I am a Leo Man ask me anything! (Page 2)

Oh damn it!! Too late LOL

I can't go another 6 months like this :p Just told him I consider myself a single woman from now on.

Well by all accounts, I no doubt, have blown any chances i had with this leo.In our last phone conversation, he was asking if I would marry him and have his children, but then I went on to tell him, that I wont be party, to being a shag buddy, if thats all he wants. I asked him if he just wanted to be friends, nothing. I told him Im worth more than that. So cleary, there is a problem communicating between us. Hence, i have not heard from him since. Being a Scorpio, i cant do grey areas, i need to know, what i mean to this man, then i can act accordingly.

...and I am back.
I don't know any of you and I'm not even sure why I am writing here. I guess I just need a place to vent.
I am really sad now.
After I spoke with my bf that day about feeling lonely with him and that I was going to consider myself a single lady, as usual, things went back to the same. He minimized what I said and we actually had a great night that day. He was so lovely and I was so happy. We talked about exchanging xmas gifts, all was good. So I thought that maybe I was being a drama queen (even though deep down I was still feeling that I was giving much more than him).
Anyway, the last couple of days we have been speaking normally but not making any plans. He was cool and distant again. So today I texted him if he wanted to meet. He says yes but only later at night as he couldn't earlier. So I asked him what was he doing? He replies he was at friends. So we went back and forth with texts and I again ended up saying hat I couldn't go on like this much longer, that he never had time for me lately unless later at night and that it didn't make feel good so we should stop once for all. No answer for ours. Then I texted again saying that the fact he was ignoring something that was important to me and that was hurting me so much, was sayng a lot about the man he was. Then he said that he was not ignoring but that he didn't know what to do to change my opinion. To which I replied if he wanted he could change my opinion as I told him very directly before what I thought was wrong.
So he says nothing.
And because I think important things should be discussed face to face and not by sms, I went by his place (we live nearby). I rang and he didnt answer! I called him he didnt pick up. Told him I was at his door and just wanted to speak. Nothing!
I am so hurt right now. And so disappointed.. We are adults and if things don't work, they dont work, thats fine. But those things should be faced, not ignored.
Im really hurt because he was never like this, I always saw him as a polite man. The fact he was a coward by not wanting to speak to me hurts me bad, as I deserve more respect than that. We've been spending the last 6 months together. And I mean 4 out of 7 nights we are together.
I am just very very sad. Because I like him.
And now I feel that even if he makes up some excuse (as I am sure he will) I shouldnt get back to someone who treated me that way, but then if I don't apologize that's it, it's over.

...well, I don't even know if he will apologize, as all this took me by surprise.
I'm just hurt and needed a place to vent. 😢(

hey Maryjane I swear its like u are writing my story about my leo .... matter of fact is his name Adam ?? i want to write more on this to u but at the time I am pretty upset with mine too and we just broke up ..I will write more on this later k when I have enough time for this dilema ... sorry to hear what u going thru... take care

Posted by rocktressa
hey Maryjane I swear its like u are writing my story about my leo .... matter of fact is his name Adam ?? i want to write more on this to u but at the time I am pretty upset with mine too and we just broke up ..I will write more on this later k when I have enough time for this dilema ... sorry to hear what u going thru... take care

Hey RT,
Do you know that it scares me to realize there is a common pattern here amongst our Leos? Does this mean this is how they are - DOT- ? So I just have to deal with it as this is as Leo's are?
No honey, his name is not Adam, and I am from Europe, but hey, maybe he has a cousin 🙂

As I suspected, at 1am he texted me saying that only then he had seen my text and that we could speak tomorrow (today). Typical.
So he didn't hear the phone, he didn't hear the bell and he didn't see the text. Am I suppose to play along and pretend I believe it?

My question is still here: will he respect me if I forgive him and get back to him or will I be seen as proud if I don't?

I hope you are feeling better RT. It is really sad when someone doesn't let us love them. Too much saddness in the world to play games with people's feelings. Keeps us posted.

Posted by SweetLibra

Posted by maryjane
So we went back and forth with texts and I again ended up saying hat I couldn't go on like this much longer, that he never had time for me lately unless later at night and that it didn't make feel good so we should stop once for all. No answer for ours. Then I texted again saying that the fact he was ignoring something that was important to me and that was hurting me so much, was sayng a lot about the man he was. Then he said that he was not ignoring but that he didn't know what to do to change my opinion. To which I replied if he wanted he could change my opinion as I told him very directly before what I thought was wrong.
So he says nothing.

My guy did something similar to this early on in our relationship. We had been seeing each other pretty often, several times a week for a month and things were going good. So one night while we were texting each other, I let him know that I really liked him and asked him a question about our status via text and he never answered the question. Now this is a guy who takes seconds to reply back to 98% of my messages. The next day I sent him a message asking the question again and still no answer. Six hours after that (tired of his B.S.), I sent a message saying that "not answering my question was enough of an answer for me and for him to have a nice life". He called me right away and accussed me of overreacting and yada, yada and we made amends and things went back to "normal". He did try to dance around the topic, but I got him to admit that he liked me to and that he didn't want me to go. I decided not to worry about it and just go with the flow. I think they do not like to be backed into a corner. Some of them run when you do this. What confuses me is that if this is a sign of a Leo not really wanting to commit, then why would he have been out searching for a relationship in the first place. My Leo found me, I wasn't looking for him. Isn't that selfish to bring another person into your life when you have no intentions of being there in the long run and you know that? I thought Leo's were generous not selfish. I've never heard them described as selfish. Why would he do that "O Great Almighty LEOMAN? Please elaborate 🙂

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I just nodded along the way throughout your all message, SL. Specially the part you say

Ops, something happened to my message above :p

I was saying SL, that with me it was the same, in the sense that he was the one who chased me, who insisted a lot for us to go out, etc..
I don't understand why it is so hard for them to say whjat they really want.

