Is this typical Leo male behavior?
This topic was created in the Leo forum by jayceesmyth on Monday, October 7, 2013 and has 21 replies.
Since my last post, my Leo man and I have gone back and forth several times.
One minute he misses me, the next, he's done.
I'm unsure if this is typical Leo behavior, or is it because my Leo man is bi-polar? I don't know if he is diagnosed, but his up and down behavior and severe mood swings make me think may be somewhat bi-polar.
Since our first break-up, so to speak, we have been having unbelievable hot sex every time we are together (unusual, since in the year we dated, sex was so very very rare, twice to be exact!) he says he misses me, then the whole steamy make out session and sex begins. At dinner he seems fine (sex always seems to come before we go out for dinner) and when we are saying goodbye, he begins his whole talk about how we can't do this anymore, then in a few days, it's the same thing, missing each other, sex, dinner, it's over!
Is this a typical Leo trait, to not know if they regret a break-up, or to continue being angry but not letting go? It seems as if he doesn't want it to end, yet, he wants it to be over...I'm confused...please help.....
One minute he misses me, the next, he's done.
I'm unsure if this is typical Leo behavior, or is it because my Leo man is bi-polar? I don't know if he is diagnosed, but his up and down behavior and severe mood swings make me think may be somewhat bi-polar.
Since our first break-up, so to speak, we have been having unbelievable hot sex every time we are together (unusual, since in the year we dated, sex was so very very rare, twice to be exact!) he says he misses me, then the whole steamy make out session and sex begins. At dinner he seems fine (sex always seems to come before we go out for dinner) and when we are saying goodbye, he begins his whole talk about how we can't do this anymore, then in a few days, it's the same thing, missing each other, sex, dinner, it's over!
Is this a typical Leo trait, to not know if they regret a break-up, or to continue being angry but not letting go? It seems as if he doesn't want it to end, yet, he wants it to be over...I'm confused...please help.....
Thank you Kitty, You are right, little sex then hot sex, something is not right, exactly!
It is the weirdest relationship I have ever had. A man not forthcoming with sex, hello, then we hit a huge bump in the road, and suddenly he wants me sexually every time he sees me, I'm confused? I just wish he'd leave it alone completely, obviously, I'm going to have to be the one to make that decision, I just wish I could figure him out first........Anyone else have any ideas????
It is the weirdest relationship I have ever had. A man not forthcoming with sex, hello, then we hit a huge bump in the road, and suddenly he wants me sexually every time he sees me, I'm confused? I just wish he'd leave it alone completely, obviously, I'm going to have to be the one to make that decision, I just wish I could figure him out first........Anyone else have any ideas????
YES!
Let him GO!
I did... too much stress and not worth it.
Let him GO!
I did... too much stress and not worth it.
I have noticed this bipolar/moody behavior in most Leo men and it's very annoying sometimes. And Leo men are the type to think that nothing is EVER wrong with them. They could never do wrong in their eyes. Even though they're moody and confusing at times, they expect the world to deal with it and everyone needs to just get over it. But in reality, it doesn't work that way. No one wants to sit there and deal with that hot and cold shit. I think you should definitely try to talk to him and tell him how you feel and definitely DO NOT have sex with him. And if that doesn't work out and he still can't make up his confused little mind, then it's time to let him go! You deserve a man that's sure he wants to be with you and not a confused little child. No one has time for that nonsense. Good luck hun. 
Thanks Fum and Missnia.......your input is greatly appreciated. Missnia, this little boy behavior should be unacceptable,yet, with my Leo, he can be so damn adorable when he's not such a child. I did try to talk to him, but he seems like he is still so angry with me. I have decided I will not have sex with him until he overcomes his anger and tells me he is in for the long haul. If not, I must let him go....
I just wish I could figure out what the truth with him is, I've never known a Leo man intimately, and never realized how fragile their egos can be, until now.
Jealousy and Ego, ouch! These are a rare breed of men, as I am learning, or as sometimes I suspect, he's another player with an agenda! And Missnia, I too, am a Pisces! As you know, we do live in quite the fantasy world......are dreams are magnificent, but reality can hurt!
I wish I could make my Leo look at me the way he used to, like no man has ever looked at me before!
Is there any way of getting him back the way he used to, if this is all because of a damaged ego?
I just wish I could figure out what the truth with him is, I've never known a Leo man intimately, and never realized how fragile their egos can be, until now.
Jealousy and Ego, ouch! These are a rare breed of men, as I am learning, or as sometimes I suspect, he's another player with an agenda! And Missnia, I too, am a Pisces! As you know, we do live in quite the fantasy world......are dreams are magnificent, but reality can hurt!
I wish I could make my Leo look at me the way he used to, like no man has ever looked at me before!
Is there any way of getting him back the way he used to, if this is all because of a damaged ego?
