LEo girls, please help..

This topic was created in the Leo forum by samller on Monday, April 29, 2013 and has 6 replies.
Can u gals take a look below link? I know its a long story but ur help and advice would help me a lot. The pattern between me and her is like she leave me and come back. Do u gals think she will come back to me again?
I apperciate any helps or advices from all of u guys...
http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/Need-some-advices-3911018.asp
I had to stop reading your post halfways through, unlike the lovely Jynja your story didn't make me cry it made me irritated - you are laying yourself, like a doormat, at her feet as she wipes them on you, then turning over so she has a clean surface to start wiping again.
I do agree with Jynja that she looks at you with pity and not love. You are clinging to her, she has told you time and again in words and actions that she doesn't want you, so why not let her go now? Here's a little prayer for you that I have given to a couple of people over the years on these boards, you may have read it before or not, but try to take it in.
"Let Them Go!"
By Bishop T. D. Jakes
There are people who can walk away from you.
And hear me when I tell you this!
When people can walk away from you, let them walk.
I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you,
loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you.
I mean, hang up the phone.
When people can walk away from you, let them walk.
Your destiny is never tied to anybody who left.
The Bible said that they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us.
For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]
People leave you because they are not joined to you.
And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.
Let them go!
It doesn't mean that they are a bad person; it just means that their part in the story is over.
And you've got to know when peoples' part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead.
You've got to know when it's dead.
You've got to know when it's over.
Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of good-bye.
It's the tenth spiritual gift. I believe in good-bye.
It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful,
and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me.
And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it.
Stop begging people to stay.
Let them go!
Your still thinking about her, move on, your only tormenting yourself, she doesnt give a shit about you..
If you can`t see it for yourself and take advice on your previous thread, how do you expect anymore advice to help...Are you looking for someone to give you pity and a different answer...
@celticlioness thanks for the comment, i am trying to move on. i hate to be pity. and thanks for the song Big Grin
@jessgoogoo haha i just wanna make sure what leo girls would think about my situation, im of coz not asking for pity but more "move on" answer, so i can push myself harder to stop thinking about her and look back anymore.
@seraph ya, all of my friends said the same things to me " damn man..u are 28, how can u so blind in love". i generally have no problems with family, friends, works, blah blah blah. Love is only thing give me problems. becoz i value it the most important for me? And yes, i agree with u. I think leo and cancer is quite hard to make it work..maybe i had no luck haha..
Thanks again guys.

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