Posted by Leoqueen21Great answers!
One of my best friend's is a cancer! I'm a Leo. We have so much fun together, she is a very emotional, charismatic person and I love how caring she is. But sometimes she can be a little clingy, like wanting to see me and talk to me on the phone all the time, but I don't mind that much because I like the feeling of being needed. I also like her because it's never boring when I am around her and we just click ! One negative thing is she can be really emotional and she can come off strong. (I know Leos are supposedly strong willed people but gosh my cancer BFF can shut me up and put me in my place) But all in all I love her.
I'm currently dating a Virgo man and he's really chill and laid back. I say with Virgos you have to go with the flow with them and just know that they see everything. They are really attentive to detail, and they are not overly emotional people. I feel like they don't like to deal with their emotions and feelings. They are really smart and I have intellectual conversations with my virgo, something he and I both enjoy. I like how relaxed I am when I am around him. We don't constantly have to be doing something. We just chill and vibe together.
Posted by DivaCanLeoMy dad is a Cancer. Once, in 2016, while I was innocently playing with kids in the local park, he asked me, "How can you be so happy and cheerful all the time?" ( he admired me for my Positivity).Posted by InLoveWithLifebut whats the point of being happy, all the time, Sounds like a drag.
I'm a Leo. My dad and two guy friends are Cancerians. What I see as common among all three? Food is their first love. Haha. Innocent to some extent. Yes, my friends can go to the extent of snooping, stalking and even hacking, but they're not the kind to go beyond that and cause problems for someone. Emotional. Security, both emotionally and financially, is what they want.
Here comes the problem. When they feel secure, they're really happy, fun and nice to be with.
But when they get the slightest feeling of insecurity, Uff! They start feeling really down and it annoys me for I'm an eternally positive individual!
Also, I attack the problem head on. But they choose to be conflict averse and more conforming by nature. Also my dad, when he expresses his affection for his daughter (me), he becomes over affectionate! That kinda smothering repels me, but somehow he's quick to sense that and leave me alone!
Recently, I made friends with another Cancer guy and he was telling me about his love life and some problems. I asked him, "Why not openly discuss this with her?". He refused. I didn't understand! Our attitudes towards life and problems are so very different.
When they're positive, they're all really nice to be with. They seem to become childish and give off those positive vibes and keep me listening to whatever they've to say for hours together, which is a very nice thing.
But when they get highly emotional or upset or start feeling low, I really don't know how to deal with someone like that.
That was just my honest opinion about the Cancer men in my life. No Leo will wanna move away from a genuinely happy Cancer.
Cancers seek depth in all the nuances of our emotions.
if a Leo can't handle that, bye.click to expand
Posted by DivaCanLeoHahaha, your words in uppercase speak a lot more than you can guess.
Your attitude in life does not intimidate me AT ALL, HAPPY OPTIMISTIC PEOPLE DON'T INTIMIDATE ME, THEY ANNOY ME, CAUSE I SEE IT AS FAKE.
, but i like the darkness. What you call whining or being obsessed with problems is a security blanket. Your happiness and optimism is just an irritant like chemicals to a soul attempting to soothe itself
you have no depth, you think you do, but you don't...you might understand the nuances of life, but if you can't feel the flavors than you have no idea.
also just think about this, perhaps some of us don't want to be like or like that, maybe it doesn't inspire us.
thats why crabs are the best ARTISTS in the WORLD, Actors, Creative Geniuses....
because we're not fleeting towards life with this optimistic/happy attitude 24/7 that saps our energy, we like being in our shell, being ourselves, THINKING OF WAYS TO EXPRESS THAT EMOTIONAL CANVAS...
and yes we can be positive and optimistic sure, but its' not completely FULFILLING ...to a CRAB
or to me atleast. My creativity doesn't come from trying to impress others and to be some kind of positive influence (although that happens anyways)...it comes from my internal battles.
Posted by DivaCanLeoVirgos are pessimistic and negative?
and you mentioned Virgos lol they're the most pessimistic negative sign out there. Please stop. That's why Virgos and Crabs date alot we can both be cynical and pessimistic together.
i think what i have a problem with is that you think every negative thing you stated is NEGATIVE...which i don't see as a negative unless it's all you do....
than yes it can be very negative.
Posted by sumooExactly! Except that I've not experienced passive aggressiveness from them so far - from my knowledge, Caps seem to be the most passive aggressive type.
I like cancers tbh and I'm a leo with virgo moon
I just don't do well in a moody environment sometimes especially when cancers get passive aggressive, I don't know how to react to that so I just leave them alone. everything else about them, I can feel their love and they make it so obvious when they like you. they try to give you want you want and they remember things that you said week or even months ago. I especially like how this one guy tried to turn my problem into his own problem..i don't think anyone (and I mean anyone) cared that much about my problems. I would date a cancer if timing and everything was right
cancers are sweet, I just can't deal with their passive aggressiveness
Posted by sumooRegarding 'pure hearted', I've decided that I'll never go by the signs. That's an individual's thing. These Cancer men are my friends and they stay clearly within the 'friendship' border. And yes, they can't help having their eyes open for more. Haha, one thing I'll never do to my guy nor wait and watch while he does that to me.Posted by InLoveWithLifereally? I agree with you in the sense that they worry about their problems to themselves and sometimes I guess they just need a little support. they think about the bad-things before they happen and I find myself doing that do.Posted by sumooExactly! Except that I've not experienced passive aggressiveness from them so far - from my knowledge, Caps seem to be the most passive aggressive type.
