How can i get my LEO man back

This topic was created in the Leo forum by Rboo143 on Friday, September 21, 2018 and has 12 replies.
Would someone be willing to hear my story and give me some insight...... message me or anything.. thanks
Okay....... I.had posted this yesterday..... it's long sorry...

Rboo143

As much as I would like to make this a long story short it's hard..... it will be a month since me and my Leo broke up.... I said some hurtful things to him during an argument and kicked him out the house and told him i was done , it was all out of anger smh.... I regret it..... he put up a fight BUT I wasn't trying to hear it because I was so upset.... we texted that whole day and night and even the next days ..... I'm a SCORPIO by the way.... I wanted him to come back home but he way already at his mother's house so he said he will come talk to me Monday (we broke up on a saturday) .... I didn't want to wait ...i just wanted him back home that day smh... i was miserable because honestly we had a great relationship, we truly loved eachother...he was even paying on an engagement ring which was supposed to be a secret but he accidently told me. And I saw the proof so I know it was real. Anyway as days went by all I did was beg and beg and beg this man but all he kept asking me was to give him some time..not a lot but time to think....that he was still in love with me and didn't say he was goin anywhere he just needed time. ..I didn't allow that because of fear I would lose him so I begged for 2 long weeks ...i made the mistake of involving family members all because I needed advice and he didn't like that smh....he always revealed that i hurt his pride and made him feel less of a man..... that he is hurt...i admit I was wrong but I wanted my baby BACK home...and inwas willing tonda whatever because we had more ups then downs.. he barely called me but he dry texted me, giving me small talk...he did tell me he hasn't been the same without me and that it was hard..... then 2 days went by without a text.........this past sunday I told him i didn't want to wait anymore and i was goin to stay out the way ...i have completely drained myself ....crying EVERYDAY just not being myself and to enjoy his freedom I can no longer wait around..... he didn't respond until Tuesday he told me he needed to stop holding a grudge toward me and then asked how my day was..... iam so confused ....idk what he wants 

..he never told me he was done or anything...and still can't tell me an answer.. so yesterday I texted him to ask him to to put his pride down and forgive me so we can have peace i also asked him AGAIN if he was done with the relationship because i needed to know he said why can't we just have a normal conversation and let things FLOW instead of asking about the relationship everyday and that he hates talking about it..... but as a SCORPIO I like DIRECT information ... I feel it's either we are goin to be together and fix it or go our separate ways smh..... anyway we actually texted through the whole day surprisingly and he called but that was it....today I didn't hear from him and I didn't call or text either....... I just don't know ...... all I know is I love him but don't know how long more I should be waiting....its almost a month smh

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Okay....... I.had posted this yesterday..... it's long sorry...

Rboo143

As much as I would like to make this a long story short it's hard..... it will be a month since me and my Leo broke up.... I said some hurtful things to him during an argument and kicked him out the house and told him i was done , it was all out of anger smh.... I regret it..... he put up a fight BUT I wasn't trying to hear it because I was so upset.... we texted that whole day and night and even the next days ..... I'm a SCORPIO by the way.... I wanted him to come back home but he way already at his mother's house so he said he will come talk to me Monday (we broke up on a saturday) .... I didn't want to wait ...i just wanted him back home that day smh... i was miserable because honestly we had a great relationship, we truly loved eachother...he was even paying on an engagement ring which was supposed to be a secret but he accidently told me. And I saw the proof so I know it was real. Anyway as days went by all I did was beg and beg and beg this man but all he kept asking me was to give him some time..not a lot but time to think....that he was still in love with me and didn't say he was goin anywhere he just needed time. ..I didn't allow that because of fear I would lose him so I begged for 2 long weeks ...i made the mistake of involving family members all because I needed advice and he didn't like that smh....he always revealed that i hurt his pride and made him feel less of a man..... that he is hurt...i admit I was wrong but I wanted my baby BACK home...and inwas willing tonda whatever because we had more ups then downs.. he barely called me but he dry texted me, giving me small talk...he did tell me he hasn't been the same without me and that it was hard..... then 2 days went by without a text.........this past sunday I told him i didn't want to wait anymore and i was goin to stay out the way ...i have completely drained myself ....crying EVERYDAY just not being myself and to enjoy his freedom I can no longer wait around..... he didn't respond until Tuesday he told me he needed to stop holding a grudge toward me and then asked how my day was..... iam so confused ....idk what he wants 

