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Jul 13, 2015Comments: 19 · Posts: 657 · Topics: 13
If they were betrayed by their lover, but still in-love with them? She isn't being cold to me or anything like that. She's very affectionate when we're together ( hugs, cuddles, kisses (not long deep ones though) and seems content when she's with me, but she's definitely giving me the stop sign when I try to take it *there*.
Considering how we were sexually before the break, and that we were apart over a yr before getting back together, I'm wondering how concern should I be.
Do leos punish their partner by with holding sex if they are not over the betrayal? Or is this their way of protecting themselves? or what?
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Oct 02, 2013Comments: 34 · Posts: 2216 · Topics: 66
It's not punishment. It's about hurt and protection.
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Feb 16, 2015Comments: 1 · Posts: 6172 · Topics: 7
Told ya, you're on probation. Keep it cool, be affectionate but not pushy. You'll have no doubt if and when she's ready. She's probably waiting to see how you handle your jealousy/emotions before she gives you any more of herself.
Like a cat, she'll approach you when she believes she can trust that your actions consistently match your words.
You're playing for keeps now...make it count. :-)
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Jan 10, 2015Comments: 1875 · Posts: 16918 · Topics: 108
I was cheated on once. After I chose to give her another chance I wouldn't let her out of my site for a few months. She wasn't aloud to do anything unless I was right there. I started to feel bad because we were in our early 20's so I let her enjoy life and freedom. That very day she went out and cheated again. That was 6 years ago and I'm still single till this day. Fuck that shit lol
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Jan 10, 2015Comments: 1875 · Posts: 16918 · Topics: 108
If you don't cheat again it might work. If you do though she may actually kill you then preserve your corpse so you quit making the same mistake.
Then again I have Scorpio Moon and Cancer venus so my opinion is.irrelevant lol.
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Jul 13, 2015Comments: 19 · Posts: 657 · Topics: 13
She's working through her feelings, but she does spend time with me. I don't feel like she's not happy when she's with me. She's holding back a part of herself out of protection like the other posts said, so I get that - but I don't see her just leaving me. Whenever she not working, she comes over to spend time with me, so I don't get what you're saying.
I'm so depressed now.
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Oct 02, 2013Comments: 34 · Posts: 2216 · Topics: 66
Hey! Don't be depressed. If she's spending time with you and you are both enjoying eachother's company then the odds are high that she's only holding back from sex to protect herself as a result of previous hurt.
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Feb 16, 2015Comments: 1 · Posts: 6172 · Topics: 7
I agree with Sugar. I think if you stick to the advice you're getting from Leos or those who know us well, you'll be better off. No need to think she's playing any games. We don't do that (not us girls, anyway).
Just take what she's giving you at face value, and be genuine with her. If she is expressing love for you, then that's how she feels.
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Feb 16, 2015Comments: 1 · Posts: 6172 · Topics: 7
I'll also add that I am also a 3rd decan Leo, with Leo mars. I have a temper but never look to take revenge on someone I love, especially by making them think one thing while I plot another. To me, that kind of behavior is beneath me.
If I have a problem with someone, I do nothing and let them hang on their own rope.That's more satisfying to me tha.n doing something directly to hurt someone.
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Jul 13, 2015Comments: 19 · Posts: 657 · Topics: 13
Yeah! I'm just gonna be cool, back off and let her lead the way. Thx everyone!