I have to say, this message board has been a god send for me, I always get the best advice by reading other peoples issues with leo man but I finally built the courage to ask about my situation..
So I will try and skim through the main details
I am Aqua Sun Gemini Moon, I met my leo sun Taurus moon about a year and a half ago online, we went on a few dates and he was the perfect charming man, then he did the disappearing act which obviously confused me but as I can see is a very typical Leo trait, we stopped talking for about 3 months and then we sparked up a conversation and started seeing each other, more like a FWB situation to begin with but then still had quite a good friendship, he was married about 6 years ago, for about 2 years, separated for a couple of years and then the divorce finally went through about a year ago (while we were friends) he has always said he doesn't want a relationship and he is 'bad news for girls' and he would prefer to be friends because he feels that relationships don't last but you get to keep your friends in your life. I respected that and being an Aqua I think I am more interested in the friendship than the romantic connection anyway. The problem is there will be times where we will spend a lot of time together, we enjoy every moment together, he is always more than happy to talk about anything and everything, but its always when we have the best times together, the next week he will pull back totally and do a complete 180, I am a consistent person so if we re hanging out and having a great time I just assume the next time we speak it will all be fine but he starts turning things around saying its too much, you msg too much , I should have worked this day but instead I spent it wth you, he makes me feel bad that he hung out with me even though most of the times its his idea?! I know there is a connection and it feels like he does have feelings but he battles with himself- he wants to have freedom and not answer to anyone but he likes me and loves hanging out with me.
This last month he was inviting himself over almost every night, met a few of my friends, we had dinners and nights with my friends and his friends, everyone had the best time and then this last week he was a little cold towards me, I could sense it and I probably messaged him a couple extra times and then this last Saturday he last his butter with me, saying its too much , leave him alone and now he has blocked me on facebook!!! I guess its just t
Sorry it cut me off,
I have given him some space since he blocked me which was about 5 days ago, sometimes i dont know if he is wanting a reaction from me but I hate bothering people so I just assume that he doesn't want to hear from me so I leave him alone. Can anyone give me some advice?
He tells me he has spent more time with me than any other girl and I am the most 'updated person in his life?' and he used to make me think he had girls all over the place but the more I get to know him and getting to know his routine and lifestyle there were never any signs of other girls so I don't know if it was just to get a reaction out of me? But I never really gave him a reaction because I see it that I am not his girlfriend so I have no right to get jealous etc (and I like to keep my feelings very well guarded and masked)
Thank you for your advice, @GG sorry it was in a big block I just started typing and got so wrapped in what I was saying, I wasn't thinking about paragraphs.. Yes before this past month when we were spending so much time together he was telling me he has a different girl every day of the week lol but as I said before there was so sign of anyone else.
@Seraph You are absolutely right I need to stand back and try not to be so emotional about it. I guess I just wasn't sure if I try and put my side across because obviously I am hurt or if I take a complete step back and take my energy out of the situation. It's just hard to understand how it could go from hanging out all the time to actually blocking me. It's a little extreme.
He has always been very skeptical about relationships and marriage (obviously because his marriage ended) his friends say he doesn't like getting too close to girls, he freaks out, but I would say we have become close so it is confusing and hurtful.
Can anyone give advice on our sun and moon? Is this normal behaviour from leo sun and taurus moon?
And to the desperation comment, I think that was unnecessary especially if you are not going to elaborate. My post may sound desperate but only because I am confused and hurt by the situation at this time. I work hard at my job, I have a great group of friends, I look after myself and keep my life fulfilled as much as I can, I don't chase him, it is an equal mutual respect for each other. All I am doing is asking for some advice I don't need to be insulted.