Jaxz
@Jaxz88
10 Years
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Posted by AriesLoveMaybe he's a grown man who likes surprises?🙂
Just ask him what he wants. He's s grown man not a little kid.
Posted by AriesLoveSure. But as long as he knows she really tried and he can appreciate the effort, she should be fine, imo.Posted by HappyCapperSo surprise him with what he likes. Instead of wasting money on what you like or guessing what he likes.Posted by AriesLoveMaybe he's a grown man who likes surprises?🙂
Just ask him what he wants. He's s grown man not a little kid.
If you have to ask you don't know.
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Posted by AriesLoveWell, if she asks him to tell her what he wants, his response would be pretty close to asking for it. Think there are two groups of people - some prefer to get it right without the surprise, and some prefer the surprise...with the possibly gift fail or success. Depends on the birthday boy.Posted by HappyCapperI didn't say he should ask for it. But I'm pretty sure he knows his birthday is coming up. That's no surprise.Posted by AriesLoveSure. But as long as he knows she really tried and he can appreciate the effort, she should be fine, imo.Posted by HappyCapperSo surprise him with what he likes. Instead of wasting money on what you like or guessing what he likes.Posted by AriesLoveMaybe he's a grown man who likes surprises?🙂
Just ask him what he wants. He's s grown man not a little kid.
If you have to ask you don't know.
Asking is great, imo, but I'd rather take a chance when it comes to presents. If I get it wrong, no one's gonna kill me(hopefully😉) and I'll be closer to learning what kinds of gifts he likes for the future. But that's me.
He may be different, ofc, but the best gifts I ever got were things that I wouldn't even have thought to ask for. And then it's the surprise. At least my leo friends love those.🙂
A surprise birthday party and dinner is understandable. But why not get someone what they want or like. At least get an idea of what they want.
It's not that serious and really doesn't take a lot of brainstorming. Just saying
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Posted by Jaxz88That all sounds awesome 😎
Ooh you guys are awesome!! Thanks so much!!! So I should really go all out then—
So at this stage I've bought him a cool hat he loves his hats..... Was thinking a really really nice pillow as he has trouble sleeping after night shift? (Is this abit werid?) I was going to make him a dream catcher which i have anew interest in and make him a big amazing chocolate cake along with candle lit room with a massage and sexy time I should through in something abit adventurish just for him —?
Thank you so much guys it's so much help!!
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He does do some night shifts and enjoys scuba diving also
How much should I spend for this stage of our relationship?