im so sad :(
This topic was created in the Leo forum by chichi on Saturday, June 2, 2007 and has 10 replies.
my leo has broke up with me cos he found out a dark side of my past. he said he will forgive me but he will not forget and will not allowed this relationship to carry on. but that was in the past, way before i even met him. i guess i was not opening up to him honestly in the first plc. and he hates it when someone lie to him as i was trying to cover up tis ugly side of my past. what done cannot be undone, he has forgiven me and i just wan to move on. it is pointless to pursue it anymore.
my leo has forgiven me and told me that no more lies in e future and no more 2nd chance. i will cherish him and try to build e trust up agn. i will try my best to make it work.
Did you set out to hurt him on purpose - No!
Hasn't everyone a right to a second chance! Yes!
To make mistakes is our birthright....Oh god yes!
So, he hasn't a "dark" secret in his closet? - You bet he has and has never shared with anyone or you.....like us eqach an eveyon one of us on this planet.
Say you're sorry ONCE - and mean it from the heart - and if he can't accept your sorry, then it's not up to you to beg or co-erce...you are what you are and make no apologies for it.
Ugly past......don't think like that....perhaps bad decisiion on your part in a certain siutation......but that was another time, another place......
If he loves you truly, he will come back, regardless of what you did. Perhaps this sounds a bit harsh -not really meant to be like that - I've just don't get it when people say they discovered a dirty dark side........everyone has a dirty dark side........which will come to the fore at one time or another....
Goood luck chichi.
Alana x
Hasn't everyone a right to a second chance! Yes!
To make mistakes is our birthright....Oh god yes!
So, he hasn't a "dark" secret in his closet? - You bet he has and has never shared with anyone or you.....like us eqach an eveyon one of us on this planet.
Say you're sorry ONCE - and mean it from the heart - and if he can't accept your sorry, then it's not up to you to beg or co-erce...you are what you are and make no apologies for it.
Ugly past......don't think like that....perhaps bad decisiion on your part in a certain siutation......but that was another time, another place......
If he loves you truly, he will come back, regardless of what you did. Perhaps this sounds a bit harsh -not really meant to be like that - I've just don't get it when people say they discovered a dirty dark side........everyone has a dirty dark side........which will come to the fore at one time or another....
Goood luck chichi.
Alana x
Yeah, right... everybody has a dark side but some are darker than others and fortunately not all have to be dirty. I bet most of us around here have "dark sides" that are simply laughable next to what I truly call a dark side. I am not talking specifically to you Chichi, I do not know the gravity of what he found out but I am glad that your Leo forgave you Chichi, you can always expect that from a Leo in a situation like this if he sees you are truly sorry and this is the first time. You see, he probably understood that maybe you were ashamed of telling him this about your past and you were afraid of losing him or that he looked at you a different way and after the initial shock he accepted this. He will regain his trust in you eventually but avoid at all cost lying to him on such important matters (whatever they are) because he means what he said. I Wish you the best.
no i did not set out to lie to him in the 1st plc. i just do not know how to tell him. it was something not graceful or an issue that ppl can just chat abt it. from now on i will tell him ntg but the truth. this is the crucial time for us, it will takes time to build up e trust agn. he recoginsed that it is not entirely my fault and that was my past. we are tryin to resolve all our difficulties at the moment and move forward together. im an aries and he is a leo. for me to bare it all to him it simply not an easy task for me as i hv so much pride. now that i can do it and he knows my darkest secret, there is ntg i can hide from him from now on.
Chichi......Great to hear that you two can try and reconcile.....some people come from the "camp" of having to bare all of their greatnesses and foibles! to their lovers.....others (me included) say there are some things that should never be revealed/divulged...nobody needs to know every miniscule detail of your past and to be honest,...nobody really wants to hear it or can even begin to handle it!!!...however good or however bad it was:-) - some things are for one other only person to share with...ie. yourself!
So, I am with Notso on this particular issue.......:-) yes leos have pride big time....but they are also gracious in the forgiveness stakes.....and to be honest in the forgetfulness stakes...I know leos who can put the most loveliest spins on a story that sunk them to levels so deep in depression and they still come up with theories and explanations of why their lover did this and that....they are notorious for their lovely foibles and their changing of minds:-) ... so like aquarians actually:-) in that respect!
So.........eeasy as she comes....d9n't push or rush it.........one day at a time:-)
A x
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So, I am with Notso on this particular issue.......:-) yes leos have pride big time....but they are also gracious in the forgiveness stakes.....and to be honest in the forgetfulness stakes...I know leos who can put the most loveliest spins on a story that sunk them to levels so deep in depression and they still come up with theories and explanations of why their lover did this and that....they are notorious for their lovely foibles and their changing of minds:-) ... so like aquarians actually:-) in that respect!
So.........eeasy as she comes....d9n't push or rush it.........one day at a time:-)
A x
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LOL @ DC!!!!!
I agree with Chocolate though...
I agree with Chocolate though...
Cheer up chichi, i'm a leo and we can be very forgiving. Just give him a chance to think about stuff and gather his emotions. If your relationship is a deep one and he really loves you he'll come back. Be positive and things will be alright.
Hmmm I hear Alana but we feel we are SO FIERCLY loyal and if WE can be upfront and honest so can anyone else...we will stay up forever trying to figure out how to tell someone something but not long enough to break the acceptable grace period and we are not too easy to trust.. So, my guess is you expired the grace period and he is wondering what else you are hiding and how long you would hold that or something else in the future...too big of a risk for our upfront selves. He may seem like he is being a bit extreme...but thats because we love extremely and HARD and not everyone is worthy of that from us.....BUT if his feelings are really strong for you which it sounds like they are, he will stay but you are going to have a WHILE getting him back to where he was prior to you telling him this (late).. Good Luck!!
As my mom & dad will say...
"Stop crying or I'll give you something to cry about!" & "Grey skies are going to clear up. Put on a happy face. Brush off the clouds & cheer up. Put on a happy face...." (you know the rest of the song).
"Stop crying or I'll give you something to cry about!" & "Grey skies are going to clear up. Put on a happy face. Brush off the clouds & cheer up. Put on a happy face...." (you know the rest of the song).
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