How serious are the words you say..?

Leos take close relationships more seriously and some people are like "ooo shiny I'm just gonna play with this" then they wonder why the leo is so "cold" |:

We do need time apart.
Because we care so much we don't want to get hurt just by gettting caught up in the small things. We want to protect our heart.

Who are you you are adorbs and I want to keep you ˜

So you're saying the coldness is to gauge your feelings all while making the other feel not wanted?

Interesting post ... keeping my eye on this one 🙂

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More seriously than whom?

Posted by Shaniajam
So you're saying the coldness is to gauge your feelings all while making the other feel not wanted?

-Sigh-..Since this post is the most honest deep-rooted thing I've written in a while, I'm going to be really honest with its replies.

First of all, my time isn't someone else's birthright.
And it's dangerous to my health and anyone else's to ever believe it is.

It was dangerous the times that I tried to make others happy by barely having a personality and doing what they wanted. Yes, my physical health as well. Even remembering, makes my blood boil. But it's much better than being sad. So I'm happy about that.

It hurts when anyone thinks that spending time by yourself is being "cold". But it hurts more when you comply and give someone else more than you enjoy.

It is good to spend a lot of time with someone when you are enjoying it.. but not when you're not ready.
Also, for the people that spend a lot of energy, they have to recover it too.

So it's truly, about the health of an individual, than about the people who haven't figured out how to amuse, deal with, or love themselves. When they have all the power to.

( Instead of being inconsiderate with someone else by guilt-tripping them.) I'd rather someone have a caring conversation, than accuse me.

By the way the title, "How serious are the words you say..?", refers to the times people have exaggerated their description on how they feel about what you do, more than they are actually feeling.

Posted by wagtail
Who are you you are adorbs and I want to keep you ˜

;__; thank you that makes me feel cared for ”¹3 I have the urge to make you cookies now.

Thanks to the people who are following 😄

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Posted by wagtail
Who are you you are adorbs and I want to keep you ˜

;__; thank you that makes me feel cared for ”¹3 I have the urge to make you cookies now.

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I will accept your cookies

Posted by SalamanderCandy
By the way the title, "How serious are the words you say..?", refers to the times people have exaggerated their description on how they feel about what you do, more than they are actually feeling.

I believe my leo bf has your same idea...

but truth is... what if a person is not exaggerating and its truly wht it felt like? ... consider that when you love someone so badly it hurts just as bad whn the one youlove makes you sad or disappoints you

my bf would say ... i made a big issue out of a small situation.. i dont know why leos dont believe tgat someone could really be that hurt?

my mom is also a leo.. n i remember one day i was really sad and cried so much over my cousin cos he passed away... she still thought theres smthing else that is making me too sad other than my relative... i still cant forget that... whats worse than death? :/

I hope you weren't insinuating that I was accusing you because it was a general question as it wasn't clear so therefore I asked.

Of course you should always take time for self... Taurus here and I know all about breathing, replenishing and alone time.... On top of spending time with people who makes you feel more happy emotionally and physically than someone that drains you: nonetheless. Good day.

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Posted by SalamanderCandy
By the way the title, "How serious are the words you say..?", refers to the times people have exaggerated their description on how they feel about what you do, more than they are actually feeling.

I believe my leo bf has your same idea...

but truth is... what if a person is not exaggerating and its truly wht it felt like? ... consider that when you love someone so badly it hurts just as bad whn the one youlove makes you sad or disappoints you

my bf would say ... i made a big issue out of a small situation.. i dont know why leos dont believe tgat someone could really be that hurt?

my mom is also a leo.. n i remember one day i was really sad and cried so much over my cousin cos he passed away... she still thought theres smthing else that is making me too sad other than my relative... i still cant forget that... whats worse than death? :/

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God...well sorry on the mom thing. I won't even count that since it is a very obvious thing to be sad about. My condolences.
And I guess ..when I see something, or hear something from someone I care about, I feel too moved. Like my whole body moves or feels heavy.

You know..it is said that when a ghost is in the room, the candle in your room will flicker.
Think of a Leo as a giant candle. ( If they're in a casual mood and not already feeling their best. )






But if you love someone so much that the slightest less-than-pleasing expression hurts...they can't do anything about that either. And it hurts them too. /:

Posted by Shaniajam
I hope you weren't insinuating that I was accusing you because it was a general question as it wasn't clear so therefore I asked.

