Leo came back

This topic was created in the Leo forum by aquaglass on Saturday, July 1, 2017 and has 24 replies.
After he told me that he won't talk to me again 3 weeks ago. He texted me today, appologizing and such. I don't know how to process it now. Is it typical leo move or what?
This is not necessarily a Leo move. He's admitting that he couldn't find anyone who would tolerate him, so now he's back.
Posted by Chuckcem
This is not necessarily a Leo move. He's admitting that he couldn't find anyone who would tolerate him, so now he's back.
Who would tolerate him? Like how?

I mostly didn't always agree with him or always tolerating things he said and/or did.

The reason why we stopped talking was apparently that we had different view about something. I told him what i have in mind and what i want, and vice versa.

Which then lead to him said he won't talk to me again. I'm cool with that. Lived my own life and never tried to contact him at all. And now he's back with apologies?
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by aquaglass
Posted by Chuckcem
This is not necessarily a Leo move. He's admitting that he couldn't find anyone who would tolerate him, so now he's back.
Who would tolerate him? Like how?

I mostly didn't always agree with him or always tolerating things he said and/or did.

The reason why we stopped talking was apparently that we had different view about something. I told him what i have in mind and what i want, and vice versa.

Which then lead to him said he won't talk to me again. I'm cool with that. Lived my own life and never tried to contact him at all. And now he's back with apologies?
It's typical Aquarius/Leo relationship... push and pull... you are repulsed by each other yet fascinated with each other
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Aww dance
Posted by aquaglass
After he told me that he won't talk to me again 3 weeks ago. He texted me today, appologizing and such. I don't know how to process it now. Is it typical leo move or what?
Gawd, no.

I'd be be suspicious.

Posted by Montgomery
Posted by aquaglass
After he told me that he won't talk to me again 3 weeks ago. He texted me today, appologizing and such. I don't know how to process it now. Is it typical leo move or what?
Gawd, no.

I'd be be suspicious.

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I'm wondering too tho. I thought you guys Leo always mean it when you say bye. No?
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by aquaglass
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by aquaglass
Posted by Chuckcem
This is not necessarily a Leo move. He's admitting that he couldn't find anyone who would tolerate him, so now he's back.
Who would tolerate him? Like how?

I mostly didn't always agree with him or always tolerating things he said and/or did.

The reason why we stopped talking was apparently that we had different view about something. I told him what i have in mind and what i want, and vice versa.

Which then lead to him said he won't talk to me again. I'm cool with that. Lived my own life and never tried to contact him at all. And now he's back with apologies?
It's typical Aquarius/Leo relationship... push and pull... you are repulsed by each other yet fascinated with each other
Aww dance
Yeah, I had s push/pull relationship with one....

What's his moon..?
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I actually don't know his placement really. I just know he is a Leo, thats all. How did it end up with you guys?
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by aquaglass
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by aquaglass
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by aquaglass
Posted by Chuckcem
This is not necessarily a Leo move. He's admitting that he couldn't find anyone who would tolerate him, so now he's back.
Who would tolerate him? Like how?

I mostly didn't always agree with him or always tolerating things he said and/or did.

The reason why we stopped talking was apparently that we had different view about something. I told him what i have in mind and what i want, and vice versa.

Which then lead to him said he won't talk to me again. I'm cool with that. Lived my own life and never tried to contact him at all. And now he's back with apologies?
It's typical Aquarius/Leo relationship... push and pull... you are repulsed by each other yet fascinated with each other
Aww dance
Yeah, I had s push/pull relationship with one....

What's his moon..?
I actually don't know his placement really. I just know he is a Leo, thats all. How did it end up with you guys?
Me with a broken heart... he broke up with me this last time and he went savage on me... so I hit him with kindness and told him I felt and went away... been 6 months now
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Thats not cool at all, sorry to hear.

Why did you guys broke up tho?
Posted by -Flo-
Seems like a lot of game playing, but that's going to happen with the Leo/Aqua combo.

Maybe take some space for yourself, and when you're ready set boundaries with him.
Probably. Not sure yet really.

Since he actually just did things that somehow showing me that he is genuinely has feelings for me. We had some "talks" and he always tried to convince me most of times i told him my doubts. Lately, he told me that i was suspicious of him a lot.

