leo girl acting very strange

Posted by seraph
I had to edit this, but this way it'll be easier for others to answer.

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So there was this girl who I knew since we were little. I liked her back then but I was too shy to speak to her. Every time I tried, it ended in my heart pounding very fast.
Then one day when I was walking by, she just said "hi." This would happen every day when I saw her. Almost every morning I see her on the other side of the road, and when she gets there she starts looking at me. Sometimes she won't even look away, but at other times she acts like she doesn't care. When she's around friends she always tells them something (about me?) and they'd stare at me.
I tried to find other ways to talk to her, like through Facebook or Yahoo, but she kept ignoring me. Not that I really care, but I don't understand her reasoning. If she likes me, then she has a strange way of showing it. Is it possible there is someone else?
Sometimes she gave me signals that she liked me. Granted, a "hi" doesn't mean that she likes me, I know that, but this whole situation is too strange for me. I'm asking this question because no matter how hard I try to understand her, I just can't. It's strange that she started saying "hi" after I spoke with a friend of hers. Could some sort of revenge be a reason here?
It's strange that she's always looking at me. I remember that a year ago she showed me some heart hand-sign and started laughing with her friends. I find it strange that this has been going on for at least 2-3 years. I find it hard to start a conversation with her, but if I do and feel good about it, I'll have no problem talking to her again.
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(this is adorable, by the way.)

Posted by Sagitta91
for who?)

Posted by Sagitta91
actually i am a pisces but i like the sagitta name though .. and that makes things even harder then they already are..

Posted by Sagitta91
actually i am a pisces but i like the sagitta name though .. and that makes things even harder then they already are..

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Posted by TheLioness79
Mistakes can happen. I didn't question the Pisces forum, that is logically understandable.
Don't waste your time with this chick. She doesn't have any interest in you and from what I gathered has used you at her own expense. Are you still in high school? Or freshly out? Her actions sound very young.

How so?

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Posted by seraph

Posted by Sagitta91
i will try but today wasn't a good day

It will never be a "good" day. If you look for an excuse to *not* speak to her, you'll always find one.
Tip: Make this about YOU, not her. No matter what the result, crave the challenge. This is something new for you, and potentially a huge confidence-builder. This could be a defining event for you. It doesn't matter what the result will be. Stop trying to care about it. Or at least act like you don't. Do it for you, not for any relationship-oriented outcome. And hey, keep doing it. The benefits that could fan out from this one little event . . . . confidence for public speaking, being more assertive in your conversations, greater comfort communicating with strangers, and so on.

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