LEO BF HAS ME CRYING ALMOST EVERYDAY

OK. I'M 37 We both are. he is born July 30th(had a bashing bday mind u) and i was born May6 so that makes him a LEO and me the Taurus. Its been a crazy, exciting,sometimes heartbreaking 16 months with him. We almost broke up over 20 times no lie. We bump heads alot....he plays mind games with me....he edges me on and watch me go mad and then shuts me off until he is ready its like he's playing with my head/heart I don't know what else to do. I've tried everything even found this site today to help me cope with all the headaches....I LOVE HIM he LOVES ME but were doomed if we don't get any help and I've also suggested this to him and he refuse to speak to someone with me to sort out our differences. I think he refused because he don't want anyone to see who he really is and most of the time lately he's been an A $ $ hole towards me. Today was almost another break-up day for us. then when i get emotional he then comes in as being sorry and warm and telling me he just "wants us to work out so bad" but for me I say "if u love me you wouldn't do this or that to me" I totally don't understand him sometimes. HE creeps me out and also he wants me to move to Georgia with him and its scaring me to death....He has so many things in mind for our future...he wants to build a house, get married, he wants 1 more child. he has all these dreams that I too want (excluding a baby) it was good in the begining for us I think that's why I hold on as long as i have....but me seeking out help this morning was another wake up call. Why are they so split with personalities? HELP!!!

Im a leo male,my birthday is a day after his and i have the same controlling attitude to the woman i love i dont know why the hell i do it but ....what you have to do that works with me is threaten to leave(dont talk or call and just disappear and do not answer the phone when he calls) and keep this phase up for a long time and i promise it will work.Hes going to be doing alot of crying and hes going to call you alot also.Its going to hurt you as well,if he loves you as much as he says he does,he will make the changes he needs to make and use that leo hunting method lol.good luck

LOL wow i did that the other day and yep he was callin my cell phone and home phone....i was out with my friends and just didnt want to be bothered and earlier that day he didnt answer my call so I did a revenge on him and yea...he called and called and called my son even texted me saying your bf is calling the house two times lol. wow so thats the trick.....but....then he might get some revenge as LEO loves to do and shut me off from him.....well tonight it was a pleasant night convo with him....we talked about changes etc......but for the most part im always very humble to him.....and he seems to forget that I'm easy going but he stirs us up.....then tells me "you are so strong to be dealing with me" pfffffffffffffft.....wow what a anal jerk lol gotta love'em

lol you should keep it up,its damn sure workin for me cuz im chasing behind a girl doing this exact same thing to me!When you do this kind of thing you gotta make sure that its clear that you are not seeing anybody else or have intentions on doing so because that'll take us leos over the edge LOL!The reason he was willing to talk to you was because he needed to so he can make sure you havent left from under his radar...he hasnt learned his lesson just yet,he's going to be back to the same ol routine.Make sure you teach him a lesson and show him what you are worth!

LMAOooooooooooo omg this morning he was so upset and asking me just that....if i was seeing someone else....and i had to reasure him i wasnt......then later as we continued to talk he said "i just want u to know just how bad i want u and never want to loose you" i was in aweee....he catches me all the time damn!!! The taking me for granted thing is burning me up....he shuts down when I want to talk and of course yes I point the finger at all that he do hurting me and he just hates it.....but i wont just let that fly....i cant.....i am too caring to be treated like that.....getting the cold shoulder is omg so horrid.....yea i be stubborn sometimes....but really....truthfully i've bent sooooooooooo much that i'm even in shock......i'm a bull and almost at a breaking point if it gets rocky again like this past week!! oooh and he says when we make up that he's just putting up a front by how he be acting as if he dont care if i leave him.....but what i want to know is>>>>>>>>>> IF i did do that no call thing again and he back to assuming i am with someone then I know he will leave me......further more that no call thing happen twice....the first time i said i was sleep and he called all phones....then a few days later I did the other no call but did tex him and said "well earlier u didnt answer my calls so now its my turn asshole" and he text me back F you!!!! lol

THanks By the way SirSmoke

girl dnt waste ur time//im 23 and my ex is 20 and he is the same way and if ur guy is 37 and he is treating u how my 20 ex treats me there is no hope..hate to be negative bt im a taurus like u and we dnt deserve this..u kno what u need to do..my leo thought he was in love with me bt that was jst lust..he was addicted to my body n that was it

Posted by buttaflybaby74
OK. I'M 37 We both are. he is born July 30th(had a bashing bday mind u) and i was born May6 so that makes him a LEO and me the Taurus. Its been a crazy, exciting,sometimes heartbreaking 16 months with him. We almost broke up over 20 times no lie. We bump heads alot....he plays mind games with me....he edges me on and watch me go mad and then shuts me off until he is ready its like he's playing with my head/heart I don't know what else to do. I've tried everything even found this site today to help me cope with all the headaches....I LOVE HIM he LOVES ME but were doomed if we don't get any help and I've also suggested this to him and he refuse to speak to someone with me to sort out our differences. I think he refused because he don't want anyone to see who he really is and most of the time lately he's been an A $ $ hole towards me. Today was almost another break-up day for us. then when i get emotional he then comes in as being sorry and warm and telling me he just "wants us to work out so bad" but for me I say "if u love me you wouldn't do this or that to me" I totally don't understand him sometimes. HE creeps me out and also he wants me to move to Georgia with him and its scaring me to death....He has so many things in mind for our future...he wants to build a house, get married, he wants 1 more child. he has all these dreams that I too want (excluding a baby) it was good in the begining for us I think that's why I hold on as long as i have....but me seeking out help this morning was another wake up call. Why are they so split with personalities? HELP!!!

Breaking up 20 times in 16 months sounds to me like a failed relationship.

easy as pie! DUMP HIS ASS! Happy ever after!

i dated a leo who was not the model boyfriend. i got sick of it and eventually so will you.

Posted by buttaflybaby74
LOL wow i did that the other day and yep he was callin my cell phone and home phone....i was out with my friends and just didnt want to be bothered and earlier that day he didnt answer my call so I did a revenge on him and yea...he called and called and called my son even texted me saying your bf is calling the house two times lol. wow so thats the trick.....but....then he might get some revenge as LEO loves to do and shut me off from him.....well tonight it was a pleasant night convo with him....we talked about changes etc......but for the most part im always very humble to him.....and he seems to forget that I'm easy going but he stirs us up.....then tells me "you are so strong to be dealing with me" pfffffffffffffft.....wow what a anal jerk lol gotta love'em

This only works " if he really cares "..men are men..and games are games! @ 37? You should be enjoying a man..!

Wow, an emotional control freaking dude who likes you under his thumb! AWESOME! A spoiled brat afraid his toy might get away. SWEET! An emotionally abusive douchebag! Where do I sign up?!

Christ almighty woman, have you taken leave of your senses?! This ain't got jack to do with him being a Leo and everything to do with him being one sammich shy of a picnic. You move to GA you are a flat out fool. Double damned dipped if you donate an egg to the cause.

Taurus want to control things. Not with Leo.