How to drive a Leo guy crazy?
This topic was created in the Leo forum by vegansagittarius on Tuesday, February 9, 2016 and has 40 replies.
I met a very attractive Leo guy over the internet. We have a lot in common and he is the perfect, romantic gentleman I have wished for (top bad we live too far away from each other). He is planning to visit me next year, and I promised I would take him flying.
One thing I have found out about him is his jealousy streak and how insecure he is. He gets upset when I mention how cute or hot other guys are. Since he works in the military, I showed him a vintage RAF photo of an absolutely stunning airman. And all he said was "um...ok.". He is such a sweetheart, constantly flirting with me and sending me kiss faces, winks and even heart eyes. He is so charming. He said if I suddenly disappeared, he'd be messed up for a while and be pretty upset. Is there any way I can make him fall for me more? And any way I can make him more secure? He thinks I am way out of his league while I think it's the opposite.
One thing I have found out about him is his jealousy streak and how insecure he is. He gets upset when I mention how cute or hot other guys are. Since he works in the military, I showed him a vintage RAF photo of an absolutely stunning airman. And all he said was "um...ok.". He is such a sweetheart, constantly flirting with me and sending me kiss faces, winks and even heart eyes. He is so charming. He said if I suddenly disappeared, he'd be messed up for a while and be pretty upset. Is there any way I can make him fall for me more? And any way I can make him more secure? He thinks I am way out of his league while I think it's the opposite.
Why would you share a picture of some vintage hottie with him?
That's like the last thing any heterosexual male wants to interact with their girl about... you're all - like hey look, here's a guy I find really attractive from approximately 300 years ago and I want you to appreciate this picture for no reason what so ever...?
I have good guy friends and maaaaaaybe I'll sigh over a player while we are watching sport and they'll give me shit about it but I feel like that's just playing mind games otherwise...
That's like the last thing any heterosexual male wants to interact with their girl about... you're all - like hey look, here's a guy I find really attractive from approximately 300 years ago and I want you to appreciate this picture for no reason what so ever...?
I have good guy friends and maaaaaaybe I'll sigh over a player while we are watching sport and they'll give me shit about it but I feel like that's just playing mind games otherwise...
But look at the guy in my avatar! There... there isn't anyone as attractive and classically handsome as him. Those smoldering eyes...
Every time I mention another guy, he says jokingly that I'm mean, or he doesn't have anything to say, admits that they are attractive, Asks if I love teasing him so much or he makes these emojis >~_
Every time I mention another guy, he says jokingly that I'm mean, or he doesn't have anything to say, admits that they are attractive, Asks if I love teasing him so much or he makes these emojis >~_
But I do feel a little cruel at times. He keeps telling me how amazing I am and how much he likes me with so many ♥ and 😠and 😘. He keeps on telling me no woman can compare to me, out of everyone his has met in his whole life. He tells me how perfect I am and he never brought any hot girls up or even talked about them.
Posted by vegansagittarius
Every time I mention another guy, he says jokingly that I'm mean, or he doesn't have anything to say, admits that they are attractive.
Stop cucking your Leo!!
Leo male are constantly comparing themselves with nothing less than great. Jealousy is not a positive you are indirectly saying the guy in the photo is better that him. Is it? Lol lol. You met online so this means you hardly know anything about each other? Want him to be crazy about you? Start asking him questions that he would have the solution to. Leos believe themselves to be rulers or kings. Make him your hero. Talk to him as often as you could. My advise my sting alittle but stop taking his compliments to heart. He wants you to like him. Get deep with him. Bring deeper situations to the table. Get him to tell you things he's never told anyone! Trust and loyalty is everything to them. This will turn him on even more. That he could open up to you and be comfortable.
All the Best
All the Best
I stopped reading after the "visit me next year" part. Next year...like 2017???
Girl
Girl
I would have already dumped you.
Posted by Nala13
I stopped reading after the "visit me next year" part. Next year...like 2017???
Girl
Same thing I said.. SMH @ next year
Posted by Montgomery
I would have already dumped you.
Sexy Beast, loool!
