LEO GIRL IN LOVE WITH SCORPIO MALE -- HELP!!!
This topic was created in the Leo forum by inluvwithascorp on Thursday, July 25, 2013 and has 4 replies.
I HAVE FALLEN HEAD OVER HEALS FOR A SCORPIO. WE HAVE BEEN DATING A YEAR AND IT HAS BEEN QUITE THE ROLLER COASTER. REGARDLESS, THIS IS THE MAN I WANT TO SPEND MY FUTURE WITH. I HAVE HEARD THIS IS A BAD MATCH BETWEEN THESE TWO SIGNS. TRUE?
FROM WHAT I HAVE RESEARCHED, I MADE SEVERAL HUGE MISTAKES IN THIS RELATIONSHIP. ONE, I HAVE BEEN OVER EMOTIONAL WHEN HE HURTS ME. TWO, I HAVE SHOWN HIM THAT I AM VUNERABLE. THREE, I HAVE KISSED HIS ASS. FOUR, I HAVE LET GO OF KEEPING THE UPPER HAND SO THAT FEELS I AM TOO EASY TO HAVE NOW INSTEAD OF SLIGHTLY OUT OF REACH (WHICH I SEE NOW IS MUCH MORE ATTRACTIVE TO HIM). LAST, I HAVE LOST A LOT OF SELF CONFIDENCE.
THE ONLY THING I SEEM TO HAVE DONE RIGHT FOR HIS SIGN IS BE UNFAILINGLY LOYAL AND NOT GIVEN UP ON HIM NO MATTER WHAT. LATELY HE HAS PUSHED ME FAR AWAY AND SAYS NONE OF THE SWEET, ENDEARING, GREAT THINGS HE USED TO SAY.
HOW DO I GET HIM TO SEE ME THE WAY HE USED TO IN THE BEGINNNING WHEN ALL HE TALKED ABOUT WAS A FUTURE WITH ME? HOW DO I GET HIM TO LET DOWN HIS DEFENSES AND RETURN TO INTIMACY (NOT JUST SEXUAL) WITH ME. IT WAS REALLY GREAT IN THE BEGINNING AND NOW I FEEL LIKE I HAVE BEEN PUT THROUGH THE RINGER. STILL , I DON'T WANT TO BE WITH ANYONE EVER BUT HIM.
ANY ADVISE WOULD BE APPRECIATED EXCEPT TELLING ME TO MOVE ON, CAUSE I KNOW THAT ONE, JUST DONT WANT TO DO THAT AND WON'T . THANKS!!
FROM WHAT I HAVE RESEARCHED, I MADE SEVERAL HUGE MISTAKES IN THIS RELATIONSHIP. ONE, I HAVE BEEN OVER EMOTIONAL WHEN HE HURTS ME. TWO, I HAVE SHOWN HIM THAT I AM VUNERABLE. THREE, I HAVE KISSED HIS ASS. FOUR, I HAVE LET GO OF KEEPING THE UPPER HAND SO THAT FEELS I AM TOO EASY TO HAVE NOW INSTEAD OF SLIGHTLY OUT OF REACH (WHICH I SEE NOW IS MUCH MORE ATTRACTIVE TO HIM). LAST, I HAVE LOST A LOT OF SELF CONFIDENCE.
THE ONLY THING I SEEM TO HAVE DONE RIGHT FOR HIS SIGN IS BE UNFAILINGLY LOYAL AND NOT GIVEN UP ON HIM NO MATTER WHAT. LATELY HE HAS PUSHED ME FAR AWAY AND SAYS NONE OF THE SWEET, ENDEARING, GREAT THINGS HE USED TO SAY.
HOW DO I GET HIM TO SEE ME THE WAY HE USED TO IN THE BEGINNNING WHEN ALL HE TALKED ABOUT WAS A FUTURE WITH ME? HOW DO I GET HIM TO LET DOWN HIS DEFENSES AND RETURN TO INTIMACY (NOT JUST SEXUAL) WITH ME. IT WAS REALLY GREAT IN THE BEGINNING AND NOW I FEEL LIKE I HAVE BEEN PUT THROUGH THE RINGER. STILL , I DON'T WANT TO BE WITH ANYONE EVER BUT HIM.