Yes girl I know the feeling. Pisces and Leos have an EXTREME sexual attraction to one another it's crazy. Lol! Leo men always seem to hurt Pisces feelings in the end. That's the bad part. But I am so glad that you stopped the sex with him. It is very important that you stand your ground with him because A). Leo men secretly likes that and B). You don't want him to think that he can walk all over you. I don't understand what he's so angry about, but he has to be able to talk to you and tell you how he feels about this. You deserve that from him if he wants to continue to be in your life. You're not just a doll that he can play with then put you back on the shelf whenever he wants. This seems to be another thing I've noticed about Leo men. They have a hard time talking about how they feel inside. I guess that makes them feel weak and Leo men can't stand feeling weak. My best advice that I can give is to just walk away. Don't answer any of his messages and/or phone calls. Just move on. Because then, he'll realize that you're serious and you're not playing around with him. He'll respect you alot. And if he doesn't come back around, then SCREW HIM! You deserve better anyway.
Hi, I am not proud to admit this but I am exactly like him. I don't think it's a bipolar thing. You see, I have a huge ego and very stubborn so when I don't get my way I say goodbye. Then few days after I'll realized how wrong I am or that I miss that person so whatever the differences are I do not care cos I want to be with him. And after misssing him it will be a very hot passionate sex. Doing this and not taking as much time away we never fix anything. So it becomes a repetition.
I think what is going on he is battling with himself. There are probably red flags in your relationship that a part of him feels that it isn't going to work and at the same time a part of him do not care and just want to be with you. If you want him to make up his mind and stop doing that is cut him off for a whole month.. No communication not even text. Make him think and if he really love you he will run back and never do the pull and push again with you because he already know you know how to move on. Someone did that to me and boy I've never took him for granted again.
I think what is going on he is battling with himself. There are probably red flags in your relationship that a part of him feels that it isn't going to work and at the same time a part of him do not care and just want to be with you. If you want him to make up his mind and stop doing that is cut him off for a whole month.. No communication not even text. Make him think and if he really love you he will run back and never do the pull and push again with you because he already know you know how to move on. Someone did that to me and boy I've never took him for granted again.
Thank you lioness...you're right...he's battling between the red flags and his desire for me...it's a repetition...over and over again...I'm trying to distance myself so he knows I can move on without him...this week I disappeared and it sent him running after me...if I could only not answer his calls for a month ...he'd propose...lol...not really but you get my drift....he's chasing now that I'm running the opposite way...and it feels good...the only thing is...no offense...to Leos....but is it love or a game...do Leos ever truly fall in love?....or does the cycle start all over again?.....
I'll copy and paste in case you didn't get that I was kidding, "this week I disappeared and it sent him running after me...if I could only not answer his calls for a month ...he'd propose...lol...not really but you get my drift....he's chasing now that I'm running the opposite way"....
My point was, it seems as if Leo's only want what they cannot have, and is that is a typical trait in all Leo's or just the one I know? And the other part of the question is, do Leo's truly fall in love or are they all completely non-committal? It was a question, not anything more, and yes, I did add sarcasm to it, but obviously some did not pick up on that.
As for you Jynja, yours is the most crude statement any grown woman could make, so obviously you are a teenager whose bored and likes to comment on this board. Oh, yes, offense taken.
My point was, it seems as if Leo's only want what they cannot have, and is that is a typical trait in all Leo's or just the one I know? And the other part of the question is, do Leo's truly fall in love or are they all completely non-committal? It was a question, not anything more, and yes, I did add sarcasm to it, but obviously some did not pick up on that.
As for you Jynja, yours is the most crude statement any grown woman could make, so obviously you are a teenager whose bored and likes to comment on this board. Oh, yes, offense taken.
Posted by jayceesmyth
Since my last post, my Leo man and I have gone back and forth several times.
One minute he misses me, the next, he's done.
I'm unsure if this is typical Leo behavior, or is it because my Leo man is bi-polar? I don't know if he is diagnosed, but his up and down behavior and severe mood swings make me think may be somewhat bi-polar.
Since our first break-up, so to speak, we have been having unbelievable hot sex every time we are together (unusual, since in the year we dated, sex was so very very rare, twice to be exact!) he says he misses me, then the whole steamy make out session and sex begins. At dinner he seems fine (sex always seems to come before we go out for dinner) and when we are saying goodbye, he begins his whole talk about how we can't do this anymore, then in a few days, it's the same thing, missing each other, sex, dinner, it's over!
Is this a typical Leo trait, to not know if they regret a break-up, or to continue being angry but not letting go? It seems as if he doesn't want it to end, yet, he wants it to be over...I'm confused...please help.....
How old is he?
Perhaps he's just not ready for a commitment.
Sag man acted similar with me. Anger part excluded, but the breaking up after each meeting was funny.