..he never told me he was done or anything...and still can't tell me an answer.. so yesterday I texted him to ask him to to put his pride down and forgive me so we can have peace i also asked him AGAIN if he was done with the relationship because i needed to know he said why can't we just have a normal conversation and let things FLOW instead of asking about the relationship everyday and that he hates talking about it..... but as a SCORPIO I like DIRECT information ... I feel it's either we are goin to be together and fix it or go our separate ways smh..... anyway we actually texted through the whole day surprisingly and he called but that was it....today I didn't hear from him and I didn't call or text either....... I just don't know ...... all I know is I love him but don't know how long more I should be waiting....its almost a month smh



What was the argument about? Must of been a very serious argument if you got mad enough to kick him out....

for the most part i feel like Leo’s pick their battles pretty carefully. I love scorpios and their intense nature so i think you should give him time. Apologize if you haven’t and don’t just say sorry SHOW him your sorry by changing your ways. You can’t kick him out because of an argument if you’re trying to make the relationship work. Work on your anger or i think the Leo will leave you for good. Also since he’s living somewhere else now he might get used to it, that was not a good move at all.
Honestly the argument was childish but it escalated..having an insecurity that I shouldn't have had..and we had just got back from dinner which was amazing...then I slept in the other room and was on facebook reposting things....the next morning he took it to heart as if I didn't want him there and that it was embarrassing but that wasn't the case..... I was just so upset that he didn't understand me and it got physical so I told him to leave.....he was trying to all but u wasn't hearing it.......hes at his mom's house and has to drive back and forth 40 minutes to work ....he told me the other day he hates driving back n forth...... but I'm not understanding....if you hate driving back and forth....if you say you haven't been the same without me that things are hard....then why not come back home and work things out????

We had an amazing relationship so much in love..this is our first huge break up....

You are right i have to change which iam doin...its been almost a month since we broke up....this was a wake up call and reality check for me to fix myself. ..im in love with this man but I'm not sure what to do......right now I feel as if he is just leading me on or trying to keep me around because when I ask about the relationship or if we are done he avoids the question...... I'm a SCORPIO don't spare my feelings I like direct honesty...or maybe he just doesn't know.
We don't like our dirty laundry aired out for all to see. If he takes you back, work through your problems together instead of involving other people.
I understand i most definetyl WONT.....i just needed people to talk to at the time but I know now..... I'm trying to see how can I get him back
Tell him you messed up and you respect that he needs his space and that you'll be waiting for when he's ready to work things out. Then don't contact him. Maybe he'll miss you and come back if you actually leave him alone. Or maybe you've lost him. But if you smother him while he's trying to breath, you'll probably kill whatever is left.
@Rboo143, Intensity does not equal love. The biggest issue in the Leo/Scorpio dynamic is the misconception that the relationship must be intense to be real. If the relationship was so full of love, why would the Leo need to prove it to you?

Furthermore if you were insecure and kicking the Leo out of your place over NOTHING, why would you expect him to come back? Why should he trust you not to do this again? You need to start controlling your temper and taking responsibility for your actions. Begging and crying isn't enough, neither is emotion. We Leos are a sign of action. You'll need to back up your words with real actions to let the Leo know that you're serious about getting him back.

Also don't belittle a Leo's pride. Leo is a sign of self-love/self respect. Our pride is there for a reason. It's not just some character flaw, a Leo knows what he/she deserves. Telling a Leo to put aside our pride is like telling a Scorpio to not be skeptical. Good luck with that. Even a Leo with a small ego is still going to have pride, it's just our nature. If you want a Leo to lower our pride, you'll need to show that you're worth it first.

If I were this Leo and had to leave my own spot to live at my mom's, I would be furious. A Leo isn't a plaything, we're not a yo-yo. You can't push us away, then bring us back and not expect there to be consqeuences. We have our own insecurities as well and we hate being disrespected, especially in front of people. A Leo's anger can run deep and be hard to shake when this happens. So the fact that your families now know about this issue isn't helping at all. Leos like our personsl business kept within our relationships, not broadcasted for the world to see.