The last "date", we had a great time actually.

But idk i'm still all doubting things. So I told him what i want and my view about us.

Idk but he said he respect what i said and just gonna stop talking to me.

Oh and i did gave us space i think. I never contact him since then. And busy with my own life. Enjoying my own space like aquas good at.

And now he's talking again.

Got any leo men for you yet Flo?

Posted by aquaglass
Posted by Montgomery
Posted by aquaglass
After he told me that he won't talk to me again 3 weeks ago. He texted me today, appologizing and such. I don't know how to process it now. Is it typical leo move or what?
Gawd, no.

I'd be be suspicious.

I'm wondering too tho. I thought you guys Leo always mean it when you say bye. No?
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I always mean it-- can't speak for all LEOs

though.

But you said this too:

 "... I told him what i want and my view about us. Idk but he said he respect what i said and just gonna stop talking to me."


If that's what you're talking about, then it's a

little different than saying Goodbye because

he was finished with you.



Posted by Montgomery
Posted by aquaglass
Posted by Montgomery
Posted by aquaglass
After he told me that he won't talk to me again 3 weeks ago. He texted me today, appologizing and such. I don't know how to process it now. Is it typical leo move or what?
Gawd, no.

I'd be be suspicious.

I'm wondering too tho. I thought you guys Leo always mean it when you say bye. No?
I always mean it-- can't speak for all LEOs

though.

But you said this too:

 "... I told him what i want and my view about us. Idk but he said he respect what i said and just gonna stop talking to me."


If that's what you're talking about, then it's a

little different than saying Goodbye because

he was finished with you.



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Yes that was what happened. I described it more detailed here :

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/leo-man-and-busy-woman-8620098/

And the why we stopped talking:

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/stood-me-up--8658425/
Posted by aquaglass
Posted by Montgomery
Posted by aquaglass
After he told me that he won't talk to me again 3 weeks ago. He texted me today, appologizing and such. I don't know how to process it now. Is it typical leo move or what?
Gawd, no.

I'd be be suspicious.

I'm wondering too tho. I thought you guys Leo always mean it when you say bye. No?
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He is trying to toy with you. He expected you to chase him when he "left". When you didn't he came running back because you called his bluff. Shows he's not emotionally mature. Him returning doesn't mean he actually cares about you either. He just doesn't have anyone else giving him any attention at the moment.
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by aquaglass
Posted by Chuckcem
This is not necessarily a Leo move. He's admitting that he couldn't find anyone who would tolerate him, so now he's back.
Who would tolerate him? Like how?

I mostly didn't always agree with him or always tolerating things he said and/or did.

The reason why we stopped talking was apparently that we had different view about something. I told him what i have in mind and what i want, and vice versa.

Which then lead to him said he won't talk to me again. I'm cool with that. Lived my own life and never tried to contact him at all. And now he's back with apologies?
It's typical Aquarius/Leo relationship... push and pull... you are repulsed by each other yet fascinated with each other
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I'd normally agree, but based on OP's story, it sounds like this guy just wants sex from her and isn't getting it anywhere else.
Posted by Chuckcem
Posted by aquaglass
Posted by Montgomery
Posted by aquaglass
After he told me that he won't talk to me again 3 weeks ago. He texted me today, appologizing and such. I don't know how to process it now. Is it typical leo move or what?
Gawd, no.

I'd be be suspicious.

I'm wondering too tho. I thought you guys Leo always mean it when you say bye. No?
He is trying to toy with you. He expected you to chase him when he "left". When you didn't he came running back because you called his bluff. Shows he's not emotionally mature. Him returning doesn't mean he actually cares about you either. He just doesn't have anyone else giving him any attention at the moment.
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Now if thats the case, i got no idea why leos seemed like only wants me for sex then. Sigh.
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by Chuckcem
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by aquaglass
Posted by Chuckcem
This is not necessarily a Leo move. He's admitting that he couldn't find anyone who would tolerate him, so now he's back.
Who would tolerate him? Like how?

I mostly didn't always agree with him or always tolerating things he said and/or did.

