I am ready to go Lion hunting....

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I am so ready to hunt my "ex"husband down and tear into his ass. What a dumb fucker he is. What the hell happened to protecting your pride——— Your cubs—? He is not on the continent now, and suppose to return later this month. Just found out through resources, he is returning to the other country in a couple of months and lining work there. YOU ARE LEAVING YOUR KIDS. Oh yeah, that 95% of divorce is now 100% . And just wait till comes back. He will really see the ice cold of Lioness's heart and her claws out. How can you leave your children like that when you have been in their lives since conception. You claim you family has always been number 1 in your life? You lying fuck.

Sorry, just a bitch post.

Posted by libraCUSPscorpio
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Hope some light, happiness comes to you soon.

Thanks! I do have happiness. how could I now. I have three children who love me and keep me smiling. They are my life and everything. They keep a smile on my face everyday. Just don't get it. Why leave your blood. If I told him to come back to us, he would in an instant so he would have me. Why? I do not have super pussy or God's Gift to men. So you will stay to be with me. But will leave the country for good because I will not be with you. What about God's true gift, your children. Everything I do, I do for my children, after all they are only a reflection of who I am.

Posted by libraCUSPscorpio
That's crazy. Oh, life decisions. Kids are such a blessing. Before I had one, I'd say that but now I feel it mind, body and soul. You have to move forward and find your strength and it's all for them. Glad you have them!

It is all for them. Everything in my bones and all I do is for them or their best interest. He has been frozen out. It is done. Now I just need to do with the fall out they will experience.

Posted by TheLioness79
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I am so ready to hunt my "ex"husband down and tear into his ass. What a dumb fucker he is. What the hell happened to protecting your pride——— Your cubs—? He is not on the continent now, and suppose to return later this month. Just found out through resources, he is returning to the other country in a couple of months and lining work there. YOU ARE LEAVING YOUR KIDS. Oh yeah, that 95% of divorce is now 100% . And just wait till comes back. He will really see the ice cold of Lioness's heart and her claws out. How can you leave your children like that when you have been in their lives since conception. You claim you family has always been number 1 in your life? You lying fuck.

Sorry, just a bitch post.

I obviously don't know your situation, but I wanted to give you a fathers viewpoint. My wife left me two years ago for another man. With the collapse of the economy and now needing to support too households I am struggling big time. Financially and emotionally. I'm stuck. I have 50% custody of my kids and I'm watching them struggle through all of this. My opportunities for advancement in my career are limited and I just don't know what to do. I am seriously wondering if it would be better for me to pick myself up and go where I have the best opportunity to provide for my kids. Unfortunately, that may mean giving up regular time with them. But it would give them structure, so that they are in one place throughout the week, at least during the school year. It would allow me to provide a better life for them financially by going somewhere I can make more money. I'm so afraid of doing that because it would be viewed as abandoning my kids, when really I'm trying to make their life better.

It's one of the toughest things I have gone through as a parent. I don't mean to thread jack, but I'm trying to give a different perspective. Ive had to sacrifice a ton for the decision my ex wife made and I may need to sacrifice some more.

Jackstobo, I have very much respect for you. You standpoint and view point is understandable and respectable. I will make the back story as quick a possible. I have been the breadwinner of the family and that has never been an issue with us. I urged him to go to school and follow his dreams in medical field. He got kicked out for reasons and decided he wants to be a DJ. Shortly after he started school I lost my job. I did get another job, but financially I was seriously hurt. He refused to get a job while and school and while I am working 60-70 hrs a week doing the job of 7 people I was job hunting for that weekend job. after he got kicked out I begged for him to work, even if it was McDonalds. Something is better then nothing. still refused and wanted to be the Famous 37 yo DJ uniting the world through music and being a millionaire by 2014. I tried and couldn't save our home. He has opportunities here. He was offered a position in his old field with good compensation with his license he has. Instead he wants his music. He will be working I guess during the day and in the club at night over there from what I gather in another country.

What I am dealing with 3 kids. A 9 year old boy who misses his farther. Who is so sad inside (and his farther told him he may never see him again) and doesn't know how to handle it and has violent outburst. That isn't my sweet boy. I am taking care of what I need to for him. But he had one this morning and i had to tackle him to the ground and hold him tight as he goes through his outburst and then his panic attack. (BTW I am 7 weeks out lumbar spinal fusion and was in the hospital Easter weekend with Pulmonary Embolisms (blood clots in my lungs so I am on blood thinners and have to be careful to injury myself because my blood will not clot). The whole time I told him to calm down and mommy loved him. Finally he submitted to me and my safety and collapsed in my arms.

Ok, now that I know your situation. I can understand your anger. I have a tremendous amount of respect for you. Breaking up a marriage is so damaging. I have a great career with a great income and I can't make it work. I can't even imagine what you are going through. I'm very sorry to have heard your story. 😢

Posted by Jackstobo
Ok, now that I know your situation. I can understand your anger. I have a tremendous amount of respect for you. Breaking up a marriage is so damaging. I have a great career with a great income and I can't make it work. I can't even imagine what you are going through. I'm very sorry to have heard your story. 😢

Thank you Jackstobo! I too have a great career and income (part of him, you make X amount you should be able to support all of us). yeah not when you are taking money out of the pot. Breaking up a marriage is damaging on so many aspects. I agree 100% . I just hope my reason stands strong and I show my children, your family comes first, regardless of what you personal needs are, when you choose to give life, their needs come first. We will will be OK. I will pull through. And I will fight for my babies and for their well being, so I know in end they will be OK. It will be just a tough road, but once we over come those mountains, we will be a stronger family (us 4) in the end.

Posted by meekimoo
That majorly sucks. Personally, I just feel I'm not ready to have kids--I just couldn't handle the responsibility and want to get more professionally stable so I can support them and treat them. I hope everything works out...and the male lions look pretty lame on the Discovery Channel 😢

I had mine pretty young. First one at 20 and last one at 23. I don't regret them. They helped me grow up and put a new focus and drive in my life. As a lioness, her cubs wellness is her number on priority. But yes, not until you ready. Remember, it is the lioness that hunts and feeds the pride. It is the lioness that raises her cubs. It is the Lion that "protects" the pride and suns himself in the meantime. Yeah, I am a little cynical right now.

Posted by TheLioness79

Posted by Jackstobo
Ok, now that I know your situation. I can understand your anger. I have a tremendous amount of respect for you. Breaking up a marriage is so damaging. I have a great career with a great income and I can't make it work. I can't even imagine what you are going through. I'm very sorry to have heard your story. 😢

Thank you Jackstobo! I too have a great career and income (part of him, you make X amount you should be able to support all of us). yeah not when you are taking money out of the pot. Breaking up a marriage is damaging on so many aspects. I agree 100% . I just hope my reason stands strong and I show my children, your family comes first, regardless of what you personal needs are, when you choose to give life, their needs come first. We will will be OK. I will pull through. And I will fight for my babies and for their well being, so I know in end they will be OK. It will be just a tough road, but once we over come those mountains, we will be a stronger family (us 4) in the end.

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You have a great attitude! You are a Leo after all! We don't give up. Ever!!

Thank you! And no we do not. We always end up on top no matter the crisis or problem. We overcome and rule and better person in the end! 😉