But how do you deal with this, people? Anyone?
Do you keep on confronting them risking scaring them away? / Do you ignore what you feel and play along?

What a story Samiamascorpio!
Leo's are really hard work, ah?
Look at RT, SL, myself... are any Leo's out there in long term relationships or everything is just a fling for you?

....and me again! 🙂
Well, new updates.
We both work but we are always online and we speak everyday. Today it took him until 11h30 to sign in which was odd.
Anyway, asked him if he didn't want to speak to me last night and he made up this excuse about the bell being broken, not hearing the phone etc, to which I pretended to believe.
And now we are talking and not getting any where. Asked if he saw me as his gf he said he didn't know, that he respects any decision I take. I ask which decision would HE like to take?
And he goes on about how he enjoys freedom but likes being with me, that for him everyhting is good, but he can't force me liking him... Honestly, a lot of BS. Because if he really liked me he would have said so and make me stay.
So he is putting the decision in my hands about what to do, to keep seeing each other or to cut it.
He was very harsh about me saying that I was considering being single the other day, and that on my text I said we needed to stop seeing each other. But I don't know if those are just excuses for him to cut me off.
It just seems he wants to meet, and the sex and the company, but he doesn't want to commit. I don't think it is fair to give the best of me to a person that will only be there for the good and never for the bad.
And it hurts me that he says: I accept anything you choose. Oh jjeezzz, you must really like me to say that!!

I like him, but will a man ever respect me if I accept to keep on seing him on this terms?
Will I respect myself?

Leos in Love: leos love long term relationships,they want one person that they can focus all there love and attention on, they like to bring there girl every with them. However it may take a while get to that stage as they like to be 100% sure that you will be around for the long run they hate being wrong and embarrassed in front of friends and family.


When a leo really loves you they will do anything for you and go out of their way to show you, presents communication the works.

all you need t o do is show then that you canbe there emotionally its not all about what a leo receives materially . Its true, ignore a leos attempts to attract you and he will lust for you more, but be careful when you do this because when they they get your attention they may not care after which is why it is important to show him that you care from the start as they may suspect that you were playing a game.Plus a leos ego just think he can get any girl so it may turn into a game for him if your ignoring him.

Leos act on emotion, show them you care and they will care more.

leos also hate to be lonely so to make sure your not a fling , question your relation in you head and not to him- is he introducing me to friends, family, buying me things

ufff...I think you all for the input and for sharing your stories with me. And for reading! Made feel better to come here but....does anyone have an opinion about what i should do? Shall I keep seeing him? Shall I stop this?

Posted by Samiamascorpio
Maryjane, Theleoman is spot on, they are happiest when in love with one woman. And if they are truly in love they will not hang out with friends and than see you, they will take you to see their friends, the two of you will be inseparable.

Theleoman thank you for also providing me further insight into the mind of a Leo 🙂.

No problem at all!

Hi Leoman >>> I appreciate all of your wisdom and I will post my soap opera on here soon but as of yet I must rest now for lack of sleeping and overindulgence of Jim Beam.... Im doing better as days go by but I fight a strong urge to just call him >>>>.HICCUP.... its beeen 6 days and no contact and he was the one who texeted me to say we should go seperate ways cuz i texted him asking where do i stand with him and that I was so confused by his "love me now ignore me tomorro antics". .. should I just give him a short sweet message or chalk it up to him calling me? Hi my leo lovin ladies ... yall just come down to new orleans and Ill make us all daquiris and well go dancing in the streets with the brass funeral marching band... of course Leoman you can lead the band..

Hello hello!
I can't here myself moaning about this situation anymore!
So, I just came here to tell you the news, the ending of this story (for now, that is!)

After he being upset with me about what I said and becoming a bit cold, and also after telling me he was not sure about defining us as a couple, I told him I din't want to take any drastic decision, as in the end of the day I really enjoy his company. So now I new how he felt and I was not going to put pressure on him. Which is true, I don't like to be undefined to anyone, but at least now I know where I stand and how he feels.

Anyway, so he was upset with me and playing a bit hard to get that at night I texted him asking if we wanted to meet. He answered in a very cold way that yes, that if I wanted he 'was around'. Lol. He doesn't use this kind of language (in my language which isn't english). So I said yes I wanted and I went to meet him.

And instead of making it a hard night after all that was said I just used my weapons 🙂 I put on a really sexy lingerie, high heels and a trench coat and went to his place. Told him it was my way to show I didn't want to be upset with him (I didnt say apologise, as I dont feel I did anything I should apologise for). He had an amazing smile on his face! We didn't speak again about what happened and all seemed normal again.

So that's it. Obviously it isn't 'normal' as I will still be with a guy that doesn't want to get to close, but now I know that, so I can control my expectations. Like SL said some are worth fighting for so I will try.

Posted by maryjane
Hello hello!
I can't here myself moaning about this situation anymore!
So, I just came here to tell you the news, the ending of this story (for now, that is!)

After he being upset with me about what I said and becoming a bit cold, and also after telling me he was not sure about defining us as a couple, I told him I din't want to take any drastic decision, as in the end of the day I really enjoy his company. So now I new how he felt and I was not going to put pressure on him. Which is true, I don't like to be undefined to anyone, but at least now I know where I stand and how he feels.

Anyway, so he was upset with me and playing a bit hard to get that at night I texted him asking if we wanted to meet. He answered in a very cold way that yes, that if I wanted he 'was around'. Lol. He doesn't use this kind of language (in my language which isn't english). So I said yes I wanted and I went to meet him.

And instead of making it a hard night after all that was said I just used my weapons 🙂 I put on a really sexy lingerie, high heels and a trench coat and went to his place. Told him it was my way to show I didn't want to be upset with him (I didnt say apologise, as I dont feel I did anything I should apologise for). He had an amazing smile on his face! We didn't speak again about what happened and all seemed normal again.