The reason why we stopped talking was apparently that we had different view about something. I told him what i have in mind and what i want, and vice versa.

Which then lead to him said he won't talk to me again. I'm cool with that. Lived my own life and never tried to contact him at all. And now he's back with apologies?
It's typical Aquarius/Leo relationship... push and pull... you are repulsed by each other yet fascinated with each other
I'd normally agree, but based on OP's story, it sounds like this guy just wants sex from her and isn't getting it anywhere else.
Makes sense... so how can you usually tell with a Leo then... sex versus sincerity?
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It all depends, though in this scenario time was/is a factor. There wasn't enough time spent between the two for the Leo to actually create enough of a bond to have serious intentions toward OP. As I mentioned Leos need physical exposure to really fall in love and the ability to spend time together was very short due to OP's work schedule. If I remember there was some distance between them too.

I mentioned in another post that a Leo in love wants to spend a lot of time around those they care about. When this guy DID have the opportunity to be with OP during their last date, he started acting strangely and even walked ahead of her after they left the movies. He was oddly distracted. His focus was elsewhere during certain moments of their date.

Then there's the fact that he was always horny when he interacted with OP. When she didn't cybersex with him, he grew distant. Not to mention he told OP he wasn't looking for a relationship. So all of those factors combined lead me to believe that he wasn't serious.

To answer your question more directly, the easiest way to gauge a Leo's sincerity is consistency. How consistent a Leo is with his/her interaction toward a person will determin their sincerity. Likewise if a Leo (or person in general) only talks about sex, there's a high chance that sex is the foundation and main focus of the relationship.
Posted by aquaglass
Posted by Chuckcem
Posted by aquaglass
Posted by Montgomery
Posted by aquaglass
After he told me that he won't talk to me again 3 weeks ago. He texted me today, appologizing and such. I don't know how to process it now. Is it typical leo move or what?
Gawd, no.

I'd be be suspicious.

I'm wondering too tho. I thought you guys Leo always mean it when you say bye. No?
He is trying to toy with you. He expected you to chase him when he "left". When you didn't he came running back because you called his bluff. Shows he's not emotionally mature. Him returning doesn't mean he actually cares about you either. He just doesn't have anyone else giving him any attention at the moment.
Now if thats the case, i got no idea why leos seemed like only wants me for sex then. Sigh.
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Just remember that when you told him you wanted a relationship, he decided to walk away because he didn't want anything serious. Just be aware of that.
Posted by Chuckcem
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by Chuckcem
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by aquaglass
Posted by Chuckcem
This is not necessarily a Leo move. He's admitting that he couldn't find anyone who would tolerate him, so now he's back.
Who would tolerate him? Like how?

I mostly didn't always agree with him or always tolerating things he said and/or did.

The reason why we stopped talking was apparently that we had different view about something. I told him what i have in mind and what i want, and vice versa.

Which then lead to him said he won't talk to me again. I'm cool with that. Lived my own life and never tried to contact him at all. And now he's back with apologies?
It's typical Aquarius/Leo relationship... push and pull... you are repulsed by each other yet fascinated with each other
I'd normally agree, but based on OP's story, it sounds like this guy just wants sex from her and isn't getting it anywhere else.
Makes sense... so how can you usually tell with a Leo then... sex versus sincerity?
It all depends, though in this scenario time was/is a factor. There wasn't enough time spent between the two for the Leo to actually create enough of a bond to have serious intentions toward OP. As I mentioned Leos need physical exposure to really fall in love and the ability to spend time together was very short due to OP's work schedule. If I remember there was some distance between them too.

I mentioned in another post that a Leo in love wants to spend a lot of time around those they care about. When this guy DID have the opportunity to be with OP during their last date, he started acting strangely and even walked ahead of her after they left the movies. He was oddly distracted. His focus was elsewhere during certain moments of their date.

Then there's the fact that he was always horny when he interacted with OP. When she didn't cybersex with him, he grew distant. Not to mention he told OP he wasn't looking for a relationship. So all of those factors combined lead me to believe that he wasn't serious.

