LEO GUY=ME CRAZY!!!
This topic was created in the Leo forum by MeMe on Thursday, November 22, 2007 and has 15 replies.
Hi all! I've been lurking around for a while and you all have great insite on Leos! I love it!
Now if you can... I need your expertise please!!!
I have been with this leo guy for 6 months...He lives about 3 hours away but he is in the process of moving to my city. I recently told him that I love him and I'm wondering if that was the right thing to do... He replied, "I hear you, Sweetheart!" We don't talk on the phone much because he keeps switching his number but he assures me that I'm his girl(his old lady is what he calls me specifically) and that when he is away he is doing his thing! I don't feel like he is cheating or anything! I just want to know if he feels the same way that I do. I just saw him this weekend after not seeing him for a couple of weeks. Now he is gone again and I'm afraid that I wont see him for another week or so. He swears that he will be back to spend alot more time with me but he has a tendency to say things just for the hell of it to make me happy or maybe to get me to shut up. I know he means well but I keep telling him not to say things like that if he has no intentions of doing it!
Even though he doesn't have a phone. I know he is a leo and all but I still feel like he should find a way to make time to call me even if its just to say hi. I'm looking at this situation in black and white...if he wants me then he would be here with me....right??? I want to let him go but I'm in love. SILLY ME!!! Yet I want to stick it out through it all!
I should tell you guys that this past weekend I got so fed up with him not calling that I found his ex girlfriend's telephone # of 7 years and I called her up to ask about him and how she dealt with him. (Something I have never done in my life!!!) Mind you...I have never met this girl in my life. She gave me some useful info and told me that he really needed someone strong to deal with his butter! I felt like she was trying to encourage me to stick it out. They broke up a year ago but she called him and told him what I did like I knew she would...LOL
When he found out he called me up mad as hell!!! But in a cute way...He stayed calm but I could tell he was upset! I apologized and he came right over and...well...did the do! I talked to him the following day but he had to go back home. Now its been two days and I'm worried that maybe my phone call to his ex pissed him off more than I thought! He has to use a friend's phone to call but wouldn't he find a way if he
Now if you can... I need your expertise please!!!
I have been with this leo guy for 6 months...He lives about 3 hours away but he is in the process of moving to my city. I recently told him that I love him and I'm wondering if that was the right thing to do... He replied, "I hear you, Sweetheart!" We don't talk on the phone much because he keeps switching his number but he assures me that I'm his girl(his old lady is what he calls me specifically) and that when he is away he is doing his thing! I don't feel like he is cheating or anything! I just want to know if he feels the same way that I do. I just saw him this weekend after not seeing him for a couple of weeks. Now he is gone again and I'm afraid that I wont see him for another week or so. He swears that he will be back to spend alot more time with me but he has a tendency to say things just for the hell of it to make me happy or maybe to get me to shut up. I know he means well but I keep telling him not to say things like that if he has no intentions of doing it!
Even though he doesn't have a phone. I know he is a leo and all but I still feel like he should find a way to make time to call me even if its just to say hi. I'm looking at this situation in black and white...if he wants me then he would be here with me....right??? I want to let him go but I'm in love. SILLY ME!!! Yet I want to stick it out through it all!
I should tell you guys that this past weekend I got so fed up with him not calling that I found his ex girlfriend's telephone # of 7 years and I called her up to ask about him and how she dealt with him. (Something I have never done in my life!!!) Mind you...I have never met this girl in my life. She gave me some useful info and told me that he really needed someone strong to deal with his butter! I felt like she was trying to encourage me to stick it out. They broke up a year ago but she called him and told him what I did like I knew she would...LOL
When he found out he called me up mad as hell!!! But in a cute way...He stayed calm but I could tell he was upset! I apologized and he came right over and...well...did the do! I talked to him the following day but he had to go back home. Now its been two days and I'm worried that maybe my phone call to his ex pissed him off more than I thought! He has to use a friend's phone to call but wouldn't he find a way if he
Wouldn't he find a way to make a phone call to me if he loved me?
Yeah LK...it was very impulsive! I am usually cool calm and collect. Most of my relationships have been long distance...real long distance like I live in, GA and my significant other lives in Philly type of long distance... I am really not crazy, though but he literally makes me crazy so I'm finding out! About the rebound thing...Does it really take more than a year for a leo to get over an ex??? I told him at the beginning that I wasn't interested in him if he was on the rebound...He said that he wasn't and continued to pursue me! He has a tattoo with her name on his arm from a while back so that really irks me to look at it! He says that it doesn't mean anything to him anymore. After talking to her I felt relieved and I apologized to him profusely. So I guess that if I want to be with him then I should get used to not seeing him so much? Once or twice in 2 weeks? Hardly no phone calls?
