Leo chick

A few weeks ago my Leo friend (girl) started to try and cause trouble for me with my Aqua friend (guy).

I know it isn't like him to diss me. Anyway she told me what he was saying and made it out like he was a two faced prick! So I talked to him about it all and discovered that she was the one bringing up all this stuff about me and my personal life!

So I just told her what he had said to see what she would respond with.

She said she would call me and that he was talking shit! (plus she owed me money) and I was cool with that... but she never called and then dodged me for a couple weeks. I just haven't tried contacting her.

So now I know that she was guilty and just trying to stir the pot! And has ghosted on me because I've caught her out!!

She finally contacted me asking if I'd like to have drinks with her for her birthday but I couldn't because I was broke at the time. She said she'd shout me coffee in the afternoon. But she never showed up again.

It really has disappointed me that she has been such a two faced bitch! I have been there for her through everything! When no one was there for her, I was!

Why do Leo girls backstab the people that do so much for them?

The issue isn't that she's a Leo, the issue is that she isn't a good person. There are a lot of messy, immature people in the world of varying zodiac signs. The only thing you can do is drop these people form your life to make room for the quality people. Leos are typically fiercely loyal to/protective of our friends, but it appears this particular Leo woman likes to cause drama probably for attention.

Posted by Chuckcem
The issue isn't that she's a Leo, the issue is that she isn't a good person. There are a lot of messy, immature people in the world of varying zodiac signs. The only thing you can do is drop these people form your life to make room for the quality people. Leos are typically fiercely loyal to/protective of our friends, but it appears this particular Leo woman likes to cause drama probably for attention.

I apologise for generalising. I am venting and understand that this isn't a typical Leo thing.

I am just so disappointed! ?

Posted by Chuckcem
The issue isn't that she's a Leo, the issue is that she isn't a good person. There are a lot of messy, immature people in the world of varying zodiac signs. The only thing you can do is drop these people form your life to make room for the quality people. Leos are typically fiercely loyal to/protective of our friends, but it appears this particular Leo woman likes to cause drama probably for attention.

Why would she want the attention of my Aqua friend though? She has a partner...

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Posted by Chuckcem
The issue isn't that she's a Leo, the issue is that she isn't a good person. There are a lot of messy, immature people in the world of varying zodiac signs. The only thing you can do is drop these people form your life to make room for the quality people. Leos are typically fiercely loyal to/protective of our friends, but it appears this particular Leo woman likes to cause drama probably for attention.

Why would she want the attention of my Aqua friend though? She has a partner...

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She just wants attention in general and doesn't care where or how she gets it. She might literally be an "attention whore". People who stir the pot for no apparent reason usually revel in dysfunction. They are toxic and feed off of negativity. Being at the center of the drama probably makes her feel important.

How long have you known this person? Is there any reason to think she might be jealous of you?

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Posted by Chuckcem
The issue isn't that she's a Leo, the issue is that she isn't a good person. There are a lot of messy, immature people in the world of varying zodiac signs. The only thing you can do is drop these people form your life to make room for the quality people. Leos are typically fiercely loyal to/protective of our friends, but it appears this particular Leo woman likes to cause drama probably for attention.

Why would she want the attention of my Aqua friend though? She has a partner...

She just wants attention in general and doesn't care where or how she gets it. She might literally be an "attention whore". People who stir the pot for no apparent reason usually revel in dysfunction. They are toxic and feed off of negativity. Being at the center of the drama probably makes her feel important.

How long have you known this person? Is there any reason to think she might be jealous of you?

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I wouldn't know if she is jealous of me NOW... but I've known her for 5 years and a couple of situations stand out to me.

We had a fight once because this guy tried to pick me up at the club. I knew she knew him but I had no idea that she had a thing for him at one point.. anyway he chased me (Leo too) and we spent time together and she got all weird on me and started a fight with me and brang two others into the fight. During the fight she told me about having a thing for him but she was ALREADY with her current partner at that stage. ?

I told the Leo guy that we should just be friends (but I really meant that we just wont be able to hang out after this)

We didn't talk for a whole year after that.

The second time she tried to start a fight with me we were on a road trip. i invited this guy i was seeing along. she was separated from her current partner at the time and so she started poking her boobs in this guys face and wearing nothing but underwear most of the trip. He was all friendly and that but i was okay with it. It wasnt until he told me what she had said to him when they were alone that I got upset and said I need to go for a walk! I started walking and he walked after me so she took off and left me in the middle of no where!!!

I cut off communication with her for about another year...

But this time there have been no problems until recently.

She lost her baby and has had a difficult time too. I've stuck by her, kept her secrets etc. If she needed my help I'd be there in 5!

I have no romantic interest in the Aqua friend of mine so I have no idea why she would want to try and ruin our friendship.

Even more i don't understand why she would want to ruin any relationship I have with anyone but I think you may be right in saying that she's toxic.

She's the only friend I have had big issues with and she calls me her best friend. ❔?

My Aqua friend doesn't want her at our house anymore because of the trouble she tried to cause.

I think 3 strikes is enough.... I've gotta end the friendship.

Worst thing is is that I NEED a good friend to be there for ME right now as I'm going through some pretty heavy stuff.. so starting the trouble just made things worse for me and has caused me to be distant from everyone .... and turn to DXP. ?

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Posted by Chuckcem
The issue isn't that she's a Leo, the issue is that she isn't a good person. There are a lot of messy, immature people in the world of varying zodiac signs. The only thing you can do is drop these people form your life to make room for the quality people. Leos are typically fiercely loyal to/protective of our friends, but it appears this particular Leo woman likes to cause drama probably for attention.