To answer your question more directly, the easiest way to gauge a Leo's sincerity is consistency. How consistent a Leo is with his/her interaction toward a person will determin their sincerity. Likewise if a Leo (or person in general) only talks about sex, there's a high chance that sex is the foundation and main focus of the relationship.
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Right, you make solid points here.

Yes we didn't spend much time together, and it was because of me being too busy despite of him asked me to meet up.

And yes there are times when we talk about sex and such. As i have mentioned before that i do am have a high sexual drive too. But the communication wasn't always about sex all the time.

Those times when he just talked to me to just checking me up, talking about general or deep stuff about life.

He just talked to me everyday, morning to night.

Not to mention that it seemed like he was all romantic, affectionate, caring that made me feel like he was more sensitive than me. Which led to why i kinda brave enough to told him that i want something more.

Which then he said he just doesn't like labels and just want to let things flow but no bad intentions anyway. Told me that sometimes the best thing happens when we don't plan it.

Then told me that he won't talk to me again, but doesn't mean that he only looking for sex in me.

And indeed something was off at the last date. And him walked fast and left me behind just pissed me off. Still unsure of why he did that, but i agree with you that he was distracted or something. Tho after a while he asked me "are you thinking about the same thing as me?" Which later i kinda figured out that he was thinking about the place. He then told me that he didn't like the area, didn't feel comfortable with the places and even the food. (The food is awful anyway, i even didn't finish my dishes)

It was pretty funny, that when we were about to leave the resto he walked in to pay the bill (i thought) then he got back to our table with a lady and some staffs following him behind.

The lady just apologizing a lot to me about the food and stuff. Which i found out then that she's the owner of the resto.

Apparently, he walked in to pay the bill and complaining idk how and asking to talk to the owner and chefs and all.

He got horny when interacting with me, and i got horny too though. Ugh seemed like i found myself teasing him here and there too. So yeah.

I'd decline the vid sex, a lot. And he mostly cool with that, and still all nice. Except for the last night before the date. After i told him about me have to work again, later in the evening of our date day. He still all fine and kind of understanding about it. Then we both got pretty horny, i declined the cybersex then he got distant.

So, yes i have that same thought as you told me that he just wants me for sex.

But still i'm wondering if he is yes indeed just wants sex then why he did those things that make me feel like theres something more? Like some times he did it in really not subtle way? He stated me as "his", all affectionate, caring as heck just like my mom checking me up all the time if i'm ok, eat well, safe and sound. Got all freaked out when i was too busy and didn't talk to him for a day, sent me emotional and sentimental things that made me feel like he was just too sweet and so on?

But if overall anyway still it's only all about sex and just his way to get into my pants. This guy is a real good player then. What a nice played act he did. I'm tricked lol.
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Posted by Chuckcem
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by Chuckcem
Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by aquaglass
Posted by Chuckcem
This is not necessarily a Leo move. He's admitting that he couldn't find anyone who would tolerate him, so now he's back.
Who would tolerate him? Like how?

I mostly didn't always agree with him or always tolerating things he said and/or did.

The reason why we stopped talking was apparently that we had different view about something. I told him what i have in mind and what i want, and vice versa.

Which then lead to him said he won't talk to me again. I'm cool with that. Lived my own life and never tried to contact him at all. And now he's back with apologies?
It's typical Aquarius/Leo relationship... push and pull... you are repulsed by each other yet fascinated with each other
I'd normally agree, but based on OP's story, it sounds like this guy just wants sex from her and isn't getting it anywhere else.
Makes sense... so how can you usually tell with a Leo then... sex versus sincerity?
It all depends, though in this scenario time was/is a factor. There wasn't enough time spent between the two for the Leo to actually create enough of a bond to have serious intentions toward OP. As I mentioned Leos need physical exposure to really fall in love and the ability to spend time together was very short due to OP's work schedule. If I remember there was some distance between them too.

I mentioned in another post that a Leo in love wants to spend a lot of time around those they care about. When this guy DID have the opportunity to be with OP during their last date, he started acting strangely and even walked ahead of her after they left the movies. He was oddly distracted. His focus was elsewhere during certain moments of their date.

Then there's the fact that he was always horny when he interacted with OP. When she didn't cybersex with him, he grew distant. Not to mention he told OP he wasn't looking for a relationship. So all of those factors combined lead me to believe that he wasn't serious.