Of course you should always take time for self... Taurus here and I know all about breathing, replenishing and alone time.... On top of spending time with people who makes you feel more happy emotionally and physically than someone that drains you: nonetheless. Good day.

It's a good thing to ask (: The more questions, the more detail and clearness we can go into. ^^

Yeah..I agree. I admire the Taurus sign to be honest. They seem so stable, I wonder how they do it. But..the needing to breathe, it seems that it applies to every sign. I mean, even Cancers have their "separate" days.

Posted by ramengirl
I think it's easier to forget that the person on the other line wants to protect their heart as well. Driving away can be seen as inconsiderate and selfish in another person's eyes.

Great post.

Awwwww thank you ”¹3 :'3 I see it as more considerate; it even feels life-saving to move and give each other space y'know. It's not a lack of love at all..it's more like "I love you too much, I have to do this." & "I love you more than you know."

And
get ourselves back up again, without being co-dependent.

Maybe not all Leos, but it's what I do.

But also, if someone's treating you like shit, don't tolerate it because of a sun sign lmao.

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Posted by ramengirl
I think it's easier to forget that the person on the other line wants to protect their heart as well. Driving away can be seen as inconsiderate and selfish in another person's eyes.

Great post.

Awwwww thank you ”¹3 :'3 I see it as more considerate; it even feels life-saving to move and give each other space y'know. It's not a lack of love at all..it's more like "I love you too much, I have to do this." & "I love you more than you know."

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get ourselves back up again, without being co-dependent.

Maybe not all Leos, but it's what I do.

But also, if someone's treating you like shit, don't tolerate it because of a sun sign lmao.

You're welcome. I understand; sometimes I have to disappear for a while to recollect. It's hard on those who don't understand but rarely you come across someone who's willing to wait and upon your return they welcome you with a warm embrace. I am not a Leo but I can definitely relate.

And right on with your last statement! 😄

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I've met people who do the warm embrace thing and I do the same for them :3 ♥
I remember this guy (sunAqua-moonScorpio) was very surprised I welcomed him with a warm embrace and highly HIGHLY appreciated it”¹3 ;_; awh, I hope he's doing fantastic now.
But yash :3 I get what you mean ♥ I'm glad you also take your own time, it's necessary ”¹3 I bet even those who resent you do the same thing e_e oh the irony xP

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Posted by ramengirl
I think it's easier to forget that the person on the other line wants to protect their heart as well. Driving away can be seen as inconsiderate and selfish in another person's eyes.

Great post.

Awwwww thank you ”¹3 :'3 I see it as more considerate; it even feels life-saving to move and give each other space y'know. It's not a lack of love at all..it's more like "I love you too much, I have to do this." & "I love you more than you know."

And
get ourselves back up again, without being co-dependent.

Maybe not all Leos, but it's what I do.

But also, if someone's treating you like shit, don't tolerate it because of a sun sign lmao.

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I want to thank you for this comment ... It gave me some comfort believe it or not.

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Posted by Shaniajam
I hope you weren't insinuating that I was accusing you because it was a general question as it wasn't clear so therefore I asked.

Of course you should always take time for self... Taurus here and I know all about breathing, replenishing and alone time.... On top of spending time with people who makes you feel more happy emotionally and physically than someone that drains you: nonetheless. Good day.

It's a good thing to ask (: The more questions, the more detail and clearness we can go into. ^^

Yeah..I agree. I admire the Taurus sign to be honest. They seem so stable, I wonder how they do it. But..the needing to breathe, it seems that it applies to every sign. I mean, even Cancers have their "separate" days.

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So true. So maybe it's safe to say we all blow hot and cold 😋‚‚‚ some just do it for longer periods each time

@PancakeFace Maybe this'll give insight to your "Runaway Leos" thread?

🙂

I have a question and I wanted to ask if i can relate to this situation of it's bit a lack of love. So

Lately I've told my Leo male Bestfriend that I've been depressed and we had a whole conversation about it he says that it kills him that I'm depressed because he loves me a lot and he just wants me happy and smiling because I'm beautiful and he loves me so much this and that and That he will make me see myself the way he sees me and won't ever give up and we had a conversation about it and he was being sweet and then the next day he wasn't on a lot and so that night I expressed to him how sad I was because I've been feeling so alone and how I don't know what to do anymore I feel so lonely and unimportant and hurt and he answered this morning and he said Awww don't feel that way but that's the only thing he said then he said I have tell you a bunch of things that happened and it's that he was going on a date and I did t understand why he completely ignored how I was feeling he was so caring Before does he not care anymore ?