Oh man. I messed up so bad. I asked him if he was fit, and then he replied "Yeah! Want to see me shirtless 
? I don't mind, BTW. "
But me, thinking I have the upper hand, said "No."
Things got awkward and he finally replied. "Just kidding."
I don't know, but he grew colder. I, being stupid as hell, said "I'm sorry, I'm so boring." to which he replied how perfect I am for him. Then I said "You'll find another woman soon and get over me. I'll have to appreciate the time we have now."
He then proceeded to ask me some random stuff about aviation. Then I've sent him some cute selfies, to which he only replied "so pretty". I'm getting worried, should I? It's going down south and Valentine's Day is tomorrow. What should I do? Dxp'ers, please help me out.
? I don't mind, BTW. " But me, thinking I have the upper hand, said "No."
Things got awkward and he finally replied. "Just kidding."
I don't know, but he grew colder. I, being stupid as hell, said "I'm sorry, I'm so boring." to which he replied how perfect I am for him. Then I said "You'll find another woman soon and get over me. I'll have to appreciate the time we have now."
He then proceeded to ask me some random stuff about aviation. Then I've sent him some cute selfies, to which he only replied "so pretty". I'm getting worried, should I? It's going down south and Valentine's Day is tomorrow. What should I do? Dxp'ers, please help me out.
He's getting bored with the game playing...? Maybe?
oh dear
oh dear
Can I save this? Or should I give him space? Cause last time I ignored him for just 9 hours and he started to get worried. I don't know what to do.
I wouldn't get too attached.. He will probably come to his senses soon.
Respect the guy if you like him, stop trying to make him jealous. Put yourself in his shoes.
Respect the guy if you like him, stop trying to make him jealous. Put yourself in his shoes.
Should I say this? "Also, I'm sorry if I came off rude yesterday. I just thought that if I saw you shirtless, it would drive me over the edge. You're already ridiculously handsome, charming, intelligent, kind and so sweet. I find you so irresistible and magnetic. You fit all the criteria that I need (and they are high!) and I find you absolutely perfect. You're the whole package, and with a nice, fit body, I just feel... To be honest, I didn't feel disgusted at all. I really want you. I blushed so hard on the spot and felt so flattered when you asked me, but, I didn't really know what to say."
I was worried because he has grown distant as opposed to the usual showering of attention and affection.
I was worried because he has grown distant as opposed to the usual showering of attention and affection.
Posted by vegansagittarius
Should I say this? "Also, I'm sorry if I came off rude yesterday. I just thought that if I saw you shirtless, it would drive me over the edge. You're already ridiculously handsome, charming, intelligent, kind and so sweet. I find you so irresistible and magnetic. You fit all the criteria that I need (and they are high!) and I find you absolutely perfect. You're the whole package, and with a nice, fit body, I just feel... To be honest, I didn't feel disgusted at all. I really want you. I blushed so hard on the spot and felt so flattered when you asked me, but, I didn't really know what to say."
I was worried because he has grown distant as opposed to the usual showering of attention and affection.
Virtually everything you say is manipulative.
You're talking about other men one minute, and the next
you're saying Oh you'll find someone else soon.
Then you want to gush and overdo it to the point you sound
like you're just fucking with him.
I get it, you're insecure-- but you're a Sagittarius ffs... can't
you just stay in the moment without over-thinking every
little thing and just have an honest convo?
Just be who you are, instead of trying to manipulate
reactions or behaviours.
Where is your moon?
My moon is a Leo. I thought sun signs matter the most. What should I do? Because I was telling the truth. I was flattered and all, but didn't want to come off perverted by saying "yes" and I didn't really like looking at naked bodies. I know, it is strange. I am a virgin if it counts, BTW. I think it is why I am uncomfortable about it, and I feel kinda good trumping him and saying "No."
He still has his dating profile up. I think I should break up with him.
This is wasting our time. Should I say ignore him for a few days before saying "do you see us being together in the future?" followed by, regardless of his answer "I don't see any purpose in continuing whatever it is that we have now if this is going nowhere. So we are going to talk, part ways when we find someone living closer to us and pretend that nothing has ever happened?" then I will block him. Is this a good way to break up with him? I recover quickly and now preparing myself emotionally for the break up.