To answer your question more directly, the easiest way to gauge a Leo's sincerity is consistency. How consistent a Leo is with his/her interaction toward a person will determin their sincerity. Likewise if a Leo (or person in general) only talks about sex, there's a high chance that sex is the foundation and main focus of the relationship.
Right, you make solid points here.

Yes we didn't spend much time together, and it was because of me being too busy despite of him asked me to meet up.

And yes there are times when we talk about sex and such. As i have mentioned before that i do am have a high sexual drive too. But the communication wasn't always about sex all the time.

Those times when he just talked to me to just checking me up, talking about general or deep stuff about life.

He just talked to me everyday, morning to night.

Not to mention that it seemed like he was all romantic, affectionate, caring that made me feel like he was more sensitive than me. Which led to why i kinda brave enough to told him that i want something more.

Which then he said he just doesn't like labels and just want to let things flow but no bad intentions anyway. Told me that sometimes the best thing happens when we don't plan it.

Then told me that he won't talk to me again, but doesn't mean that he only looking for sex in me.

And indeed something was off at the last date. And him walked fast and left me behind just pissed me off. Still unsure of why he did that, but i agree with you that he was distracted or something. Tho after a while he asked me "are you thinking about the same thing as me?" Which later i kinda figured out that he was thinking about the place. He then told me that he didn't like the area, didn't feel comfortable with the places and even the food. (The food is awful anyway, i even didn't finish my dishes)

It was pretty funny, that when we were about to leave the resto he walked in to pay the bill (i thought) then he got back to our table with a lady and some staffs following him behind.

The lady just apologizing a lot to me about the food and stuff. Which i found out then that she's the owner of the resto.

Apparently, he walked in to pay the bill and complaining idk how and asking to talk to the owner and chefs and all.

He got horny when interacting with me, and i got horny too though. Ugh seemed like i found myself teasing him here and there too. So yeah.

I'd decline the vid sex, a lot. And he mostly cool with that, and still all nice. Except for the last night before the date. After i told him about me have to work again, later in the evening of our date day. He still all fine and kind of understanding about it. Then we both got pretty horny, i declined the cybersex then he got distant.

So, yes i have that same thought as you told me that he just wants me for sex.

But still i'm wondering if he is yes indeed just wants sex then why he did those things that make me feel like theres something more? Like some times he did it in really not subtle way? He stated me as "his", all affectionate, caring as heck just like my mom checking me up all the time if i'm ok, eat well, safe and sound. Got all freaked out when i was too busy and didn't talk to him for a day, sent me emotional and sentimental things that made me feel like he was just too sweet and so on?

But if overall anyway still it's only all about sex and just his way to get into my pants. This guy is a real good player then. What a nice played act he did. I'm tricked lol.
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One thing that players know is that women will often fall for persistence. This is because women are usually told that "men chase" or "men are supposed to chase", but never really told how or why. So a player knows that he can emulate that behavior and it will cost him nothing. Either you'll fall for it or you won't. If he's not emotionally invested (which players aren't) then it doesn't matter. It's all a numbers game.

I'm not saying this guy is a player though, I just think something is off and he's resorting to at least one too many games. Again when you opened up to him, he gave you the age old comment "let's not put labels on anything," which sounds innocuous, but could easily lead you to becoming "friends with benefits." If you wanted more than that, accepting these terms wouldn't work to your advantage.

Also a Leo who is really interested, won't just let things drop the way he did. The fact that he's now back can easily point to the fact that he stopped talking to you as a means to get you to chase him and agree to his terms.
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Posted by bittercupcake
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Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by aquaglass
Posted by Chuckcem
This is not necessarily a Leo move. He's admitting that he couldn't find anyone who would tolerate him, so now he's back.
Who would tolerate him? Like how?

I mostly didn't always agree with him or always tolerating things he said and/or did.

The reason why we stopped talking was apparently that we had different view about something. I told him what i have in mind and what i want, and vice versa.

