is my bf gay?
This topic was created in the Leo forum by dayshawna on Friday, August 5, 2016 and has 16 replies.
yall i did not wanna be registerin on sum astrology chat site but yall i have no one to talk to bout dis stuff cuz im embarrassed as hell.... i dont want my momma to be like i was rite or my friends to be judgin me cuz im still wit my man. i really love him and im really faithful 2 him but lawd things seem fishy and i dunno what to do. but i dont wanna leave him. i feel like he love me alot but things is weird.
my bf is a leo and we been together for a lil over 2 years now..... 2 years since june of dis year. everythin been good until he started a new job and he has a new friend by the name of gabriel. him and gabriel only been workin together for 5 months or sum but they like best friends now and its obvious gabriel is gay. he sound feminine, he look feminine and he act feminine... he wear tight clothes and i been askin my man why he gettin along so much wid a gay man and my man is a leo so he loves every1 and he aint be judgin ppl but its weird to me. im not homophobic or anythin but it makes me feel uncomfortable. iunno if yall need to know this info but gabriel had his birthday in early june and i know this cuz thats when me and my man celebrated our 2 year anniversary of bein together. so i think hes a gemini or maybe he could be a cancer like me but its one of the 2.
my man always reassures me dat dey jus friends nd he aint the type 2 be judgin ppl nd he gets along wid every1. nd dat makes sense cuz my man has all kinds a friends nd everybody love him... he a leo so he a social butterfly. but im gettin bad vibes from dis friendship. they are so close, they always lookin at eachother from the side and i can tell gabriel be mad when i kiss my man infront of him i see it in his face like he jealous or sumthin??
what make me the most suspicious is 1 night me and my man were chillin at my house nd den he gets a text and he says he goin to his friends house who is a taurus so i was like alright. hours later he still there and me and his taurus friends girl are really close we good friends so i text her like is my man still there? when he comin home? and she like he was neva here.. so i go on facebook and guess who my man was chillin with? gabriel. cuz i saw on gabriels profile cuz they took a pic together that day and it was uploaded like a few hours after my man left my crib and they was at the mall. and he only came back 2 my house the next day like in the mornin and i asked him where he was nd what he was doin and he told me he was at his taurus friends house (cant say his name) drinkin but i had already talked to the taurus gf nd she said he was neva there... but i never confronted him about dis cuz i got so scared my heart dropped to my gut and iunno what to do.
should i be worried? or am i bein paranoid? i get really weird vibes from dis and i dont wanna believe my man is gay but if they just friends den why he lyin about chillin with gabriel and why he comin home the next day? plz leos let me know how u think and what u feel.
my bf is a leo and we been together for a lil over 2 years now..... 2 years since june of dis year. everythin been good until he started a new job and he has a new friend by the name of gabriel. him and gabriel only been workin together for 5 months or sum but they like best friends now and its obvious gabriel is gay. he sound feminine, he look feminine and he act feminine... he wear tight clothes and i been askin my man why he gettin along so much wid a gay man and my man is a leo so he loves every1 and he aint be judgin ppl but its weird to me. im not homophobic or anythin but it makes me feel uncomfortable. iunno if yall need to know this info but gabriel had his birthday in early june and i know this cuz thats when me and my man celebrated our 2 year anniversary of bein together. so i think hes a gemini or maybe he could be a cancer like me but its one of the 2.
my man always reassures me dat dey jus friends nd he aint the type 2 be judgin ppl nd he gets along wid every1. nd dat makes sense cuz my man has all kinds a friends nd everybody love him... he a leo so he a social butterfly. but im gettin bad vibes from dis friendship. they are so close, they always lookin at eachother from the side and i can tell gabriel be mad when i kiss my man infront of him i see it in his face like he jealous or sumthin??
what make me the most suspicious is 1 night me and my man were chillin at my house nd den he gets a text and he says he goin to his friends house who is a taurus so i was like alright. hours later he still there and me and his taurus friends girl are really close we good friends so i text her like is my man still there? when he comin home? and she like he was neva here.. so i go on facebook and guess who my man was chillin with? gabriel. cuz i saw on gabriels profile cuz they took a pic together that day and it was uploaded like a few hours after my man left my crib and they was at the mall. and he only came back 2 my house the next day like in the mornin and i asked him where he was nd what he was doin and he told me he was at his taurus friends house (cant say his name) drinkin but i had already talked to the taurus gf nd she said he was neva there... but i never confronted him about dis cuz i got so scared my heart dropped to my gut and iunno what to do.
should i be worried? or am i bein paranoid? i get really weird vibes from dis and i dont wanna believe my man is gay but if they just friends den why he lyin about chillin with gabriel and why he comin home the next day? plz leos let me know how u think and what u feel.