The big issue though is that you had a fight over a non existent issue because of your own insecurities. At no point should an argument become physical in a truly loving relationship (that goes for him too). Fighting and not listening to each other is not love. Arguments are normal and even necessary, but real love does not seek to hurt the other party. Saying that you "love" him does not excuse this fact. When you truly love a person, you seek to work out arguments before they reach this level.

The reason why the Leo is now dragging his feet is because he's unsure about you. Leos aren't Scorpios. We don't focus on paranoia and skepticism. Ours is a world of passion and positivity, which can be the opposite of the Scorpio mindset. As a result a Leo will have a difficult time vibing with actions not borne from this mentality. Leos are generally open people and expect people to be open with us. Therefore you should seek to be overt, not covert with a Leo. Leos respect direct action. If you were bold enough to kick the Leo out, then you need to be just as bold getting him back. Period. Have you considered going to his mom's place? If you want him, go get him.

That being said, always give a Leo a moment to cool off. A Leo will feel justified in their anger in the moment, so telling a Leo to calm down (on your terms) is almost seen as a challenge. That means the Leo will need SPACE. Once things calm down, then cooler heads can prevail. If you were wrong, apologize and make no excuses when you do. The Leo will need to see the action behind your words more than just the emotion. After all it was unchecked emotion that got you into this predicament. If the Leo does come back, NEVER do this again. There's no guarantee the Leo will be forgiving a second time.

Also here are also some responses I've written regarding Scorpio woman and Leo man relationships:

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/leo-man-scorpio-woman-5564269/?p=3

and

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/leo-and-scorpio-is-it-ever-more-than-sex--9195512/?checkpg=1

and

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/can-anyone-shed-any-light-on-this-combination--9148082/
Hey maybe someone can help me out. I’m a Taurus woman who met a Leo man a few months ago. The relationship was cool sometimes. We vibed but then I would get clingy and he would get mad. This eventually led him telling me that I needed to find someone else and him blocking my number (not instagram).. which btw he stalked. I still insisted on being clingy in hopes of him coming to his senses of realizing that I just cared a lot. But then I realized that it was a waste of time. So I blocked him on instagram. Another month rolls by and he texts me out of the blue from an unknown number saying “hey” ofc I asked who it was. When I found out I was polite but short. And the next day I just nicely asked him what he wanted bc I didn’t see any point of him making contact with me since he was so set on blocking me out of his life. When I asked the question he read the iMessage but never responded back. What gives with this Leo dude? Did I hurt his feelings by asking? Why come back around if I wasn’t what he wanted? Leo guys feel free to comment
Well im going to offer my thoughts based on a relationship and not whose sign does what. First of all, we all screw up. No one is perfect. The goal isnt to make mistakes; the goal is to learn from them. U acknowledge, own, appologize and discuss how to resolve it for future purposes. Uve done three out of the four so personally i think u are off to a good start. Now this crud about him making a wait and not talking to u about where ur relationship stands is bs and in some ways no better then what u did to him. He asked u for space and u gave it to him. He doesnt get to use the excuse of what u did to justify keeping u in limbo. U have the right to ask him where u stand and he can either tell u or keep u waiting and u have the right to accept it and wait or say no and move on. This is about respect. Respecting urselves, each other and ur relationship. Ur going to screw up and so is he, thats a givin. Thats life. Its ok for him to be reluctant and to express to u what he needs from u but he has to be willing to be there and participate. Instead hes taking advantage of having his cake and eating it to. We teach people how to treat us. When we love someone we forgive and move forward or we dont and we walk away. He doesnt want to talk about the relationship because he doesnt want to answer ur question, not because he doesnt know the answer. Also a little fact info for u. When a person heartbeat beats over 100 beats per minute its almost impossble to hear the other person speak. With that being said, im a Leo and yes i think learning about a persons sign can offer some insight about what makes a person tick but it should replace or excuse respect, common curtosy, trust, compassion, honesty, fairness, loyalty, etc... Good luck!
Sorry second to last sentence: it shouldnt replace or excuse..........
You kicked him out of the house? I'm sorry but he's never going to feel like it's his place again. He's never going to trust you again. Unless he has some other easy going signs in his chart...