How do you do a background check on a Leo?

This topic was created in the Leo forum by gemini_82grl on Monday, February 11, 2008 and has 22 replies.
Hello all. I have another interesting topic.
What question do you ask a lion to find out if he/she is a good catch or if they have lots of skeltons in the closet?
How do you get them to take you out so you can meet the people they hang around?
To see if they are worthy of your heart and affection?
How can you tell the difference between a loyal, faithful lion, to a womanizer, lier, player style Lion?
Thank you in advance.
Well thank you for that piece of your mind I apprieciate your honesty. And yes I do think too much. I am looking for someone I can be with in the future not someone I can waste my youth with now. I dont like to waste time... Time is too precious....
Cappy thanks for that insite.
Im sure he has skeltons. Just not sure how much. I hope nothing that will scar me....
DC- I usually go off my gut feelings too they have not let me down so far..
Thanks yall
ummm, doesn't everyone have a few skeletons? I'm sure you have a few of your own gemini82, you are taking the leo player stereotype too seriously.
Get to know him, trust takes time and patience. I'm sure he has his own reservations about you as well. Honesty at all times, but the occasional white lie never killed anyone either.
"gEM....DAME GIRL u got it bad for that BEAST!!!!!!"
Yepppp......
Just thought I would let the whole world know about it too. Or at least the DXP ppl.

Falling hard, just not sure if the feeling is mutual.... I dont get any bad gut feelings but I dont get the full force ahead ones either. When Im with him I put everything into it. When Im not with him Im wondering when Im going to see him again.....
As of today it has been a whole week. We havent gone this long without seeing eachother. But thats the way our scheduals clash together. And now he is sick.. So I probably wont be seeing untill he gets better. Which wont be anytime soon because he doesnt get enough sleep to fight it off. Oh well its his own stupidity.
Enough ranting its his life right. Im just here to enjoy the ride...
Have fun all.
That was pretty good...
I like the actions speak louder then words. Or Actions lie more then words..
"I appreciate people who are civil, whether they mean it or not. I think: Be civil. Do not cherish your opinion over my feelings. There's a vanity to candor that isn't really worth it. Be kind.
Richard Greenberg, NY Times Magazine, 03-26-2006"
no idea who this dude is, but i hope he's not married. cause i'm in love.
"It is easier to get forgiveness than permission.
Stuart's Law of Retroaction"
hahaha...yyyessss.
"Clarity of mind means clarity of passion, too; this is why a great and clear mind loves ardently and sees distinctly what it loves.
Blaise Pascal (1623 - 1662)"
love itttt!
"The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget.
Thomas Szasz, The Second Sin (1973) "Personal Conduct"
amen.
hire a private investigator
Life would be full of LOVE not hate. That would be tooo good to be true....
What is a private investigator going to do Scorpsiperior...
That was stupid..
The title of your thread is (in case you weren't aware), "How do you do a background check on a Leo?"
my response: hire a private investigator (once suggested to me by an employer)

What would a private investigator DO? Well, that depends on what you want to know, stupid.
hey, choco TongueWinking

me too
i know Sad

i miss her
I am my own PI as well. Actually my taurus gf checks up on things when I cant I dont know where she get s the info but she is always filling me in. Gotta love the taurus crazy lady.... smile

FF how do you find time for your relaxation time..
Im a busy body too and I cant find anytime to pluck my eye brows latly. Im looken like a man.LOL But I can find time to call mr. leo. haha
best way to check a leo's background
Devil thats awsome... LOLOLOL... You got a laugh out of me. Thank you

FF thank you that was good info... I already know that he has charges from the past. So thats not what Im worried about... Im worried about him sticking his thing in everthing. If you know what im sayen...
To much space isnt a good thing especially for wondering leos.... No offense guys and gals.
Haha then they would get it right in the face. LOL.
If you feel he's the cheating kind or the sleeping around man slut kind then that feeling should be suspect enough, leo men are fiercly loyal when in love when the chosen love mate has been throned Queen but if he's not then he's going to do his thing, leo's love every dayum body well atleast the men do so being with you doesn't mean he's not going to get his (if you know what I mean) best to get tested together, use condoms and 6 months down the road get tested again to be sure he's neg and if your really not sure protect yourself at all times...other than that you can snoop snoop and snoop and still won't get the whole story, you may find a few women in the mix but you best believe they love that leo so much and so hard that they will not spill the beans lmao! They all want some of that leo love b/c it's just that good, even when they know the truth some choose to turn a blind eye and win leo's loyalty and heart..
::shivers:: jus too much ugh!
I wish there was a LEO.COM to complete background checks...
You can't go to the LEO male with questions about his past and his character; he'll never disclose his most deepest issues! Makes him too vulnerable and then his image is tainted and he aint got it all together like you think he did.
With them, "IMAGE is EVERYTHING"!
Leo will reveal his past to a woman, will talk about his exes, will tell you about his friendships b/c some of them aren't based all on sex, they have a lot of open ended relationships, some sexual, some not sexual, some love/hate situation, you have the exes and all the baggage that comes with that, some leo's are very vulnerable and bossy and attention hounds etc etc etc.
Some can be complete show offs okay, not sure why women have a hard time with a leo man opening up, this is the most feelingist (jus made that up lol) sign you will ever meet, no he won't reveal his WHOLE life story you might get that story if you manage to make him comfortable enough to open up day one but for the most part, leo's understand MYSTERY, they understand how it can draw people in, there is no mystery in revealing every little thing about themselves and frankly most leo's don't wanna know everything about you, the mystique is what lures women in, if you wanna know him, ask him, he will tell you all you need to know and then some. If you wanna know background like personal issues, jail, alimony, bankruptcy then you will have to dig a bit deeper but if you wanna know whom he's seeing etc, jus ask him, he will be glad to tell you. The thing I have found about leo's if they respect you they will tell you the truth, they aren't afraid to express dissatisfaction in any way shape or form.
Unfortunately the unevolved leo ie immature leo makes it bad for the rest but I say this is a great sign to deal with short term not necessarily long term...in the words of RuPaul "you better work" if your tryiing to make it long term...you will put in work with this sign period, I hear this about virgo men with them you have to have lots and lots of patience and Aqua men and Cancer men it goes on and on.
GO HEAD PROVERBS LMAO!!! YOU GO BOY!!!
Proverb is a way defferent type of leo. He is shy likes to stay home. He is kind and open about who he is. He is nothing like that ff.. But im sure he wont take offense because he knows he is different. He is better..
Proverb nice guys do NOT finish last. They finish first. Just wait and see hunny.... smile
FF: You must have definitly have had a bad experience with the leo male. I have also had 2 bad experiences. They are great at first then they let the baggage out. And Im not sure about the braindead part. The leo that I wanted who still keeps in touch with me he is really really smart.... I loved having conversations with him.. Its just he would stop and talk about something else. But he was very smart...
He was smart, good looking, career set, determined, independent. But he drank way to much partied to much and he works too much.
I have a very high bar and I refuse to lower it....
Okay sorry I just read the rest of the board. FF- not everyone is the same you cant think like that. I am a gemini I have a girlfriend who is a gemini. We are alot alike in many ways but we are completely different people. Sure we have alot in common and the same personality traits because of the planets. But I have always been more responsible then her. She was the bad egg I didnt try half the stuff she did.. We are completely different people.

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