So that's it. Obviously it isn't 'normal' as I will still be with a guy that doesn't want to get to close, but now I know that, so I can control my expectations. Like SL said some are worth fighting for so I will try.

nice weapons lol how to get a leo 101. Just keep doing that and he will always crave for more. .. like i said get in bed get under sheets get naked...we are very simple people lol

Posted by rocktressa
Hi Leoman >>> I appreciate all of your wisdom and I will post my soap opera on here soon but as of yet I must rest now for lack of sleeping and overindulgence of Jim Beam.... Im doing better as days go by but I fight a strong urge to just call him >>>>.HICCUP.... its beeen 6 days and no contact and he was the one who texeted me to say we should go seperate ways cuz i texted him asking where do i stand with him and that I was so confused by his "love me now ignore me tomorro antics". .. should I just give him a short sweet message or chalk it up to him calling me? Hi my leo lovin ladies ... yall just come down to new orleans and Ill make us all daquiris and well go dancing in the streets with the brass funeral marching band... of course Leoman you can lead the band..

you know we are all afraid to use bizzare tactics and we mask it will all this i want a relationship stuff so we are afraid to dig deep and say what we really want to say myself included lol

what makes a leo tick is sexual things.. shake it up tell him " you just want my pussy" then tell him " its his forever"

in his head he will say " i cant believe she just said that" but i guarantee he will want you see you more and more .

In a weired way you just told hmm you will be their forever and sex will never be a problem
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I think we all just want to have sex and for the person to be their forever and we only want it with one person, but in order to have that we feel we have to build all this stuff around that to secure sex all the time and the person thereforever

Maryjane,

You're not controlling your expectations, you are lowering them. BIG difference. And it's not something he respects in the long run. Why would you be willing to lower or sublimate your needs to keep a guy? Well, you kind of explained it, you don't care as long as you have some kind of contact. You need to know how a Leo thinks and what pride means to them. Many will fall at his feet through his charm but he will only respect those who have pride like they do. He NEEDS to respect you if he can ever love you.

I had the fortunate opportunity to love a Leo. He protected and loved me in ways no man ever did before(until my fiance now). He never ignored me if I had a concern much less hurt by something. He wouldn't stand for it! That's how they are when they love. You are their treasured prize and will take care of your every need.

He told you straight up he didn't care what you did. That's huge! No Leo man (or ANY man) who ever cared about a woman would say that unless he didn't care if he lost her. But you offer yourself. Really not healthy. And you see it and accept it yet....? Please know I say this because if you won't try to protect your heart & soul, at least this silly stranger is. I hope he comes to his senses and will love you back. Uh, just worried for you, hun.

Posted by Mistery
Maryjane,

You're not controlling your expectations, you are lowering them. BIG difference. And it's not something he respects in the long run. Why would you be willing to lower or sublimate your needs to keep a guy? Well, you kind of explained it, you don't care as long as you have some kind of contact. You need to know how a Leo thinks and what pride means to them. Many will fall at his feet through his charm but he will only respect those who have pride like they do. He NEEDS to respect you if he can ever love you.

I had the fortunate opportunity to love a Leo. He protected and loved me in ways no man ever did before(until my fiance now). He never ignored me if I had a concern much less hurt by something. He wouldn't stand for it! That's how they are when they love. You are their treasured prize and will take care of your every need.

He told you straight up he didn't care what you did. That's huge! No Leo man (or ANY man) who ever cared about a woman would say that unless he didn't care if he lost her. But you offer yourself. Really not healthy. And you see it and accept it yet....? Please know I say this because if you won't try to protect your heart & soul, at least this silly stranger is. I hope he comes to his senses and will love you back. Uh, just worried for you, hun.

Oh Mistery, it hurts to read your post. And this is probably the 5th time I am reading it. Mainly because deep down that's what I think, hence me asking above: will a guy ever respect me if I stay with him on this terms?

I just really don't know if things, with some people, always have to be white or black, and if maybe this couldn't be a gray moment for him. I am not trying to make excuses for him Mistery, but the truth is that we spend a lot of time together and we are always talking online at work. I know there isn't any other women. But I think he is terrified with the idea of commitment. Maybe more the concept than the situation.

That said, what you just so nicely described about a man being in love: the way they care, they protect you, basically the way they make you feel special...I don't have that with him, as he stopped making me feel like that maybe 2months after we started dating.

I am an Aries: always full of energy and a very determined person, even some what successful at work and I do turn a few heads walkin

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Oh Mistery, it hurts to read your post. And this is probably the 5th time I am reading it. Mainly because deep down that's what I think, hence me asking above: will a guy ever respect me if I stay with him on this terms?

I just really don't know if things, with some people, always have to be white or black, and if maybe this couldn't be a gray moment for him. I am not trying to make excuses for him Mistery, but the truth is that we spend a lot of time together and we are always talking online at work. I know there isn't any other women. But I think he is terrified with the idea of commitment. Maybe more the concept than the situation.

That said, what you just so nicely described about a man being in love: the way they care, they protect you, basically the way they make you feel special...I don't have that with him, as he stopped making me feel like that maybe 2months after we started dating.

I am an Aries: always full of energy and a very determined person, even some what successful at work and I do turn a few heads walking on the street 🙂 But I am feeling very weak about this fight. Probably because I am new to the city where I am living now, so I don't have the distractions to entertain me enough for me not to feel super lonely without him.. Exactly what you told me above, I swear it could had been me telling a friend if she was in the same situation.

I've been thinking about this all night..I am not strong enough just now to go and have another conversation with him and say all is over and explain my reasons. He knows my reasons. He is not a stupid man. And I am tired to explain myself. So slowly I will start seeing him less, not being available online at work, refusing more his invitations until I will get used to be without him again. Eventually he will see something's wrong, and that's when I will tell him that whether he wants me as his gf and is ready to open himself up with me, or we will go separate ways. By then I will be stronger as I'm forcing myself to get sued to the idea he doesn't care for me.