This is wasting our time. Should I say ignore him for a few days before saying "do you see us being together in the future?" followed by, regardless of his answer "I don't see any purpose in continuing whatever it is that we have now if this is going nowhere. So we are going to talk, part ways when we find someone living closer to us and pretend that nothing has ever happened?" then I will block him. Is this a good way to break up with him? I recover quickly and now preparing myself emotionally for the break up.
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This is a trainwreck....
Stop freaking out and relax. As a leo I hate girls who lack self confidence and play the jealousy card. You want to win a leo? It's simple, be fun, be attractive, be intelligent. Leo loves those qualities. You have a leo moon so you can understand on a deeper level of a Leo's needs.
Just be yourself and have fun. It's way too early yo have these mini freak outs.
Stop freaking out and relax. As a leo I hate girls who lack self confidence and play the jealousy card. You want to win a leo? It's simple, be fun, be attractive, be intelligent. Leo loves those qualities. You have a leo moon so you can understand on a deeper level of a Leo's needs.
Just be yourself and have fun. It's way too early yo have these mini freak outs.
Posted by vegansagittarius
I am a virgin if it counts, BTW. I think it is why I am uncomfortable about it,
and I feel kinda good trumping him and saying "No."
You're in over your head.
This is childish.
Posted by MontgomeryPosted by vegansagittarius
I am a virgin if it counts, BTW. I think it is why I am uncomfortable about it,
and I feel kinda good trumping him and saying "No."
You're in over your head.
This is childish.
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I'm adding: youre making him think there's something wrong with
him, rather than telling him you're just scared because that
embarrasses you.
The break up isn't going so well. He made me feel so bad and he was so sad.
The user who posted this message has hidden it.
Truly... I have better things to waste my time on.
This is how it went
14/02 10:57] Crystal ✈: Okay. We need to talk.
[14/02 11:01] Max: Now? Can't, barely have the time to text, let alone call. I'm sorry I will be able to tomorrow if that's alright? 😢
[14/02 11:01] Crystal ✈: No, not about calling.
[14/02 11:01] Max: About what?
[14/02 11:02] Crystal ✈: It is pointless continuing whatever it is that we have now if this is going absolutely nowhere.
[14/02 11:02] Max: Nowhere?? I think it's going somewhere!
[14/02 11:03] Crystal ✈: So we're just going to talk. Waste our time until we find someone closer to us. Then we are going to part ways and pretend that nothing has happened.
[14/02 11:04] Max: I can't talk because I'm in the field, I barley have reception out here 😢 and we'll do more than talk!
[14/02 11:04] Crystal ✈: Do you understand what I am saying?
[14/02 11:05] Crystal ✈: I understand your situation and I don't need you to call me
[14/02 11:05] Crystal ✈: By talking, I mean us texting back and forth and communicating.
[14/02 11:06] Crystal ✈: I've thought about this for a while. Wouldn't we be wasting our time if if we just, in the end, find someone closer to us and part ways as if nothing has happened?
[14/02 11:54] Max: But is it so wrong to try??
[14/02 11:55] Crystal ✈: Try what?
[14/02 11:55] Max: You know...this, us
[14/02 11:55] Crystal ✈: I don't know what you want from me.
[14/02 11:56] Max: I don't want you to cut it off so suddenly...
[14/02 11:56] Crystal ✈: What are you saying?
[14/02 11:58] Max: Could we keep talking? I really like you... I'll be back from the field tomorrow, can I call you then?
[14/02 11:58] Crystal ✈: Okay. We'll talk about this.
[14/02 11:59] Max: Alright...😢
[14/02 12:01] Crystal ✈: I want to ask you. What do you want from me?
[14/02 12:02] Crystal ✈: A friendship? Pen-pal? What?
[14/02 12:04] Max: Happy VD?
[14/02 12:05] Crystal ✈: What do you want from me?
[14/02 12:05] Crystal ✈: What do you mean?
[14/02 12:06] Max: Isn't it the 14th there? And a chance to be your bf I guess?
[14/02 12:06] Crystal ✈: Thank you. Is that really what you want?