ANY ADVISE WOULD BE APPRECIATED EXCEPT TELLING ME TO MOVE ON, CAUSE I KNOW THAT ONE, JUST DONT WANT TO DO THAT AND WON'T . THANKS!!
First things first. Stop typing in all caps. It is very difficult to read.
Second, if you want to know how to make a Scorpio do something..the Scorpio board is probably the best place for recourse.
Third I know too many Scorpios , I am convinced they multiply when no one is watching but I digress. Of the ones I know, I can't make any one of them do anything they don't want to do.
I will not tell you too move on but I will reiterate what you posted in the last line of the first paragraph...not a good match unless the birth charts say otherwise.
Lastly, I don't know if you are aware but you have severe self estemm issues judging from what you posted. If I were you, I would focus on getting myself together. You attract what you are.
Nonetheless, good luck with whatever you decide.
Second, if you want to know how to make a Scorpio do something..the Scorpio board is probably the best place for recourse.
Third I know too many Scorpios , I am convinced they multiply when no one is watching but I digress. Of the ones I know, I can't make any one of them do anything they don't want to do.
I will not tell you too move on but I will reiterate what you posted in the last line of the first paragraph...not a good match unless the birth charts say otherwise.
Lastly, I don't know if you are aware but you have severe self estemm issues judging from what you posted. If I were you, I would focus on getting myself together. You attract what you are.
Nonetheless, good luck with whatever you decide.
Must be a guy thing.
We women like the lovey dovey man telling us *I LOVE YOU* everyday.
We want him to say, *You are so beautiful*.
*You are the only one* ...
and so on. Reality is, they don't!
What makes you think he pushed you far away?
We women like the lovey dovey man telling us *I LOVE YOU* everyday.
We want him to say, *You are so beautiful*.
*You are the only one* ...
and so on. Reality is, they don't!
What makes you think he pushed you far away?
Reminds me of a Scorpio girl I used to talk to but not in love just online
hmmm "lately", "dating a year", -Im thinking of your cusp which is my inner thoughts not for you-, my advice: 1-hold your ground tight 2-be as much fixed as you can even if you thought its being dumb 3-dont show that you are effected by this at all 4-NEVER be afraid of exploring what he intend to do in the future if you sensed something and your insecure go after it till its root and be brave but not over controlling or angry, so you get the last moment balance, maybe hes just testing something in you, your weakness perhaps? Your limit of carrying on if he wants to change you? And you worry about something else?? Is that giving you a small hint how to start talking about the problem? Hope it does, leos have big hearts -a lot bigger than Scorpio, which you should understand btw- they can take these situations and build a healthy relation that thing is missing in a Scorp/Taurus relation, in the other hand they can be really blind in love while Scorpios are more practical they sense by their mind..
Important note: Heart and mind are equal in power and effect just work differently -which Scorpios should realize-..
hmmm "lately", "dating a year", -Im thinking of your cusp which is my inner thoughts not for you-, my advice: 1-hold your ground tight 2-be as much fixed as you can even if you thought its being dumb 3-dont show that you are effected by this at all 4-NEVER be afraid of exploring what he intend to do in the future if you sensed something and your insecure go after it till its root and be brave but not over controlling or angry, so you get the last moment balance, maybe hes just testing something in you, your weakness perhaps? Your limit of carrying on if he wants to change you? And you worry about something else?? Is that giving you a small hint how to start talking about the problem? Hope it does, leos have big hearts -a lot bigger than Scorpio, which you should understand btw- they can take these situations and build a healthy relation that thing is missing in a Scorp/Taurus relation, in the other hand they can be really blind in love while Scorpios are more practical they sense by their mind..
Important note: Heart and mind are equal in power and effect just work differently -which Scorpios should realize-..
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