Must be some lateral connection to being a fire sign and making sure (bluntly honest) there are no misunderstandings. Yes he wants cake, but no commitment.
Perhaps what is different with Leo man is he takes you out for dinner... and more confusingly AFTER sex.
Why he comes back is you are familiar, fit into his likes, he may think you've already done so much together (history in bed), he does not need to do the searching & eliminating again. Thinking rather practical.
In the meantime, girl wonders why he keeps coming and breaking up again.
I will tell this story again because I used to find it very cute of SAG man doing
Each and every time, he would say, "I's over!"
And I used to say, "Just say, it was nice (lol).."
One day I made him aware of what he was doing, then he relaxed. Depends what one wants or expects from a relationship.
Must be some lateral connection to being a fire sign and making sure (bluntly honest) there are no misunderstandings. Yes he wants cake, but no commitment.
Perhaps what is different with Leo man is he takes you out for dinner... and more confusingly AFTER sex.
Why he comes back is you are familiar, fit into his likes, he may think you've already done so much together (history in bed), he does not need to do the searching & eliminating again. Thinking rather practical.
In the meantime, girl wonders why he keeps coming and breaking up again.
I will tell this story again because I used to find it very cute of SAG man doing
Each and every time, he would say, "I's over!"
And I used to say, "Just say, it was nice (lol).."
One day I made him aware of what he was doing, then he relaxed. Depends what one wants or expects from a relationship.
Could it turn into something more over time?
It might.
Remember the familiarity part.
It might.
Remember the familiarity part.
hi long time listener first time poster
I am having the exact same thing with my leo ex its starting to drive me a little crazy (not necessarily in a bad way) and I just would like to try and understand whats going on in his head. I like the contact we have at the same time and don't want to do without it if I was real to myself (my Cancer neediness)but I also know its not healthy as it makes it hard to truly get over him (which I wouldn't do anyway until I met someone else - the Cancer in me) .........I would get back with him if he could talk about our break up but he refuses and he has a lot of issues he needs to work through until I believe he is ready for a real relationship (even at 40) so theres no point in wanting to get back together even tho I miss him every day
we have been together once physically since we split up we text every day (been 2 months since we split) but he makes reasons why hes super busy to see me (which he did anyway in the relationship hence why I had to leave from what I read on here about Leo being either in our out couldn't handle the one foot in one out thing plus his ego was too all about me and not enough about ME) and he says how he wants to be able to time to spend time together when hes not so busy (even just friendly) he does over commit himself really badly to avoid relationships so I believe. But now we aren't together theres no pressure to have to commit or do so and I put none on him so why is he avoiding me
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but I don't understand why he texts me every day if hes not interested in even spending time with me as friends or to be physical together which we have eluded to in texts is it just attention hes seeking? we are obviously both subtlely communicating we aren't seeing anyone else if we can text morning and night ...hes a very good looking guy so its not like he cant have his fair share of women so I don't understand it ... do I just have to pretend ive moved on I hate the whole concept of pretending to date someone when im not (where I live theres not a lot of options especially being older and we are both super fussy) so its not like someone is going to come along tomorrow, do I just disappear off the face of the planet for a bit... hes so difficult sometimes I don't think it would prove much and he would just be stubborn anyway and I don't want to lose him from my life entirely, but I also know I would be hurt if he met someone tomorrow
asking leos here : do I just have to come out and
I am having the exact same thing with my leo ex its starting to drive me a little crazy (not necessarily in a bad way) and I just would like to try and understand whats going on in his head. I like the contact we have at the same time and don't want to do without it if I was real to myself (my Cancer neediness)but I also know its not healthy as it makes it hard to truly get over him (which I wouldn't do anyway until I met someone else - the Cancer in me) .........I would get back with him if he could talk about our break up but he refuses and he has a lot of issues he needs to work through until I believe he is ready for a real relationship (even at 40) so theres no point in wanting to get back together even tho I miss him every day
we have been together once physically since we split up we text every day (been 2 months since we split) but he makes reasons why hes super busy to see me (which he did anyway in the relationship hence why I had to leave from what I read on here about Leo being either in our out couldn't handle the one foot in one out thing plus his ego was too all about me and not enough about ME) and he says how he wants to be able to time to spend time together when hes not so busy (even just friendly) he does over commit himself really badly to avoid relationships so I believe. But now we aren't together theres no pressure to have to commit or do so and I put none on him so why is he avoiding me