I like cancers tbh and I'm a leo with virgo moon
I just don't do well in a moody environment sometimes especially when cancers get passive aggressive, I don't know how to react to that so I just leave them alone. everything else about them, I can feel their love and they make it so obvious when they like you. they try to give you want you want and they remember things that you said week or even months ago. I especially like how this one guy tried to turn my problem into his own problem..i don't think anyone (and I mean anyone) cared that much about my problems. I would date a cancer if timing and everything was right
cancers are sweet, I just can't deal with their passive aggressiveness
But yes, cancers are very loving and sweet.
I am not sure about loyalty and other such factors, though, because two of my friends have one real girlfriend and many sidechicks! They still want more! Wonder what will happen to them the day their girls find out.
But my dad's a typical Cancer and I'm showered with all the affection I'll ever want or even more than I can ask for, but I lock myself up in my room when he begins worrying over nothing! His what-ifs drive me and all others in the family crazy! Even his close friend, after 40 years of friendship, is yet to figure out how to get him to give up his what-if sad stories!
by passive aggressiveness, i mean for example..i would be like 'sorry lets just date casually, not to seriously.' the next day the would say something like 'help me bang this girl in my class.' I think he was trying to be like cool or get back at me or something, because it's just not like him.
or for example, a random stranger comes up to me. the cancer guy gets all moody and says 'why didn't you tell him, that i'm your boyfriend. what if that guy (points at model on a poster) comes up to you, and asks you out?'
stuff like that, I don't know how to react to that. I think they're definitely pure-hearted, something I don't see alotclick to expand
Posted by sumooRegarding that kinda passive aggressiveness, yes, both these fellows have admitted to me that they've tried to manipulate their girls to talk to them. One seemed innocent and childlike in his anger. Lol!Posted by InLoveWithLifereally? I agree with you in the sense that they worry about their problems to themselves and sometimes I guess they just need a little support. they think about the bad-things before they happen and I find myself doing that do.Posted by sumooExactly! Except that I've not experienced passive aggressiveness from them so far - from my knowledge, Caps seem to be the most passive aggressive type.
I like cancers tbh and I'm a leo with virgo moon
I just don't do well in a moody environment sometimes especially when cancers get passive aggressive, I don't know how to react to that so I just leave them alone. everything else about them, I can feel their love and they make it so obvious when they like you. they try to give you want you want and they remember things that you said week or even months ago. I especially like how this one guy tried to turn my problem into his own problem..i don't think anyone (and I mean anyone) cared that much about my problems. I would date a cancer if timing and everything was right
cancers are sweet, I just can't deal with their passive aggressiveness
But yes, cancers are very loving and sweet.
I am not sure about loyalty and other such factors, though, because two of my friends have one real girlfriend and many sidechicks! They still want more! Wonder what will happen to them the day their girls find out.
But my dad's a typical Cancer and I'm showered with all the affection I'll ever want or even more than I can ask for, but I lock myself up in my room when he begins worrying over nothing! His what-ifs drive me and all others in the family crazy! Even his close friend, after 40 years of friendship, is yet to figure out how to get him to give up his what-if sad stories!
by passive aggressiveness, i mean for example..i would be like 'sorry lets just date casually, not to seriously.' the next day the would say something like 'help me bang this girl in my class.' I think he was trying to be like cool or get back at me or something, because it's just not like him.
or for example, a random stranger comes up to me. the cancer guy gets all moody and says 'why didn't you tell him, that i'm your boyfriend. what if that guy (points at model on a poster) comes up to you, and asks you out?'
stuff like that, I don't know how to react to that. I think they're definitely pure-hearted, something I don't see alotclick to expand
Posted by DivaCanLeoI don't see why fixed/fixed shouldn't be good (:Posted by SunsetvirgoHow about fixed fixed_?
Cardinal and fixed is very good together !!
Im massively fixed but do love to initiate thingsclick to expand
Posted by DivaCanLeoWhat is the Taurus moon doing?Posted by InLoveWithLifeI just want to have sex with him sheez. I thought Leos were easy.Posted by DivaCanLeoHahaha, your words in uppercase speak a lot more than you can guess.
Your attitude in life does not intimidate me AT ALL, HAPPY OPTIMISTIC PEOPLE DON'T INTIMIDATE ME, THEY ANNOY ME, CAUSE I SEE IT AS FAKE.
, but i like the darkness. What you call whining or being obsessed with problems is a security blanket. Your happiness and optimism is just an irritant like chemicals to a soul attempting to soothe itself
you have no depth, you think you do, but you don't...you might understand the nuances of life, but if you can't feel the flavors than you have no idea.
also just think about this, perhaps some of us don't want to be like or like that, maybe it doesn't inspire us.
thats why crabs are the best ARTISTS in the WORLD, Actors, Creative Geniuses....
because we're not fleeting towards life with this optimistic/happy attitude 24/7 that saps our energy, we like being in our shell, being ourselves, THINKING OF WAYS TO EXPRESS THAT EMOTIONAL CANVAS...
and yes we can be positive and optimistic sure, but its' not completely FULFILLING ...to a CRAB
or to me atleast. My creativity doesn't come from trying to impress others and to be some kind of positive influence (although that happens anyways)...it comes from my internal battles.
Don't worry. You're not the only one. Optimists annoy most of the pessimists. Haha, call it anything - ego, showing off, whatever! When I see pessimists posting such stuff, LOL!
Have fun! Enjoy your 'depth' - something that Only You have. Your attitude reveals such childishness! Lol, "crabs are the best in everything because I am a crab"
LOL!
Post whatever you want here. We don't have the time to take it seriously, miss, but I'd suggest that you don't display this kinda attitude with your Leo guy or you'll be back to the Leo forum posting questions on why he's reacting like this, like that!
This guys Taurus moon is annoying as fukclick to expand