[14/02 12:07] Max: Yes! I can't tell you how amazing you are... I just want a chance...
[14/02 12:08] Crystal ✈: Okay. We'll talk about this tomorrow. Give me a text before calling because I've got a flight.
14/02 10:57] Crystal ✈: Okay. We need to talk. [14/02 11:01] Max: Now? Can't, barely have the time to text, let alone call. I'm sorry I will be able to tomorrow if that's alright? 😢
[14/02 11:01] Crystal ✈: No, not about calling.
[14/02 11:01] Max: About what?
[14/02 11:02] Crystal ✈: It is pointless continuing whatever it is that we have now if this is going absolutely nowhere.
[14/02 11:02] Max: Nowhere?? I think it's going somewhere!
[14/02 11:03] Crystal ✈: So we're just going to talk. Waste our time until we find someone closer to us. Then we are going to part ways and pretend that nothing has happened.
[14/02 11:04] Max: I can't talk because I'm in the field, I barley have reception out here 😢 and we'll do more than talk!
[14/02 11:04] Crystal ✈: Do you understand what I am saying?
[14/02 11:05] Crystal ✈: I understand your situation and I don't need you to call me
[14/02 11:05] Crystal ✈: By talking, I mean us texting back and forth and communicating.
[14/02 11:06] Crystal ✈: I've thought about this for a while. Wouldn't we be wasting our time if if we just, in the end, find someone closer to us and part ways as if nothing has happened?
[14/02 11:54] Max: But is it so wrong to try??
[14/02 11:55] Crystal ✈: Try what?
[14/02 11:55] Max: You know...this, us
[14/02 11:55] Crystal ✈: I don't know what you want from me.
[14/02 11:56] Max: I don't want you to cut it off so suddenly...
[14/02 11:56] Crystal ✈: What are you saying?
[14/02 11:58] Max: Could we keep talking? I really like you... I'll be back from the field tomorrow, can I call you then?
[14/02 11:58] Crystal ✈: Okay. We'll talk about this.
[14/02 11:59] Max: Alright...😢
[14/02 12:01] Crystal ✈: I want to ask you. What do you want from me?
[14/02 12:02] Crystal ✈: A friendship? Pen-pal? What?
[14/02 12:04] Max: Happy VD?
[14/02 12:05] Crystal ✈: What do you want from me?
[14/02 12:05] Crystal ✈: What do you mean?
[14/02 12:06] Max: Isn't it the 14th there? And a chance to be your bf I guess?
[14/02 12:06] Crystal ✈: Thank you. Is that really what you want?
[14/02 12:07] Max: Yes! I can't tell you how amazing you are... I just want a chance...
[14/02 12:08] Crystal ✈: Okay. We'll talk about this tomorrow. Give me a text before calling because I've got a flight.
The reason why I am torturing him like this is because he still has his dating profile up. And what I said was right. I'd feel like he was using me as a substitute until he can find someone near him. I don't like that. I feel cheated one day if it happens and it will turn out to be a waste of time
More messages from him13/02 01:41] Crystal ✈: I'm sorry I'm so boring today
[13/02 01:42] Crystal ✈: 😳
[13/02 01:55] Max: Your not boring at all!!
[13/02 08:13] Max: You're sweet kind caring really all aspects of a woman that I really want
[13/02 08:17] Max: Also not to mention super smart, that by the way I find you very attractive 😉
13/02 01:41] Crystal ✈: I'm sorry I'm so boring today [13/02 01:42] Crystal ✈: 😳
[13/02 01:55] Max: Your not boring at all!!
[13/02 08:13] Max: You're sweet kind caring really all aspects of a woman that I really want
[13/02 08:17] Max: Also not to mention super smart, that by the way I find you very attractive 😉
[11/02 00:04] Crystal ✈: Yeah. They approached me.
[11/02 00:04] Crystal ✈: You know guys doing roadwork, construction workers or house renovation guys?
[11/02 00:06] Max: Yeah, did anything wrong happen? Or were they just commenting on what I already know? Cause I don't care when I get there imma protect you with my life
[11/02 00:07] Crystal ✈: That... Makes my heart beat so fast. They came up to me, asking if I want to join them in for a "good time" with a wink.