Which then lead to him said he won't talk to me again. I'm cool with that. Lived my own life and never tried to contact him at all. And now he's back with apologies?
It's typical Aquarius/Leo relationship... push and pull... you are repulsed by each other yet fascinated with each other
I'd normally agree, but based on OP's story, it sounds like this guy just wants sex from her and isn't getting it anywhere else.
Makes sense... so how can you usually tell with a Leo then... sex versus sincerity?
It all depends, though in this scenario time was/is a factor. There wasn't enough time spent between the two for the Leo to actually create enough of a bond to have serious intentions toward OP. As I mentioned Leos need physical exposure to really fall in love and the ability to spend time together was very short due to OP's work schedule. If I remember there was some distance between them too.

I mentioned in another post that a Leo in love wants to spend a lot of time around those they care about. When this guy DID have the opportunity to be with OP during their last date, he started acting strangely and even walked ahead of her after they left the movies. He was oddly distracted. His focus was elsewhere during certain moments of their date.

Then there's the fact that he was always horny when he interacted with OP. When she didn't cybersex with him, he grew distant. Not to mention he told OP he wasn't looking for a relationship. So all of those factors combined lead me to believe that he wasn't serious.

To answer your question more directly, the easiest way to gauge a Leo's sincerity is consistency. How consistent a Leo is with his/her interaction toward a person will determin their sincerity. Likewise if a Leo (or person in general) only talks about sex, there's a high chance that sex is the foundation and main focus of the relationship.
Right, you make solid points here.

Yes we didn't spend much time together, and it was because of me being too busy despite of him asked me to meet up.

And yes there are times when we talk about sex and such. As i have mentioned before that i do am have a high sexual drive too. But the communication wasn't always about sex all the time.

Those times when he just talked to me to just checking me up, talking about general or deep stuff about life.

He just talked to me everyday, morning to night.

Not to mention that it seemed like he was all romantic, affectionate, caring that made me feel like he was more sensitive than me. Which led to why i kinda brave enough to told him that i want something more.

Which then he said he just doesn't like labels and just want to let things flow but no bad intentions anyway. Told me that sometimes the best thing happens when we don't plan it.

Then told me that he won't talk to me again, but doesn't mean that he only looking for sex in me.

And indeed something was off at the last date. And him walked fast and left me behind just pissed me off. Still unsure of why he did that, but i agree with you that he was distracted or something. Tho after a while he asked me "are you thinking about the same thing as me?" Which later i kinda figured out that he was thinking about the place. He then told me that he didn't like the area, didn't feel comfortable with the places and even the food. (The food is awful anyway, i even didn't finish my dishes)

It was pretty funny, that when we were about to leave the resto he walked in to pay the bill (i thought) then he got back to our table with a lady and some staffs following him behind.

The lady just apologizing a lot to me about the food and stuff. Which i found out then that she's the owner of the resto.

Apparently, he walked in to pay the bill and complaining idk how and asking to talk to the owner and chefs and all.

He got horny when interacting with me, and i got horny too though. Ugh seemed like i found myself teasing him here and there too. So yeah.

I'd decline the vid sex, a lot. And he mostly cool with that, and still all nice. Except for the last night before the date. After i told him about me have to work again, later in the evening of our date day. He still all fine and kind of understanding about it. Then we both got pretty horny, i declined the cybersex then he got distant.

So, yes i have that same thought as you told me that he just wants me for sex.

But still i'm wondering if he is yes indeed just wants sex then why he did those things that make me feel like theres something more? Like some times he did it in really not subtle way? He stated me as "his", all affectionate, caring as heck just like my mom checking me up all the time if i'm ok, eat well, safe and sound. Got all freaked out when i was too busy and didn't talk to him for a day, sent me emotional and sentimental things that made me feel like he was just too sweet and so on?

But if overall anyway still it's only all about sex and just his way to get into my pants. This guy is a real good player then. What a nice played act he did. I'm tricked lol.
One thing that players know is that women will often fall for persistence. This is because women are usually told that "men chase" or "men are supposed to chase", but never really told how or why. So a player knows that he can emulate that behavior and it will cost him nothing. Either you'll fall for it or you won't. If he's not emotionally invested (which players aren't) then it doesn't matter. It's all a numbers game.