Usually I am ready to dip at the sign of trouble (with the fact that he doesnt call alot or I don't see him)...I don't waste alot of time if I think I'm going to be hurt, but with him I'm really trying to be patient. I have realized that I panic at the first sign someone does anything wrong by my standards. I tend to overreact. My friend says that he will come around... He knows that I will do anything to make him happy! I just dont want it to be in vain! I mean I cook for this guy! Never did that for any man...EVER! WTH is wrong with me going ga ga for him this way? He truly put a spell on me or something!
Usually I am ready to dip at the sign of trouble (with the fact that he doesnt call alot or I don't see him)...I don't waste alot of time if I think I'm going to be hurt, but with him I'm really trying to be patient. I have realized that I panic at the first sign someone does anything wrong by my standards. I tend to overreact. My friend says that he will come around... He knows that I will do anything to make him happy! I just dont want it to be in vain! I mean I cook for this guy! Never did that for any man...EVER! WTH is wrong with me going ga ga for him this way? He truly put a spell on me or something!
Rain, his ex said that they broke up because he kept cheating on her. She said it wasn't completely his fault and she was at fault as well. He has never told me why they broke up. I told her I felt like I should leave him and she said to be patient with him and be strong because he needs a good woman in his life...She told me to control him or he would end up controlling me! I don't really understand exactly what that means. I'm not the controlling type though. Weird!!!
* I found his ex girlfriend's telephone # of 7 years and I called her up to ask about him and how she dealt with him. (Something I have never done in my life!!!) Mind you...I have never met this girl in my life. She gave me some useful info and told me that he really needed someone strong to deal with his butter! I felt like she was trying to encourage me to stick it out. They broke up a year ago but she called him and told him what I did like I knew she would...LOL
WHY do women do these things? *cringe*
Don't call up the ex-gf. Ever.
Calling ex-gf/ex-wife/mom/best friend/whatever = stalking
It makes you look completely psycho.
* I am really not crazy, though but he literally makes me crazy so I'm finding out!
Not good. If he makes you crazy, he isn't the guy for you.
* his ex said that they broke up because he kept cheating on her.
If faithfulness is important to you .... why continue with this guy?
WHY do women do these things? *cringe*
Don't call up the ex-gf. Ever.
Calling ex-gf/ex-wife/mom/best friend/whatever = stalking
It makes you look completely psycho.
* I am really not crazy, though but he literally makes me crazy so I'm finding out!
Not good. If he makes you crazy, he isn't the guy for you.
* his ex said that they broke up because he kept cheating on her.
If faithfulness is important to you .... why continue with this guy?
there is something fishy about him keep changing numbers or using his friends phone,i would be suspicious
it takes me a long time to get over someone i really had feelings for,if they meant nothing to me i can go straight into another relationship
dont chase after him keep yourself busy ,be too busy to take some of his calls keep him guessing,if hes into you he will chase you.
it takes me a long time to get over someone i really had feelings for,if they meant nothing to me i can go straight into another relationship
dont chase after him keep yourself busy ,be too busy to take some of his calls keep him guessing,if hes into you he will chase you.
Wow, Chocolate and Proverbs I will take what you both said into consideration...both of you are different types of leos I see. The leo I'm with I feel is more like Proverbs from what I can tell but I will definitely back off and detach myself a lil bit. He called me today to say he would be in town so I will do what I gotta do...I will let you all know how it goes...wish me luck 
Also, I liken my Leo to my black cat who lives with my mom right now. She would never come around when I wanted her to. She stayed hidden but I always felt like she was watching my every move and listening to everything going on. She would run away if she felt like she was in trouble and when I call her she would not answer at all!!! She only comes back out when she thought it was okay again. Then she would pounce on my stomach and I couldn't get her to leave me alone. I could be reading a book and she would come in and sit on top of the book!! While I was still reading it for attention!!! LOL! I also believe that my cat knows everything that I am saying but she thinks that I don't because she is a cat! So she pretends that she is stupid for me! Or she would sometimes (well all the time) come in the living room where everyone is sitting around and she would start posing and stretching all so that everyone would look at her and say how beautiful she is! I say all of that to say that the Leo guy that I am seeing has all of those characteristics! Not necessarily like a lion but still regal! Never raises his voice but lets his anger be known! Is that an accurate description, Leos?
Here is my chart...