(to all of you reading this, please don't think I am a lunatic, always changing my mind. I am just a very confused person now) 🙂

@Maryjane, Honey, I'm sorry. I don't mean to hurt you. I'm an Aries as well so I got your back sista!
What you wrote before about him not really caring about you being hurt, well, that got to me because it isn't typical of a Leo or any guy to do that. I know you want some kind of closure but guys are not good with that. It stinks but they pretty much act in a way that distances themselves and we keep asking, "Do you want this or not?" And yeah, his answer was he does but his actions are blah. I went through this with another guy (not the Leo) and it took years before I called it quits and all he did was agree...until he wanted me back weeks later but I met my fiance.

The moral of that story is, he was confused, kept me confused for years and yeah, he wanted me back a year after. Ugh, so ridiculous and crazy love can be! I don't know what is going on with your Leo. He may be not ready for anything serious, unwilling to commit, but you know what I learned in all of that torturous crap I went through with that ex? It doesn't matter what his reason is because most likely he can't give you one. The bottom line he can't give you what you want right now and he won't say it since he can't as he'd probably like to keep you around but you need to just KNOW that for YOU. To protect your heart. And I can see how moving to a new city might make you more dependent on him than you should be. So, (you know what I'm gonna say) go out, meet new people, just make friends right now. Get away from the drama and wondering and BREATHE the air! Life is good, there are so many wonderful things to get excited about. Putting all into one who isn't ready is well, pretty useless. I'd pull back. Keep chatting, be his friend but be busy and not always available for him. He has to want you just as much if not more. That's when you get the good stuff, sweetie. 😉

Don't apologise Mistery! Musch the opposite. I thank you.

"I went through this with another guy (not the Leo) and it took years before I called it quits and all he did was agree...until he wanted me back weeks later but I met my fiance."

Good for you! I don't think I will go on like this for years though.
It's just weird Mistery.. Even on saturday I made some excuse to go to his place to collect my things and we ended up spending all saturday together. Then at night he wanted to be with me again. Then sunday I didnt say anything and he wanted me to have dinner with him at his place and we again spent the all evening and night together.

I am going to wait a while, because I lost a few things in the past because I was too drastic, so I will follow part of your advise, take it slowly, go out, meet people, etc and see what will happen. Im not really sure if it is the commitment thing that is scaring him, as I know in a way he enjoys my comapny a lot, or if he has no plans whatsoever to ever assume a relationship with me.


"The bottom line he can't give you what you want right now and he won't say it since he can't as he'd probably like to keep you around but you need to just KNOW that for YOU. To protect your heart."
I will make sure to read your posts over and over again in order not to fool myself 🙂 And listen to Beyonce's Irreplaceable too!!

ex-bf leo once told me that if we are going to meet, i should wear some thing sexy....and on the day of our meeting (he came over to my house), i just wore a short shorts and a shirt, and he said, "haven't i told you to wear some thing sexy?"...

and then one time he asked me if i want to come with him on some parties (because according to him he is a DJ), i said sure. he requested that if in case we are going on to some parties i should be wearing something like a tight miniskirt and thongs under it. hmmmnnn...correct me if i am wrong, i think the reason why he wants me to wear it is because he wants to show-off?

and he do sulks, too! because one time i haven't sent him a message or called him, he texted me saying why i haven't called or send him messages? i was supposed to tell him this: how about u? aren't u doing the same thing? why no text or calls from u?...and then another time, he saw me on-line, left a message and asked me, "how come u r on-line and u didn't even say hi?"

...another time, i sent him a message saying: "I don't want another pretty face, I don't want just anyone to hold, I don't want my love to go to waste, I want you and your beautiful soul," which is actually from Jesse McCartney's song "Beautiful Soul". he texted me back and told me that i totally made his day. 🙂.

theleoman, one more thing. i broke-up with him, ok? then, on the same day i broke-up wih him, i found out that he deleted me on his friends list (on both his IMVU and MSN accounts) and put me on block, but he did not delete my phone no. from his mobile (i know because some times we do send sms to each other, especially if his gf is annoying me)? just wondering how come it is like that? is it typical for a leo? thanks for the answer and have a good day.

WELLL Leo man—?? if you are anything like all the other leo personality traits on here then it appears you are in the "ignoring" stage of us... You were the one to insight and lure us into the "I am a Leo man ask me anything "den . we took the bait and loved you for your detailed attention to us and of course returned the favor by complimenting your insightful answers and feedback ..we learned to stay super feminine and run around with sexy panties on all while boasting to our leo love on how sexy he is ... Now here u go again driving us KRAZEEEEE with your disapearing act....have we told you how caring you are to bless us with this post in the first place allowing us to try to grasp an understanding of the many confusing although adorable facets that posess a leo man. now about me and my leo .... it turns out that he dosent want a relationship with me or anyone right now.. he is 6 months out of a 6 year relationship and even though he wont admit it he is still in love with her and i fee like i was made victim of a plight i surely didnt wish upon myself.. He was the one to persue me ,shine for me ,, treat me so much like a lady and to dazzle me with adoration and the first to whisper he loved me in my ear ... he said it to me several times and i too confessed my love for him and lord knows I totally returned the essential love he so desired.. i hopped under his sheets with sexy lingere..I am a taurus woman and I dress to impress . I am funny and had him laughing...i have my own place ,pay my own bills, have my own car , I am strong and independent and when i loved him it was with my all .I allowed him his space when he needed it ... the night before he broke up with me he asked me to come over... we had the most bed rockin passionate session exchanged i love yous and we kissed like soul mates.. the next day i texted him to find out why he was ignoring me and that i wished he would quit confusing me with this hot cold action .. next thing you know he tex me to tell me he wants to go seperate ways cuz he wants no relationship... im stunned and i will let him go without me ,,ie texed him twice to tel him im not mad and that we should at least remain friends,,typical no answer....... I will try my best to move on but he is under my skin and its burning..

ex-bf leo once told me that if we are going to meet, i should wear some thing sexy....and on the day of our meeting (he came over to my house), i just wore a short shorts and a shirt, and he said, "haven't i told you to wear some thing sexy?"...