Haaave...you tried asking him directly...?
Posted by wagtail
Haaave...you tried asking him directly...?
yes and he said no that they are just friends
Posted by bumboklatt
well lying is no good. I used to hang out a lot with my buddy and would prefer to hang out and drink with my buddy than a chick cause we could look at other girls and cuss.
But this just sounds weird with all the lying and the other guy being gay.
Leo or not that's some suspicious shit
i know but i read that leos get along with most people so i dont know but it seems so suspicious and the way they act together it makes me worried and why is he lying??
Posted by GetMisted
Does he bust when you fuck?
yes but we dont have sex as often as we used to. and he always says hes tired from working to much
Posted by bumboklattPosted by dayshawnayeah he can get along but hes lying and being sketchy. I hope its all good.Posted by bumboklatt
well lying is no good. I used to hang out a lot with my buddy and would prefer to hang out and drink with my buddy than a chick cause we could look at other girls and cuss.
But this just sounds weird with all the lying and the other guy being gay.
Leo or not that's some suspicious shit
i know but i read that leos get along with most people so i dont know but it seems so suspicious and the way they act together it makes me worried and why is he lying??
They used to say my buddy and me were gay cause we would hang out 24/7 and he would put off dates with his chick
If the other guy is gay then maybe the other guy is attracted to your guy, that could spell trouble.click to expand
i feel like gabriel likes him i can tell from the way he acts around him. i just hope my bf doesnt like him back but i dunno since hes lying about hanging out with him. and my bf is not dumb he can read people so he must know this guy likes him yet he still hangs out with him?? i dont understand! its like me hanging out with a guy who i know likes me. my bf would be so mad yet hes doing this with a gay guy
Well, I think personally there's a lot of unsubstantiated assuming going on here.
Firstly. Two years in a heterosexual relationship VS a few months of close friendship with someone (who despite their behavior and/or stereotypical dress etc- it's still an assumption they are in fact gay)... is pretty solid evidence to the contrary.
Secondly. Gay men or women are surprisingly, still perfectly capable of being just friends with other people, so ovation to your man for understanding a homosexual doesn't want to just get in his pants and can see beyond bigotry.
Thirdly. Somebody who is still hiding their sexual identity is a big deal. If he is exploring his options and you have serious doubts you need to get sorted on this ASAP, pure guesses aside - it's not fair to you but he may be threading a fine line exploring his own issues right now, and it would be selfish to continue without your full knowledge.
~shrug~ I'm not experienced in these sorts of situations but I hope you figure it all out sooner rather than later- and with as little pain to both of you as possible x
Firstly. Two years in a heterosexual relationship VS a few months of close friendship with someone (who despite their behavior and/or stereotypical dress etc- it's still an assumption they are in fact gay)... is pretty solid evidence to the contrary.
Secondly. Gay men or women are surprisingly, still perfectly capable of being just friends with other people, so ovation to your man for understanding a homosexual doesn't want to just get in his pants and can see beyond bigotry.
Thirdly. Somebody who is still hiding their sexual identity is a big deal. If he is exploring his options and you have serious doubts you need to get sorted on this ASAP, pure guesses aside - it's not fair to you but he may be threading a fine line exploring his own issues right now, and it would be selfish to continue without your full knowledge.
~shrug~ I'm not experienced in these sorts of situations but I hope you figure it all out sooner rather than later- and with as little pain to both of you as possible x
Posted by ChoXtsy
The only way to know is start to give him a blowjob, then move your fingers down to his booty. If he hasn't jumped yet, start playing with the hole and inch your way in there. If he lets you and starts moaning, you have your answer.
i dont think hes into that but i might give that a try.
i know he wants to do anal on me but im not into it!