I'm not saying this guy is a player though, I just think something is off and he's resorting to at least one too many games. Again when you opened up to him, he gave you the age old comment "let's not put labels on anything," which sounds innocuous, but could easily lead you to becoming "friends with benefits." If you wanted more than that, accepting these terms wouldn't work to your advantage.

Also a Leo who is really interested, won't just let things drop the way he did. The fact that he's now back can easily point to the fact that he stopped talking to you as a means to get you to chase him and agree to his terms.
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That doesn't sound like things i want to have in my life now. I don't want any fwb and nope i won't chase him. Don't see if it's worth it enough for me to chase him, let alone agree to his no labels bs terms.
they r pretentious ... true actors....their feelings toward those who idolize is unique...if u had cherished him truly...its hard for him to let u go
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Posted by bittercupcake
Posted by aquaglass
Posted by Chuckcem
This is not necessarily a Leo move. He's admitting that he couldn't find anyone who would tolerate him, so now he's back.
Who would tolerate him? Like how?

I mostly didn't always agree with him or always tolerating things he said and/or did.

The reason why we stopped talking was apparently that we had different view about something. I told him what i have in mind and what i want, and vice versa.

Which then lead to him said he won't talk to me again. I'm cool with that. Lived my own life and never tried to contact him at all. And now he's back with apologies?
It's typical Aquarius/Leo relationship... push and pull... you are repulsed by each other yet fascinated with each other
Opposites attract, but they just don't work.

I can certainly relate to the push/pull effect of this pairing. Not worth the trouble OP.
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Indeed. He still all trying to talk to me again tho. Duh, i hope i can hold myself back, keep my cool and sanity and continue ignoring him.

I think i'd just read what @Chuckcem told me, over and over to remind myself that this dude isn't do any good for me. Lol
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After he told me that he won't talk to me again 3 weeks ago. He texted me today, appologizing and such. I don't know how to process it now. Is it typical leo move or what?
Gawd, no.

I'd be be suspicious.

I'm wondering too tho. I thought you guys Leo always mean it when you say bye. No?
He is trying to toy with you. He expected you to chase him when he "left". When you didn't he came running back because you called his bluff. Shows he's not emotionally mature. Him returning doesn't mean he actually cares about you either. He just doesn't have anyone else giving him any attention at the moment.
Now if thats the case, i got no idea why leos seemed like only wants me for sex then. Sigh.
Just remember that when you told him you wanted a relationship, he decided to walk away because he didn't want anything serious. Just be aware of that.
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Now this is funny. He just texted and spilling out BS earlier with saying that he stopped talking because i asked him to stop. I literally lol-ing at his ridiculously made-up story. He better not be a leo.

Smh.
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After he told me that he won't talk to me again 3 weeks ago. He texted me today, appologizing and such. I don't know how to process it now. Is it typical leo move or what?
Gawd, no.

I'd be be suspicious.

I'm wondering too tho. I thought you guys Leo always mean it when you say bye. No?
He is trying to toy with you. He expected you to chase him when he "left". When you didn't he came running back because you called his bluff. Shows he's not emotionally mature. Him returning doesn't mean he actually cares about you either. He just doesn't have anyone else giving him any attention at the moment.
Now if thats the case, i got no idea why leos seemed like only wants me for sex then. Sigh.
Just remember that when you told him you wanted a relationship, he decided to walk away because he didn't want anything serious. Just be aware of that.
Now this is funny. He just texted and spilling out BS earlier with saying that he stopped talking because i asked him to stop. I literally lol-ed by his ridiculously made-up story. He better not be a leo.

Smh.
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Sounds like he's prone to saying whatever he needs to say to get what he wants.
My Leo man left me because he said he wanted to be on his own and he feels better on his own.

We had a 3 year relationship good days but bad downs as always fighting because he does not want to settle down and drinks alcohol nearly every other night and stays out all night till 5am!

We have had no contact for 4 months and normally when we argue I always beg him back and call him or make some sort of contact.. think he is waiting for that .. he never says sorry even if it's him in the wrong. Does not care about my tears or feelings?? What's should I do? I want to know what goes thru his head as a Leo man? Should ubwant will he come back? Or should I not bother and move on? Am so sorry am so confused