Leo Girlfriends: Please don't get offended!

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The question I have a question for Leo ladies I guess are;

1) Are you somehow sad when you're single?

2) Do you ever cut off your friends when you start dating? If so, why?

3) Are you single? If not, what the longest you've been single? few months, 1 yr, etc...

4) What possible threat do your girlfriends pose to your relationship?

I'll add more to my reason for this question...
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So I've noticed a pattern/cycle with my Leo girlfriends. I can think of 5 of the girlfriends off the top of my head. By the way, the Leos I'm speaking about don't even know each other and are in different countries and locations but the pattern fits. There's this relationship pattern, I guess there're several steps that always happens somehow;

1) When they're single - there's always a sadness in the air when we hang out where they work loads of hours at work and actively look for a new bf (and try to set up their single friends too).

2) When they start to date, it's like the world's all rosy again but we, the friends, all have to approve and be adoring of the new guy otherwise, we're cut off. And sometimes the guys just don't have much potential but adore them - but my girlfriends always have so much hope they can help the guy to greater heights. If this happens, sometimes the guy just moves on, it has happened a few times now.

3) They integrate their lives with the guy's; i.e. buying a house together, helping the guy rush his divorce, cut off friendships, change mobile numbers, etc.

4) They start being very secretive, protective and well, most people get nervous around them so generally stay away and become very fake and just flatter them to avoid trouble.

5) Every time the break-up happens, we're suddenly in the picture picking up the pieces. Very BIG pieces and the secrets start to come out and some of them are quite big!
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The question I have a question for Leo ladies I guess are;

1) Are you somehow sad when you're single?
truthfully, being a leo, and having many of my planets (merc, venus, mars, and rising) in leo, i am very (secretly) unhappy when single. remember, leos are extremely proud, so when they're single they may not show that they're unhappy, but internally there's always a great longing for companionship. there can be differences though, according to what other signs fall into a leos birth chart, but since i possess many planets and my rising sign in leo, i feel like i identify greatly with a lot of leo characteristics. leos live for love, and hurt deeply when they are without it.


2) Do you ever cut off your friends when you start dating? If so, why?
never. i hold my friends and family in regard over most things.

3) Are you single? If not, what the longest you've been single? few months, 1 yr, etc..
yes. i've been single for most of my life, no "serious" relationships with titles, just a laundry list of failed attempts.

4) What possible threat do your girlfriends pose to your relationship?
none. i have a select few girlfriends who i trust completely.
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now i'm not a leo but i have a lot of friends that are, female/male. my closest leo friend has most of these symptoms

1) Are you somehow sad when you're single?
always sad, always wondering when the next one is gonna pop up, how she can deal being alone? i think it has a lot to do with the fact that she's just insecure and hasn't come into her own yet.

2) Do you ever cut off your friends when you start dating? If so, why?'
i don't think she does it intentionally but it has happened where she will spend all her time with him and completely forget her other friend putting them on the back burner. there have been times where we wouldn't speak for months, where before we'd speak all the time. once they break up though she's always back around on the regular. i find she always gives herself away wayy too quickly only to be burned out just as fast.

3) Are you single? If not, what the longest you've been single? few months, 1 yr, etc...
longest she's been single, probably 5 months.

4) What possible threat do your girlfriends pose to your relationship?
umm this one i don't know, we're close and she tells me pretty much everything but never mentioned anything of this sorts.
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The question I have a question for Leo ladies I guess are;

1) Are you somehow sad when you're single?
Not if I've got a busy social life. Before meeting my Aqua I was single for a while and loved it ? made many new friends and learnt to love myself as a woman. But there have been times where I've been single and have been lonely and down ? I think as I've got older I've learnt to embrace it better.

2) Do you ever cut off your friends when you start dating? If so, why?
Not initially no ? but once the relationship gets more serious they do tend to take a back seat BUT I do endeavour to mix the two. So I will arrange get-togethers where both my friends, their partners and my man can mingle. Then every so often when my man has something on (boy's night or work commitments) he'll warn me ahead of time so that I can arrange girl time with my friends, which I take advantage of every time.

3) Are you single? If not, what the longest you've been single? few months, 1 yr, etc...
About two years.

4) What possible threat do your girlfriends pose to your relationship?
None ? I'm only friends with people I consider trustworthy and loyal.
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1) Are you somehow sad when you're single?
Have to say NOPE, because generally it's my decision. If I've just ended a relationship I maybe sad for a moment, but I go thru my list of "WHY DID THE RELATIONSHIP END". Most of the time it's for good reasons. The other times I choose to be alone. I may go out with male friends, but I'm single at that time and probably enjoying it

2) Do you ever cut off your friends when you start dating? If so, why?
NOOOO! I want my female/male friends to meet him. They'll see something that I might not! Besides, these days you have to plan dates with female/male friends. I do...

3) Are you single? If not, what the longest you've been single? few months, 1 yr, etc...
Single for 3 years after college and no cookies from anyone during that time period. I think I developed cobwebs in that area...LOL!

4) What possible threat do your girlfriends pose to your relationship?
None! My male friend(s) actually gets along quite well with my female friends. They have the same respect I have for them! Those are boundaries we NEVER cross! And I agree with PL, if I ever have to raise an eyebrow at him/her; then she really wasn't a friend and he's not the one for me! There's nothing wrong with expecting respect and boundaries from either side.
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The question I have a question for Leo ladies I guess are;

1) Are you somehow sad when you're single?
I admit fully I find it hard to be single, but not sad

2) Do you ever cut off your friends when you start dating? If so, why?
My mind cant seem to multi task, I sometimes obsess with something, going out partying, working too much or seeing my boyfriend too much. Balance is difficult and I end up worse off.

