Posted by InLoveWithLifeThisss! Hit the nail on the head with this one!
For how long I put up with nonsense of any kind depends on how much energy and time I've invested in the relationship and what promises (if any) I'd made to myself. Usually I'm known to be quick-tempered and very straight forward, but when I'm invested, i don't know how, my tolerance level surprises even me.
But even if I'm tolerant, keep in mind that every single move that you make will be noted. "There is a limit" is what I tell everyone in my life. And only I get to choose what that limit is in each case. Once someone reaches the limit, it's like carrying you passionately up the tallest cliff and dropping you heartlessly from the edge. Once the limit is reached, no matter who you are or what kind of past we share, "You are history".
The tolerance time or testing the patience and me putting up with it can last anywhere between a few weeks and several months in my case, but the door slam, ha ha ha, I may look like the meanest of humans out there because from 'somebody' you become 'nobody' just like that!
Pride first. #ProudLeo
Posted by LeoLady822I've noticed that my level of tolerance/acceptance has become smaller and smaller over the years. My motto now: once the bond is broken (trust betrayed, heart mishandled, whatever), the history means nothing.Posted by InLoveWithLifeThisss! Hit the nail on the head with this one!
For how long I put up with nonsense of any kind depends on how much energy and time I've invested in the relationship and what promises (if any) I'd made to myself. Usually I'm known to be quick-tempered and very straight forward, but when I'm invested, i don't know how, my tolerance level surprises even me.
But even if I'm tolerant, keep in mind that every single move that you make will be noted. "There is a limit" is what I tell everyone in my life. And only I get to choose what that limit is in each case. Once someone reaches the limit, it's like carrying you passionately up the tallest cliff and dropping you heartlessly from the edge. Once the limit is reached, no matter who you are or what kind of past we share, "You are history".
The tolerance time or testing the patience and me putting up with it can last anywhere between a few weeks and several months in my case, but the door slam, ha ha ha, I may look like the meanest of humans out there because from 'somebody' you become 'nobody' just like that!
Pride first. #ProudLeoclick to expand
Posted by virtuePosted by bittercupcakeI think she meant that the person that is generating the same vibe as you will come to you. Law of Attraction. Like attracts like. You will not attract what you naturally repelPosted by Lilmxdwhatever is meant for you will come to you..? What..??? Talk about ego... this is exactly why relationships don't work out... you can't expect to not put in the work half way...it takes two people...sometimes you will need to put your pride to the side and take a chance...but then again I'm talking to a Leo...that sht ain't gone happen
Okay, so I obviously can't speak for all Leo women, because nobody is the same. But we all have very similar ways and style s of getting over people. Personally as a Leo woman if I feel the relationship is at a point of no return I stop trying. Then I start to analyze what went wrong and why. And finally I accept what is and yes it's very hard but I just let go. I think because of my proud and I don't want it to be continuously broken, it's SUPER HARD but I just leave. You can only give so much of yourself. After a while you will look desperate, depressed, lonely, dependent, and they will think you are their door mat. Don't ever have your heart feeling like you're not worthy. You are and yes break ups suck! But losing yourself is just a disaster. You will turn into somebody you don't even know. The saying goes "if it's meant to be, it will be" for a reason. Time is on your side just be patient but not for him for you. Go out. Get your nails done, go to school, or back to school, chill with your friends, occupy yourself. Life is so precious and short don't let nobody steal your happiness. And don't let this experience shut out love. Remember what ever is meant for you , will come to you.click to expand
Posted by Bottabing
I don't move on fast but when I do it seems fast cause when I'm done .... The kid is done ... Complete door slam .... I usually have other options ... Leo sun Leo rising ♌