I believe this, we really like someone who dresses sexy all the time,especially if your out in public. You represent him juts as much as he represents himself.

Posted by ezahria
theleoman, one more thing. i broke-up with him, ok? then, on the same day i broke-up wih him, i found out that he deleted me on his friends list (on both his IMVU and MSN accounts) and put me on block, but he did not delete my phone no. from his mobile (i know because some times we do send sms to each other, especially if his gf is annoying me)? just wondering how come it is like that? is it typical for a leo? thanks for the answer and have a good day.

When leo break ups the first thing we want to do is delete everything, get rid of any reminders, deep down we will always remember who we had a relationship with and we really don't hold grudges , he doesn't hate you and may even want contact but sometime would have to pass.
The most leos do is go back "once" to a broken relationship anymore then we consider that its embarrassing if anything wrong happens and leos hate to be embarrassed. we dont want to strike out 3 times and rather call it quits for good.

and he do sulks, too! because one time i haven't sent him a message or called him, he texted me saying why i haven't called or send him messages? i was supposed to tell him this: how about u? aren't u doing the same thing? why no text or calls from u?...and then another time, he saw me on-line, left a message and asked me, "how come u r on-line and u didn't even say hi?"

...another time, i sent him a message saying: "I don't want another pretty face, I don't want just anyone to hold, I don't want my love to go to waste, I want you and your beautiful soul," which is actually from Jesse McCartney's song "Beautiful Soul". he texted me back and told me that i totally made his day. 🙂.

Leos are all about contact we love to be in contact with our other and why not we are in a relationship and want to make sure you are doing good!

Leos melt over sweet things like the message you sent ...

well hello LEOMAN after reading over my post Im hoping that i didnt come off as sounding bitchy to u personally ...im just on here venting and it helps to know that im not alone in my confusion.... although i wish we all had less heartbreak over these felines.... so i am just requesting u honor me with your wordly knowledge of the royal leo

thanks a lot for that, theleoman. 🙂

another thing. this time i want to share about this leo guy (july born) who i met thru this 3D social networking site IMVU (where i also met my ex-bf leo (an august born). actually, i met this july born leo first before i met my ex-bf leo. we chatted on-line, blah-blah-blah...exchanged mobile nos. then we met in person. he picked me up from my house and then we went to his apartment and some thing fucking happened between me and him. then, on the second time that we met, same thing happened, he picked me up from my house went to his apartment and then...i actually, was supposed to stay with him for an overnight, but told me i have to go home because his wife called him and asking where he was. (i am in some mid-east country, most local men here have their own apartment even after they got married...lolz!). well, when he told me that, i was a little surprise because what he told me on the chat is that he is already divorced. as i have said earlier, he told me that i have to go home (imagine, telling me to go home at 3am all by myself!!!) because his wife is already looking for him, so he gave me money for my taxi and before i left, he kissed me on both my cheeks (same like what Judas did to Jesus), and told me that if after 15 minutes i can't find a taxi to call him up so he could drop me home. so, i left and did find a taxi and good thing there's a nearby hotel from his apartment and asked this peeps if they could find a taxi for me and after how many minutes the taxi came and so on and so forth. i reached home and when i checked my mobile i've got missed calls from him...i didn't realize that my mobile was switched off because i put it on my pants' back pocket, that's the reason why i didn't answer his phone calls. after what had happened he still tries to call me, but i did intentionally not to answer his phone calls. after all of those trying to contact me, he suddenly stopped (perhaps, he's tired of trying. hehehe!)

and then i thought that he would stop there.....lolz! after a month, there is this guy who is trying to invite me for a chat, but every time he does, i was busy chatting with some random guy. then, every time this guy sees me on-line his trying to invite me and so, i finally accepted his invitation for a chat. the usual goes, he asked for my name and where am i from and blah-blah-blah. and while we were chatting, my mind (or shall i say my scorpion intuition) is telling me that i have met this guy in person. so, i asked him if we have met in person before, he said we had never met. so, he asked for my personal e-mail add and instead of giving my email add, i asked his e-mail add (because as i have said earlier on, i have a feeling that i have met him in person already). he gave me his e-mail and tada! it is him!!! (the nerve, lolz!). i caught him!!! lolz...and still he is denying that we have already met in person...so, i told him "ok then i have to go now!" and then he said "no, wait! wait! don't leave!", so i did not leave him on-line. and then he asked me if i was still upset or still angry at him. i told him i am not upset nor angry at him anymore i totally forgot what had happened between me and him. and he insists that, he have a feeling that i am still upset at what had happened (maybe because i always declined his chat invite? like what i have said earlier, i totally forgot about him that is why and that i was busy chatting with some random guy). and then all of a sudden, while we were chatting my laptop hanged (looool). so i have to restart my laptop, and then when i got back on-line, i did not see him anymore. so, i checked on my web homepage and he added me as a friend (he was on my friends list before, but after what had happened i deleted him), i added him and sent him a message and told him, i already forgive him for what he have done. blah-blah-blah! after that, i never heard anything from him. i still see him on-line, though, but we never had a chance of chatting with each other. so, i thought it would end there and would leave me alone...