3) Are you single? If not, what the longest you've been single? few months, 1 yr, etc...
Um.. a few months tops, awful huh? heh..

4) What possible threat do your girlfriends pose to your relationship? My girlfriends might judge my relationship... they're like that.
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1) Are you somehow sad when you're single? secretly yes, but im good in pretending to be happy n_n

2) Do you ever cut off your friends when you start dating? If so, why? no, that is something i dont have to do

3) Are you single? If not, what the longest you've been single? few months, 1 yr, etc...
well the longest is seven months with sag guy.. memorable!

4) What possible threat do your girlfriends pose to your relationship?
they help me finding another guy to date..
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Hello Ladies & Gents,

I'm a Leo/Lioness & I do not display any of these characteristics with my GFs nor with BFs; also to mention i've only had a few BFs by choice. Ive been in long term relationships & built some of the best friendships, life time friendships.

Answering your questions...

1) No, I am not sad when I am single. I have a life, I may feel sad after the breakup rather my choice or his but I learn to deal with it & get over it. I do not think it's that serious.

2) No I do not; you should understannd this in my opening statement...

3)I'm actually dating one person, haven't committed to a relationship because it is farely new. The longest I been out of a relationship, I'd say is a year.

4)My GFs don't pose any threats to my relationships; if that was the case they wouldn't be considered my GFs.

All in all young lady we are sole providers of happiness its a choice we have. We could choice to be happy or sad. It's always up to us...
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Hmm just having read through the replies and I'm noticing a particular point being emphasized over and over again, being that leos live for love and are miserable without it yet the standards you need to be able to meet to get to the courting process with a leo are the highest and yes I'm speaking from experience than any other sign. In particular the lioness variety you could jump through rings of fire to meet their standards which being an aries myself if I really wanted her I have no objection to doing lol but bam it hits they notice the slightest imperfection or your career choice doesn't meet their expectations etc the list could go on, and they're out the door. Talk about confusing.....
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1) Are you somehow sad when you're single?
i am slightly more melancholy when single because i know i am at my personal best when able to be in a stable, loving, supportive, and affectionate relationship with someone. i'm not co-dependent but because i can be so warm and incredibly loving it actually helps to have someone to unload the love onto. that make sense?

2) Do you ever cut off your friends when you start dating? If so, why?
hell no! any lover of mine will know how important all my relationships are. i would never ask my significant other to leave their friends (even if i don't particularly like them) and i expect them not to give me the same ultimatum. i've been known to bite when cornered like that.

3) Are you single? If not, what the longest you've been single? few months, 1 yr, etc...
yes, i'm single.

4) What possible threat do your girlfriends pose to your relationship?
atm i don't have any girly friends. i would like some though! even though i possess a feminine charm, i have a strong tomboy-ish streak. i engage in many male dominated activities (video games, chess, martial arts/fighting, etc.) so it's hard to meet females. so, needless to say, i don't have any to pose a threat to anyone. do slightly effeminate gay boys count?
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Posted by xtina
LOL This all seems to apply to Libra females IMO.



Hahaha Yea I have a couple of Libra friends and these characteristics are definately them.

Btw


The question I have a question for Leo ladies I guess are;

1) Are you somehow sad when you're single?

Actually no matter how "depressed" I might seem about being single. Sometimes people can confuse the fact that we tend to complain with moping. The only time I think we are sad is when we like someone and we aren't getting what we want from them (which is probably the world, the sun and the moon as well). I find myself actually A LOT happier when I am completely single, because I have more control over my emotions. When I am not single, at some point I become slighly unhappier because I always have higher expectations.

2) Do you ever cut off your friends when you start dating?

If so, why? No way. When we are depressed we don't go out. If I just had a fight with someone I was seeing I would not go out with my friends, because I wouldn't feel like I had the energy. However, if everything is fine I go out with my friends and talk to them over the phone all the time.

3) Are you single? If not, what the longest you've been single?

I've been single for the first 17 years of my life. haha Leos are really niave and they can be single for a very long time due to the fact that they do LOVE LOVE but they don't need to be inlove.

4) What possible threat do your girlfriends pose to your relationship?

That depends on your friends. Leos have a WIDE range of friends, and they usually have A LOT of friends. Sometimes that group tends to include the "not so good" friends. Though usually Leo can't tell the difference (unless the friend punches them in the face) . Sometimes Leo has female friends that intentionally flirt and "steal" the partner. Usually the Leo female is secure and thinks nothing of it. There is a problem though if the partner is inconsiderate and actually continues playing the flirting game with her friends.

I'll add more to my reason for this question...
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1) unhappy after break up then while single don't care
2) we don't try to cut anyone off, the controlling signs we date do, they think we are flirting w everyone so they don't want us to integrate our friends because they usually are possessive and want us to themselves. we like pleasing ppl so we cutt our friends off if u see us feel special it's bc we have secretly sneaked off to hang out with u since we are social.
3) single. longest time I've been single? 17 years.
4)female friends are almost never a threat unless they cold heartedly put themselves in that position.