Leeooooooos I have a question! :-)

Ok, so I have this Leo that I'm friends with. He currently has a girlfriend (but it's long distance). I asked him one day about her and commented that it sounds like it's getting serious. He proceeds to tell me that it's not serious at all and they are just dating. Now, maybe it's just me but, when you call someone your girlfriend,meet their parents, announce it on your facebook, have her come to visit you for a week and let her use your car AND are only dating her...I'd call that pretty dang serious..I'm also willing to bet money that SHE probably thinks it's a serious deal too.

I've heard from a few people that Leo's DO like to keep their options open, but do you guys seriously think that calling someone your girlfriend/boyfriend and meeting their family is not that serious?! My gut is telling me he is trying to be mister player but, he's not doing it right lol. 😛

You already know the answer. Always trust your gut.

So what if he says he's dating & doing all that stuff? Leo's are just generous people overall. But if u are the one to a Leo, you'll know, without a doubt. I like to keep my options open when I'm dating someone I like but am a weeee bit iffy about. However, if I'm in a relationship then its a different story and everyone will know how in loooooove i am 🙂 my friends basically get sick of me talking about my man sometimes cuz he's a hot ass Taurus man mmm mmmmmmm.

Posted by FireDragonScorpio
oh wow. totally agree. was left heartbroken by a leo earlier this year who swore blind he was single. the bullshit that flowed from his mouth was unbelievable unless you're a gullible twat like me. anyhow, he was also actually in a relationship with someone who had to move back to her native country. he said it was over cos he wouldn't do long distance but i am pretty sure he forgot to communicate this to the poor 'ex'. she came to visit him just after i had met him and surprise, surprise, a week later, i was dumped.

he said when he first saw me months before we got together, he said to himself 'THAT is really tasty...i want IT' and that's precisely what he set about doing. it was like i was an inanimate object serving no other purpose than to inflate his ego in the absence of his 'ex' who i think had actually broken his heart when she had to go (she needed to send her son to a school for special needs in the uk which was something the leo was really rudely derisive about).

if i were you, i would steer very clear of this man otherwise, at some point, you will end up in the girlfriend's position of thinking you have something with him that you don't. it's probably the most painful experience i've had for a long time cos i believe what people tell me. i trusted him and he fucked me over. don't let it happen to you. 🙂

One bad experience with ur Leo doesn't mean she needs to stay away from all Leo guys. It's not like they're hooking up, they're JUST friends c'mon.

Posted by delishhh
So what if he says he's dating & doing all that stuff? Leo's are just generous people overall. But if u are the one to a Leo, you'll know, without a doubt. I like to keep my options open when I'm dating someone I like but am a weeee bit iffy about. However, if I'm in a relationship then its a different story and everyone will know how in loooooove i am 🙂 my friends basically get sick of me talking about my man sometimes cuz he's a hot ass Taurus man mmm mmmmmmm.

Well they ARE in a relationship..that's his GIRLFRIEND..he changed his status on fb and tons of people commented including myself...now tell me again how that's just being generous & not screaming serious relationship? I've just come to the conclusion that he's trying to downplay the whole thing to me despite it being obvious, that it's going a serious direction. He's downplayed the whole thing since he told me a few weeks ago that he was going to go visit her. It's weird, like he went to visit, got some of the you-know-what and just became sprung..hmm now that I think about it he could be trying to hide the fact that he's sprung on her to me, which is stupid because we're just friends anyway and I would never tease him about it.

that's pride for ya lol but ya i see what ur saying, maybe he doesn't wanna look weak cuz he's sprung 🙂

Posted by FireDragonScorpio
i'm suspicious of the 'friendship' element here. i'm would also suspicious of someone who downplays what is clearly a relationship, serious or not. what are his motives?

of course ur suspicious ur a scorpio, but all anon has to do is ask questions to get the answers. simple as that. And if he doesn't wanna be clear and direct with her then he doesn't have to. It's his life.

I relate to this behavior. I wait awhile before I can someone my own because I dont want to make assumptions, and I dont want to get serious, while the other person doesnt view me as relationship material. I will not be disrespected, and I will not have my pride stomped on. (Mini Leo rant X10)


A man needs to be head-over-heels for me to fully commit to him, or acknowledge him as the ONLY one.