Do I get a response —

and then, hooo! after many months, i thought he would stop...looooool...i received a message from him (my gawd!) saying that "hi, babe! i really like u. please call me..." and then after eight days, i answered him back, and asked him what does he wants. he replied back immediately and told me that he likes me too much and that he wants to be close with me. so, replied to him with "oh, really?!" because i have a doubt with his real intentions. then he replied back saying that he felt that he did something wrong for me and that he needs me and that i am a nice girl, he wants to be with me all the time. and also, he said that he divorced his wife already, that every thing is okay and that to call him because he needs to explain his side. so, i asked him if he is being honest. he said to me why not call him, so instead of calling him, i gave him my mobile no. after awhile, he gave me a phone call. he explained every thing, telling me that he totally divorced his wife, in their culture or their religion (he is an arab muslim), they can't divorce just like that. they have to give it a try for a maximum of three times. he told me, that they gave it a try, but nothing happened. because it was an arranged marriage. he married his cousin from his father's side. in other words, there's no love between them. so, i told him, its ok no problem with me at all. so, before we bade our good-bye, he asked me for a kiss. he told me that, if i already forgave him to give him a kiss. so, i did what he requested (it was on the phone)....

Posted by rocktressa
now about me and my leo .... it turns out that he dosent want a relationship with me or anyone right now.. he is 6 months out of a 6 year relationship and even though he wont admit it he is still in love with her and i fee like i was made victim of a plight i surely didnt wish upon myself.. He was the one to persue me ,shine for me ,, treat me so much like a lady and to dazzle me with adoration and the first to whisper he loved me in my ear ... he said it to me several times and i too confessed my love for him and lord knows I totally returned the essential love he so desired.. i hopped under his sheets with sexy lingere..I am a taurus woman and I dress to impress . I am funny and had him laughing...i have my own place ,pay my own bills, have my own car , I am strong and independent and when i loved him it was with my all .I allowed him his space when he needed it ... the night before he broke up with me he asked me to come over... we had the most bed rockin passionate session exchanged i love yous and we kissed like soul mates.. the next day i texted him to find out why he was ignoring me and that i wished he would quit confusing me with this hot cold action .. next thing you know he tex me to tell me he wants to go seperate ways cuz he wants no relationship... im stunned and i will let him go without me ,,ie texed him twice to tel him im not mad and that we should at least remain friends,,typical no answer....... I will try my best to move on but he is under my skin and its burning..

my fair lady "theleoman" is has not disappeared at all lol ... 6 months apart from a 6 year relationship may be too soon , he is probably not over her when a leo loves he loves deeply and hurts deeper. But show him your different and he can get over her really fast at least in the thinking passed her . Now I have to be clear leos dont like to be alone,and if another girl is there(you), he will draw to her and do everything for her, he needs love at this point and he will do anything for an emotional connection which will help him heal, thats what hes doing even if he doesnt talk about her. The upside for you is that when you help a leo heal he will cherish you forever and never forget it and that can be the emotional connection needed to start a relationship.

Leos rarely go back to exs maybe once, but hardly twice, during this time he might be wondering if he w

Leos rarely go back to exs maybe once, but hardly twice, during this time he might be wondering if he will reconnect with the 6 year relationship girl that is if there is a chance, if that chance is not possible trust me he is doing everything to forget her.

Sex wakes a leo up call his bluff tell him "I know what this is all about,you just want by pussy well since i like you im telling you its all yours...anytime you want......this is if your trying to get back with him forget all the relationship talk right now keep it simple and fun and it may grow from there.

the hot and cold thing right thats happening right now im sure its because hes thinking about his 6 year relationship , hes not going to want to get back into another one so quick in fear of going through all the hurt again, and especially if you bring up any drama during this time he wants to relax and be a peace ... now when you said you text him the next day and asked why is he ignoring you ..wasn't it just the night before that you had sex? he probably got frustrated when you asked him that

and then another days had passed he called me up again and asked me, if i am in a relationship. i said yes i am (during that time i was with the august born leo). and he sounded disappointed. so, i wondered how he discovered about it because i never told him about it, though i have plans of telling it to him if he do asked. so, i went to my IMVU homepage and found out that he checked on my profile (lolz). though he found out that i am in a so-called relationship with that august born leo, he still have this urge of seeing me and deep down inside me i also want to see him but something's stopping me that i am still in a so-called relationship with this august born leo. and during this time also, my so-called relationship with this august born leo is already on the rocks. so, i told this july born leo, that i cannot meet him on the day that he wants to meet up with me because i will be with my bf...blah-blah-blah...so, on and so forth! until, one day he stopped pursuing me just like that. never heard anything from him till today. perhaps, he got tired of chasing me? to be honest, if i have met them at the same time, i will choose this july born leo over this august born leo. idk why, perhaps during the pursuing period i felt like he is already being sincere towards me. 😢

sorry, for this long comment, i just want to share it. but if you have any thoughts, then do tell! thanks a lot.

Posted by rocktressa
well hello LEOMAN after reading over my post Im hoping that i didnt come off as sounding bitchy to u personally ...im just on here venting and it helps to know that im not alone in my confusion.... although i wish we all had less heartbreak over these felines.... so i am just requesting u honor me with your wordly knowledge of the royal leo

no you didnt , i thought it was funny, i had started to reply to your postlast night and finished it in the morning.
Its okay to vent, i believe its healthy.

