Leo has me confused

This topic was created in the Leo forum by TheStubbornTaurus on Monday, September 24, 2018 and has 3 replies.
Hey maybe someone can help me out. I’m a Taurus woman who met a Leo man a few months ago. The relationship was cool sometimes. We vibed but then I would get clingy and he would get mad. This eventually led him telling me that I needed to find someone else and him blocking my number (not instagram).. which btw he stalked. I still insisted on being clingy in hopes of him coming to his senses of realizing that I just cared a lot. But then I realized that it was a waste of time. So I blocked him on instagram. Another month rolls by and he texts me out of the blue from an unknown number saying “hey” ofc I asked who it was. When I found out I was polite but short. And the next day I just nicely asked him what he wanted bc I didn’t see any point of him making contact with me since he was so set on blocking me out of his life. When I asked the question he read the iMessage but never responded back. What gives with this Leo dude? Did I hurt his feelings by asking? Why come back around if I wasn’t what he wanted? Leo guys feel free to comment
Leo man is a macho. They like to be in charge of the relationship, to care for their queen, to control and demand from things in their life. Because they symbolize lions, they like to chase their prey or have fun running with their queens. They don't like being chased by the lioness, they don't like to listen to the lioness because so far they've always been the one who's in charge of the family. So with that image, you must have imagined how stressful he is being put in that position. The problem here is NOT your clinginess, but that your clinginess decreases his manhood. I think it's easy, why don't you let him chase you? Normally everyone who's close to fire signs would want to let fire signs do their thing (chasing, creating relationship atmosphere,...), especially if you're an earth sign you should let the fire burn/coexist with you, not that you use your earth to kill the fire. Even if everything is normal, what's left of your so called relationship? How can he survive if you're the man of the family already?

Leo man tends to act rather than saying sweat things like watery signs. Earth sign, on the other hand, wants to both hear and see actions cause they're steady and want as many proofs they can get. Another nature of Leo man is that they want to fix things since he invests in you quite a lot, and by fixing your relationship possibly he will get back on his security (cause Leo man has this big insecurity). His temper is only temporary as you may have realized now, and because he is a fire sign so it's logical he bursted out that way. But then he made an effort to get back, and if I receive a message like that I would be playful, be light, and I would understand what he's getting at cause it's too obvious like daylight. When a man strips his ego and asks for forgiveness in the form of reconnecting with you, and you ask him what he's up to, it will hurt his pride!

Everything happens is explanable, and for that I think it's probably over by now if Taurus stops trying to manipulate/ clingy to the relationship. It's a fire sign, keep it a light, fun, loving experience, live and love with your whole passion, make memories. Fire signs are about live live live, and Earth signs are always about moments, proofs, steadiness.
It's simple, getting clingy too early with a Leo man can frighten us off. Also Tauruses tend to be controlling (more than a Leo that is), which can also freak a Leo out since we do like our freedom to make our own decisions. Leo's are also proud, so if you're trying to control us, we'll lash out unless we really respect your intentions. Also clinginess is a sign of insecurty, which is a turn off for us. We need to know our partners can stand on their own two feet without us.

It sounds like you two both jumped the gun by overreacting to the other. The Leo came back because he probably realized this. Also while Leos don't like to be stifled, we do appreciate consistency. Tauruses are incredibly consistent. So once he cooled off, he probably realized you weren't that bad.