Posted by wagtail
Well, I think personally there's a lot of unsubstantiated assuming going on here.
Firstly. Two years in a heterosexual relationship VS a few months of close friendship with someone (who despite their behavior and/or stereotypical dress etc- it's still an assumption they are in fact gay)... is pretty solid evidence to the contrary.
Secondly. Gay men or women are surprisingly, still perfectly capable of being just friends with other people, so ovation to your man for understanding a homosexual doesn't want to just get in his pants and can see beyond bigotry.
Thirdly. Somebody who is still hiding their sexual identity is a big deal. If he is exploring his options and you have serious doubts you need to get sorted on this ASAP, pure guesses aside - it's not fair to you but he may be threading a fine line exploring his own issues right now, and it would be selfish to continue without your full knowledge.
~shrug~ I'm not experienced in these sorts of situations but I hope you figure it all out sooner rather than later- and with as little pain to both of you as possible x
thank you. i hope ur right. i dont know what i will do if he is infact gay though because i love him
Posted by bumboklattPosted by dayshawnayeah. it all just sounds suspicious. They could be doing drugs(ive seen this pattern before) but whatever hes doing with gabriel, he enjoys more than being with youPosted by bumboklattPosted by dayshawnayeah he can get along but hes lying and being sketchy. I hope its all good.Posted by bumboklatt
well lying is no good. I used to hang out a lot with my buddy and would prefer to hang out and drink with my buddy than a chick cause we could look at other girls and cuss.
But this just sounds weird with all the lying and the other guy being gay.
Leo or not that's some suspicious shit
i know but i read that leos get along with most people so i dont know but it seems so suspicious and the way they act together it makes me worried and why is he lying??
They used to say my buddy and me were gay cause we would hang out 24/7 and he would put off dates with his chick
If the other guy is gay then maybe the other guy is attracted to your guy, that could spell trouble.
i feel like gabriel likes him i can tell from the way he acts around him. i just hope my bf doesnt like him back but i dunno since hes lying about hanging out with him. and my bf is not dumb he can read people so he must know this guy likes him yet he still hangs out with him?? i dont understand! its like me hanging out with a guy who i know likes me. my bf would be so mad yet hes doing this with a gay guyclick to expand
if they are doing drugs why would he hide it from me? he does it occasionally for fun and never hides it from me. this is very upsetting because i feel like something is going on!
Posted by MagicMonasame lol... but you just never know on DeeExpuh these daysh
i want to say troll so bad.
Posted by TerramineLightPosted by dayshawna
but i never confronted him about dis cuz i got so scared my heart dropped to my gut and iunno what to do.
He bluntly lied and you didn't call him out on his bullshit at all? That's where you done fucked up. Don't let him get away with this, call it the fuck out.
It's obvious he bluntly lied to you when he was really hanging out with Gabriel. And he hung out with him ALL NIGHT. Meaning HE SPENT THE NIGHT WITH HIM.
Are you being paranoid? Geez idunno. Seems more like extreme naivety if anything.click to expand
Lmao
I'm worried. Is your man a bit fem? I noticed that in Leo men.
Posted by TerramineLightPosted by dayshawna
but i never confronted him about dis cuz i got so scared my heart dropped to my gut and iunno what to do.
He bluntly lied and you didn't call him out on his bullshit at all? That's where you done fucked up. Don't let him get away with this, call it the fuck out.
It's obvious he bluntly lied to you when he was really hanging out with Gabriel. And he hung out with him ALL NIGHT. Meaning HE SPENT THE NIGHT WITH HIM.
Are you being paranoid? Geez idunno. Seems more like extreme naivety if anything.click to expand
do you think hes gay?
Posted by bkbella86
I'm worried. Is your man a bit fem? I noticed that in Leo men.
not at all... thats why im confused! but his friend sure is super fem!
you ever consider that Gabriel might be a cover and it is another girl?
you should have addressed the lying right then.
but then again i am with others and think this is a troll. the main OP was a try hard post.
you should have addressed the lying right then.
but then again i am with others and think this is a troll. the main OP was a try hard post.
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