Posted by ezahria
and then another days had passed he called me up again and asked me, if i am in a relationship. i said yes i am (during that time i was with the august born leo). and he sounded disappointed. so, i wondered how he discovered about it because i never told him about it, though i have plans of telling it to him if he do asked. so, i went to my IMVU homepage and found out that he checked on my profile (lolz). though he found out that i am in a so-called relationship with that august born leo, he still have this urge of seeing me and deep down inside me i also want to see him but something's stopping me that i am still in a so-called relationship with this august born leo. and during this time also, my so-called relationship with this august born leo is already on the rocks. so, i told this july born leo, that i cannot meet him on the day that he wants to meet up with me because i will be with my bf...blah-blah-blah...so, on and so forth! until, one day he stopped pursuing me just like that. never heard anything from him till today. perhaps, he got tired of chasing me? to be honest, if i have met them at the same time, i will choose this july born leo over this august born leo. idk why, perhaps during the pursuing period i felt like he is already being sincere towards me. 😢

sorry, for this long comment, i just want to share it. but if you have any thoughts, then do tell! thanks a lot.

leos ahte to hurt people that they feel dont deserve it and will do anything to make sure that persons okay. Next we love to chase its in our ego we believe we can get anything even after a break up,and we will really chase until out hearts feel that we did everything , once we reach that point we will call it quits. never make a leo wait too long if you really like him

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and then another days had passed he called me up again and asked me, if i am in a relationship. i said yes i am (during that time i was with the august born leo). and he sounded disappointed. so, i wondered how he discovered about it because i never told him about it, though i have plans of telling it to him if he do asked. so, i went to my IMVU homepage and found out that he checked on my profile (lolz). though he found out that i am in a so-called relationship with that august born leo, he still have this urge of seeing me and deep down inside me i also want to see him but something's stopping me that i am still in a so-called relationship with this august born leo. and during this time also, my so-called relationship with this august born leo is already on the rocks. so, i told this july born leo, that i cannot meet him on the day that he wants to meet up with me because i will be with my bf...blah-blah-blah...so, on and so forth! until, one day he stopped pursuing me just like that. never heard anything from him till today. perhaps, he got tired of chasing me? to be honest, if i have met them at the same time, i will choose this july born leo over this august born leo. idk why, perhaps during the pursuing period i felt like he is already being sincere towards me. 😢

sorry, for this long comment, i just want to share it. but if you have any thoughts, then do tell! thanks a lot.

leos ahte to hurt people that they feel dont deserve it and will do anything to make sure that persons okay. Next we love to chase its in our ego we believe we can get anything even after a break up,and we will really chase until out hearts feel that we did everything , once we reach that point we will call it quits. never make a leo wait too long if you really like him

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leos will always keep a piece of a good relationship in their heart and will feel connected to that person forever

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Posted by ezahria
and then another days had passed he called me up again and asked me, if i am in a relationship. i said yes i am (during that time i was with the august born leo). and he sounded disappointed. so, i wondered how he discovered about it because i never told him about it, though i have plans of telling it to him if he do asked. so, i went to my IMVU homepage and found out that he checked on my profile (lolz). though he found out that i am in a so-called relationship with that august born leo, he still have this urge of seeing me and deep down inside me i also want to see him but something's stopping me that i am still in a so-called relationship with this august born leo. and during this time also, my so-called relationship with this august born leo is already on the rocks. so, i told this july born leo, that i cannot meet him on the day that he wants to meet up with me because i will be with my bf...blah-blah-blah...so, on and so forth! until, one day he stopped pursuing me just like that. never heard anything from him till today. perhaps, he got tired of chasing me? to be honest, if i have met them at the same time, i will choose this july born leo over this august born leo. idk why, perhaps during the pursuing period i felt like he is already being sincere towards me. 😢

sorry, for this long comment, i just want to share it. but if you have any thoughts, then do tell! thanks a lot.

leos ahte to hurt people that they feel dont deserve it and will do anything to make sure that persons okay. Next we love to chase its in our ego we believe we can get anything even after a break up,and we will really chase until out hearts feel that we did everything , once we reach that point we will call it quits. never make a leo wait too long if you really like him

leos will always keep a piece of a good relationship in their heart and will feel connected to that person forever

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i liked him, but i was still holding on to my relationship with this august born leo, though my relationship with this august born leo is already on the rocks. that's what it stopped me from telling the july born leo that i like him, too!

Posted by kitty69
Well by all accounts, I no doubt, have blown any chances i had with this leo.In our last phone conversation, he was asking if I would marry him and have his children, but then I went on to tell him, that I wont be party, to being a shag buddy, if thats all he wants. I asked him if he just wanted to be friends, nothing. I told him Im worth more than that. So cleary, there is a problem communicating between us. Hence, i have not heard from him since. Being a Scorpio, i cant do grey areas, i need to know, what i mean to this man, then i can act accordingly.

well im not sure why you would tell him that you wont be a shag buddy? if he said he wants to marry you and have kids with you , IMO thats far from a shag buddy

and during that time, i was finding the right time when to break-up with this august born leo. but when i already broke up with this august born leo, the july born leo is already gone. i don't want to do the first move and tell him that i am totally free, and perhaps he's already in a relationship with someone else. and yeah, on our second meeting he gave me a nice exotic perfume 🙂, which u cannot buy elsewhere, exclusive only here in the mid-east asia. and he told me (during the pursuing or chasing period), when he was strolling at some shopping mall, there's this sales assistant that sprayed a woman's perfume on him and it reminded him of me, so he decided to buy it for me. but he never had a chance of giving that perfume to me, becuase i refused to see him, because as i have said earlier, i am still in a relationship with this august born leo.

Posted by kitty69
Hey Mister Leo, sorry if i seem a bit unclear. The two times we were dating he did ask alot if i was with any one, but i truely wasnt. He went to london for three months, without so much as one word from him. i met someone started dating him then left that guy. Then Leo returns, and we start talking daily for the last month and a half. Like I said, he told me twice last week he loves me, and asks if i want to marry him, he knows im no longer with this other guy, but keeps questioning me. What i meant also was, why does he ring all the time, text every day and night, but we dont actually see each other, should i assume, i am just his friend now, do you act this way with your friends—This has been going on for six months.Thank you, for your thoughts.

Leos like to be sure and it takes some time, hes asking because he like you as when leos love/like we go all in .

dont be confused Leos arent afraid of love or hurt we know its goes hand in hand, we just wan to to make sure the person we choose to love is worth it. To get a leo to fall in love give him all the attention in the world. if you dont he will have doubts and may only chase you to know if he can get you.