Why would she want the attention of my Aqua friend though? She has a partner...

She just wants attention in general and doesn't care where or how she gets it. She might literally be an "attention whore". People who stir the pot for no apparent reason usually revel in dysfunction. They are toxic and feed off of negativity. Being at the center of the drama probably makes her feel important.

How long have you known this person? Is there any reason to think she might be jealous of you?

I wouldn't know if she is jealous of me NOW... but I've known her for 5 years and a couple of situations stand out to me.

We had a fight once because this guy tried to pick me up at the club. I knew she knew him but I had no idea that she had a thing for him at one point.. anyway he chased me (Leo too) and we spent time together and she got all weird on me and started a fight with me and brang two others into the fight. During the fight she told me about having a thing for him but she was ALREADY with her current partner at that stage. ?

I told the Leo guy that we should just be friends (but I really meant that we just wont be able to hang out after this)

We didn't talk for a whole year after that.

The second time she tried to start a fight with me we were on a road trip. i invited this guy i was seeing along. she was separated from her current partner at the time and so she started poking her boobs in this guys face and wearing nothing but underwear most of the trip. He was all friendly and that but i was okay with it. It wasnt until he told me what she had said to him when they were alone that I got upset and said I need to go for a walk! I started walking and he walked after me so she took off and left me in the middle of no where!!!

I cut off communication with her for about another year...

But this time there have been no problems until recently.

She lost her baby and has had a difficult time too. I've stuck by her, kept her secrets etc. If she needed my help I'd be there in 5!

I have no romantic interest in the Aqua friend of mine so I have no idea why she would want to try and ruin our friendship.

Even more i don't understand why she would want to ruin any relationship I have with anyone but I think you may be right in saying that she's toxic.

She's the only friend I have had big issues with and she calls me her best friend. ❔?

My Aqua friend doesn't want her at our house anymore because of the trouble she tried to cause.

I think 3 strikes is enough.... I've gotta end the friendship.

Worst thing is is that I NEED a good friend to be there for ME right now as I'm going through some pretty heavy stuff.. so starting the trouble just made things worse for me and has caused me to be distant from everyone .... and turn to DXP. ?

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Sounds like she has a habit of creating problems due to her own insecurity issues. This isn't the type of friend you'd want to keep around as she will only damage your future relationships. I agree, it's time to let her go.

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Posted by Chuckcem
The issue isn't that she's a Leo, the issue is that she isn't a good person. There are a lot of messy, immature people in the world of varying zodiac signs. The only thing you can do is drop these people form your life to make room for the quality people. Leos are typically fiercely loyal to/protective of our friends, but it appears this particular Leo woman likes to cause drama probably for attention.

Why would she want the attention of my Aqua friend though? She has a partner...

She just wants attention in general and doesn't care where or how she gets it. She might literally be an "attention whore". People who stir the pot for no apparent reason usually revel in dysfunction. They are toxic and feed off of negativity. Being at the center of the drama probably makes her feel important.

How long have you known this person? Is there any reason to think she might be jealous of you?

I wouldn't know if she is jealous of me NOW... but I've known her for 5 years and a couple of situations stand out to me.

We had a fight once because this guy tried to pick me up at the club. I knew she knew him but I had no idea that she had a thing for him at one point.. anyway he chased me (Leo too) and we spent time together and she got all weird on me and started a fight with me and brang two others into the fight. During the fight she told me about having a thing for him but she was ALREADY with her current partner at that stage. ?

I told the Leo guy that we should just be friends (but I really meant that we just wont be able to hang out after this)

We didn't talk for a whole year after that.

The second time she tried to start a fight with me we were on a road trip. i invited this guy i was seeing along. she was separated from her current partner at the time and so she started poking her boobs in this guys face and wearing nothing but underwear most of the trip. He was all friendly and that but i was okay with it. It wasnt until he told me what she had said to him when they were alone that I got upset and said I need to go for a walk! I started walking and he walked after me so she took off and left me in the middle of no where!!!

I cut off communication with her for about another year...

But this time there have been no problems until recently.

She lost her baby and has had a difficult time too. I've stuck by her, kept her secrets etc. If she needed my help I'd be there in 5!

I have no romantic interest in the Aqua friend of mine so I have no idea why she would want to try and ruin our friendship.

Even more i don't understand why she would want to ruin any relationship I have with anyone but I think you may be right in saying that she's toxic.

She's the only friend I have had big issues with and she calls me her best friend. ❔?

My Aqua friend doesn't want her at our house anymore because of the trouble she tried to cause.

I think 3 strikes is enough.... I've gotta end the friendship.

Worst thing is is that I NEED a good friend to be there for ME right now as I'm going through some pretty heavy stuff.. so starting the trouble just made things worse for me and has caused me to be distant from everyone .... and turn to DXP. ?

Sounds like she has a habit of creating problems due to her own insecurity issues. This isn't the type of friend you'd want to keep around as she will only damage your future relationships. I agree, it's time to let her go.

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I've never had to end a friendship before but she lives close by so I don't think it's going to be pretty.

Thank you for your thoughts and helping me with this!

Leo's are territoral loyal fierce prideful. I like attention but too much attention irritates me too. Like I'm soft spoken until i got to get my view across on something i feel like I'm really opened too. Leo's can be vain as well. You probably catched her claws out now she playing the field. We do that when we feel like the other person doesn't reciprocate the same we give. I don't like titles at all if it's not going to be long term. We are Leo's we are the life of the party.