? but I don't understand why he texts me every day if hes not interested in even spending time with me as friends or to be physical together which we have eluded to in texts is it just attention hes seeking? we are obviously both subtlely communicating we aren't seeing anyone else if we can text morning and night ...hes a very good looking guy so its not like he cant have his fair share of women so I don't understand it ... do I just have to pretend ive moved on I hate the whole concept of pretending to date someone when im not (where I live theres not a lot of options especially being older and we are both super fussy) so its not like someone is going to come along tomorrow, do I just disappear off the face of the planet for a bit... hes so difficult sometimes I don't think it would prove much and he would just be stubborn anyway and I don't want to lose him from my life entirely, but I also know I would be hurt if he met someone tomorrow
asking leos here : do I just have to come out and
sorry last bit dropped off - and ask him whats up or just disappear and see if I get the same result status quo has to change here as its not healthy as it is
Fum, Thanks for the response. unscene99.....Now I'm really confused, lol.....I can't figure out why your guy texts everyday, then says he's busy....maybe he's waiting for you to say...you miss him and want to give it another try...he could be emotionally stunted, like my leo, maybe he's stubborn as hell and needs you to fold first...not sure....just speculating......I for the life of me, cannot figure out my Leo, I'm totally convinced he's not only bi-polar but emotionally stunted, if that is even a real expression....I don't necessarily believe it is their sign, it may be that certain men behave similar to those who have the same backgrounds, same life experiences, such as with women and the way they were raised. I'm not sure of anything, only going on assumptions, and you know what they say about that.....but I will tell you, mine is very stubborn and at one point, I finally had to break the ice and say the dreaded, I miss you, let's try again, and he said, what took you so long.......hahaha....we laughed for days about it......so maybe your guy is waiting, as well. P.S. mine disappeared again, we had a great week last week, and of course, the same argument came about and he's being stubborn, but this time, I am being equally as stubborn...this Leo doesn't rule my jungle anymore......but obviously we will start again this week I'm sure....it's like death and taxes, it's inevitable......
I took your advice and texted last night "I really miss you sometimes"
he said "I miss you sometimes also "
good call - now what ? I need you to guide me I think we have the same incarnation of male
any leos that can chime in what does the I miss you mean just that and that's all? - from what I read once Leo is done he is done or is there some sort of chance for reconciliation here ? don't care in what form just needs to change from just text messages to some sort of interaction
do I go away and see if he chases?
he said "I miss you sometimes also
"good call - now what ? I need you to guide me I think we have the same incarnation of male
any leos that can chime in what does the I miss you mean just that and that's all? - from what I read once Leo is done he is done or is there some sort of chance for reconciliation here ? don't care in what form just needs to change from just text messages to some sort of interaction
do I go away and see if he chases?
Maybe it's me but I think Leo men are the easiest men of the zodiac to understand....they mean what they say, their actions don't contradict their words.....look pretty, smell pretty, cook, sex, give them space..that's it.
Will agree with Nala.
Also, timining is the b*tch here. His timing might be right for him. Yours might not be in same.
My Leo guy claimed he IS the nice guy, meaning, he responds. He can't ignore anybody.. HE IS THE NICE GUY!
Don't read too much into things.
He is just sweet.. he can't help himself. Capish?
Also, timining is the b*tch here. His timing might be right for him. Yours might not be in same.
My Leo guy claimed he IS the nice guy, meaning, he responds. He can't ignore anybody.. HE IS THE NICE GUY!
Don't read too much into things.
He is just sweet.. he can't help himself. Capish?
Anything weird... discard!
Rule #1
Rule #1
Unscene...glad it worked...I'm not sure about the chase...as mine sometimes does sometimes doesn't...but I agree with nala..smell pretty look pretty and adorn the king...I will see mine today...I will do make sure I'm at the top of my game and he will melt as always...but make sure you leave out the word sometimes...just miss him...they do come back...over and over if they feel for you...in my case at least...except mine is a living contradiction...words and action both...one never matches the other....but mine is 60 yrs old...yet emotionally 20...he's the immature kind of Leo...not a good thing!..tell your leo...you need him...he'll love it! They love to be needed....
Hi I just wanted to tell you your advice completely worked we got back together last week
Apparently we never actually broke up lol (um yeah ok) but that was his stance on it
thank you so much - proceeding with caution and he's still on probation however a lot happier .. hes still not normal but at least he admitted to having a few issues from the past and struggling with wanting to be independent but still in a relationship wont be fixed overnight but I finally got my talk I wanted and man back without settling for less or no commitment
guess its true when they say Leo is either in or out - plus girlfriend is way better on the return new exciting job, new bod from working out so hes like putty
amazing a website can produce more than hundreds of $ on therapy that would have done nada
Apparently we never actually broke up lol (um yeah ok) but that was his stance on it
thank you so much - proceeding with caution and he's still on probation however a lot happier .. hes still not normal but at least he admitted to having a few issues from the past and struggling with wanting to be independent but still in a relationship wont be fixed overnight but I finally got my talk I wanted and man back without settling for less or no commitment
guess its true when they say Leo is either in or out - plus girlfriend is way better on the return new exciting job, new bod from working out so hes like putty
amazing a website can produce more than hundreds of $ on therapy that would have done nada
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