We are well aware of all the emotions in this world. We are well aware that people lie and may try and date two people at once hes just going through all that its our animal instincts.

he may even be thinking wait i left for 3 months and this girl started dating someone and im back and she not dating anymore hmmmm

Posted by ezahria
and during that time, i was finding the right time when to break-up with this august born leo. but when i already broke up with this august born leo, the july born leo is already gone. i don't want to do the first move and tell him that i am totally free, and perhaps he's already in a relationship with someone else. and yeah, on our second meeting he gave me a nice exotic perfume 🙂, which u cannot buy elsewhere, exclusive only here in the mid-east asia. and he told me (during the pursuing or chasing period), when he was strolling at some shopping mall, there's this sales assistant that sprayed a woman's perfume on him and it reminded him of me, so he decided to buy it for me. but he never had a chance of giving that perfume to me, becuase i refused to see him, because as i have said earlier, i am still in a relationship with this august born leo.

My question is do you want him in your life?

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Posted by ezahria
and during that time, i was finding the right time when to break-up with this august born leo. but when i already broke up with this august born leo, the july born leo is already gone. i don't want to do the first move and tell him that i am totally free, and perhaps he's already in a relationship with someone else. and yeah, on our second meeting he gave me a nice exotic perfume 🙂, which u cannot buy elsewhere, exclusive only here in the mid-east asia. and he told me (during the pursuing or chasing period), when he was strolling at some shopping mall, there's this sales assistant that sprayed a woman's perfume on him and it reminded him of me, so he decided to buy it for me. but he never had a chance of giving that perfume to me, becuase i refused to see him, because as i have said earlier, i am still in a relationship with this august born leo.

My question is do you want him in your life?

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yes, i do! and sometimes i do wish that we'll meet up in person again, and i am still missing him till now. 😢

Posted by QuietSt0rm
lol

so leo-like

if thats you , your cute i mean sexy lol

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and during that time, i was finding the right time when to break-up with this august born leo. but when i already broke up with this august born leo, the july born leo is already gone. i don't want to do the first move and tell him that i am totally free, and perhaps he's already in a relationship with someone else. and yeah, on our second meeting he gave me a nice exotic perfume 🙂, which u cannot buy elsewhere, exclusive only here in the mid-east asia. and he told me (during the pursuing or chasing period), when he was strolling at some shopping mall, there's this sales assistant that sprayed a woman's perfume on him and it reminded him of me, so he decided to buy it for me. but he never had a chance of giving that perfume to me, becuase i refused to see him, because as i have said earlier, i am still in a relationship with this august born leo.

My question is do you want him in your life?

yes, i do! and sometimes i do wish that we'll meet up in person again, and i am still missing him till now. 😢

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sounds like your confusing him. He doesn't like to be second either so dont make it into oh im free so now you can have me. he rather have you at the same time then feel like hes second to anyone lol.

If you go run and cry to him saying that you should have stuck with him, his ego will not accept you,he will think "well you should have thought of that in the first place".

Whats needed is a slow approach you need to show your value to him.But you need to make it easy for him he has already chased you.You might have to do a bit of the chasing now.

Do simple things , tell him lets go out for a coffee. As much as leos like to go out and party with their girl they like to do small stuff to build up to that

the leo male is harder to figure out than trigonometry.........i have done all of what u said Leoman and then some and hes giving me no choice but to move on ... because he wont answer my text (which I keep to a minimual) ive tried to call twice and leave very sweet messages but still hes ignoring me.. so tonite I made a decision to let a picies man take me out for a stroll through the french quarter... truthfully i hate to say it but i dont think any one can compare to my leo but I have waited patiently for leo to at least talk to me (its been two weeks) and he wont, so I aint gonna waste my pretty any more ...I will keep you posted on how it goes,,until then ..im off to work ...peace out yall.

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and during that time, i was finding the right time when to break-up with this august born leo. but when i already broke up with this august born leo, the july born leo is already gone. i don't want to do the first move and tell him that i am totally free, and perhaps he's already in a relationship with someone else. and yeah, on our second meeting he gave me a nice exotic perfume 🙂, which u cannot buy elsewhere, exclusive only here in the mid-east asia. and he told me (during the pursuing or chasing period), when he was strolling at some shopping mall, there's this sales assistant that sprayed a woman's perfume on him and it reminded him of me, so he decided to buy it for me. but he never had a chance of giving that perfume to me, becuase i refused to see him, because as i have said earlier, i am still in a relationship with this august born leo.

My question is do you want him in your life?

yes, i do! and sometimes i do wish that we'll meet up in person again, and i am still missing him till now. 😢

sounds like your confusing him. He doesn't like to be second either so dont make it into oh im free so now you can have me. he rather have you at the same time then feel like hes second to anyone lol.


If you go run and cry to him saying that you should have stuck with him, his ego will not accept you,he will think "well you should have thought of that in the first place".

Whats needed is a slow approach you need to show your value to him.But you need to make it easy for him he has already chased you.You might have to do a bit of the chasing now.

Do simple things , tell him lets go out for a coffee. As much as leos like to go out and party with their girl they like to do small stuff to build up to that

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oh, yeah! i remember. long time back i sent him a message on his mobile no. asking him how he was doing. and he replied back telling me he is doing fine. and yeah, i told him also that i wish he will find the right girl for him, someone who will take good care of him and hope that if he found the girl it would be forever.

and even asked him if we could be just friends. and he just said sure. i think during that time when i sent him this message, i just got out of my relationship with the august born leo.

hey, theleoman! where r u? we're not done yet. lol! you have lots of inquiries here not only from me...lol. you disappeared all of a sudden, lol. you're really a typical leo. lol..same like what my august born leo ex-bf, most of the time when we are chatting on-line, he will just do that disappearing act. then the next morning, he will send me a message telling me that he fell asleep while we were chatting. my gawd, i felt like i make him bored. lolz....