I am a Pisces woman very much in love with a confusing Leo man. We met and have been good friends for a little over a year. I was dating his roommate for a few months and when we broke up my Leo and I began dating a few months later.
Things at first were wonderful; he was very attentive and wanted to spend tons of time with me. Last month I went to a party without him, he had his teen daughter that weekend and wanted to spend time e with her but expressed to me that he didn??t think it was a good idea for me to go to this party for fear that it would be a bit wild. I went with a few friends and it indeed was wild. He was upset that I went and we had a falling out over that. There were women showing their breasts which he found out about and did not like. I told him I would never go to another party like that again unless it was with him but I wanted to go out of plain curiosity as I had never been to a party like that. We seemed to have gotten past that issue but since this it seems like weekly things will be going great. He tells me he loves me, is in love with me, wants us to get married, asking me to move in with him this summer when my lease is up, wants to be a family etc. but then will have a few days of no contact or just being distant which I give him the space.
Last week an acquaintance of ours, female offered him a free used I Phone 4 because his was having many issues. This woman is a single serial dater and a few weeks ago was very inappropriate at a bar showing her crotch to people??_gross! This same day I had an eye doctor appointment that he had planned on going with me to then we were going to dinner afterward. He sent me a text telling me he was meeting her for drinks to get this phone, I felt it was not appropriate but did not say anything at the time via text. He said not to worry that they were going to meet and he would still be there for my appointment. On my way to the appointment I get a call from her! She said he wanted me to stop and pick him up before my appointment and that we were all three going to dinner after. I told her I was already at the appointment and he needed to communicate with me, not her. I was infuriated to say the least.
He and I ended up going to dinner without her and I explained to him why I thought it was not appropriate and how I felt about her in general. He then tells me that they did not meet for drinks but ran around town getting the new phone connected, buying a new ch
buying a new charger and they just hung out at his house and had a few beers until I got off work so we could all go to dinner. He became very defensive saying that he can only handle one woman which is me, he wants nothing to do with her but friendship and that he cannot take the drama every week from me. I told him that if my expressing my feelings to him is drama then I am really sorry but I need to be able to talk to him and tell him how I feel. This all happened the day before my birthday.
That evening and the next day was great, no problems at all. We went to dinner for my birthday with my daughter and had a great time. I thought everything was great but apparently not. He has yet again stopped communicating. I received a text from him Friday saying that he had his teen daughter this past weekend and they were planning many fun things and he wanted me to go have fun over the weekend. I told him I am trying very hard to prove to him that I do not need to go to crazy parties or hang out in bars to have fun but he is pushing me to do the things I do not want to do. I also told him I have a life outside of he and I believe it or not. I did go out of town and spent the night with my girlfriend and had a great time. I have not heard from him since Friday except for yesterday morning a brief good morning text.
What is going on with the hot and cold? Should I give him space until he comes back around? Will he come back around? I am just so confused!!
I know he was born in California. He is 49, I am 44. Yes, he does have a daughter and a son both are teenagers.
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Sep 20, 2008Comments: 1470 · Posts: 13777 · Topics: 204
How is it bad karma exactly? She didn't even date his friend, she dates his roomie and started dating the Leo after she broke up with the roomie.
It's not like they are brothers and there's a hands-off for life!
I completely disagree that this is karma although I am a big believer in it. The roommate was going through a divorce and could not make up him mind if he wanted to go through with it. We are all three actually very good friends.
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Dec 09, 2013Comments: 8 · Posts: 678 · Topics: 22
God, for fooks sake I'm so sick of reading this hot/cold leo shit.
Is it a leo thing?
Is it a guy thing?
Is it a relationship thing?
Or is it a lost interest thing?
Has this really got fook-all to do with their sign?
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Sep 23, 2013Comments: 11 · Posts: 177 · Topics: 5
God Leo males have the ability to be easy to understand but so uneasy too on other times.. Don't waste too much of your time Pisces ! He may not be ready to stop playing football with women's hearts ..