Ive been burned, I cant help it.

i have a male leo friend, who lives with a woman, has a baby with her...haaa, and he swears that its not that serious and he is not sure that they are headed for marriage. I just tell him straight up, you might as well marry her and im sure you will! He just says to me, "you dont know that". Right! Anyway, i dont know what thats about, i would think its an ego thing and he doesnt want to look like he has been "got", but he needs to wake up and smell the coffee! Besides whats wrong with being in love? If he were a single leo, he would be looking for love, no? silly to me. so i would just assume that his relationship is serious if i were you, & keep it moving besides you dont want to get your feelings hurt when the writing is on the wall.

Yeah I am a Leo and you drive MY car I am in love. Lol!

Posted by LadyLionness
i have a male leo friend, who lives with a woman, has a baby with her...haaa, and he swears that its not that serious and he is not sure that they are headed for marriage. I just tell him straight up, you might as well marry her and im sure you will! He just says to me, "you dont know that". Right! Anyway, i dont know what thats about, i would think its an ego thing and he doesnt want to look like he has been "got", but he needs to wake up and smell the coffee! Besides whats wrong with being in love? If he were a single leo, he would be looking for love, no? silly to me. so i would just assume that his relationship is serious if i were you, & keep it moving besides you dont want to get your feelings hurt when the writing is on the wall.

Just because he has a baby with someone and lives with her doesn't mean they should get married. People always get married for the wrong reasons. Either because they don't want to be alone, all their friends are doing it, they have kids with that person, or that person is feeling pressured. But what if everything was horrible behind closed doors? What if no one really knew they didn't get along or they didn't really love each other that much to take it to the next step? Leos need to be in love with a person before they can fully commit 100% .

sounds like a douche.

Wow....a Leo lending his car? Anyone of you maybe gave it a thought that she's just too dominating? He is keeping her as an option but looking for others while at it? I can't imagine giving any girl my car(no offence).

@delishhh I see your defending Leo's here. That's the way a Leo should be :')

Is that right——> why would a leo do that ...PRIDE

i love it when my man dominates me...in a sexual way. cuz he's just so nice and polite all the time. i just want him to rip my clothes off and make me scream his name!!

anyways, back to the subject... la de daaa

Posted by LionBlood
Wow....a Leo lending his car? Anyone of you maybe gave it a thought that she's just too dominating? He is keeping her as an option but looking for others while at it? I can't imagine giving any girl my car(no offence).

@delishhh I see your defending Leo's here. That's the way a Leo should be :')

The part in bold is pretty much the conclusion I've come too. He's said some other questionable things about the situation since I've posted this but blah whatever it's his life. When he told me he had to be @ the airport the other day I said wow is she moving in and he goes let me tell you something, even when I'm married I'm not living with my wife. He's fucking insane, but funny so that's why I keep him around 😛

Posted by Anon310

Posted by LionBlood
Wow....a Leo lending his car? Anyone of you maybe gave it a thought that she's just too dominating? He is keeping her as an option but looking for others while at it? I can't imagine giving any girl my car(no offence).

@delishhh I see your defending Leo's here. That's the way a Leo should be :')

The part in bold is pretty much the conclusion I've come too. He's said some other questionable things about the situation since I've posted this but blah whatever it's his life. When he told me he had to be @ the airport the other day I said wow is she moving in and he goes let me tell you something, even when I'm married I'm not living with my wife. He's fucking insane, but funny so that's why I keep him around 😛

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Sounds like he's just jokin around just to get a laugh outta you. And if his "wife" ever knew he said that about her? She'd probably dump his ass in a quickness and sh!t on his pride!

Posted by aquadiesel

Posted by delishhh

Posted by LadyLionness
i have a male leo friend, who lives with a woman, has a baby with her...haaa, and he swears that its not that serious and he is not sure that they are headed for marriage. I just tell him straight up, you might as well marry her and im sure you will! He just says to me, "you dont know that". Right! Anyway, i dont know what thats about, i would think its an ego thing and he doesnt want to look like he has been "got", but he needs to wake up and smell the coffee! Besides whats wrong with being in love? If he were a single leo, he would be looking for love, no? silly to me. so i would just assume that his relationship is serious if i were you, & keep it moving besides you dont want to get your feelings hurt when the writing is on the wall.

Just because he has a baby with someone and lives with her doesn't mean they should get married. People always get married for the wrong reasons. Either because they don't want to be alone, all their friends are doing it, they have kids with that person, or that person is feeling pressured. But what if everything was horrible behind closed doors? What if no one really knew they didn't get along or they didn't really love each other that much to take it to the next step? Leos need to be in love with a person before they can fully commit 100% .

yeah but u dont fuck with someone u dont get along with... a real man doesnt do that, theres no pride in this... (i have leo rising..)

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looks like he liked her enough to fuck her 🙂