Leo hot and cold. Please help.

This topic was created in the Leo forum by Smilehappy on Saturday, July 1, 2017 and has 6 replies.
Please do help by giving your valuable insight.
Okay. Fair enough. What should I do now. I haven't texted him or spoken to him for the past 5 days now.
How do I be friends with him now? I don't like this awkwardness and I know I ignored him and avoided him. How do I make things okay?
Posted by Leovixen89
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by Leovixen89
You told him you wanted to be friends.... That must Hurt him alot. I can tell you that
It would behoove you to reread the post

He called her his friend not her
"I told him I wanted time to get over him and then maybe we could become friends but did not promise anything"

Maybe i am wrong but doesnt that mean she gave him the idea she doesnt want a relationship. ? if someone said that to me i would think "OK friendzoned.... They fancy me but for some reason wanna avoid a relationship with me" and if someone gave me the idea they are into me... But then back off... And tell me this. I have to admit i will ignore you to at first. Because you would have hurt me. But thats me.
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This is after the Leo pushed her away. CC is pointing out that the Leo friendzoned OP first.
Posted by Smilehappy
So initially when we met, a month back, this leo guy was really interested in me..there was instant attraction..would call me for dinners..outings..walks..to listen to music and all. Pester me with messages and calls. Would be jealous of guys talking to me. He scolded me once for apparently flirting with a guy when I was just talking to him and this scolding happened in one week of knowing him. Then suddenly, something happened. Suddenly my texts were too much, he didn't want to meet me alone. He wanted space. But still would invite me to hang out in his group all the time. Also, when I told him I liked him. He got angry at me. Told me that he doesn't want to lose the friendship. Really pressed on the friendship. That he didn't want to lose it..etc and kept of scolding me/ trying to make me undestand as if I am his girlfriend. I have ceased talking to him. Though we are in the same college. If we cross each other, I ignore him..its been three days of not texting him and ignoring him. What is going on here. Why the hot and cold. And will he come back. Text me on his own. I told him I wanted time to get over him and then maybe we could become friends but did not promise anything. We are both well settled in our respective jobs. I am a libra.
The better question is why would you want this guy in the first place? He sounds controlling and possessive. He got jealous of another person talking to you within a week then scolded you about it. Who is he to scold YOU? Are you not free to speak to whomever you'd like? The Leo doesn't own you. You two BARELY knew each other and already he was dictating what you can and can not do?

Also you can't have someone back who you never had in the first place. Maybe he was interested in you in that first week, but then he backed away for whatever reason. Consider that a blessing.
Thank you very much!