Mine His
06/26/1976 Aspect 07/24/1978 Orb/Value
Sun Square Moon 1.46 -376
Moon Square Mars 1.47 -161
Mercury Square Venus 1.04 -188
Mercury Opposition Neptune 0.20 -77
Mercury Trine Pluto 1.20 62
Venus Square Moon 0.31 -244
Mars Conjunction Mercury 4.34 109
Jupiter Trine Mars 2.24 61
Jupiter Sextile Jupiter 0.07 78
Saturn Conjunction Sun 0.46 185
Uranus Square Sun 1.30 -134
Neptune Square Venus 2.28 -73
Neptune Conjunction Neptune 3.52 55
Pluto Opposition Moon 2.12 -58
550 -1311 -761
Mine His
06/26/1976 Aspect 07/24/1978 Orb/Value
Sun Square Moon 1.46 -376
Moon Square Mars 1.47 -161
Mercury Square Venus 1.04 -188
Mercury Opposition Neptune 0.20 -77
Mercury Trine Pluto 1.20 62
Venus Square Moon 0.31 -244
Mars Conjunction Mercury 4.34 109
Jupiter Trine Mars 2.24 61
Jupiter Sextile Jupiter 0.07 78
Saturn Conjunction Sun 0.46 185
Uranus Square Sun 1.30 -134
Neptune Square Venus 2.28 -73
Neptune Conjunction Neptune 3.52 55
Pluto Opposition Moon 2.12 -58
550 -1311 -761
Did I do this chart right?
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Meme:
I have to agree with both Chocolate and Proverbs. I don't necessarily think they're giving you two completely opposing perspectives.
Frankly, you're giving too much of yourself. As has been said on this board many many times over the years...we Leos are easy creatures in the realm of romance, especially the men. Just back off and make him come running after you.
Is he a biker, by any chance?
I have to agree with both Chocolate and Proverbs. I don't necessarily think they're giving you two completely opposing perspectives.
Frankly, you're giving too much of yourself. As has been said on this board many many times over the years...we Leos are easy creatures in the realm of romance, especially the men. Just back off and make him come running after you.
Is he a biker, by any chance?
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Oh, and in regards to getting over an ex.
My previous relationship was a 3.5 year one with a Leo. I got over it in about a month. Not to sound vain or what not, but I don't think he ever got over it and still speaks of me and refers to me as "his true love." Yuck. Riiiight. That relationship has been done for roughly 6 years or so to give you an idea.
My previous relationship was a 3.5 year one with a Leo. I got over it in about a month. Not to sound vain or what not, but I don't think he ever got over it and still speaks of me and refers to me as "his true love." Yuck. Riiiight. That relationship has been done for roughly 6 years or so to give you an idea.
Is he a biker, by any chance?
Ha ha @ Leo w/cap! No he is not but he sure gets around! He should've been a biker! I am looking more into my charts as we speak
! Thanks for the info Chocolate and Proverbs! You guys are right about him. I ignored just one phone call and when I finally called him back after about 5 hours he was upset! I will ignore more but its so hard to ignore him. I am really trying! He called me to give me his new number. I think he notices a change because I hear from him more often too. I don't sound as enthused as I used to when he calls and I just don't react to anything he tells me like he bores me. I think I may be moving further away from him so I wonder how that will affect the situation. I will let you know my "findings" with the charts!
Ha ha @ Leo w/cap! No he is not but he sure gets around! He should've been a biker! I am looking more into my charts as we speak
! Thanks for the info Chocolate and Proverbs! You guys are right about him. I ignored just one phone call and when I finally called him back after about 5 hours he was upset! I will ignore more but its so hard to ignore him. I am really trying! He called me to give me his new number. I think he notices a change because I hear from him more often too. I don't sound as enthused as I used to when he calls and I just don't react to anything he tells me like he bores me. I think I may be moving further away from him so I wonder how that will affect the situation. I will let you know my "findings" with the charts!
Leos will drive you nuts....
Leos will drive you nuts....
Ya got that right!!!!
-> That is exactly the point of prringLeo. The planetary chart contributes to the overall attitude of a person. So go to cafeastrology.com enter your birth date and his birth date, post it here in Leos board and pL will analyse that for you. Amen!
Thank you Proverbs for referring me to prringLeo she took the time out to bless me with insight on you Leos! I feel much more informed thanks to her breakdown of my Leo! I am calm now!! No more crazies....at least for now. I found out that he has a lot of Virgo influence in his chart and I have a lil Gemini and Leo myself (who knew!!) My dad is a Virgo and he shows no emotion at all so I think I get my leo a lil better! I'm playing it cool with him and its having a great effect on the both of us! I asked him one last question about us and where we stand before I stopped tripping and he said he wasn't going anywhere! Good enough for me!!!
Ya got that right!!!!
-> That is exactly the point of prringLeo. The planetary chart contributes to the overall attitude of a person. So go to cafeastrology.com enter your birth date and his birth date, post it here in Leos board and pL will analyse that for you. Amen!
Thank you Proverbs for referring me to prringLeo she took the time out to bless me with insight on you Leos! I feel much more informed thanks to her breakdown of my Leo! I am calm now!! No more crazies....at least for now. I found out that he has a lot of Virgo influence in his chart and I have a lil Gemini and Leo myself (who knew!!) My dad is a Virgo and he shows no emotion at all so I think I get my leo a lil better! I'm playing it cool with him and its having a great effect on the both of us! I asked him one last question about us and where we stand before I stopped tripping and he said he wasn't going anywhere! Good enough for me!!!
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