[11/02 00:08] Max: What did you do? Please say you left and nothing happened...
[11/02 00:04] Crystal ✈: You know guys doing roadwork, construction workers or house renovation guys?
[11/02 00:06] Max: Yeah, did anything wrong happen? Or were they just commenting on what I already know? Cause I don't care when I get there imma protect you with my life
[11/02 00:07] Crystal ✈: That... Makes my heart beat so fast. They came up to me, asking if I want to join them in for a "good time" with a wink.
[11/02 00:08] Max: What did you do? Please say you left and nothing happened...
Posted by vegansagittarius
[13/02 08:13] Max: You're sweet kind caring really all aspects of a woman that I really want
Epic judge of character fail. At this point the dude must be desperate not to see what you're made of. Just give me his e-mail and I'll save you two retards a lot of time.
Posted by vegansagittarius
[11/02 00:04] Crystal ✈: Yeah. They approached me.
[11/02 00:04] Crystal ✈: You know guys doing roadwork, construction workers or house renovation guys?
[11/02 00:06] Max: Yeah, did anything wrong happen? Or were they just commenting on what I already know? Cause I don't care when I get there imma protect you with my life
[11/02 00:07] Crystal ✈: That... Makes my heart beat so fast. They came up to me, asking if I want to join them in for a "good time" with a wink.
[11/02 00:08] Max: What did you do? Please say you left and nothing happened...
The irony of the thread title "How to drive a Leo man crazy" is if you pulled this with me I'd have slept like baby bc you'd be out of my mind in no time.
wtf is this thread?
"19 year old Leo moons named Crystal.. dude " lol
To be honest, I want to be exclusive with him, but I don't want to freak him out. We have begun talking about the future and have grown close. However, him keeping his profile up is preventing me from putting all my eggs in one basket. For all I know, I may just be a substitute until he finds some random girl living closer to him. If I emotionally invest myself, I may get hurt one day. I feel insecure that he has renewed his membership and may be messaging other girls in hopea that he could lose me, but having no luck. Being his only lifeline, that doesn't feel good at all. I've deleted my profile (mainly because no one close to me was contacting me and really weird and old guys contacting me was becoming very disturbing)
So ask him why his profile's still up, it's no rocket science
Then online relationships are a waste of time then. He does get jealous when I speak about other guys and he is overprotective. Actually, we've exchanged selfies in uniform with a sign that is written with our names on it. So we both know we are talking to the real deal. If he still has his profile up this says that my assumptions are true. Anyway, he says he will call me tomorrow but I don't know what to say.
Just talk dirty and tell them how handsome they are lol
Posted by vegansagittarius
[11/02 00:04] Crystal ✈: Yeah. They approached me.
[11/02 00:04] Crystal ✈: You know guys doing roadwork, construction workers or house renovation guys?
[11/02 00:06] Max: Yeah, did anything wrong happen? Or were they just commenting on what I already know? Cause I don't care when I get there imma protect you with my life
[11/02 00:07] Crystal ✈: That... Makes my heart beat so fast. They came up to me, asking if I want to join them in for a "good time" with a wink.
[11/02 00:08] Max: What did you do? Please say you left and nothing happened...
You're soo full of shit.
He isn't real though till you've skyped.
This poor guy
Oh of this is very true. Not agreeing with somebody does not equate to being mental illness or a troll (and how rude. If you don't agree with vegetarians or Christians, does this make them mental?). He is calling me today so I can set this straight once and for all. Notice how I asked him twice what he wanted and he gave me a vague answer? Big red flag at "I don't want you to cut me off... So early".
Can you guys actually see he is using me as a substitute until someone closer comes along? It actually hurts to be that. I will never enter an online relationship ever again. It never works out and both parties will end up getting hurt. He is just enjoying and attention I give him so far. Who knows if he is still making first contact to several girls and is saying the same thing he has said to me with 10 other girls?
You mean like you're holding a gangbang with 10 construction workers over his head? Nah I wouldn't put all my eggs in that basket either!
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