo man for the last year am a cancer.. he really confuses me all the time i met him through a mutual freind friend. hes never added me to his face book account but keeps tabs on me through hers. i hadn seen him since xmas.. but i woud get random texts from him.. the ususal how u doin do u want to meet up. i refused him because he hurt me before.i then went on holidays and he text thefirst night i was there and rang me.. he wasobviously worse for wear .. promising me the world.. and i actually believed him. i told him i would c him when i came home! i waited for him to contact me ! nothing !! 2 weeks after i came home i was going through a really rough time and i called him ..i vented all my anger out told him he had hurt me again... he told me to come and see him.. and i did we had a fantastic time together. he asked me what was happening with us and he knew i wouldn want him hanging about me all the time as i have major responsibilitys. he also then said he wouldn like me hanging about him all the time either.. but when he is with me its always feels good. we left it at this that we would continue seeing 1 another but jus not serious. i was happy with this.. i asked him not to blow hot and cold with me jus b cool about it and he agreed.. over tyhe next 2 weeks we texted n it was all good i was busy an so was he.. in the meantime him and my friend had a falling out they ar close enough friends.. she then put a pic on his fb page and tagged me in it for a laugh ! i commented on it n so did he.. it was jus fun... that nite he told my friend to jus leav it and to stop commenting on it.. his ego was def bruised at this stage (its massive lol) they had a row and he told her to tell me he wanted nothin to do with me either.. deleted her and blocked her! i rang him when she told me and he wouldn answer.. i tex him and he told me 2 leave him alone delete his number and he wanted nothing to do with me ever again !! i would never hurt him an i told him this thru text.. he just repeated what he said.. go away ! i cannot understand this man. can any one tell me wat would b the best way to handle him now ??
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Lolly99
@Lolly99
14 Years

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hey thanks for comments.. our relationship if u can call it that has always been strange lol.. yes i hav met a few friends.. this leo is in his 40s.. and he was very badly hurt after 15 yrs of a relationship with a woman.. he has had no real mates since.. am the longest in his life ... as for fb ur prob right he does keep me at arms length.. the picture was to make a laugh at him between him and her and when he tex me bac with the go way i lost my temper with him.. he has a massive ego.. i was tired after a stressfull week and i did not want to be bothered with it.. i realised the next day that his pride would of been badly hurt at this and i texted to say i was sorry if he felt hurt but i still felt it had nothing to do with me !! do i leave him for awhile and let him cool down ??
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R1g0rM0rT1s
@R1g0rM0rT1s
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i think you should leave him alone now. my god the poor man is probably humiliated enough don't you think—

whatever was in that picture must've caused him enough embarrassment to wish to block a close friend!!!

he may calm down, he may not...i suspect the latter but he will definitely NOT calm down if you continue to be in his face!! respect his wishes and stay away.